What is wrong with modern women?
Summary
TLDRThis video discusses the impact of societal changes on gender dynamics, focusing on the 'red pill' community's perspective of male alienation and the role of beauty standards. It explores the concept of sexual dimorphism, status, and desirability, suggesting that women's rising social status may disrupt traditional mating dynamics. The script also touches on the psychological effects of removing consequences from sexual behavior and calls for a societal shift to restore men's leadership and responsibility.
Takeaways
- đ The video discusses the ongoing 'gender war' in society, highlighting the need to understand the perspectives of both men and women.
- đ§ The book 'Why Women Deserve Less' by myON gains is mentioned, suggesting that society should pay attention to the feelings of young men who feel excluded.
- đ The influence of culture on beauty standards and the homogenization of women's appearances to meet limited criteria is critiqued.
- đ The script points out the lack of 'inner beauty' standards, suggesting that character traits are often overlooked in favor of physical appearance.
- đ· It discusses the fear and isolation experienced by some men due to societal pressures and the potential consequences of 'cancel culture'.
- 𧏠The concept of sexual dimorphism is explored, explaining how biological differences can affect attraction and societal roles.
- đŒ The video talks about social status and how it's assigned by society, influenced by wealth, gender, race, and other factors.
- đ It mentions the historical shift in social status from men to women, and the impact this has had on traditional gender roles and relationships.
- đ The script argues that the increase in women's status has led to a decrease in sexual dimorphism, affecting the balance between the sexes.
- đ€ The idea of 'female solipsism' is introduced, suggesting that women's self-centeredness is a result of evolution rather than a moral failing.
- đ The video calls for a societal change, suggesting that restoring the social status of men and redefining women's roles could lead to a more harmonious society.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video script?
-The main topic discussed in the video script is the ongoing gender war in society, focusing on the perspectives of men and women, the impact of beauty standards, and the social status of men and women.
What book did the speaker recently finish and what was the main takeaway from it?
-The speaker recently finished the book 'Why Women Deserve Less' by myON gains, and the main takeaway was the need to listen to the feelings of young men who feel excluded and alienated by society.
How does the speaker describe the impact of beauty standards on women's inner qualities?
-The speaker describes that beauty standards focus on physical appearance, ignoring inner qualities. This means that a woman's worth is often judged based on her looks rather than her character, which can discourage the development of inner beauty.
What is 'sexual dimorphism' and how does it relate to attraction between men and women?
-Sexual dimorphism refers to the biological differences between males and females. In humans, these differences are relatively low compared to other species but include things like body hair and facial features. The speaker suggests that the more pronounced these differences are, the more attracted men and women are to each other, as these differences correlate with higher fertility rates and are an indication of immunological health.
How does the speaker view the current status of men in society?
-The speaker views the current status of men as being emasculated and stripped of their fortitude and confidence, to the point where they are not capable of leading society effectively.
What is the 'glass ceiling' and how has it affected women historically?
-The 'glass ceiling' is a metaphorical barrier for women in the workforce that prevented them from advancing to higher management positions, which were traditionally reserved for men. Historically, this barrier limited women's career progression and pay.
What does the speaker suggest about the relationship between women's social status and their desirability?
-The speaker suggests that as women's social status has increased, their desirability has remained high due to the potent male sex drive. However, this has led to a decrease in sexual dimorphism and a potential imbalance in the ability of men to achieve an optimal social ranking that attracts women.
What is 'female solipsism' as described in the script?
-Female solipsism, as described in the script, is a form of self-centeredness where women are primarily focused on their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences over those of others. It is not intentional dismissiveness but rather an unintentional lack of awareness of others.
What does the speaker believe should be done to restore balance in society regarding gender roles?
-The speaker believes that to restore balance, society should restore the social status of men, assign responsibility to men, and allow them to lead. Women should also change themselves, show respect to men, and accept their roles in order to live in harmony with them.
How does the speaker connect the issues discussed in the script to the mental health of young men?
-The speaker connects the issues by highlighting that the feelings of exclusion and alienation experienced by young men, along with the fear of rejection and accusations in today's culture, are taking a toll on their mental health, with one-third of men aged 18 to 24 not having had sex in the past year.
What is the speaker's stance on the role of women in changing society for the better?
-The speaker's stance is that women have the power to change society and that they should use this power to restore the social status of men and to change themselves in order to create a more harmonious society.
Outlines
đ Exploring Gender Dynamics and Beauty Standards
The speaker begins by discussing their recent engagement with audio books on the gender war, highlighting the need to understand the perspectives of young men feeling alienated by society. The book 'Why Women Deserve Less' by myON gains is mentioned as a catalyst for considering the validity of these men's beliefs. The paragraph delves into the impact of beauty standards on women, suggesting that there's an emphasis on physical appearance over character, leading to a lack of incentive for women to cultivate inner beauty. It also touches on societal fears and the challenges faced by men in the dating scene, including the repercussions of 'cancel culture.' The discussion on sexual dimorphism and societal beauty standards is used to argue that the more distinct men and women appear, the higher the attraction between them, which is tied to fertility rates and health indicators.
𧏠The Impact of Status and Gender on Society
This paragraph examines the concept of social status, its components, and its correlation with perceived morality. It notes that historically, men have held higher status, leading to male-dominated social institutions. The 'glass ceiling' for women in the workforce is mentioned, along with the progress made since the 1960s, including women's increased presence in higher education and high-paying occupations. The paragraph discusses the implications of women gaining status on sexual dimorphism and societal balance, suggesting that as women's status rises, it disrupts traditional gender roles and the 'tall girl problem' emerges, affecting relationship dynamics. The speaker also explores the idea that women's increased status could lead to loneliness due to a reduced pool of high-status men to partner with.
đ€ Female Solipsism and its Evolutionary Roots
The speaker discusses the concept of female solipsism, contrasting it with narcissism and suggesting it stems from an evolutionary focus on self-preservation. They argue that women's tendency to be self-centered is not a moral failing but rather an unintentional lack of awareness of others, linked to introverted sensing. The paragraph also addresses the red pill community's claims about women's lack of morality and selfishness, refuting them by attributing these traits to survival instincts rather than inherent flaws. The speaker acknowledges the preferential treatment women have historically received from society due to their reproductive value, and how this has shaped societal structures and behaviors.
đ« The Consequences of Removing Consequences
This paragraph explores the societal changes that have resulted from the sexual revolution, including the impact of birth control, abortion, and no-fault divorce on women's behavior and societal roles. The speaker argues that removing the natural consequences of sexual behavior has led to immaturity and self-absorption in women, affecting their psychological development and ability to make mature decisions. They suggest that the absence of these consequences has resulted in a population of women who are not fulfilling their potential as adults and leaders, and calls for a restoration of these consequences to promote maturity and responsibility.
đ Restoring Balance: The Role of Women in Society
In the concluding paragraph, the speaker calls for a societal shift to restore the social status of men and the responsibilities traditionally assigned to them. They argue that women, having gained significant power and influence, must now take the lead in fostering change by embracing their roles and allowing men to lead. The speaker emphasizes the need for respect and the importance of women's actions in shaping future generations, suggesting that only through self-reflection and change can society achieve harmony and progress.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄGender War
đĄRed Pill Community
đĄSexual Dimorphism
đĄBeauty Standards
đĄSocial Status
đĄHypergamy
đĄFemale Solipsism
đĄPreferential Treatment
đĄEmasculated
đĄConsequences
đĄMaturity
Highlights
The ongoing gender war and the need to understand the feelings of young men in the red pill community.
The cultural impact on beauty standards and the lack of inner beauty standards for women.
The fear among men of rejection and accusations in today's cancel culture.
The loneliness and isolation experienced by a significant portion of young men.
The role of sexual dimorphism in attraction and its societal emphasis.
The correlation between feminine and masculine secondary sex characteristics and fertility rates.
The societal status assigned to men and women and its components.
The historical higher status of men and its implications on societal structure.
The closing gap in social status between men and women and its effects on sexual dimorphism.
The 'tall girl problem' and the impact of women's increased status on mate selection.
The psychological effects of removing consequences from sexual behavior.
The argument for reinstating consequences for women's sexual behavior through societal changes.
The potential impact of abolishing legal abortion on societal norms and behaviors.
The concept of female solipsism and its difference from narcissism.
The claim that female solipsism is related to introverted sensing and its evolutionary basis.
The historical preferential treatment of women by society and its modern implications.
The potential for women to lead societal change and the need for them to take responsibility.
The call to restore the social status of men and allow them to lead for societal harmony.
The suggestion that women must change themselves for real societal change to occur.
Transcripts
hello and welcome back to my channel
recently I've been listening to a lot of
audio books that pertain to the ongoing
gender war in our society I've listened
to the sides of men and women the more I
learn the more Nuance I observe I
recently finished the book why women
deserve less by myON gains and it became
evident to me that we need to listen
more to the feelings of young men who
are in the red pill Community or who
feel excluded and alienated by a society
that doesn't value them I'm not saying
that they are right about everything but
it should concern us that these people
are suffering and perhaps there is some
validity to their beliefs about
women women around the world are not all
the same culture plays a huge role in
shaping the way women think and behave
culture also plays a role in what men
find to be beautiful and desirable the
more narrow the spectrum of desirability
the more homogenized women will be
because they're all striving to meet the
same limited criteria there are beauty
standards that dictate every physical
feature of a woman's body but there are
no inner beauty standards for women a
cruel vindictive and spiteful woman is
just as desirable as a woman who is
caring honest and sincere as long as
they both meet the same outward beauty
standards a woman is a 10 based on how
her body looks not because of the
content of her character therefore there
is no incentive for women to be good
people there are men who have been
treated badly who have been used up by
the women in their life and who have
practically no success with
relationships at all a lot of these men
fear women they fear rejection they fear
being accused of doing something
egregious
unintentionally in today's cancel
culture when women have more power than
ever Simply Having the wrong opinion can
result in a man's ban M from online
communities and dating apps the result
is that there are entire subcultures of
young men who are very lonely and
isolated something like onethird of men
ages 18 to 24 have not had sex in the
past year and there's no denying that
it's taking a toll on their mental
health and so I asked the question what
is wrong with modern
women beauty standards exist to
emphasize the already existing sexual
dorph ISM between men and women sexual
dimorphism refers to the biological
differences between males and females
which for humans is relatively low
compared to other related species
generally men are hairier than women and
so women shave their legs women have
mouths that are pouty and pink and
lipstick makes them look even more pink
and defines their shape women's clothing
is designed to enunciate a woman's waist
to hip ratio which is larger than men's
with hairstyle styles men have short
hair women have long hair it's all for
the sake of making us look more
different from each other than we
already
are the more sexual dimorphism present
between a man and a woman the more
attracted they are to each other this is
because highly feminine and highly
masculine secondary sex characteristics
correlate with high levels of estrogen
and testosterone respectively which
indicates higher fertility rates it's
also an indication of immunological
Health Health in both men and women when
men grow out their beards it enhances
the size of their chins and larger chins
suggest higher levels of
testosterone several studies have been
conducted using eye tracking and other
methods that measure a person's visual
preferences of feminine and masculine
facial traits along with their level of
attraction to those traits studies show
that the more different men and women
look from each other the more attractive
they are perceived to be
so in society men have higher status
than women but women have higher
desirability meaning that men desire
women more than women desire
men status isn't something that comes
from within simply being more confident
or having a higher level of self-esteem
and competence do not guarantee social
status status is something assigned by
Society that's is considered prestigious
and determines a person's social ranking
some of the things that determine a
person's social status include
characteristics that people are born
with as well as other certain
accomplishments achieved during a
person's lifetime the three main
components of status include wealth and
income gender and race and ethnicity
Society also ascribes social status to
popularity dominance over peers
occupation degree of Education Beauty
youth leadership and power additionally
there's a correlation between a person's
perceived morality and their level of
status such that if it's a story about
an oppressor and a victim the victim
will likely receive more status as long
as they're the more moral
person historically men have always had
higher status than women this meant that
virtually all social institutions had
male leaders and that Society in general
was designed for men men were the
standard jobs were designed for people
who had a certain level of physical
strength people who couldn't get
pregnant and people who didn't have
their monthly hormonal cycle affecting
their mood originally this was a barrier
for women who began entering the
workforce in the 1960s and came to be
known as the glass ceiling at first
women could only get so far up in the
management of a company because the
promotions were reserved for men today
women outnumber men in universities
according to pewresearch.org
35% of workers in the country's 10
highest paying occupations are women and
this list includes Physicians CEOs
dentists and lawyers while it's not
50/50 it has increased substantially
since 1980 when that number was only
133% laws requiring employers to hire
women and pay them the same as men have
led to women composing 50% of the
workforce
and have allowed women to advance within
corporations to the point where they are
making six figures and hold positions of
power and
influence the increase in education
wealth and power have accumulated and
have caused women to gain social status
like never before women have earned
respect for men and the rest of society
and have moved up collectively in the
social hierarchy certain industries are
still dominated by men but they tend to
be manual labor jobs that women simp
aren't interested
in the Gap in Social Status between men
and women is closing in but the problem
is that the differential in status
serves a purpose it contributes to
sexual dimorphism and the more status
women gain the less sexual dimorphism
there is women's hypergamy drives them
to pursue men who are more educated than
they are who make more money than they
do and ultimately have more status than
they do the problem is that as women
move up in the social hierarchy there
are fewer and fewer High status men to
choose from YouTuber Chris Williamson
calls this the tall girl problem if a
woman is 5'11 or 6 feet tall she's going
to have a harder time finding men who
are taller than she is even if she's a
supermodel a woman who is economically
successful and holds social dominance
over other people will want a man who is
even more successful than she is
what's becoming clear is that in the
past when men ubiquitously had higher
status than women it created a delicate
balance between the Sexes that aided in
the ability of people to find
mates it maintained a structure of
equilibrium women have always been more
desirable than men and the evolution of
civilization made up for this by placing
men above women in the social structure
this form of imposed asymmetry increased
sexual dimorphism creating a stronger
attraction between the Sexes and kept
everyone's egos in check today with
women having more and more status they
still remain the desirable ones because
the male sex drive is so potent however
men are less motivated now because for
so many of them it seems impossible to
achieve an optimal social ranking that
allows enough women to be interested in
them and this is evidenced by the
presence of men's groups like mtow the
more status women have the more lonely
and miserable they will be for lack of
men to have committed relationships with
as they carry the burden of chasing both
status and
desirability everyone
loses women have a tendency to be self
above tribe whereas men are more likely
to be tribe above self women experience
reality more subjectively and they
filter it through their own perspective
with their inner World being the point
of reference this is known as female
solipsism solipsism is not the same
thing as narcissism with narcissism it's
about getting the people in your life to
verify a false self solipsism is a form
of self-centeredness in which the person
is focused on their own thoughts
feelings and experiences over the
thoughts feelings and experiences of
other people however this is a result of
them being oblivious instead of being
intentionally dismissive of other people
people who are solipsistic are primarily
focused on what's Happening to them and
what's going on in their internal world
sistic people also have a tendency to
relate topics of conversation to the
self red pill men often make the claim
that female sism is responsible for the
innate lack of morality within all women
and explains why women are selfish I
disagree with this I think female cism
is related to introverted sensing which
is a cognitive function that is
associated more with women than men I
myself always believed that I'm the
center of my own universe but I
understood that everyone else is also
the center of their own Universe it's
not a product of annate immorality or a
character flaw it has more to do with
the unintentional lack of awareness Ness
of
others as far as being selfish is
concerned it makes sense why women are
more sistic than men because for
thousands of years people lived in small
groups and women had to breastfeed their
children until they were about 5 years
old if an attack was made on the group
Evolution favored the women who saved
themselves first rather than trying to
defend the tribe because if a woman died
in that instance her children would have
little to no chance of survival
essentially if a woman were to die her
children also died female cism isn't
nearly as nefarious as men in the red
pill Community make it
seem in the book why women deserve less
published in
2023 the author myON gains says that
women have been given everything they
wanted rights Independence a welfare
state birth control reprodu productive
rights affirmative action College
educations Dei and other changes to
society additionally men still shower
women with romance flowers candy wedding
rings weddings and date nights and yet
women are still not satisfied insisting
that until equality of outcome has been
reached women remain second class
citizens who live under the oppressive
thumb of men but the truth is that the
male sex drive gives women preferential
treatment and this is outlined in the
book men will throw their friends under
the bus they will approach conversations
with women with trepidation lying to
them to avoid hurting their feelings or
even worse offending them it's not just
men but all of society has historically
given women preferential treatment
because women are born with more
reproductive value than men women can
only give birth about once a year
but one man can impregnate 100 women in
a short period of time and so Society
doesn't need a lot of men in order to
sustain or grow its
population this is why men die in war
this is why men do the heavy lifting
women especially pregnant women are
given deference because Society
acknowledges their sacrifice as
mothers women are coddled by Society
through legalized abortions no fault
divorce government subsidies alimony
family and custody courts and the priori
prioritization of feelings above all
else especially in universities where
there are six women for every four men
removing the repercussions of sex
through birth control and legalized
abortion has created women who are
treated like emotional helpless children
according to Jonathan height in the
coddling of the American mind we know
that when children are spoiled they grow
up into people who are unable to take
criticism or tolerate any discomfort and
who tend to be narcissistic and
self-absorbed pampering women does not
help
them reinstating consequences for
women's behavior is the only way to
naturally sort this out if someone signs
a contract that is legally binding and
then they try to terminate that contract
a court will order that person to pay
for damages and then the other party
will receive compensation and other
words there's a
penalty if you sign a lease and then
decide halfway through that you want to
break your lease you'll more than likely
have to pay for early termination fees
legal fees and it will probably affect
your credit score in our society
apartment leases are taken more
seriously than
marriages marriage is a contract in
which women now benefit from
breaking they receive biased treatment
by by family courts they are awarded
alimony and child support and they don't
even have to prove that their husbands
did anything wrong due to no fa
divorce the abolishment of legal
abortion is one way in which our society
can restore consequences for sexual
behavior it may be acceptable and
normalized now for young women to have
premarital and promiscuous sex but that
will change if abortions are no longer
an option it will be a difficult
adjustment at first men will probably
ignore the reality that sex can result
in a baby but once young women begin to
experience the consequence of pregnancy
and child birth that naturally accompany
sex that standard will quickly change it
will become less
acceptable women will start being more
careful of their actions which will make
them more mature and less
insufferable due to abortion and birth
control women are now participating in
sexual activities that should naturally
result in them getting pregnant and
giving birth by removing the
consequences of sexual behavior women
are doing things that should make them
mothers but don't what kind of effect
does that have on their psyches the same
could be said about men who should
become fathers after having sex with
women but who don't the difference is
unlike men having a baby for a woman is
a right of passage into adulthood women
are making adult decisions without
actually being adults psychologically
because they're not going through the
phases of maturation that turns a girl
into a woman when girls become mothers
generally speaking they become less
selfish less self-absorbed and more
caring for the people in their families
Society at large because they care about
their children's future becoming a
mother means making a sacrifice for the
greatest bond between two people that
can ever be
achieved one of the results of the
sexual Revolution is that we have all of
these people who should already have
grown into mature adult women but who
are behaving like teenagers and these
are the people who are advancing in
their corporate careers slowly taking
over societal institutions and gaining
massive amounts of wealth power and
status if women are no longer
transitioning through the developmental
phases of their lives which brings them
wisdom then how can they make mature
decisions it may seem like I'm unfairly
focusing on the problems of women and
ignoring the bad behavior of men but
people talk about the horrible stuff
that men do all the time men's flaws are
well known and they've even been
classified into varying degrees of toxic
masculinity the truth is that men have
become emasculated to the point where we
can no longer depend on them to lead us
out of the mess we're in it takes
courage and change uh for people to
change society and we have stripped men
of their fortitude and confidence to the
point where they're not capable of
leading anyone anywhere therefore the
people who actually have the power to
change society are women think about it
the first W feminists were able to amend
the Constitution and make alcohol
illegal for 13 years while I don't fully
support firstway feminism it was a
movement led by workingclass Irish women
who were sick and tired of their
husbands blowing their paychecks on
hookers and
booze they had a problem and they came
together collectively to solve it if the
women of 100 years ago could accomplish
all that just think what modern women
could do now with the internet to use as
a tool at our
disposal whenever men try to voice their
opinions about anything concerning women
they are met with an uproar of angry
feminists the most recent example of
this happened to Harrison buter of the
Kansas City Chiefs when he dared to tell
a room of Catholic college graduates
that marage Mar and children make women
happy this atrocious act resulted in a
backlash of outraged feminists calling
for his career in the NFL to be
terminated how dare he agree with the
Catholic
church I know this is controversial and
I never thought these words would ever
be coming out of my mouth but I think we
have to restore the social status of men
we need to restore the responsibility of
our society unto men once again we need
to humbly accept our role as women and
allow men to lead if we ever hope to
live in harmony with them we need to
show them the respect they need to feel
like Alphas if we want to marry Alphas
unless women do these things we will
continue to live in misery hopelessly
attracted to men who are incapable of
being good Fathers because they
prioritize their own sex drives over
anything and everything meaningful in
this world World they will chase and
discard women they will abandon their
children but for real change to actually
take place we as women must care enough
to change
ourselves so thank you for watching this
video I hope you found it to be
educational and enlightening as usual
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