The art of choosing - Sheena Iyengar

TED-Ed
24 Aug 201324:08

Summary

TLDRCe script explore les différences culturelles dans la perception du choix, à travers l'expérience de l'auteure vivant au Japon et des études sur les enfants japonais et américains. Il met en lumière les préférences individuelles et collectives, et comment elles influencent les performances et les relations sociales. L'auteure remet en question l'idée américaine selon laquelle plus de choix conduit à une meilleure décision, en montrant que cela peut entraîner de la paralysie ou de l'anxiété. Elle appelle à une compréhension plus large et empathique du choix, pour réaliser pleinement son potentiel de liberté et d'espoir.

Takeaways

  • 🌏 L'auteur partage son expérience de vie au Japon, où des différences culturelles se sont manifestées lors de la commande d'un thé vert sucré, illustrant le conflit entre les préférences personnelles et les normes culturelles.
  • 🍵 Le thé vert sucré a servi de point de départ pour discuter de la notion de choix et de la manière dont il est perçu différemment selon les cultures, y compris les attentes américaines et japonaises.
  • 🇺🇸 L'auteur souligne que l'Amérique considère le choix comme un droit inhérent au consommateur, reflétant la philosophie 'à votre façon' de la société américaine.
  • 🧐 L'étude de Mark Lepper sur les enfants montre que les différences culturelles affectent la manière dont les choix sont perçus et influencent les performances des enfants.
  • 📊 Les recherches suggèrent que les choix effectués par des membres de la communauté sont parfois préférables aux choix individuels, en particulier dans les cultures collectivistes.
  • 🤔 L'idée que plus de choix conduit à de meilleures décisions est remise en question, comme le montre l'étude sur les anagrammes et les choix faits par les enfants.
  • 🧉 L'expérience en Europe de l'Est démontre que trop de choix peuvent causer de la confusion et de la peur, en particulier pour ceux qui ne sont pas habitués à un marché capitaliste.
  • 🛒 Les consommateurs américains sont souvent soumis à une surabondance de choix, ce qui peut mener à une paralysie face à l'abondance de possibilités.
  • 🚫 L'idée que refuser le choix est négatif est remise en question, comme le montre l'étude sur les parents confrontés à des décisions difficiles concernant la vie de leur enfant.
  • 📚 L'auteur appelle à une compréhension plus large et nuancée de ce que le choix peut représenter, en reconnaissant la diversité des expériences culturelles.
  • 🌟 Le discours conclut par une invitation à reconnaître la complexité et la beauté du choix, et à apprendre de différentes perspectives pour réaliser pleinement le potentiel du choix.

Q & A

  • Quel est le thème principal du discours de Sheena Iyengar ?

    -Le thème principal du discours est l'impact culturel sur la perception et la pratique du choix, ainsi que les problèmes associés aux suppositions américaines concernant le choix.

  • Pourquoi a-t-elle partagé son expérience au Japon ?

    -Elle a partagé son expérience au Japon pour illustrer les différences culturelles dans la perception du choix et comment cela peut conduire à des malentendus inattendus.

  • Quelle différence fondamentale existe-t-il entre la perspective américaine et japonaise sur le choix, selon le discours ?

    -La différence fondamentale réside dans le fait que les Américains croient que les clients ont le droit de faire des choix en fonction de leurs préférences, tandis que les Japonais se considèrent comme des gardiens de la culture et cherchent à protéger ceux qui ne sont pas au courant des normes culturelles.

  • Quels sont les trois principaux problèmes liés aux suppositions américaines sur le choix, selon Sheena Iyengar ?

    -Les trois problèmes sont : 1) L'idée que le choix doit être entièrement privé et définitif de soi, 2) La croyance que plus de choix mène à de meilleures décisions, 3) L'impossibilité de refuser ou de dire non au choix.

  • Quel était le résultat de l'étude menée par Sheena Iyengar et ses collègues sur les enfants japonais et américains ?

    -Les enfants américains ont mieux performé lorsqu'ils ont eu le choix de faire des puzzles, tandis que les enfants asiato-américains ont préféré lorsque c'était leur mère qui avait fait le choix, et les enfants japonais ont été influencés par la perspective de leur communauté.

  • Comment les résidents des pays d'Europe de l'Est perçoivent-ils l'abondance de choix après la chute du communisme ?

    -Ils perçoivent l'abondance de choix comme un débordement, une surcharge qui les rend confus et frustrés, et parfois même effrayés, plutôt que comme une opportunité ou une libération.

  • Quels sont les effets psychologiques de devoir faire un choix difficile, comme celui décrit dans le scénario des parents américains ?

    -Les effets psychologiques peuvent inclure des sentiments de culpabilité, de colère, de tristesse et même une dépression clinique, en raison de la pression de devoir faire un choix qui a des conséquences durables.

  • Pourquoi les Américains sont-ils si réticents à abandonner le choix, même face à des situations difficiles ?

    -Les Américains sont réticents à abandonner le choix car cela va à l'encontre de tout ce qu'ils ont été enseignés et de tout ce qu'ils ont appris à croire sur la puissance et le but du choix.

  • Quelle est la métaphore utilisée par Sheena Iyengar pour décrire la façon dont les Américains interprètent leur expérience ?

    -Elle utilise la métaphore de la narration, où les Américains s'imposent une ligne narrative sur des images disparates pour gérer et comprendre leur expérience.

  • Comment la déficience visuelle de Sheena Iyengar a-t-elle influencé sa perspective sur la recherche du choix ?

    -Étant donné qu'elle est aveugle, elle a une perspective différente sur la façon dont les personnes à vue normale font des choix, en se concentrant sur d'autres aspects que la couleur ou l'esthétique.

  • Quel est l'expériment que Sheena Iyengar a mené avec les ongles à ongles roses pour étudier l'effet des noms sur les choix ?

    -Elle a enlevé les étiquettes des bouteilles de vernis à ongles et a demandé aux femmes de choisir entre les deux. Lorsque les noms étaient enlevés, elles ont choisi le vernis 'adorable', mais avec les noms, elles ont préféré le 'ballet slippers', ce qui suggère que les noms peuvent influencer la perception de la couleur.

Outlines

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🌏 Choix culturels et différences

Le script parle de l'expérience personnelle de l'auteur qui a vécu en Japon et des différences culturelles rencontrées, notamment dans les restaurants. L'auteur a commandé du thé vert sucré, ce qui a suscité un débat sur les normes culturelles et les choix personnels. Cela illustre le conflit entre la perspective américaine du choix basé sur les préférences individuelles et la perspective japonaise de protection contre les mauvais choix. L'auteur souligne que les croyances américaines sur le choix ne sont pas universelles et peuvent poser des problèmes dans d'autres cultures.

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📊 Études sur les choix et la performance

L'auteur relate des études sur les choix effectuées avec des enfants de 7 à 9 ans aux États-Unis et au Japon. Les enfants américains ont mieux performé lorsqu'ils ont choisi eux-mêmes les activités, tandis que les enfants asiato-américains ont préféré lorsque leurs choix étaient faits par leurs mères. Cela met en lumière l'influence culturelle sur la perception du choix et la performance, et comment les choix collectifs peuvent être aussi importants que les choix individuels.

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🛍️ Surabondance de choix et stress

L'auteur explore l'idée que plus les choix sont nombreux, mieux c'est, en s'appuyant sur des expériences en Europe de l'Est. Les anciens pays communistes ont été submergés par les choix après la transition vers une société capitaliste. Les participants ont exprimé de la peur et de la confusion face à cette surabondance, ce qui remet en question l'idée américaine selon laquelle plus de choix conduit à de meilleures décisions.

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🏥 Le poids du choix dans les situations de vie ou de mort

Le script aborde un scénario émotionnel où un couple doit décider si de maintenir leur bébé sur une respiration assistée ou non, en cas de cérébral anoxia. L'auteur souligne les difficultés et les émotions négatives vécues par les parents américains lorsqu'ils doivent faire ce genre de choix, par opposition à la France où les médecins prennent la décision, ce qui semble les aider à gérer leur deuil plus efficacement.

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🎭 La poésie du choix et la nécessité de nouvelles perspectives

L'auteur conclut en disant que les histoires et les perspectives sur le choix varient d'un endroit à l'autre et que les Américains pourraient bénéficier d'un élargissement de leur propre narrative. En apprenant à se parler et à se traduire les uns les autres, nous pouvons mieux comprendre et célébrer la complexité et la beauté du choix, plutôt que de tomber dans le relativisme moral ou de s'accrocher à une narrative unique.

👁️ La perspective d'une étudiante aveugle sur le choix

En guise d'anecdote finale, l'auteur partage son expérience personnelle en tant qu'étudiante aveugle et comment cela lui a offert une perspective différente sur la façon dont les gens à la vue font des choix, en particulier en ce qui concerne les choix visuels. Un exemple humoristique est donné à travers une expérience avec du vernis à ongles, où les noms des couleurs semblent influencer la perception des couleurs par les participants d'une expérience.

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Keywords

💡Culturale

Le terme 'culturel' fait référence à l'ensemble des caractéristiques, des normes et des comportements d'un groupe social. Dans le script, il est utilisé pour illustrer les différences dans la perception du choix entre les cultures japonaise et américaine, comme dans l'anecdote du thé vert sucré.

💡Choix

Le 'choix' est un concept central dans le script, représentant la capacité de faire un choix entre différentes options. Il est lié au thème principal en explorant comment le choix est perçu et géré dans différentes cultures et comment cela affecte les performances et les émotions.

💡Individualisme

L''individualisme' est la valeur accordée à l'autonomie et à l'indépendance de chaque personne. Le script le mentionne en tant que base de la vision américaine du choix, où le choix est considéré comme un moyen d'affirmer sa personnalité et ses préférences.

💡Collectivisme

Le 'collectivisme' est le contraire de l'individualisme, mettant l'accent sur le groupe et l'harmonie communautaire. Dans le script, il est illustré par la perspective japonaise, où le choix est influencé par le désir de ne pas contrevenir aux normes culturelles.

💡Préférences

Les 'préférences' sont les choix personnels basés sur les goûts et les désirs individuels. Le script les utilise pour montrer la différence entre les cultures qui valorisent le respect des préférences individuelles et celles qui privilégient les normes collectives.

💡Assomption

L' 'assomption' dans le script fait référence à la croyance sous-jacente ou au préjugé culturel. Il est utilisé pour explorer les croyances américaines sur le choix et comment elles peuvent ne pas être universelles.

💡Dilemme

Le 'dilemma' est une situation difficile où un choix doit être fait entre deux options inégales. Le script l'utilise pour décrire les situations où le choix est source de stress et de confusion, comme dans l'exemple des parents confrontés à la décision de retirer la vie support à leur enfant.

💡Opportunités

Les 'opportunités' représentent les possibilités offertes par le fait de choisir. Le script les mentionne pour souligner que, bien que le choix offre des opportunités, il peut aussi imposer des contraintes et causer de l'anxiété.

💡Traduction

La 'traduction' est utilisée dans le script pour parler de la manière dont les idées et les histoires peuvent être interprétées et transformées lorsqu'elles sont partagées entre différentes cultures. Cela est lié au thème du choix et de la manière dont il est perçu de différentes manières dans le monde.

💡Narrative

Le 'narrative' fait référence à l'histoire ou au récit que nous construisons pour comprendre notre expérience. Dans le script, il est utilisé pour parler de la façon dont les différentes perspectives sur le choix sont incorporées dans les histoires culturelles et personnelles.

💡Aveugle

L'état d'être 'aveugle' est mentionné dans le script pour souligner comment la perception du choix peut être influencée par les handicaps physiques. Cela offre une perspective différente sur le choix, où l'auteure partage son expérience personnelle de choisir sans entrave visuelle.

Highlights

The speaker discusses cultural differences in the concept of choice, starting with a personal anecdote from Japan about ordering green tea with sugar.

The American perspective values individual choice and the right to have preferences met, as exemplified by slogans from Burger King and Starbucks.

The Japanese perspective is contrasted, where there is a duty to protect those who may not know better, guiding them away from making 'wrong' choices.

The speaker challenges the American belief in the universality of their approach to choice, suggesting it may not be the pinnacle of cultural practice.

The first assumption discussed is that individuals should make choices affecting them, ensuring their preferences are accounted for.

A study conducted in Japan and San Francisco with children showed cultural differences in how they responded to making choices versus having choices made for them.

The study found that Asian-American children performed best when they believed their mothers had made the choice, reflecting a cultural preference for collective success.

The American paradigm demands choice as a private and self-defining act, which may not suit all individuals or cultures.

The second assumption is that more choices lead to better decisions, which is challenged by the speaker's experiences in Eastern Europe.

Interviews in formerly communist countries revealed a perception of being overwhelmed by too many choices, contrary to the American belief in the benefits of more options.

The value of choice is tied to the ability to perceive differences between options, a skill not universally developed or valued.

Choice can become a source of pressure and fear, rather than liberation, when too many options are available without the ability to discern between them.

The third assumption discussed is the reluctance to say no to choice, using the example of American parents faced with life support decisions for their newborns.

A study comparing American and French parents found that the burden of decision-making affected their coping mechanisms and emotional responses to loss.

Despite the emotional burden, American parents still preferred to retain the choice, reflecting a deep cultural belief in the power of choice.

The speaker concludes by advocating for a more nuanced understanding of choice that incorporates diverse perspectives and narratives.

The potential of choice is in inspiring hope and achieving freedom, but it requires a broader conversation that respects different cultural approaches.

The speaker, who is blind, offers a unique perspective on the visual nature of choice and the influence of labeling on perception.

An experiment with nail polish colors and labels suggests that names and packaging can significantly influence choice, even when the product is the same.

Transcripts

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today I'm going to take you around the

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world in 18 minutes my base of

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operations is in the US but let's start

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at the other end of the map in Kyoto

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Japan where I was living with a Japanese

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family while I was doing part of my

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dissertation Ulrike our cultural

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differences and misunderstandings but

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they popped up when I least expected it

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on my first day I went to a restaurant

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and I ordered a cup of green tea with

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sugar after a pause the waiter said when

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does not put sugar in green tea I know I

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said I'm aware of this custom but I

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really like my tea suite in response he

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gave me an even more courteous version

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of the same explanation one does not put

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sugar in green tea I understand I said

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that the Japanese do not put sugar in

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their green tea but I'd like to put some

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sugar in my green tea

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surprised by my insistence the waiter

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had to took up the issue with the

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manager pretty soon a lengthy discussion

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ensued and finally the manager came over

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to me and said I am very sorry we do not

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have sugar well since I couldn't have my

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tea the way I wanted it I ordered a cup

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of coffee which the waiter brought

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brought over promptly resting on the

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saucer were two packets of sugar my

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failure to procure myself a cup of sweet

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green tea was not due to a simple

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misunderstanding

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this was due to a fundamental difference

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in our ideas about choice for my

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American perspective when a paying

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customer makes a reasonable request

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based on her preferences she has every

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right to have that request but the

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American way to quote Burger King is to

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have it your way because the Starbucks

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says happiness is in your choices but

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from the Japanese perspective it's their

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duty to protect those who don't know any

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better in this case the ignorant gaijin

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for making the wrong choice let's face

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it the way I wanted my tea was

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inappropriate according to cultural

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standards and they were doing their best

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to help me say face Americans tend to

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believe that they've reached some sort

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of pinnacle in the way they practice

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choice they think the choice is seen

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through the American lens best fulfills

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an innate and universal desire for

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choice in all humans

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unfortunately these beliefs are based on

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assumptions that don't always hold true

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in many countries in many cultures at

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times they don't even hold true in

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America's own borders I'd like to

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discuss some of these assumptions and

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the problems associated with them as I

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do so I hope you'll start thinking about

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some of your own assumptions and how

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they were shaped by your backgrounds

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first assumption if a choice affects you

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then you should be the one to make it

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this is the only way to ensure that your

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preferences and

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interests will be most fully accounted

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for it is essential for success in

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America

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the primary locus of choice is the

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individual people must choose for

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themselves sometimes sticking to their

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guns regardless of what other people

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want to recommend

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it's called being true to yourself but

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do all individuals benefit from taking

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such an approach to choice mark clipper

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and I did a series of studies in which

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we sought the answer to this very

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question in one study which we ran in

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Japan town San Francisco we brought

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seven to nine year-old angle and

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asian-american children into the

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laboratory and we divided them up into

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three groups the first group came in and

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they were greeted by Miss Smith who

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showed them six peak piles of anagram

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puzzles the kids got to choose which

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pile of anagrams they would like to do

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and they even got to choose which marker

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they would write their answers with when

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the second group of children came in

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they were brought to the same room shown

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the same anagrams but this time Miss

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Smith told them which anagrams to do and

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which markers to write their answers

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with now when the third group came in

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they were told that their anagrams and

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their markers had been chosen by their

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mothers

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in reality the kids who were told would

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to do whether by Miss Smith or their

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mothers were actually given the very

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same activity which their counterparts

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and the first group had freely chosen

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with this procedure we were able to

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ensure that the kids across the three

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groups all did the same activity making

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it easier for us to compare performance

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such small differences in the way we

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administered the activity yielded

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striking differences in how well they

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performed in low Americans they did two

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and a half times more anagrams when they

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got to choose them as compared to when

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it was chosen for them by Miss Smith or

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their mothers it didn't matter who did

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the choosing if the task was dictated by

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another their performance suffered in

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fact some of the kids were visibly

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embarrassed when they were told that

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their mothers had been consulted one

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girl named Mary said you asked my mother

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in contrast Asian American children

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performed best when they believed their

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mothers had made the choice second best

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when they chose for themselves and least

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well when it had been chosen by Miss

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Smith a girl named Natsume even

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approached Miss Smith as she was leaving

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the room and tugged on her skirt and

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asked could you please tell my mommy I

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did it just like she said the first

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generation children were strongly

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influenced by their immigrant parents

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approach to choice for them choice was

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not just a way of defining and asserting

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their individuality but a way to create

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community and harmony by deferring to

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the choices of people who may trust it

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and respect it if they had a concept of

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being true to oneself then that self

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most likely composed not of an

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individual but of a collective success

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was just as much about pleasing key

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figures as it was about satisfying one's

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own preferences or you could say that

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the individuals preferences were shaped

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by

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preferences of specific others the

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assumption then that we do best when the

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individual self chooses only holes when

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that self is clearly divided from others

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when in contrast two or more individuals

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see their choices and their outcomes as

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intimately connected then they may

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amplify one another success by turning

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choosing into a collective act to insist

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that they choose independently might

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actually compromise both their

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performance and their relationships yet

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that is exactly what the American

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paradigm demands it leaves little room

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for interdependence or an

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acknowledgement of individual phal

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ability it requires that everyone treat

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choice as a private and self defining

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act people that have grown up in such a

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paradigm might find it motivating but it

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is a mistake to assume that everyone

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thrives under the pressure of choosing

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alone the second assumption which

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informs the American view of choice goes

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something like this the more choices you

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have the more likely you are to make the

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best choice so bring it on Walmart with

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a hundred thousand different products

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Amazon with 27 million bucks and

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match.com with what is it 15 million

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date possibilities now you will surely

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find the perfect match let's test this

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assumption by heading over to Eastern

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Europe here I interviewed people who

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were residents of formerly communist

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countries we'd all face the challenge of

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transitioning to a more democratic and

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capitalistic society one of the most

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interesting revelations came not from an

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answer to a question but from a simple

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gesture of hospitality when the

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participants arrived for their interview

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I offered them a set of drinks coke dyed

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coke sprite

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seven to be exact during the very first

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session which was run in Russia what are

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the participants made

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comment that really caught me off guard

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oh but it doesn't matter it's all just

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soda that's just one choice I was so

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struck by this comment that from then on

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I started to offer all the participants

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those seven sodas and I asked them how

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many choices are these again and again

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they perceived these seven different

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sodas not as seven choices but as one

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choice soda or no soda when I put out

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juice and water in addition to these

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seven sodas now they perceived it as

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Billy three choices juice water and soda

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compare this to the die-hard devotion of

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many Americans not just to a particular

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flavor of soda but to a particular brand

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you know research shows repeatedly that

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we can't actually tell the difference

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between Coke and Pepsi of course you and

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I know that Coke is the better choice

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for modern Americans who are exposed to

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more options and more ads associated

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with options than anyone else in the

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world choice is just as much about who

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they are as it is about what the product

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is combine this with the assumption that

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more choices are always better and you

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have a group of people for whom every

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little difference matters and so every

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choice matters but for Eastern Europeans

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the sudden availability of all these

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consumer products on the marketplace was

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a deluge

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they were flooded with choice before

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they could protest that they did not

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swim when asked what words and images do

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you associate with choice

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greggers from Warsaw said ah for me it

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is fear there are some dilemmas you see

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I am used to no choice Bohdan from Kiev

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said in response to how we felt about

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the new consumer marketplace is too much

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we do not need everything that is there

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a sociologist from the Warsaw survey

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agency explained the older generation

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jumped from nothing to choice all around

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them they were never given a chance to

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learn how to react and Tomas a young

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Polish man said I do not need twenty

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kinds of chewing gum I don't mean to say

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that I want no choice but many of these

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choices are quite artificial in reality

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many choices are between things that are

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not that much different the value of

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choice depends on our ability to

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perceive differences between the options

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Americans train their whole lives to

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play spot the difference they practice

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this from such an early age that they've

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come to believe that everyone must be

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born with this ability in fact though

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all humans share a basic need and desire

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for choice we don't all see choice in

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the same places or to the same extent

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when someone can't see how one choice is

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unlike another when there are too many

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choices to compare and contrast the

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process of choosing can be confused

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and frustrated instead of making better

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choices we've become overwhelmed by

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choice

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sometimes even afraid of it choice no

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longer offers opportunities but imposes

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constraints it's not a marker of

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liberation but of suffocation by

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meaningless minutiae in other words

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choice can develop into the very

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opposite of everything it represents in

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America when it is thrust upon those who

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are insufficiently prepared for it but

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it is not only other people in other

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places that are feeling the pressure of

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ever-increasing choice Americans

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themselves are discovering that

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unlimited choice seems more attractive

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in theory than in practice we all have

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physical mental and emotional and

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emotional limitations that make it

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impossible for us to process every

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single choice we encounter even in the

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grocery store let alone over the course

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of our entire lives a number of my

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studies have shown that when you give

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people 10 or more options when they're

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making a choice they make poor decisions

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whether it be health care investment

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other critical areas it's still many of

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us believe that we should make all our

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own choices and seek out even more of

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them this brings me to the third and

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perhaps most problematic assumption you

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must never say no to choice to examine

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is let's go back to the US and then hop

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across the pond to France right outside

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Chicago a young couple Susan and Daniel

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Mitchell were about to have their first

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baby they'd already picked out a name

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for her Barbara after her grandmother

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one night when Susan was 7 months

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pregnant she started to experience

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contractions and was rushed to the

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emergency room the baby was delivered

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through a c-section

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but Barbara suffered cerebral anoxia a

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loss of oxygen to the brain unable to

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breathe on her own she was put on a

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ventilator

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two days later the doctors gave the

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Mitchells a choice they could either

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remove Barbara off the life support in

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which case she would die within a matter

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of hours or they could keep her on life

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support in which case she might still

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die within a matter of days if she

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survived she would remain in a permanent

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vegetative state never able to walk talk

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or interact with others what do they do

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what do any parent do in a study I

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conducted with Simona Botti and Cristina

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or folly American and French parents

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were interviewed they had all suffered

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the same tragedy in all cases the life

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support was removed and the infants had

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died but there was a big difference in

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France the doctors decided whether and

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when the life support would be removed

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while in the United States the final

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decision rested with the parents we

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wondered does this have an effect on how

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the parents cope with the loss of their

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loved one we found that it did even up

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to a year later American parents were

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more likely to express negative emotions

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as compared to their French counterparts

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French parents were more likely to say

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things like no one was here for so

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little time but he taught us so much he

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gave us a new perspective on life

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American parents were more likely to say

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things like what if what if another

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parents complained I feel as if they

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purposely tortured me how did they get

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meted to that and another parent said I

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feel as if I've played a role in an

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execution but when the American parents

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were asked if they would rather have had

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the doctors make the decision they all

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said no they could not

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imagine turning that choice over to

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another even though having made that

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choice made them feel trapped guilty

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angry in a number of cases they were

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even clinically depressed these parents

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could not contemplate giving up the

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choice because to do so would have gone

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contrary to everything they had been

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taught and everything they had come to

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believe about the power and purpose of

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choice in her essay the White Album Joan

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Didion writes we tell ourselves stories

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in order to live we interpret what we

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see select the most workable of the

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multiple choices we live entirely by the

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imposition of a narrative line upon

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disparate images by the idea with which

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we learn to freeze the shifting

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phantasmagoria which is our actual

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experience the story Americans tell the

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story upon which the American Dream

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depends is the story of limitless choice

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this narrative promises so much freedom

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happiness success it lays the world at

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your feet and says you can have anything

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everything it's a great story and it's

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understandable why they would be

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reluctant to revise it but when you take

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a close look you start to see the holes

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and you start to see that the story can

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be told in many other ways Americans

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have so often tried to disseminate their

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ideas of choice believing that they will

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be or ought to be welcomed with open

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hearts and minds but the history books

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and the daily news tell us it doesn't

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always work out that way the fence has

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magorium the actual experience that we

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try to understand and organize through

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narrative varies from place to place

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no single narrative serves

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needs of everyone everywhere moreover

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Americans themselves could benefit from

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incorporating new perspectives into

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their own narrative which has been

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driving their choices for so long

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Robert Frost once said that it is poetry

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that is lost in translation this

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suggests that whatever is beautiful and

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moving whatever gives us a new way to

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see cannot be communicated to those who

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speak a different language but Joseph

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Brodsky said that it is poetry that is

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gained in translation suggesting the

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translation can be a creative

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transformative act when it comes to

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choice we have far more to gain than to

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lose by engaging in the many

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translations of the narratives instead

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of replacing one story with another we

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can learn from and revel in the many

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versions that exist and the many that

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have yet to be written no matter where

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we're from and what your narrative is we

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all have a responsibility to open

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ourselves up to a wider array of what

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choice can do and what it can represent

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and this does not lead to a paralyzing

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moral relativism rather it teaches us

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when and how to act it brings us that

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much closer to realizing the full

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potential of choice to inspiring the

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hope and achieving the freedom that

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choice promises but doesn't always

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deliver if we learn to speak to one

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another albeit through translation then

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we can begin to see choice and all its

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strangeness complexity and compelling

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beauty thank you

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Thank You Sheena there is a detail that

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about your biography that we have not

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written in the program book but by now

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it's evident to everyone in this room

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you're blind and I guess one of the

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questions in everybody's mind is how

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does that influence your study of

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choosing because that's an activity that

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for most people is associated with

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visual inputs like aesthetics and color

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and and so on

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well it's funny that you should ask that

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because one of the things that's

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interesting about being blind is you

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actually get a different vantage point

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when you observe other the way sighted

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people make choices and as you just

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mentioned these lots of choices out

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there that are very visual these days

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yeah I like you know as you would expect

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get pretty frustrated by choices like

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what nail polish color to put on because

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I have to rely on what other people

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suggest right and I can't decide and so

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one time I was in a beauty salon and I

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was trying to decide between two very

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light shades of pink and one was called

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ballet slippers and the other one was

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called adorable

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and so I asked these two ladies in the

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one lady told me well you should

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definitely wear ballet slippers but what

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does it look like well it's a very

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elegant shade of pink okay great the

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other lady tells me to wear adorable

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what does it look like it's a glamorous

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shade of pink and so I asked him well

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how do I tell them apart what's

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different about them and they said well

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one is elegant the other one's glamorous

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okay we got that and the only thing they

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had consensus on well if I could see

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them I would clearly be able to tell

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them apart and what I wondered was

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whether they were being affected by the

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name or the constants of the color so I

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decided to do a little experiment so I

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brought these little these two bottles

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of nail polish into the laboratory and I

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stripped the labels off and I brought

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women into the laboratory and I asked

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them which one would you pick 50% of the

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women accused me of playing a trick of

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putting the same colored nail polish in

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both those bottles

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yeah I wish when you start to wonder who

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the Trix really played on now of the of

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the women that could tell them apart

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when the labels were off they picked

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adorable and when the nabel's when the

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labels were on they picked ballet

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slippers so as far as I can tell a rose

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by any other name probably does look

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different and maybe even smells

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different

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