You're losing girls because of THIS silent mistake
Summary
TLDRAt 17, the narrator buys a skateboard to fit in with friends but struggles with tricks. At the skate park, he meets Jenna, a professional skateboarder who helps him improve. Despite developing feelings for her, he hesitates to express them, fearing rejection. After witnessing Jenna's interaction with another guy, he regrets not confessing his feelings earlier. The story concludes with advice to be open about intentions in relationships to avoid missed opportunities.
Takeaways
- đč The speaker, at 17 years old, decided to get into skateboarding after finishing high school and being inspired by friends at the skatepark.
- đ He found learning to skateboard challenging and intimidating, especially when seeing others perform advanced tricks like kickflips and backflips.
- đ One day, while practicing at the park, he caught the attention of a beautiful girl named Jenna, who turned out to be a skilled skateboarder.
- đ€ Jenna approached him, introduced herself, and offered to help him with his skating skills, which led to regular meetups at the park.
- đ The speaker developed feelings for Jenna over time but hesitated to express them due to low self-esteem and the belief that he wasn't good enough for her.
- đ When he finally gathered the courage to express his feelings, he learned that Jenna was already talking to another guy, which crushed his hopes.
- đ This revelation changed the dynamic between them, and Jenna eventually stopped showing up at the skatepark.
- đ€ Reflecting on the experience, the speaker regrets not being honest about his feelings earlier, believing it might have changed the outcome.
- đĄ He concludes with advice for others to be upfront with their intentions and emotions, as hiding them only creates tension and missed opportunities.
- đą The speaker encourages viewers to subscribe and check out resources in the video description for help in improving their dating life.
Q & A
How old was the narrator when he started skateboarding?
-The narrator was 17 years old when he started skateboarding.
What was the narrator's initial experience at the skate park?
-The narrator found the skate park intimidating as everyone was doing crazy tricks like backflips and kickflips, and he failed miserably when he tried to do a trick himself.
Who is Jenna and how did she help the narrator?
-Jenna is a girl the narrator met at the skate park who was a professional skateboarder. She helped him by teaching him how to do skateboard tricks.
What was the narrator's initial impression of Jenna?
-The narrator was initially attracted to Jenna because she was beautiful and a good skateboarder.
How did the narrator feel when Jenna started teaching him skateboarding tricks?
-The narrator was embarrassed and nervous around Jenna, struggling with his words and sweating due to his attraction to her.
What was the turning point for the narrator's skateboarding skills?
-The turning point was when the narrator managed to land a kickflip for the first time, which was a significant achievement for him.
What happened when the narrator saw Jenna reading a text message from another guy?
-The narrator felt heartbroken and in pain when he realized Jenna had been talking to another guy and was asking for his advice on how to respond to the guy's text.
What advice does the narrator give about expressing feelings towards someone you're interested in?
-The narrator advises to be straightforward and express your feelings early on because hiding intentions can lead to missed opportunities and awkwardness.
What was the narrator's biggest regret regarding his relationship with Jenna?
-The narrator regretted not telling Jenna how he felt earlier, which might have changed the outcome of their relationship.
What does the narrator suggest about acting differently around girls you're interested in?
-The narrator suggests that acting differently or hiding intentions can be noticed by girls and is unattractive. It's better to be genuine and upfront about your feelings.
Outlines
đč First Steps into Skateboarding
The narrator, a 17-year-old high school graduate, expresses his excitement about skateboarding after seeing his friends enjoying it. He saves money to buy a skateboard and attempts to learn tricks at the skate park but finds himself struggling. After a week of practice, he meets Jenna, a professional skateboarder, who offers to help him improve. Despite initial embarrassment, they form a connection, and he starts developing feelings for her. The narrator describes his internal conflict, feeling unworthy of Jenna's attention, and his inability to express his feelings for her.
đ Unspoken Feelings and Missed Opportunities
The narrator shares his experience of finally landing a kickflip, which boosts his confidence, but then he sees Jenna reading a text message from another guy, asking for his advice on how to respond. This revelation shatters his confidence and he feels heartbroken, realizing Jenna has been seeing someone else. He reflects on his missed opportunity to express his feelings earlier and how it might have changed things. He advises viewers to be open about their intentions and not hide their feelings, as it can lead to misunderstandings and missed chances.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄSkateboarding
đĄSummer Break
đĄBackflip
đĄKickflip
đĄIntimidating
đĄDetermination
đĄProfessional Skateboarder
đĄCourage
đĄConnection
đĄPain
đĄIntentions
Highlights
A 17-year-old high school graduate buys a skateboard to join his friends.
The narrator feels intimidated by the advanced skateboarding tricks at the skate park.
After a week of practice, the narrator still struggles with basic skateboarding.
A girl named Jenna, a professional skateboarder, offers to help the narrator improve.
The narrator is attracted to Jenna and feels a connection during their skateboarding sessions.
Jenna's presence distracts the narrator from focusing on skateboarding.
The narrator experiences a mix of excitement and nervousness around Jenna.
After a few weeks, the narrator develops feelings for Jenna but lacks the courage to express them.
The narrator believes he is not good enough for Jenna and feels unworthy of her.
Jenna helps the narrator land his first kickflip, a significant personal achievement.
The narrator considers confessing his feelings to Jenna but hesitates.
Jenna asks the narrator for advice on a text from another guy, revealing she has been talking to him.
The narrator feels heartbroken and betrayed by Jenna's revelation.
Jenna's absence from the skate park leaves the narrator wondering about missed opportunities.
The narrator reflects on the importance of being open and honest with one's feelings towards someone.
The narrator advises viewers to be straightforward with their intentions to avoid misunderstandings.
The narrator concludes with a call to action for viewers to subscribe and support his channel.
Transcripts
all right picture this bro so I'm 17
years old and I just finished year 12 of
high school so we're all on summer break
now and my friends were into one thing
and one thing only and can you guess
what that was skateboarding so I did
what any other high schooler would do
and I worked I saved up some money and I
ended up buying a skateboard for myself
but when I walked to the skate park let
me tell you this bro I saw everyone
doing these crazy tricks like backflips
kick flips holy ho bro this
looks so intimidating I had
determination and I gave it a shot and I
failed miserably and about a week until
actually going to the skate park and
practicing i' know the basics of actual
how to ride it properly so I could do
that but here's when something
interesting happens one day I was
practicing how to do a kickflip so I was
practicing that and I was failing
miserably I fell on my knees fell on my
elbows and all that and I see a girl
stare at me from a distance now this is
like a blonde 52
10 out of 10 girl I'm telling you she
was a gem like you know when you think
someone's staring at you but actually
they're staring at someone behind you
and uh you know it gets awkward like
that so I was like yeah um uh and then
suddenly bro I see her walking towards
me and again this is when I'm like
turning back and wondering if she's
moving some to someone behind me or is
it is it me and she she waves at me and
I fall over myor bro I fall over
and it was the most embarrassing
but I got my bearings together I stood
up and I uh I waved at her said Hi and
um she introduced herself let's call her
Jenna you know Jenna came up to me and
she was super super nice she just wanted
to help me out she saw I was like
failing miserably over and she just
wanted to help me out right and uh she
was a professional skateboarder
let me tell you that she was smooth at
this stuff and on top of that bro she
was gorgeous and when she was trying to
show me how to do a certain trick bro
let me tell you bro I could not focus on
the skateboarding I could not I was
focusing on something else and that was
her because she radiated this aura that
I had not found in any other girl up to
this point right I'd been a kissless
virgin like a hugless literally hugless
virgin right I haven't I don't I could
not speak to any girls literally I
thought I was an ugly right
and here I was talking to what I thought
was a literal 10 out of 10 girl and so
you can probably tell I was fumbling
really hard I was mumbling I was
stuttering my words sweating a little
bit as well sweaty Palms it was
embarrassing right and I think she could
probably tell but after that little 30
minute session of her teaching me how to
do things right I somehow mustered up
the amount of Courage needed to actually
ask her Instagram and I don't know how I
did this bro dude if if you if you saw
me back then you would not believe I did
this and I asked if you could do this
again sometime and she was more than
doubt for that bro and at this point my
heart just bursted out of my chest
because I could not believe this I
genuinely could not believe that and so
over the next couple of weeks I would
meet up with Jenna and we would actually
skate together learn learn stuff
together she was mostly teaching me and
this was the best feeling I'd ever have
in my entire life bro let me tell you
that and the more and more I spoke to
her the more and more she opened up to
me the more I opened up to her I you
know you could probably tell but I
naturally started to develop a little
bit
of feelings for her right it was natural
of course the attraction was already
there from the start but you know it
turns out that she was also a really
nice person and she's also taking
interest in me which I have never had in
my whole life up to this point this was
really hard for me to break out of let
me tell you bro she had that grip on me
that no other girl has because I haven't
had an experience like this before but
here's the thing guys I didn't have the
guts to tell her how I felt the main
reason was simply because I thought I
was down here and I thought she was all
the way up here I put her on this
massive pedestal because I simply
thought I yeah I wasn't good enough to
attract a girl like that I didn't think
I was worthy of her I didn't think I
deserved her and I had this feeling
inside my heart for her for months I
literally didn't tell her how I felt for
literal months bro keep that in mind
just a quick break though if you're
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yeah back to the video but then this
happened so one day I was with Jenna
practicing in the park as usual right
and I actually managed to land a
kickflip for the first time in my life
the biggest achievement for me
skateboarding wise was land that
kickflip and I was ecstatic I was so
happy that I land of that and Jenna
saw it as well and I was like holy
bro this is sick I need to ask
her out right now and so I'm walking up
to her all in this Jazzy mood all I'm
super confident I'm going to ask
her on this date or whatever I'm just
going to say how I feel but I see her
looking at her phone on the side with
this kind of confused looking face right
and it's a text message she's texting
someone right and she looks at me and
she asks me
hey Manish um I'm talking to this guy
right now what do you think I should uh
what do you think I should say to to his
text right now and uh
God as soon as I heard that bro I
uh my heart just sank
down it literally just sank bro
apparently Jenna has been talking to
another guy for a couple weeks now and
they've been hanging around hanging out
a lot and and she shows me the text kind
of asking me what to say cuz I'm a guy
right and you know guys yeah and I'm
just like oh yeah yeah um uh say this
you know say this I'm just showing her
what to say but in the back of my mind
bro holy I was in so much
pain it was like a massive uh punch to
the gut and here I thought we had this
massive you know deep connection with
each other but uh yeah I ended off
playing it off like uh it didn't bother
me at all but obviously she could
probably tell it did and after this
point the skateboarding was never the
same the vibe was never the same with
her and a few days later after that she
stopped coming so much to the park right
and I didn't really see her much anymore
after that at all and that was it and I
was just there wondering what could have
potentially happened if I just asked her
earlier if I just told her how I felt
immediately instead of waiting months
things could have ended up differently
and let me tell you bro this entire time
that I was hanging around with Jenna I
know for a fact that she knew I wanted
to tell her something girls biologically
know if us guys are hiding something
they know trust me bro they know right
and us guys we're going to be acting a
lot more differently if we actually are
hiding something from them I bet you've
noticed this yourself actually if you
know say you wanted to speak to a girl
you wanted to approach a girl you wanted
to tell her how you felt you acted a lot
more differently didn't you you acted
more desperate needy girls can tell and
they hate it they don't like it they
don't like you hiding so it's
always best to just let your intentions
out straight away just get it off your
chest because then but it shows her it
shows the girl that you're speaking to
that you simply just don't give a
if this goes if she rejects you if you
know it doesn't go your way you don't
give a cuz you just ask her
straight away how you felt and that's
attractive to girls right you don't want
to be hiding anything from them you
don't because you know it's either you
miss your chance it's either they get
this weird feeling from you that you're
hiding something and you start you know
you act in this weird needy desperate
way it's never a good thing to hide your
intentions from a girl never never never
never obviously you know you can build
up connections slowly you know that's a
bit different but what I'm saying is bro
just don't act fake don't act fake if
you're hanging around with a girl for
the sole reason of potentially wanting
to sleep with her wanting to actually
you know form of romantic relationship
with her but you're you're in the
position that you don't even know if
that's going to happen if she's you
don't even know if she likes you back
bro no no no no no let it all out
immediately and you'll thank yourself
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