Mastering Communication: The Super Power We All Have.
Summary
TLDRIn this motivational video, Chad discusses the immense power of our thoughts, words, and communication, emphasizing how they can shape our lives and influence others. He highlights how societal norms, especially for men, often suppress emotional expression, leading to negative consequences. Chad encourages viewers to practice articulating their thoughts, noting the transformative impact this can have on personal and professional success. He also stresses the importance of mindset, nutrition, and the ability to communicate effectively in achieving one's goals and building meaningful relationships.
Takeaways
- 💭 The superpower we all have is the power of our thoughts and words, which can either build or destroy.
- 🗣️ Communication, especially the way we speak to ourselves and others, can significantly impact our lives and the lives of others.
- 🧠 Suppressing emotions, especially for men, leads to mental health struggles, and it's essential to express feelings instead of bottling them up.
- ⚠️ A high percentage of suicides are men because they are often discouraged from expressing their emotions.
- 🗨️ Talking to yourself regularly helps in articulating your thoughts and practicing communication.
- 📅 The speaker is on a 90-day challenge, creating daily videos to improve their communication and confidence.
- 💬 Words have power: they can uplift or discourage, and how you speak to others and yourself determines outcomes.
- 💰 Everyone has the potential to earn $100,000 a year, and many are held back by their own limiting beliefs.
- 🚛 There are practical paths to financial success without needing a college degree, such as becoming a truck driver.
- 🔑 Communication skills are vital in every area of life—career, relationships, personal growth, and success.
Q & A
What superpower does the speaker believe everyone has but is unaware of?
-The speaker believes the superpower everyone has is the power of thoughts, words, and communication. He emphasizes that people often underestimate how powerful their words and thoughts can be.
Why does the speaker think many men suppress their feelings?
-The speaker believes many men suppress their feelings due to societal conditioning, which teaches them that expressing emotions or seeking help is a sign of weakness. This often leads to bottling up emotions and avoiding therapy or communication.
What does the speaker say about the power of words in shaping others' lives?
-The speaker explains that words have immense power to either destroy or elevate someone's life. He highlights how words can impact someone's mood, self-esteem, or even their entire future, making them a powerful tool for both harm and good.
How does the speaker view the relationship between communication and success?
-The speaker believes that effective communication is key to success in various aspects of life, whether in personal relationships, career opportunities, or achieving life goals. He suggests that good communication skills can lead to better outcomes in interviews, relationships, and business.
What role does self-talk play in improving communication, according to the speaker?
-The speaker advocates for regular self-talk as a way to practice and improve communication skills. By speaking to oneself, even out loud, people can become more confident in articulating their thoughts and better at expressing themselves to others.
What does the speaker mean by 'everybody has the potential to make $100,000 a year'?
-The speaker argues that everyone has the potential to earn a six-figure income, but many people are held back by limiting beliefs and a lack of action. He points out that there are various opportunities, like truck driving, that don’t require a college degree, yet still offer high-paying jobs.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of practicing communication?
-The speaker stresses that becoming a good communicator requires practice, just like any other skill. He explains that it takes time and effort to learn how to express one's thoughts clearly and effectively, but doing so can transform a person’s life.
What does the speaker recommend saying to brighten someone’s day?
-The speaker suggests simple, positive phrases like 'I hope you have a wonderful day' or 'I appreciate you.' He believes that such words can have a noticeable, uplifting impact on people and demonstrate the power of kindness and communication.
How does the speaker view negative thoughts or beliefs about oneself?
-The speaker views negative thoughts and self-doubt as limiting beliefs that can prevent people from achieving their goals. For example, thinking you are 'ugly' or incapable can hold you back, while changing those thoughts can open up new possibilities.
How does the speaker link communication to physical and mental health?
-The speaker believes that mastering communication skills and improving one's nutrition are two of the most transformative things a person can do. He suggests that mental clarity through communication and a healthy diet work hand-in-hand to help people achieve their full potential.
Outlines
💡 The Power of Thoughts and Words
In this paragraph, Chad emphasizes the incredible power of thoughts and words, describing them as a superpower that everyone possesses, yet often underestimates. He discusses how words can destroy or elevate someone's life and stresses the importance of recognizing their impact. Chad also reflects on his growing awareness of his own words’ power through YouTube videos and comments. He touches on societal pressures, particularly for men, to suppress emotions, which he links to the high rate of male suicides. Chad encourages speaking openly, even with oneself, as a way to practice and harness this power.
🎯 Accountability and Achieving Success
Chad discusses how personal accountability is crucial for achieving success, particularly financial success. He challenges the notion that not everyone can make six figures, arguing that many who disagree are either arrogant or making excuses. He provides examples of how to achieve this income, such as obtaining a Commercial Driver’s License (CDL) and pursuing high-paying truck driving jobs. Chad encourages viewers to take advantage of opportunities and stop making excuses, asserting that anyone can reach this financial goal with the right mindset and determination.
🌟 The Impact of Positive Words on Others
In this paragraph, Chad highlights the transformative power of positive words, not just for oneself but for others. He shares how a simple gesture, like telling someone to 'have a wonderful day,' can brighten their mood and elevate their spirit. Chad emphasizes the ripple effect of such words, explaining how small acts of kindness through communication can reshape lives. He ties this back to the importance of mastering communication, asserting that one’s thoughts and words can redefine their future and the world around them.
🚀 Communication: The Key to Success
Chad wraps up by underlining the fundamental role communication plays in every aspect of life, from personal relationships to professional achievements. He stresses that effective communication is essential for success in sales, business, interviews, and even relationships. Chad encourages viewers to practice and improve their communication skills as part of achieving their life goals. He concludes with a call to action, asking viewers to comment 'communicate' to reinforce the message. Chad expresses gratitude for his audience, stating that their support motivates his daily discipline to improve both himself and others.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Superpower
💡Thoughts
💡Words
💡Communication
💡Suppression
💡Mental health
💡Self-talk
💡Practice
💡Judgment
💡Accountability
Highlights
We possess a powerful superpower: our thoughts, words, and the way we communicate, which can either elevate or destroy someone's life.
Men are often taught to suppress their emotions, which contributes to a high rate of suicide among them.
Jordan Peterson highlights that having suicidal thoughts is normal, but planning them is a warning sign to seek help.
Talking to yourself and practicing communication can help articulate your thoughts and alleviate stress.
The speaker has been uploading videos daily for 44 days as part of a 90-day challenge to become a better communicator.
The speaker aims to reach and impact people through his videos, emphasizing the importance of communication and self-belief.
The belief that not everyone can earn six figures is seen as an excuse or arrogance; anyone can achieve financial success with the right mindset.
The speaker encourages people to seek opportunities, like truck driving, that can lead to high income without requiring a college degree.
Words have the power to define your future, influencing everything from job interviews to personal relationships.
Communication skills are essential for success in various areas of life, including business, sales, and personal relationships.
Positive words can uplift others; a simple 'have a wonderful day' can brighten someone's mood significantly.
Developing communication skills and maintaining good physical and mental hygiene are crucial for self-improvement.
The speaker emphasizes the power of repetition and positive reinforcement to instill strong communication skills in others.
He expresses gratitude for the support and acknowledges that this journey is as much about his own growth as it is about helping others.
The speaker advocates for consistency, discipline, and taking small steps towards self-improvement and effective communication.
Transcripts
did you know did you know there's a
superpower that every one of us has we
don't know that we have it we don't know
how powerful it is we have no idea that
we even harness the amount of power and
strength inside of us welcome back to
another episode of sweat talk my name is
Chad the superpower that I'm talking
about is our thoughts our
words and the way that we communicate
I've already done a video on this I've
already done a video talking talking
about this but I don't know that I did
it any
justice you don't realize how powerful
your words are you don't realize how
powerful your thoughts are your words
can literally destroy somebody's life
your words can destroy something that's
amazing and wonderful on the other side
your words can also Elevate somebody's
mood your words can be so impactful to
somebody that you can make or break
their lives if that isn't powerful if
that isn't what what power truly is if
you don't find that powerful I don't
understand and I don't know what power
truly is the more YouTube videos I make
the more comments I get the more I
see the power of the words that I have
the power of my thoughts and the power
that I hold with inside my mind and we
all have it every single one of us has
it over the course of Our Lives we've
been told that we need to suppress it
especially if you're a man we've been
taught that we don't need to express our
feelings TMI right so instead what what
we end up doing is we bottle that
up inside we don't sink therapy we don't
ever tell anybody and if there was
somebody that truly wanted to know and
when somebody honestly asks and wants to
know what's wrong with you because they
can tell that something's bothering you
because you've kept that bottled up
inside and you've never learned or you
suppressed the ability to turn your
thoughts into words your answer to them
is I don't know and it's because number
one you don't know how to turn your
thoughts into words because we don't
practice it and number two you think
that you're going to sound weak if you
do know how to turn your thoughts into
words and actually tell somebody what it
is you're feeling because of the
programming that you've witnessed
throughout your life the programming
that you've experienced throughout your
life you know 85% of all suicides are
men why is that do you see the
correlation there that you're taught
that you're weak if you try to talk to
somebody you're taught that you're weak
throughout your entire life if you try
to confide in somebody because of
everything that's bottled up inside of
you you know Jordan Peterson he said
having thoughts of suicide is normal
pretty much everybody will experience
them it will happen from time to time
but if you're to the point where you
need to plan it where you start planning
it out you need to find
help and you need to not feel weak about
it because that means something's wrong
and you're on the edge you're on the
verge of being a statistic of that 85%
one powerful thing that you can start
doing right now as this video plays or
after you decide is to just start
talking to yourself and talk to yourself
all the time like the crazy guy that's
high on drugs walking on the street and
do it unapologetically to people around
you I haven't always been able to talk
to this camera I've hav always been able
to put my thoughts into words this is
actually a new thing for me very very
very new thing to me I've only been
uploading I've only been uploading
YouTube videos like this or trying to
get to this point I think I'm on day 44
and and I've done one every single day
for 44 days so far and I'm almost
halfway through a 90-day challenge of
uploading a video every single day the
reason why I started doing these videos
this is something that I've wanted to do
my whole life but I never had the balls
like I said in one of my earlier videos
I was afraid of other people's judgments
and one day I just said you know what
it I don't I don't give a
about their judgments CU I truly don't
but it's not easy to put yourself out
there for the entire world to see
regardless of what you think people uh
what what people think or how you allow
other people's beliefs or feelings to
impact your life but to get to the point
where I can actually
walk and talk to the the camera as I'm
hiking through the mountains to get to
this
point I have literal months of practice
just talking to myself and putting my
thoughts into words becoming a great
speaker is one of my life goals I
realize the power that the great
speakers of the world have I realize the
impact
that they can have on somebody's life
and you guys sharing with me and
commenting even though I'm not a great
speaker
yet I'm not famous I'm actually really
new at this but you guys are sharing
with me the impact of words and the
positive impact that even somebody like
me can have on your lives and on your
mindset on your feelings and your
emotions you know even if even if I can
only put a smile on your face for the
couple minutes that this video is
playing and even if this video only made
it to two or three people I consider
that a job well done I consider that
great I realize my videos are not any
award-winning Sundance Film Festival
winning whatever I get that that's not
what I'm shooting for that's not my goal
I'd love to have a million subscribers
but it's not for fame it's because I
want to reach out to people I'm sick and
tired of seeing the world suffer I'm
sick and tired of of people not knowing
that they have to hold themselves
accountable they have to experience that
I'm sick and tired of people not knowing
or understanding the power that they
hold within themselves to accomplish
anything that they want you know I
always say it I say it all the time and
people disagree with me all the time
everybody has the potential to make
$100,000 a Year everybody and if you're
not why aren't you that's your fault and
I get I get I get I get backlashed for
it all the time even from people that
are making $100,000 a year and I I I see
that as arrogance as if those people
that are making six figures seven
figures a year those are the ones
that when they when they say that not
everybody can make that kind of an
income I see that as arrogance because
they want to think that they're better
than than than everybody else and then
the people that that try to argue with
me that aren't making $100,000 a year
same thing what's your part in that what
is the reason that you're not making
$100,000 a year there's no reason
there's no reason you're not making
$200,000 a year there's excuses but
there's no reasons you can do it and I'm
here as proof that anybody can do it and
you don't need a college degree for it
I've laid out several jobs in the past
that you can go out there today or
tomorrow and start making $100,000 a
year and you don't need a college
education for it go get a CDL go to
truck driving school drive truck I
actually know two truckers each of them
are making $100,000 a year the ones that
aren't it's because they're not doing
over the road I have my CDL I didn't
even need to get it I just got it my
compan my company offered it to me so I
got it why not they paid for the school
I got lucky there but why wouldn't you
go work towards something that could
potentially serve you in the future
especially if it's free you can go get a
job at if you're
21 but you can go get a job at that uh
Swift they used to if as long as you
sign a contract with them Swift would
pay for you to get your CDL nothing out
of pocket you don't have to pay him back
you just uh used to be you had to do 3
years you had to sign a contract to stay
with them for 3 years while you're there
for 3 years start putting money away to
buy your own truck start driving for
yourself you got to remember $100,000 a
year anymore a lot of people still look
at it as a covered a coveted number it's
not that much anymore and it doesn't go
as far but if you're already living off
of $50,000 a year how much does an
additional $50,000 a year change your
life where there's a will there's a
way but what I'm getting at with that is
there's power in those words of the
people that say that not everybody can
make six figures a year
and it doesn't matter if you're that
person that's making six figures or if
you're the person that's not making six
figures either way the person that is is
trying to hold the other person back and
they want to believe that they're that
they're somehow better than the other
person that's making less money they
want to believe that that they've
achieved something that not everybody
can achieve and those words are going to
hold somebody back from attempting to
from putting their their one foot in
front of the other in the direction that
they want to go just like the person
that's not when they tell themselves
repeatedly that they can't make $100,000
a year they're right and they'll never
find out what it's like to put that foot
in front of the other because they
already they've already been defeated in
their own mind and they're doing that
through their words and their thoughts
your words are powerful and you
don't even realize it when you find that
that six-figure job when you finally
land that that opportunity to go
interview for it how do you think that
interview what do you think that
interview is based off of your parents
and your words the words you say in that
interview could change the entire
outcome of your life what about about
that girl that you've been wanting to
that you've been wanting to date that
dream wife that You' wanted what's going
to land you that date it's your
words it's how you car yourself and how
you speak it has nothing to do with if
you think you're ugly that's a belief
that you've made up in your own head
that's going to limit you in your
potential outcome your thoughts and your
beliefs once you express them once you
actually put your thoughts into words
and you talk to yourself and you speak
to yourself that's going to do so much
for you that's going to allow you to
unload that you been carrying on
your shoulders it's going to give you
the opportunity to free your mind it'll
make you capable and find the
opportunities of believing in yourself
but there again it's not something that
just one day you wake up
with and poof you're now you're now a
good communicator you now know how to
articulate your thoughts you now know
how to
decompress and alleviate stress the
takes practice it takes a lot of
practice but it's worth it your thoughts
can reshape your future your thoughts
can reshape the world therefore so can
your words you know something as simple
as saying have a wonderful day or I hope
you have a wonderful day I love that one
and I say it all the time because I
absolutely mean it but it also is
genuine and it expresses to people that
I give a next time you go to Circle
K or whatever convenience store you go
to tell the clerk that just say
it pass that shed on I hope you have a
wonderful day and I appreciate you you
and when you say that you can actually
see people's people's eyes brighten you
can see their day
lighten you can see their mood just
Elevate it's incredible it's absolutely
incredible and I love seeing it and it
proves just how just how powerful we all
are your thoughts and your words will
reshape your future your thoughts and
your words will refi will Define you in
your future how you talk to yourself can
redefine you can Define you in your
future
the future you depends on it something
this small and taking such small
incremental steps to developing your
ability to put your thoughts in words
and communicate will literally transform
your life then you get your nutrition
involved you get that straight you
get the sugar out of your the
carbohydrates out of your diet you
become Unstoppable the entire world will
open up for you things you never thought
possible will start appearing for you I
firmly believe that those are the two
most transformative things that you can
do in your life learn how to communicate
put your thoughts in the words and your
nutrition there's nothing more powerful
and they both go hand in hand don't just
think that you can walk up and quit your
job tomorrow and everything's going to
be fine it's not how it works you still
have to devise a plan you still have to
find those baby steps you still have to
start with a direction you have to start
somewhere you have to build momentum but
the important part is you just have to
get started so let's recap this for a
minute if you want to get ahead in life
if you want to better yourself
communication is key if you want to do
good in sales you have to be able to
communicate if you want to have your own
business you have to be able to
communicate you have to generate those
customers and those sales if you want to
get that job that you ever that you
dreamt of you have to be able to
communicate if you want to get that
girl of your dreams you have to be able
to communicate to get her to talk to you
I don't care how good-looking you are or
you know you could be
the the six foot what is it the triple
six the six- pack six foot six figure uh
Chad it doesn't matter it doesn't matter
if you can't communicate you're not
going to get that girl if you want to
have once you get that girl if you want
to have a happy marriage you're going to
have to learn how to communicate if you
want to propel yourself ahead anywhere
in life you have to know how to
communicate it doesn't matter appearance
does help so dress nice look nice take
care of your hygiene both physical and
mental and focus on focus in on that
superpower on that ability to
communicate so if you made it this far
do me a favor down in the comments
section you know it put communicate
simple and let's help drive that home to
everybody that sees
this current and future and you think
about it if 100 people if 100
people right communicate and somebody
sees all that and they're reminded 100
times in one second the power of
communication how how well do you think
that's going to stick to somebody how
well is that going to see how hard is
that going to sink into their mind and
how deep it's necessary man it is
absolutely necessary but it requires
practice and a lot of it that's all I
got for today guys I appreciate every
one of you I'm so grateful for for you
guys showing up I I hope I hope like
hell you guys are showing up for
yourselves I'm I'm extremely grateful
for all the support that you've been
giving me and the motivation which at
this point is Extreme discipline to show
up every day for you and for myself and
for my family because this is helping me
become my this is helping me better
myself as well I'm forever great forever
grateful for you and I hope you have a
wonderful day peace
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