Men Start Missing You More When This Happens....
Summary
TLDRThe video script offers insights into psychological triggers that make people miss you, emphasizing the importance of creating a sense of absence to foster longing. It discusses how unconditional love can be detrimental and suggests making your love conditional to create a sense of insecurity that can make others value and miss you more. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and provides strategies like physical and emotional distance, creating competition, and lowering energy to evoke feelings of missing someone. The script concludes with a call to action for viewers to join the Mindful Attraction University for comprehensive courses on attraction and relationships.
Takeaways
- đą **Missed Opportunities**: People often realize their love for someone after they're gone, highlighting the importance of creating absence to foster longing.
- đ **Conditional Love**: To make someone miss you, ensure they understand your love is conditional and not guaranteed, creating a sense of potential loss.
- đ« **Avoid Neediness**: Displaying too much neediness can prevent someone from missing you, as it implies you'll always be available.
- đȘ **Be Willing to Walk Away**: Having the readiness to leave a relationship can make you more attractive and make the other person miss you.
- đ€ **Create Emotional Distance**: Occasionally creating emotional distance can make someone miss you more, even when you're physically present.
- đ **Physical Absence**: Physically distancing yourself can lead to increased missing, especially if the absence is prolonged.
- đ **Induce Competition**: Suggesting potential interest from others can make you more desirable and make your partner miss you more.
- đ **Support During Low Times**: Being there for someone during their emotionally down times can make them miss you when you're not around.
- đ **Nighttime Withdrawal**: Pulling away at night can be particularly effective in making someone miss you due to increased emotional vulnerability.
- đ **Lowered Energy**: Subtly lowering your energy and enthusiasm in interactions can make the other person question your interest and miss you.
Q & A
What is the main idea presented in the video script?
-The main idea is about understanding psychological triggers that make people miss someone and applying strategies to create that longing in relationships.
What does the quote 'Love Never Dies of starvation but often of indigestion' imply?
-It suggests that love doesn't end because of lack of affection but often because of being overwhelmed or taken for granted.
What is the 'simple art' mentioned in the video that can help maintain interest in a relationship?
-The 'simple art' refers to creating an environment where your love is perceived as conditional and not guaranteed, thus making the other person value and miss you.
How does the story of the dog 'Missy' illustrate the concept of missing someone?
-The story of Missy shows that the realization of potential loss can intensify the feeling of missing someone, as the speaker didn't truly miss the dog until she was gone for good.
What is meant by 'unconditional love' in the context of the video?
-In the video, 'unconditional love' refers to a love that is given without any conditions or expectations, which paradoxically can prevent the other person from missing you because they feel secure in your constant presence.
Why is it suggested to not always be emotionally available in a relationship?
-Being emotionally available all the time can lead to 'emotional indigestion'.ć¶ć°ç'emotional fasting' or pulling away can make the other person miss you more.
How does physical distance play a role in making someone miss you?
-Physical distance, especially when it's unexpected or prolonged, can make people miss you more because it creates a tangible sense of absence.
What is the role of competition in making someone value your presence?
-Competition can create a sense of doubt and anxiety, making the person feel that they might lose you, thus increasing their appreciation and desire for your presence.
Why is it effective to pull away from someone when they are emotionally down?
-When someone is emotionally down, they are more vulnerable and receptive to new influences, so your absence can create a deeper longing for your support and presence.
What is the significance of the timing mentioned in the script, not texting after 8 p.m.?
-The timing of not texting after 8 p.m. is considered because people are more emotionally vulnerable at night, and your absence can make a stronger impact, causing them to miss you more.
How does lowering your energy towards someone make them miss you?
-Lowering your energy can signal a change in your interest level, prompting the other person to reflect on their actions and potentially miss the way things were when you were more engaged.
What is the 'Mindful Attraction University' mentioned at the end of the script?
-The 'Mindful Attraction University' is a bundle offer that gives access to all of the speaker's courses at a discounted price, including bonuses and a money-back guarantee.
Outlines
đ Understanding the Psychology of Missing Someone
The speaker starts by warning that the content will become intense. They discuss the importance of understanding psychological triggers that make people miss you, comparing it to individual psychology. Using a quote about love and indigestion, the speaker suggests that if someone doesn't miss you, it's either because they don't love you or you're doing something wrong. The goal is to master an art that keeps people interested long-term. The speaker shares a personal story about their dog, Missy, to illustrate the point that people miss what they think they've lost forever. They emphasize the need to communicate that your love is conditional and to be willing to walk away, which creates an unstable environment in the other person's mind, making them miss you.
đ The Power of Physical and Emotional Distance
The speaker talks about the importance of creating physical and emotional distance to make someone miss you. They explain that being consistently physically close can lead to emotional indigestion, and occasional emotional fasting can strengthen the bond. The speaker also mentions that physical absence intensifies the desire for someone over time. They discuss the concept of competition and how it can create a sense of unease and increase the value of a person in another's eyes. The speaker shares a personal anecdote about a girl they dated who made them feel more attracted to her by creating a sense of competition.
đ Leveraging Emotional States and Timing
The speaker discusses how to make someone miss you when they are emotionally down, comparing it to how cult leaders target vulnerable individuals. They explain that people are more open to new ideas and connections when they are sad or depressed. The speaker also talks about the best times to pull away from people to make them miss you more, specifically at night when people are more emotionally vulnerable. They suggest not texting people after 8 p.m. to create an air of mystery and make them wonder about your intentions.
đ„ Creating a Sense of Loss Through Energy Shift
The speaker explains how to create a sense of loss in someone by subtly shifting your energy towards them. They suggest tactics like responding slower, seeing them less often, and dimming your enthusiasm to create a haunting sensation that makes the other person question your interest. The speaker also promotes their courses, offering a bundle deal for all their courses with additional bonuses, and encourages viewers to take advantage of the offer and spread the message to help others.
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Keywords
đĄPsychological Triggers
đĄLove
đĄMiss
đĄUnconditional Love
đĄPhysical Distance
đĄEmotional Distance
đĄCompetition
đĄTestosterone Response
đĄNeuroplasticity
đĄDark Side
đĄEnergy Shift
Highlights
Understanding psychological triggers that cause people to miss you is crucial for maintaining long-term interest.
Love often fades not from lack of affection, but from overindulgence and lack of absence.
To make someone miss you, master the art of creating a sense of absence and longing.
Men are said to miss you the most at a specific time and place, which can be leveraged to intensify their thoughts and fantasies about you.
The willingness to walk away is key to making someone miss you.
Unconditional love can prevent people from missing you because they feel secure in your presence.
Communicate that your love is conditional to create a sense of potential loss.
Physical distance is vital for maintaining attraction and can make people miss you more.
Competition can increase the desire for someone by making them feel they could lose you to another.
Being emotionally distant can make someone miss you even when you're physically present.
People tend to miss you more when they're emotionally down, as they seek comfort and connection.
At night, people are more emotionally vulnerable, making it an effective time to create a sense of absence.
Lowering your energy or enthusiasm can make someone question your interest and potentially miss you more.
The speaker offers a bundle deal for all courses at a significantly reduced price.
Bonuses are provided with the bundle, which are almost like courses within a course.
There's a 14-day money-back guarantee for those not satisfied with the purchase.
The speaker aims to empower women and help them establish healthier relationships through his courses.
Transcripts
warning towards the end of the video
it's going to get toxic let's begin with
the video knowing the psychological
triggers that causes people to miss you
is as important as in as knowing their
individual psychology Like the quote
says Love Never Dies of starvation but
often of indigestion meaning they have
to miss you if they love you if they
don't miss you it's because one they
don't love you or two you're doing
something wrong which at the end of the
video we aim to fix all you have to do
is Master one simple art which if you do
and you will will give you the power to
keep anyone interested in you long term
no more getting turned off after one or
two months no more unsatisfying
relationships that fizzle out and at the
end of the video I'm going to tell you
one weird place and time when men
actually miss you the most and how you
can use that with one simple maneuver to
make them think of you and fantasize
about you with more intensity and to be
honest with you it's kind of evil so you
ready situation and you want to be able
to make somebody miss you but you don't
know how to apply these strategies
because they're abstract click on the
description down below where it says
work with me one1 and there you'll have
me on the phone and I can tell you
exactly how to fix your situation today
click it and let's continue with the
story that I'm about to tell you to
illustrate the point of this whole video
my mom had a dog right and her name was
Missy I miss her dearly but my character
flaw as a human is that I tend to take
things for granted and while I was
living with my dog I loved her but I
didn't realize how much I loved her I
would leave for like months and I would
miss her but I wouldn't miss her like
that because I knew she was always going
to be there right and then one day go it
makes me it makes me kind of mad to
think about this to be honest with you
I'm still just angers me one day my mom
told me she gave up the dog because she
was getting sick with it and I
understand but the problem was that she
didn't ask me if she if I wanted to take
care of it and then she was like Del I
didn't know you car I'm like [Â __Â ] [Â __Â ]
you me you didn't know I care she was
like you never did anything you never
but I'm like I walk the dog all the time
what makes you think anyways all of a
sudden I started missing her like crazy
nothing changed it's not that I didn't
love her more but that I felt like she
wasn't going to come back anymore and
the truth is she never came back she was
adopted to somebody else and I'm never
going to see her again you know anyway
so that created a type of missing that
was on a completely different level than
before and what's the principle behind
this is that I know she I think she's
never I'm never going to see her again
the reason why people don't miss you a
lot of the times it's not that you don't
pull away but that whenever you leave or
whenever you have a discussion with
someone they you you walk around with
your heart so open you are so freaking
needy that the chances of you ever
leaving them in their minds is an
impossibility you have promised
unconditional love and that
unconditional love no matter what I do
will cause them that whenever you pull
away they're not going to miss you you
can't give people unconditional love
your love at the end of the day is
conditional and you have to make sure
that they know that the love that you
have is conditional and how do you do
that well understand that one these
relationships will end and two let them
know that your love is not condition is
not unconditional like you literally
communicate that to them and above all
in your heart you have to be willing to
walk away there is a certain energy that
radiates from you you don't even have to
walk away just have the willingness just
keep your hand on your sword even for a
friend keep it in your hand and it'll
give you a radiation that's positive
it's like somebody who walks around
knowing to have a gun right they they
walk around with a certain confidence
that they know that if [Â __Â ] goes down
they can protect themselves right it's
that confidence it's peace through
so then when you pull away or then all
of a sudden you do you you are not there
their minds because they know you do
love them but it's not it's not
unconditional it naturally creates an
unstable environment in their hearts
that causes them to miss you a little
bit more not so much where they get
traumatized but enough for them to feel
that tickle in their heart speaking of
heart I remember when this girl made me
fall in love with her and I honestly I
bring her up a lot because she did
everything correctly and when I was we
were dating we were not dating dating
but we were dating you get what I'm
saying and the truth is she was actually
experimenting with dudes with me she was
into women but she was like you know
what let's give the male species a try
right I did a bad job I added she went
back to girls but anyway we met in New
York City I would miss her but the thing
that made me like her so much more and a
part of me I think it was my own traumas
emotional distance even if it's for one
day two days causes people to miss you
even in your presence that is the only
thing that will make somebody miss you
even in your presence emotional distance
and that emotional distance was felt in
when she was there I remember like one
time she she she she was sitting far
away from me actually this was another
girl actually yeah this is another girl
um where she was sit far away from me
and I'm like why is she sitting so far
away from me right and then a few the
next day when she would hang out with me
she would sit close but then once every
before time she was just want her
physical distance and that made me feel
insecure and I remember just I'm like
what the [Â __Â ] was going on why is she
doing this right and that's a principle
that I learned about psychology is that
if you are consistently always
physically close you might create
emotional indigestion it's best from
time to time just like fasting where you
don't eat sometimes give them an
emotional fast of your of your emotional
presence don't be so emotionally there
wanting their attention giving them the
creepy look learn the art of
strategically from time to time
emotionally pulling away from them now
what's even more powerful is a physical
pulling away people usually miss you
when you're not physically there the
longer they wait the more they'll miss
you right time has a has a tendency to
intensify the desire of what we
currently desire and a lot of the times
if you're not if the person is not
missing you it's simply because you're
you guys are just always physically
there um that's why I had the most my as
a as a dating coach when I had the most
work was during the pandemic I'm like I
was like Yo God please bring the black
death Jesus Christ if this is what it
means getting money please bring me the
Black Death please bring me the [Â __Â ]
birth flu please right but it the reason
why so many people were having
relationship issues or were having were
starting to miss their Partners or
starting to get tired of their partner
there weren't there wasn't no physical
distance you have to create some
physical distance like your life depends
on it you might say oh but I live with
them okay but then be in another room
and tell them you want to be alone even
if it even if it offends them who cares
if it offends them even better they'll
get over it but the point is physical
distance is vitally important when it
comes to maintaining attraction and if
you don't have it you're missing out the
next one is competition Robert Green let
them know how to create competition
there is no more powerful way to hint
that you are losing your desire make
your interest in another too obvious
though and it could backfire this isn't
the situation in which you want to seem
cruel doubt and anxiety are the effects
you are after make your possible
interest in another barely perceptible
to the naked eye once someone has fallen
for you any physical absence will create
unease you are literally creating space
your absences at this latter point of
the seduction should seem at least
somewhat Justified you are insinuating
not a blatant brush off but a slight
doubt perhaps you could have found some
reason to stay perhaps you are losing
interest perhaps there is someone else
in your absence their appreciation of
you will grow they will forget your
faults forgive your sins the moment you
return they will chase after you as you
desire all people to see your true value
sometimes when you are not around the
opposite sex people forget how beautiful
you are like I swear to God I dated this
one girl many years ago she was she I
think she she was Swedish but she lived
in London right but she would travel to
New York City and she would stay with me
for a few weeks at a time and like the
dumb as that I am dumbass that I am I
will take it for granted and like I will
pull away sometimes but then the one
time this made me realize I really
didn't like her like that the one time
when I started liking her more was when
I realized how guys reacted to her like
when guys would see her or better yet
when women would see her they would be
in [Â __Â ] awe at her like just awe like
I'm I'm like [Â __Â ] blind like I would
noce people giving her discounts giving
me discounts because of her I'm like
what the [Â __Â ] going on she would get
invited to parties right in front of me
and I wouldn't even get invited by them
right that's how it was but when when
there were people giving her attention
that's when I'm like oh [Â __Â ] she is
really attractive so what does that say
well that competition or to eliciting
create or or causing a testosterone
responsing a guy right like me right
your eyes first of all your eyes become
sharper right when when there's
competition your eyes become sharper you
start seeing details and that detail
also means you start to see the true
nature of the person they are really
attractive emotionally competition
causes you to want them no more to
possess them more it becomes obsessive
like a drug rush now you don't have to
bang the whole football team to create
this effect right no I don't want you to
do that and then tell people you watch
my channel what you want to be able to
do is to just have people of the
opposite sex in your life in other words
have life don't just be at home all day
do something outside of work you could
even talk about like for example with me
when I when I had a drawing teacher one
of my teachers was a female was a woman
right and I would tell the girl that I
was dating I was like y she's a great
she's a great man she be teaching some
good [Â __Â ] right and I remember the girl
that was dating she got jealous because
of her right and now she the lady was a
[Â __Â ] 45 48 I don't know her age right
and you know so it's kind of like I'm
not I'm not into older women and stuff
like that but she knew that but yet she
still felt jealous right and so it's
important for people to have that type
of jealousy from time to time it's
healthy it compliments me it makes me
feel nice right but also in her eyes for
that moment she realizes how what she
has right and and this is the thing is
that you don't know what you have until
you see other people appreciating it and
that's a very true thing and so you got
to give them that dose like like a like
like giving people their multivitamins
from time to time let them see the
presence of the opposite sex around you
they don't even they may you may not
even be doing anything with them but
just let them see it and then they'll
start missing you even more especially
if you are on vacation now of warning if
you have a history of cheating this is
not for you now the next one is when
they're emotionally down this is what
Cults use cult me cult leaders find
people who are emotionally down because
when you are sad depressed you like a
wax that's mendable you could you could
move it around the sadness and the
depression and the low self-esteem
temporary or permanent makes you more
pliable more you're literally you become
more open to new ideas when you are in
an emotionally down place right that's
why you become transformed or you grow
whenever you're in a dark place because
that's when you have the most
neuroplasticity right when you feel like
you're stress sad and that's why long
meditations for example when you
meditate like I do meditation with you
it's long meditations that make you feel
uncomfortable creates a gap of
neuroplasticity where you can actually
gain new habits right positive habits
and negative habits so if you're in a
negative State of Mind depressed and
people offer you drugs you might get
addicted as opposed to people offering
you drugs when you're happy and so
because of that you feel an emptiness in
your heart and any pulling away from
people will cause you to miss some more
honestly this is why I the girl the girl
the guy girl this why I fell in love
with her a big a big reason was because
she called me at a moment when I was
depressed she called me at a moment when
I was when I was down when I felt like I
I was looking for purpose and she came
into my life at coincidentally at the
perfect moment right and so feeling down
naturally when they're depress and sad
will cause them to gravitate towards you
so whenever that happens you got to make
sure you're there for them right because
it's one thing for them to miss you
because you're distant when they miss
you or are sad and they need your
support and you're not there it it it
might backfire on you and they might
hate you honestly they may not want to
be around you simply because you were
not there for them we needed you the
most and now look this is the last one
all right this is going to be a little
evil let's go let's go over here so we
might go straight to help it's in the
night time I have a theory and I believe
it's true right people fall in love
during two times during the morning when
they wake up and realiz they're in love
or when they wake up in the morning
sometimes you realize you're out of love
and at night time because that's when
you're actually most emotionally weak
because you've gone throughout the whole
day and so at the night time is when
we're more accessible to our Dark Side
literally that dark side that's when you
have your most desires that are
compulsive at the night time in the
morning you usually don't have those
compulsions those urges that are dark
and detrimental to you so because of
that the best time to pull away from me
from people is in the in the night time
right so this is an evil one right just
just in case Satan is back there if you
want to create this impression just
don't text them after 8 p.m. don't text
people after 800 p.m. right if you
especially when you're getting to know
them in the beginning if you do that
people are going to say people are going
to think what's going on and and since
you guys are not in a relationship it's
not cheating you're not doing anything
but just not texting people after 8:00
p.m. will cause people to think what's
going on now the last one is lowering
your energies okay lowering your energy
is literally just lowering your energy
like we talked about earlier where
you're not as enthusiast
he's like you know imagine me talking to
you guys like this right that's this is
Father Alex right and now just imagine
me talking like this yeah of course now
this is Father Alex you're get a sense
that there something off right and when
somebody's dating you and they sense
that energy shift immediately the mind
because it's selfish it's self-absorbed
everything's about them they're going to
say I did something wrong and that will
cause them to overcompensate and start
to do nicer things to you this is why
we're going to hell do nicer things so
that they can elicit their reaction out
of you right where if I think you're
pulling away I'll text you and then I'll
I'll start to closely pay attention to
your response time right more I'm paying
more attention to this now than before
the reason why is because they're you're
like okay this mother are they losing
interest or what right and so you're
just you're fishing for interest you're
fishing for what's going on and usually
honestly this one is the most Insidious
one I'll be honest to you simply because
it it creeps up on people the energy
shift strategy is is more so it's not
direct wed but it kind of like they're
like one day they're showering they're
like you know what lately they're being
a little off right and how do you shift
your energy like I said slower response
time less you see them less tiny bit
less right so if you saw them five times
a week you see them four times a week
right you're not maybe you're not
staying over maybe your texts are less
enthusiastic you're you're you're
dimming everything down a few percentage
Point you're not dimming one thing down
completely you're just from here to here
right and you're doing that to multiple
interaction multip things like the the
way you text all that kind of stuff and
that will create a
haunting Sensation that they'll say okay
what the [Â __Â ] is going on are they
really losing interest in me and that's
a really powerful way to doing it this
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