See The Purpose - Motivational Video (ft. Nick Vujicic)
Summary
TLDRNick Vujicic shares his journey from feeling inadequate due to his physical disability to discovering his purpose in life. He recounts the bullying and depression he faced, questioning his existence and purpose. Despite his challenges, Nick chose to focus on gratitude over anger, embracing his identity and finding joy in life. His story inspires others to believe in themselves and overcome societal judgments.
Takeaways
- đ The impact of appearance on self-esteem and social acceptance is significant, especially during school and early life stages.
- đ„ Fear of being alone and not being good enough can lead to a desire to change oneself to fit in with others' expectations.
- đą Negative comments from others can lead to internalizing a belief of inadequacy and failure.
- đ° The realization of personal limitations and the inability to change certain circumstances can cause depression and a search for purpose.
- đ€ Questions about the meaning and purpose of life arise when faced with uncontrollable challenges.
- đ€ The support and answers from family and medical professionals may not always provide the clarity one seeks.
- đȘ The choice to either give up or keep going is a pivotal decision in overcoming adversity.
- đ§ Believing in oneself rather than succumbing to others' judgments is a powerful mindset to adopt.
- đ A shift in focus from what is missing to what is present can lead to a more positive and grateful outlook on life.
- đ Embracing one's identity and purpose can transform how others perceive and interact with you, leading to meaningful connections.
Q & A
What impact did people's opinions about Nick's appearance have on him?
-People's opinions about Nick's appearance had a significant impact on him, leading to feelings of inadequacy and depression. He felt that he was not good enough and that he was a failure because of his physical differences.
What was the turning point for Nick from feeling depressed to his current state?
-Nick's turning point came when he started to shift his focus from what he didn't have to what he could be thankful for. He chose to be grateful for his 'chicken drumsticks' instead of being angry for not having arms and legs.
How did Nick's perception of his purpose in life change over time?
-Initially, Nick questioned his purpose in life, wondering if he was just there to live and die. However, as he began to accept himself and his circumstances, he discovered a sense of purpose and started to love his life.
What questions did Nick ask himself that led to his transformation?
-Nick asked himself who he really was and what his identity meant beyond his physical limitations. This introspection helped him to redefine his self-worth and find a new perspective on his life.
How did Nick's relationship with others change as he embraced his identity?
-As Nick embraced his identity and found purpose, people's perception of him shifted. They no longer felt sorry for him but rather saw him as a person with a meaningful life and a valuable contribution to make.
What role did Nick's choice to believe in himself play in overcoming his challenges?
-Nick's choice to believe in himself was crucial in overcoming his challenges. He chose to believe in his own potential rather than succumbing to the judgments of others, which empowered him to overcome his struggles.
Why did Nick feel that he couldn't change his circumstances?
-Nick felt that he couldn't change his circumstances because his physical condition was beyond his control, and he couldn't simply 'fix' his lack of limbs like one would fix a broken hair.
What was the significance of Nick's realization that there are things in life that are out of one's control?
-Nick's realization that there are things in life out of one's control was significant because it led him to accept his situation and focus on what he could control, such as his attitude and perspective on life.
How did Nick's experiences with depression influence his outlook on life?
-Nick's experiences with depression led him to question the purpose of his life deeply. It was through this struggle that he found a new sense of purpose and learned the importance of self-belief and gratitude.
What advice would Nick give to others who are struggling with self-acceptance and self-worth?
-Nick would likely advise others to focus on gratitude and self-belief, to accept what they cannot change, and to find purpose and meaning in their lives despite their challenges.
How did Nick's journey of self-discovery affect his interactions with others?
-Nick's journey of self-discovery allowed him to interact with others from a place of authenticity and strength. As he embraced his identity, his interactions became more meaningful and less about his physical limitations.
Outlines
đ Struggles with Self-Image and Identity
The speaker, Nick Vujicic, discusses the impact of appearance on self-esteem during school years and how societal opinions can influence one's self-worth. He shares his personal experiences of being bullied and feeling inadequate due to his physical condition without arms and legs. Nick grapples with depression and existential questions about the purpose of life. He emphasizes the importance of choice in overcoming adversity, questioning whether to succumb to societal judgments or believe in oneself.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄAppearance
đĄFear of being alone
đĄSelf-worth
đĄDepression
đĄPurpose
đĄAcceptance
đĄControl
đĄChoice
đĄGratitude
đĄIdentity
đĄFriendship
Highlights
The importance of appearance in school and life and its impact on self-perception.
The fear of being alone and not being good enough can lead to self-doubt and depression.
The struggle with being told you're not good enough and the impact of negative comments on self-esteem.
The realization that some circumstances are beyond control and cannot be changed.
The choice between giving up or persevering despite life's challenges.
The question of whether to believe in oneself or in the judgments of others.
The transition from depression to self-acceptance and finding purpose.
The decision to focus on what one does have rather than what one lacks.
The transformative power of gratitude for one's abilities, even in the absence of limbs.
The joy of traveling the world and the opportunities it brings despite physical limitations.
The importance of self-identity and the question of who one truly is beyond physical appearance.
The discovery of life's purpose and the impact it has on personal happiness.
The shift in perception from pity to respect and friendship due to understanding one's true character.
The challenge to the audience to reconsider their judgments based on appearance alone.
The message that physical limitations do not define one's ability to connect with others.
The empowerment that comes from recognizing one's own worth and potential.
Transcripts
when you're in school
when you're growing up in life
it actually sort of matters
to people
how you look
and then it matters to you
because it matters to others
and the fear that we have
is that we gonna be alone
that we're not good enough
and you know we have to change ourselves
so many people put me down
and say Nick you look to wierd
and no one's really your friend
and you can't do this
and you can't do that
and I couldn't change anything
it's not like just fixing my hear one day
and everythings fine
I couldn't change my circumstances
I couldn't just one day wake up
and say hey
give me arms and legs
I need arms and legs
It was so hard because
people put me down
and I started believing that
I was not good enough
I started believing that
I was a failure
that I never ever be somebody
who people would like or
people would accept
and it was so hard man
I thought to myself
I can't go in the soccer field like
everybody else and I can't
ride my bike and I can't skateboard
and all these sort of things and
I started getting depressed
I thought what kind of purpose do I have to live
I mean are you just here to live to die?
I mean is that not a purpose for me?
Is that not a purpose in life?
and I had questions and no asnwers
and I asked my mom and dad
why did this happen?
I asked doctors
why did this happen?
they don't know
there is some things in life
that are out of your control
that you can't change
and you gotta live with
the choice that we have tho
is either to give up
or keep on going
I wanna ask you
what you gonna believe?
are you gonna believe
in yourself?
or you gonna believe
everybody elses judgement on you?
how did I get from depressed
to who I am today?
because I tell you I was depressed
when I was age 8 I used to
concentrate on the things that I didn't have
I wish I had arms and legs
I wish I could do this
but what can I do?
you see I have a choice
I can either be angry for
not having arms and legs
or be thankful
for my chicken drumsticks
i'm traveling around the world
it's amazing
but I had to ask myself
a couple questions
and the first question was
really who i'm I?
who i'm I?
i'm Nick Vujicic
but who is that?
because it's nothing good
about having no limbs
but I love my life!
do you wanna know why?
because i've seen the purpose
when you see me for the first time
many of you felt sorry for me
do you feel sorry for me anymore?
No!
Why?
because you know who I am
but don't you remember
I have no arms and legs?
would you wanna be my friend?
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