Don't eat the marshmallow! | Joachim de Posada

TED
10 Aug 200907:15

Summary

TLDRThis talk emphasizes the importance of self-discipline and delaying gratification as key factors for success. A Stanford psychology professor conducted a study where children were asked to wait 15 minutes without eating a marshmallow to receive a second one. Only one-third of the children managed to wait, and years later, they were more successful academically and personally. The experiment was replicated in different cultures, showing similar results. The key message is that the ability to delay gratification leads to better outcomes in life, from education to professional success.

Takeaways

  • 🍭 **Delayed Gratification**: The ability to resist immediate temptations in favor of greater rewards later is a key to success.
  • 🧒 **Early Indicators**: A child's behavior at four years old can predict their future success.
  • ⏱️ **Self-Discipline**: The capacity to delay gratification is a form of self-discipline, which is crucial for achieving goals.
  • 📈 **Long-Term Study**: A follow-up study 15 years later showed a strong correlation between not eating the marshmallow and later success.
  • 🎓 **Academic Success**: Children who did not eat the marshmallow had better grades and were more likely to succeed academically.
  • 🌐 **Cultural Consistency**: The experiment's results were consistent across different cultures, including American and Colombian children.
  • 🤔 **Cognitive Strategies**: Some children used strategies like looking away or distracting themselves to resist temptation.
  • 👧 **Innovative Thinking**: One child's attempt to deceive by eating the inside of the marshmallow showed creativity and potential for success.
  • 🏦 **Practical Applications**: The principle of delaying gratification applies to various fields, including sales and banking.
  • 📚 **Educational Tools**: The concept has been incorporated into educational materials, such as a children's book in Korea.
  • 🇺🇸 **National Implications**: The speaker suggests that the United States could benefit from teaching the principle of delayed gratification to address economic issues.

Q & A

  • What was the main message conveyed by the speaker in the transcript?

    -The main message is that self-discipline, specifically the ability to delay gratification, is a crucial factor for success in life. The speaker emphasizes how this principle applies across different aspects of life, from childhood behavior to professional success.

  • What experiment is the speaker referring to, and what was its purpose?

    -The speaker refers to the 'marshmallow experiment,' conducted by a Stanford psychology professor. The purpose of the experiment was to test young children's ability to delay gratification by offering them a choice: they could eat one marshmallow immediately or wait 15 minutes and receive two marshmallows.

  • What were the results of the marshmallow experiment?

    -The experiment showed that two-thirds of the children ate the marshmallow before the 15 minutes were up, while one-third managed to wait. The speaker suggests that the ability to wait, or delay gratification, was an indicator of future success.

  • What follow-up study was conducted, and what did it reveal?

    -A follow-up study was conducted 14-15 years later, examining the same children who participated in the marshmallow experiment. The study found that the children who had waited and not eaten the marshmallow were more successful, with better grades and stronger relationships. In contrast, many of the children who ate the marshmallow faced difficulties, such as bad grades or dropping out of school.

  • Why does the speaker believe the ability to delay gratification is so important?

    -The speaker believes that delaying gratification reflects self-discipline, which is critical for long-term success. Those who can control their impulses tend to make better decisions, leading to positive outcomes in education, work, and personal relationships.

  • What was the result of reproducing the experiment in Colombia?

    -In Colombia, the speaker reproduced the experiment with 4, 5, and 6-year-olds. The results were similar: two-thirds of the children ate the marshmallow, and one-third did not. A humorous observation was made about a girl who ate the inside of the marshmallow to trick the experimenters.

  • What broader life applications does the speaker suggest for the principle of delayed gratification?

    -The speaker suggests that the ability to delay gratification applies to various aspects of life, including sales, where a salesperson who takes time to understand the customer’s needs can sell more effectively, rather than rushing to close a deal. It also applies to financial decisions, as the speaker notes that Americans are 'eating more marshmallows than producing,' referring to excessive consumption and debt.

  • Why does the speaker mention that the principle of delayed gratification is being taught in Korea?

    -The speaker mentions that the principle of delayed gratification has gained attention in Korea, where they created a book to teach children this concept. This reflects the importance of instilling self-discipline in young children to foster success in life.

  • What humorous anecdote did the speaker share about one of the children in the experiment?

    -The speaker shared a humorous anecdote about a girl in the Colombian experiment who ate the inside of the marshmallow, leaving the outside intact to deceive the experimenters into thinking she had not eaten it. The speaker joked that this child would be successful but shouldn't work in banking or at a cash register due to her sneaky behavior.

  • What is the significance of the metaphor 'eating more marshmallows than producing' in the speaker's conclusion?

    -The metaphor 'eating more marshmallows than producing' refers to the speaker’s concern about societal behaviors, particularly in the U.S., where there is a tendency for immediate consumption and accumulating debt rather than saving or producing more. It highlights the need for greater self-control and long-term thinking to achieve economic stability.

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