5 SCARY TRUTHS MEN MUST KNOW ABOUT WOMEN
Summary
TLDRThis video reveals five unsettling truths about women's behavior in relationships. It asserts that women are always seeking the highest-value partner, with loyalty being conditional based on a man's continued worth. Emotions often override logic in women's decision-making, and they are drawn to confidence rather than kindness. A woman's behavior reflects her partner's self-perceived value, prompting men to continuously improve themselves. Lastly, women unconsciously test men's strength to gauge their suitability as partners, and failing these tests can lead to a loss of attraction.
Takeaways
- đ Women are always seeking the highest value partner they can realistically obtain.
- đ Loyalty in women is conditional and can change if they perceive a better option.
- đ§ Emotions often override logic in women's decision-making processes.
- đȘ Women are attracted to confidence and strength, not just kindness.
- đ A woman's behavior reflects the value she perceives in her partner.
- đ« If a woman disrespects or takes you for granted, it may indicate she sees you as low value.
- đ Continuous self-improvement is key to maintaining a woman's respect and attraction.
- đ€ Women unconsciously test men's strength and boundaries to assess their suitability.
- đĄ Standing firm during a woman's tests is crucial to maintaining her respect and attraction.
- âł Women will continually test men, and failing these tests can lead to a loss of attraction and potential relationship breakdown.
Q & A
What is the first 'scary truth' about women mentioned in the video?
-The first scary truth is that women are always looking for the best option and are biologically hardwired to seek the highest value man they can realistically get.
How does the speaker describe the concept of loyalty in women?
-The speaker states that loyalty in women is conditional, meaning they might love a man today but if he stops improving or being the high-value man they were attracted to, they will not hesitate to move on.
What does the speaker claim about the decision-making process of women?
-According to the speaker, women make decisions based on their emotions in the moment, rather than using logic, which is a stark contrast to how men typically make decisions.
Why does the speaker suggest that kindness is not the key to attracting women?
-The speaker argues that women are attracted to confidence, strength, and leadership, not kindness. Being overly kind without assertiveness can make a man seem weak to women.
What does the speaker mean when he says a woman is a reflection of a man's value?
-The speaker implies that the way a woman treats a man reflects his perceived value. If a woman disrespects or takes a man for granted, it's because she doesn't see him as high value.
What is the speaker's advice for men to maintain a woman's interest?
-The speaker advises men to always be improving their value and to stand up to a woman's tests of strength to maintain attraction and respect.
How does the speaker characterize the way women test men?
-The speaker describes women testing men's strength and boundaries as a continuous, often unconscious process that begins from the first meeting and doesn't end.
What is the consequence of failing a woman's tests according to the video?
-Failing a woman's tests can lead to her losing respect and interest in the man, potentially resulting in her leaving him or doing something worse in the relationship.
What is the overarching message the speaker wants men to understand about women?
-The overarching message is that understanding the nature of women's behavior, such as seeking the best option, conditional loyalty, emotional decision-making, attraction to confidence, and testing men's strength, is crucial for men to shape their lives and relationships effectively.
How does the speaker suggest men should react when women test their strength?
-The speaker suggests that men should recognize when they are being tested and hold their ground without reacting emotionally or defensively to maintain attraction and respect from women.
Outlines
đ The Constant Search for the Best Option
The video discusses the notion that women are biologically programmed to seek the highest value partner they can realistically obtain. It contrasts this with men, who are said to often settle for an average partner. The video emphasizes that women's loyalty is conditional and they may leave a relationship if they believe they can find a better option. It advises men to understand this 'truth' to shape their lives accordingly.
đĄ Emotions Over Logic in Decision Making
This section highlights that women's decisions are primarily driven by emotions rather than logic, unlike men who tend to use logic first. It points out that women's feelings are volatile and can lead to seemingly irrational actions. The video warns that not accounting for this emotional aspect can lead to misunderstandings in relationships and suggests that men should not expect women to act rationally at all times.
đȘ Attractiveness of Confidence Over Kindness
The video script challenges the common belief that women are attracted to kindness. It argues that women are actually drawn to confidence, strength, and leadership. Being overly kind without assertiveness can be perceived as weakness, which may cause women to lose interest or respect. The advice given is to focus on projecting confidence rather than just being kind.
đ Reflecting Your Value Through Relationships
This part of the script suggests that a woman's behavior in a relationship is a reflection of how she perceives the man's value. Disrespectful or taken-for-granted treatment indicates that the woman does not see the man as high value. To change this dynamic, men are encouraged to improve their own value and raise their standards, which may lead to the woman's improvement or departure.
đĄ Constant Testing of Strength and Boundaries
The final truth presented is that women will continually test men's strength and boundaries, often unconsciously. These tests are a way for women to assess a man's suitability as a partner. The video stresses that failing these tests by reacting emotionally or defensively can lead to a loss of respect and attraction. Men are advised to recognize and withstand these tests to maintain attraction and interest from women.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄBest Option
đĄLoyalty
đĄEmotions Trump Logic
đĄConfidence
đĄValue
đĄTesting Strength
đĄAttraction
đĄBiological Wiring
đĄSelf-Improvement
đĄEmotional Swings
đĄRespect
Highlights
Women are always looking for the best option.
Women are hardwired to seek the highest value man.
Loyalty in women is conditional, unlike men who tend to be more loyal.
Women's loyalty is dependent on the man's continued high value.
Emotions always trump logic for women.
Men typically use logic before emotions, unlike women.
Women make decisions based on their feelings in the moment.
Women are attracted to confidence, not just kindness.
Being overly kind can make a man seem weak to women.
A woman reflects the value of the man she is with.
A woman's disrespect or taking for granted indicates low perceived value.
Men should always be improving their value to maintain a woman's interest.
Women will test a man's strength and boundaries.
Women test men unconsciously to assess their strength.
Standing up to a woman's tests maintains attraction.
Men who fail a woman's tests will lose her interest.
Transcripts
so what I'm going to share with you in
this video are five of the absolute
scariest truths that you have to know
about women and to be totally honest
these will probably shock you but with
that said let's get right into starting
with number one she's always looking for
the best option now something that you
have to understand about every woman out
there is that every woman is always
looking for the best option okay the
thing that so many guys in this modern
world particularly have a problem with
and don't seem to understand is that
women are wired okay they're literally
hardwired to seek the highest value man
that they can get okay if you look at
men men operate so much more differently
like as men we tend to settle more often
than not meaning we will settle with
basically an average girl that we can
get whereas women are literally
programmed okay they are biologically
hardwired to look for the man or to try
to secure the man to seek the man who is
the highest value that they can
realistically get okay now what you have
to understand is that if a woman at any
point thinks that she can do better if
she thinks she can do better than the
man that she is with then she will
always have one foot out of the door
okay the thing that so many guys have a
hard time accepting something about
women this truth that is is hard to
really wrap our mind around is that when
it comes to women loyalty is conditional
okay men are kind of like dogs in the
sense that like we don't really care
okay we are loyal 99% of the time most
guys are some guys are just losers and
they want to just do that but we are
loyal 99% of the time as men that's what
we do okay we are we are loyal but for
women loyalty is conditional okay and
what this means means is that if you are
with a woman or if you're going to be in
the future she might love you today but
okay if you stop growing if you stop
improving if you stop being the high
value man that she saw when she was
first attracted to you she will not
hesitate to move on okay some women do
this in really destructive ways others
will simply just tell you they don't
want to be with you it just depends on
who you're with but women will not
hesitate to move on and look for a
better option okay this is just the
reality of of how it works this is how
women are wired the sooner you
understand this truth the sooner that
you will be able to shape your life in
the right way now next up is number two
and it's that emotions Trump logic okay
this is one of the hardest truths for
men to wrap their mind around and it's
that emotions when it comes to women
always Trump logic okay if you look at
men
it's completely the other way around
with men what we tend to do is we always
use logic before emotions okay women
make decisions based on how they feel in
the moment okay this is one of the
hardest things for men to understand
women make decisions based on emotions
or how they feel in the moment okay so
what this means is that you should never
expect a woman to act rationally all the
time this is why women who go on girls
nights out or whatever they go on these
these trips with their girlfriends right
or these bachelorette parties whatever
you want to call them you always have to
understand that you might have a good
woman okay you might have a good woman
but if she goes on one of these trips
always remember that women make
decisions based on how they feel in the
moment okay what this means is that she
could be on a trip and something could
happen and she made a decision based on
how she felt in that moment rather than
a logical decision okay Men A lot of
times when we are about to do something
most decisions we look at logically we
say if we do this if we do a a will lead
to B and then B will lead to C etc etc
this is why we can avoid a lot of times
making really stupid decisions women
don't have the ability to do this as
well okay so women do not act rationally
all the time women's feelings are always
changing and if you can't handle the
emotional swings of a woman then you
will be caught off guard if you don't
understand that with women emotions
always Trump logic you will have an
extremely difficult time dealing with
women at every point in your life at
every turn Okay so understand that women
operate based on emotions rather than
logic most of the time and
do not try to fight them okay understand
that this is just how it works now next
up is number three and it's said women
are attracted to confidence not kindness
okay this is one of the hardest things
for most guys to try to understand okay
it's really simple women are attracted
to confidence not kindness most guys
have this backwards they think that
women are attracted to kindness they
think that women want to be with a guy
who is kind who's overly nice now you
might think that you're being nice will
win a girl over but this is not what
women respond to okay women are
attracted to strength they're attracted
to leadership they are attracted to
confidence and so being too kind without
assertiveness makes you seem weak and
women will walk all over you if you
allow them to okay women are attracted
to confidence not kindness okay so being
too nice is not going to to get you the
girl next up is number four number four
is she is a reflection of your value
okay every woman that you are with is a
reflection of your value what this means
is that a woman mirrors the man who she
is with and so if she treats you with
disrespect or if she takes you for
granted it is because she doesn't see
you as high value okay and so in order
to fix this you have to raise your
standards and she'll either rise with
you or she will disappear okay either
way though you will win okay if you're
always improving your value as a man if
you're always trying to rise to the next
level as a man then you will win no
matter what happens okay but just
understand that a woman mirrors the man
that she's with okay if a woman is not
treating you right she's disrespecting
you if she's taking you for granted it
is because she doesn't see you as high
value and what you have to do is
increase your value okay always be
increasing your value always be working
on yourself this is a NeverEnding grind
that never ever stops as men okay this
is something that we should always be
doing as men always be improving next up
is number five and is the fifth and
final scariest truth that you have to
know about women and it said women will
test your strength Str okay there's not
a woman out there on the planet who will
not push your buttons who will not test
your boundaries and women do this
unconsciously whether they realize it or
not it's not something that they
consciously do women are always
consciously trying to test men trying to
break men trying to break their frame
okay test their confidence this is what
they do women will test you and what you
have to understand is that the testing
will never ever stop okay women will
test you from the day that they meet you
until the day that they ultimately leave
you or you leave them or whatever okay
they will always test you and if you
break when they test you if you react
emotionally if you get overly
defensive every time that a woman tests
you she will lose respect for you okay
now there's only so many times that this
can happen before you will be
essentially kicked to the there's only
so many times that a woman can test you
and you fail that test until you get to
a point where eventually she will lose
attraction for you and if she loses
attraction for you she will either leave
you or do something worse and that's
just how things work it's just how the
world works okay so as long as you
understand that women will always try to
test your strength and you can recognize
when they're doing this then you will be
9,000 ahead of other men out there who
don't even understand that this is a
thing they don't even understand that
women must unconsciously test a man's
strength repeatedly to know that she is
the right to know that he is the right
man for her okay men who cannot handle a
woman's tests end up losing interest
they lose the woman's interest and
eventually she will leave it's really
that simple so as long as you can hold
your ground and stand up to these tests
you will be able to maintain attraction
with pretty much any girl out there and
your life will be so much better these
are five the scariest truths that men
have to understand that you have to
understand about women and with that
said until next time my friends thanks
for watching
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