Dealing With A Bitchy & Disrespectful Girlfriend
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Chris Carmel addresses the issue of dealing with a disrespectful and challenging girlfriend, a common problem many men face. He explains the reasons behind women's testing behavior and the higher rates of mental health issues in women, which can contribute to their actions. Carmel emphasizes the importance of gaining respect from a girlfriend to prevent such behavior and shares a personal story to illustrate how to handle it. He introduces a technique called 'progressive increased punishment' to correct disrespectful behavior, suggesting that standing firm can lead to change or the realization that a new relationship may be necessary.
Takeaways
- đ Dealing with a disrespectful girlfriend can be very frustrating and requires the right approach to maintain a healthy relationship.
- đ€ Women may test men to see if they are strong, and failing these tests can lead to increased disrespect and 'bitchiness'.
- đ§ A lack of respect from a girlfriend can lead to various issues, including flaking on dates, trying to make the partner jealous, and holding out on intimacy.
- đ Women have a higher rate of mental illness, which can contribute to emotional instability and disrespectful behavior, according to a University of Oxford study.
- đĄ It's important to understand the reasons behind disrespectful behavior but ultimately knowing how to deal with it is crucial.
- đ Building respect is key; a girlfriend who respects her partner is less likely to be disrespectful.
- đž A client's experience highlighted the issue of a girlfriend sending disrespectful pictures to provoke jealousy, which can be upsetting.
- đĄ In response to disrespectful actions, staying calm and not immediately reacting with anger can be an effective strategy.
- đ« Using 'progressive increased punishment' as a technique can help regain control by incrementally increasing the time apart if disrespectful behavior continues.
- đ Ignoring attempts to justify disrespectful behavior and maintaining a stance can lead to a change in the girlfriend's attitude.
- đ If the girlfriend does not change her behavior, it might be time to consider finding a new partner.
Q & A
What is the main issue discussed in the video by Chris Carmel?
-The main issue discussed in the video is how to deal with a disrespectful and difficult girlfriend.
Why do some women act disrespectful towards their partners according to the video?
-The video suggests that women may act disrespectful because they are testing their partners to see if they are strong, and also because they may have a higher rate of mental illness, leading to difficulties in controlling their emotions.
What is the importance of a woman respecting her partner in a relationship?
-Respect is crucial as it reduces the likelihood of her being disrespectful or difficult, and it indicates that she sees her partner as a high-value individual.
What was the situation with Chris's client who was dealing with his girlfriend's disrespectful behavior?
-The client's girlfriend was trying to make him jealous by sending pictures of herself with other men, and she was also being snappy, angry, and flaky, which was causing him distress.
How did Chris handle a similar situation when his girlfriend sent him a picture with another man?
-Chris responded with a message that showed he was not impressed or jealous, and then ignored her for a couple of days, which led her to stop such behavior.
What is the technique Chris developed to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend?
-The technique is called 'progressive increased punishment,' where the partner is given a period of time to correct their behavior, increasing with each offense until they change or the relationship ends.
What should a person do if their girlfriend sends a picture with another man to make them jealous?
-They should respond in a way that shows they are not affected and then ignore the girlfriend for a few days to demonstrate they are not impressed by such tactics.
How does the 'progressive increased punishment' technique work in practice?
-It starts with the partner not seeing the girlfriend for a week, and with each repeat of the disrespectful behavior, the duration increases, eventually leading to the girlfriend correcting her behavior or the relationship ending.
What is the outcome Chris expects from using the 'progressive increased punishment' technique?
-The expected outcome is that the girlfriend will realize the seriousness of her behavior and correct it, or if she doesn't, the partner will have a clear indication that they should consider ending the relationship.
How can viewers get in touch with Chris for further advice or to download his guide?
-Viewers can book an email or Skype consultation with Chris through his website or download his guide, which is also available on his site.
Outlines
đ€ Dealing with Disrespectful Behavior in Relationships
Chris Carmel discusses the issue of dealing with a disrespectful and difficult girlfriend, a common problem many men face. He emphasizes the importance of handling such behavior correctly to avoid long-term frustration. Chris explains that women often test men's strength and if they fail, the woman may escalate her disrespectful actions. He also mentions that women have a higher rate of mental illness, which can contribute to emotional instability in relationships. The key is to gain respect from the girlfriend, as respect can prevent such behavior. Chris shares a personal experience and a client's story to illustrate how to respond to disrespectful actions, suggesting a non-reactive and assertive approach.
đĄïž Implementing Progressive Increased Punishment for Disrespectful Behavior
The second paragraph delves into a strategy called 'progressive increased punishment' to address a girlfriend's disrespectful behavior. This technique involves setting a time-out period that increases with each offense, demonstrating the seriousness of the behavior and the consequences of not correcting it. Chris advises that this method can lead to a change in the girlfriend's attitude, as it shows the man's determination and value. He also offers resources for those facing similar issues, such as email or Skype consultations and a downloadable guide, to help them navigate through these relationship challenges.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄDisrespectful
đĄBitchiness
đĄMental Illness
đĄRespect
đĄTesting
đĄControl
đĄEscalation
đĄHigh-Value Man
đĄProgressive Increased Punishment
đĄConsultation
Highlights
Chris Carmel discusses strategies for dealing with a disrespectful girlfriend.
The importance of understanding how to respond to a girlfriend's disrespectful behavior.
The frustration of dealing with a girlfriend who is unresponsive or manipulative.
The idea that women test men to see if they are strong and capable of standing up for themselves.
The escalation of disrespectful behavior if a man fails to assert himself.
The higher rate of mental illness among women and its potential impact on relationships.
The need to maintain control and not show anger when dealing with a disrespectful girlfriend.
The technique of responding to disrespectful behavior with a calm and assertive approach.
A personal example of how Chris handled a girlfriend's attempt to make him jealous.
The concept of 'progressive increased punishment' as a strategy for dealing with disrespectful behavior.
The effectiveness of ignoring a girlfriend for a period to show disapproval of her behavior.
The importance of being consistent and following through with consequences for disrespectful actions.
The potential for a girlfriend to change her behavior after realizing the seriousness of her partner's stance.
The option for men to seek professional advice through email or Skype consultations.
The availability of a guide to help with difficult situations in a relationship.
Encouragement for viewers to get in touch with any questions about their relationships.
Transcripts
hi I'm Chris Carmel and in this video
I'd like to talk about how to deal with
a [Â __Â ] and disrespectful girlfriend
something I think that most guys here
have dealt with at some point in the
life I know if you're dating a girl
there's a very good chance that at some
point she will be [Â __Â ] towards you and
you have to know how to deal with this
the right way because it can be very
very frustrating when you have a
girlfriend and she acts in a [Â __Â ] way
she flakes on you she starts trying to
make you jealous with other guys or she
just cancels at the last minute she
holds out on sex and she tries to hold
things against you and she talks to you
with a lack of respect and it's very
frustrating I know I've dealt with it
myself in my own relationships and I
have my friends and my own clients who
dealt with this exact same problem so I
know what it's like and I know you have
to be able to deal with this the right
way if you don't deal with it the right
way it's going to be very tough in the
long run so why are women getting more
and more [Â __Â ] these days and what are
the reasons behind this well one reason
is that women like to test men and they
like to test the guy and see if he's
strong and if you fail the test the
first time it might be a very small
thing your girlfriend will think that
she can act in a more [Â __Â ] way the
next time so she will increase her test
she'll be more difficult and the
bitchiness will just escalate and
escalate until she realizes that you
have no control over her you don't know
how to put your foot down and you don't
know how to be a strong man and then she
will eventually leave you because she
will have lost all attraction for you
another reason women aggghhhhh [Â __Â ] is
because they have a high rate of mental
illness and I don't say that to look
down on women is a simple fact that
women have a 40% higher rate of mental
illness than men the University of
Oxford the study on this and they found
that women have much higher rate of
anxiety and depression so don't be
surprised if she gets angry and she
snaps at you and she acts in a [Â __Â ]
way because she can't control her
feelings the same way that men can it's
not an excuse it's just the reality is
that women are finding it much more
difficult to control their emotions but
you still have to know how to put her in
a place because if you don't know how to
do
then she's just going to escalate and
become more difficult so again it
doesn't really matter why she's [Â __Â ]
you have to know how to deal with it the
right way if you know how to deal with
her [Â __Â ] behavior then it's not such a
big problem you can neutralize it and
getting your girlfriend to respect you
is the number one thing if she respects
you if she thinks that you're a high
value man as well then she is much less
likely to be [Â __Â ] and disrespectful
towards you you would never see a girl
that respects a man a lot being very
[Â __Â ] towards him it just doesn't
really happen but if she doesn't respect
the guy she will flake on you she'll try
to make you jealous
she will cause you all kinds of problems
so I recently had a conversation with a
client of mine who was going through
this exact same problem
my client was facing a girlfriend who
was trying to make him jealous she was
sending pictures of her with other guys
that of course this was very upsetting
and when he questioned her about this
then she just said I was nothing that
his friends but of course when she's
sending photos of her hugging guys being
close to other guys it's not very
respectful and it's not very nice of
course for the relationship so my client
that wanted to know how to deal with
this while this guy was a little
confused and very frustrated
understandably because his girlfriend
was very close to him and very nice in
the beginning and then all of a sudden
she started to act this way and she
started to be a little bit [Â __Â ] she'd
snap at him more she get angry she'd get
defensive
she'd flake on him she canceled dates
and then she'd start sending these
pictures through so it was very
upsetting for this guy and I completely
understood so he didn't know what to do
so what do you do in a situation like
this where your girlfriend sends a
picture of herself with another guy she
cancels on you it's very annoying and
it's very important to stay in control
at that moment in time don't let it get
to you don't show that you're angry at
the time for example I had a girlfriend
once it was a medical student and she
sent me a picture of herself hugging
another guy and their heads were
together like this and they look very
close and happy she sent the picture
with no text no information to explain
it obviously trying to make me jealous
so how would you deal with a situation
where you'll go for
sends through a picture of herself with
another guy or she cancels or she flakes
well I had a girlfriend once who was a
medical student and she sent a picture
with no text and no explanation to me of
herself with another guy from the
medical school and they're hugging and
the heads are close together like this
and I looked at the phone and I was like
what's this you know it doesn't make
sense but okay so I responded and I said
hey is that the guy that gave you the
STD check and of course five minutes
later she tried to blow my phone she's
justifying herself trying to explain
what happened and I just ignored him for
a couple of days after that no more
[Â __Â ] she didn't try to do that again
with me because she knew that I wasn't
impressed
another time I had a girl send me
pictures of herself helping a guy move
furniture in an apartment and I was like
why you sending me pictures of you
helping another guy when you've just
canceled a date with me and now you've
decided to go and help your guy friend
move into his apartment so I send your
message and I said hey looks like a
shitty job but I guess someone's got to
do it and of course it showed I'm not
impressed and she tried to justify
herself and explained why she had to
help him again I just ignored her for a
couple of days she never tried that
again but what do you do when your
girlfriend is very very [Â __Â ] she's
very disrespectful she's highly abusive
she flakes on you she cancels on days
she withhold sex she uses sex as a
weapon and she just looks down on you
and she has no respect at all you need
to get the power back and you need to
get her to see you as a high-value man
of course this is more easier said than
done
and a simple one-liner isn't going to
work in this situation so what you have
to do is use the right strategy I
developed this technique called
progressive increased punishment and
progressive increased punishment is very
simple to use it works like this if your
girlfriend is [Â __Â ] she's disrespectful
you say to her you've been very [Â __Â ]
in disrespectful I don't want to see you
for a week until you can fix your
attitude and then after a week if she's
still the same you say next time this
happens I won't see you for two weeks
she does it again you don't see her for
two weeks next time she does it don't
see her for three weeks
next time four weeks five weeks until
she eventually realizes that you're just
going to pull further and further away
until she can actually correct herself
and if she can't fix her behavior then
you probably better start looking for a
new girlfriend
but in my experience after one or two
weeks where the girlfriend realizes that
you're actually gonna stand by your word
and you're not going to see her and
you're not going to cave in and you
actually mean what you say she will come
around and she will think twice about
being [Â __Â ] and disrespectful so this
is a very good technique to use in this
situation so if you have the same
problem in your own relationship please
don't hesitate to get in touch you can
book an emergency email consultation
with me or a Skype consultation through
my website also if your girlfriend is
pulling back and she's being difficult
or she's broken up with you and you need
a quick fix for this solution then don't
forget to download my guide you can get
my guide through my website and if you
have any questions don't hesitate to get
in touch till next time
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