10 Reasons Why BOATLIFE SUCKS (Relationships, Drinking, Nudity... etc) | EE 150
Summary
TLDRBrett and Jade Evans share their 3-year journey of sailing 10,000 nautical miles, offering insights into the challenges and joys of boat life. They discuss the strain on relationships, the constant repairs, and the need for cleaning, contrasting these with the community, the unpredictability, and the connection to nature. They humorously touch on the sailing community's alcohol culture, the importance of ocean-safe products, and the realities of living in tight quarters. The couple also reflects on the positives, like the strong bonds formed and the unique lifestyle that sailing offers, including a bonus point on the freedom of nudity.
Takeaways
- 🌊 The sailing lifestyle is challenging for relationships, as it requires constant close contact and can lead to friction among couples and friends.
- 🛠️ Maintenance is a perpetual aspect of boat life; something is always in need of repair or replacement, from minor leaks to major system failures.
- 🧼 Cleaning the boat's bottom is a regular and necessary task to prevent the buildup of moss, algae, and barnacles, which can affect sailing performance.
- 🤢 Seasickness is a common occurrence due to the constant rocking motion of the boat, affecting both the sailors and their ability to enjoy the journey.
- 🔮 The unpredictability of life at sea is a defining characteristic, making long-term planning difficult and requiring adaptability to changing conditions.
- 🍻 Alcohol consumption is a notable part of the sailing community's culture, often used as a social lubricant during gatherings and celebrations.
- 🌊 The use of ocean-safe products is essential for protecting marine life, but these products can be more expensive and less effective than conventional ones.
- 🏠 Living in a small space on a boat means minimal possessions, quick cleanup, and constant proximity to others, which can be both a benefit and a challenge.
- 💩 Dealing with human waste through holding tanks is an unpleasant but necessary part of boat life, impacting the sailors' daily routines and comfort.
- 🔒 The sailing community can have gatekeepers who may exclude newcomers or those who don't fit a certain mold, hindering inclusivity and growth.
- 👙 Nudity can be both a liberating and a potentially uncomfortable aspect of boat life, as sailors shed societal norms and become more comfortable with their bodies in a natural state.
Q & A
How many nautical miles have Brett and Jade Evans sailed together?
-Brett and Jade Evans have sailed nearly 10,000 nautical miles together.
What is the approximate time it took for Brett and Jade to get a feel for the boat life?
-It took Brett and Jade approximately 3 years to get a feel for the boat life, as mentioned in the script.
What is the name of the sponsor for this particular episode of their sailing experience?
-The sponsor for this episode is Bottle Bottle, with their Hydro X product being featured.
What are some of the challenges that Brett and Jade have faced in terms of relationships while living on a boat?
-Relationships can be strained due to the constant close proximity, the difficulty of maintaining friendships due to the different lifestyle and time zones, and the transient nature of connections made with locals and other sailors.
Why does Brett mention that something is always broken on the boat?
-Brett mentions that something is always broken because as soon as one issue is resolved, another arises, whether it's equipment that needs replacing or maintenance tasks that need to be done.
What is a specific maintenance task that is particularly all-consuming for sailors?
-Cleaning the bottom of the boat is particularly all-consuming, as it constantly grows moss, algae, and barnacles, affecting the boat's speed and performance.
How does the constant motion of the boat affect those living on it?
-The constant motion of the boat can cause discomfort and seasickness, as it's always rocking to some degree, whether at anchor or sailing.
What is the impact of the unpredictable nature of the sailing lifestyle on Brett and Jade's life?
-The unpredictable nature of the sailing lifestyle makes it almost impossible to plan ahead or give definite locations to people who want to visit, and it can lead to unexpected issues like equipment failure or weather changes.
Why does Brett and Jade mention the prevalence of alcohol consumption in the sailing community?
-Alcohol consumption is prevalent in the sailing community due to the frequent social gatherings like Sundowners and the culture of celebrating with drinks, which can sometimes lead to excessive consumption.
What are the environmental considerations when it comes to using personal care products on a boat?
-Environmental considerations include using ocean-safe products to prevent chemicals from affecting marine life, as anything washed off the boat ends up in the ocean.
How does living in a small space on a boat affect daily life for Brett and Jade?
-Living in a small space means limited storage, increased closeness to each other, and the need for constant cleaning and organization to avoid clutter.
What are some of the unique challenges of handling human waste on a boat?
-Handling human waste on a boat involves dealing with holding tanks, which can be unpleasant and requires careful management to avoid issues like leaks or overflows.
What are some of the negative aspects of the sailing community mentioned by Brett and Jade?
-Negative aspects of the sailing community include gatekeeping, where some sailors believe there is a specific way to sail and exclude others, and in-fighting over various opinions and practices.
What positive aspects of the sailing community does Brett and Jade highlight?
-Positive aspects of the sailing community include the strong bonds formed, the willingness to help each other in times of need, and the shared experiences that create lasting friendships.
How does the unpredictability of the sailing lifestyle affect the way Brett and Jade plan their days?
-The unpredictability of the sailing lifestyle means they live more in the moment, making plans based on current conditions rather than long-term schedules, which can be both liberating and stressful.
What is the significance of the boat constantly rocking and how does it affect daily activities on board?
-The constant rocking can be both a positive and negative aspect of boat life. It can be soothing, helping with sleep, but it also requires constant physical adjustment and can make tasks more difficult.
Why does Brett enjoy the fact that something is always broken on the boat?
-Brett enjoys the constant fixing of things because he loves working on projects and being hands-on, which boat life provides in abundance.
What is the impact of the sailing lifestyle on Brett and Jade's relationships with each other and others?
-The sailing lifestyle can put a strain on relationships due to the close quarters and shared challenges, but it also strengthens the bond between them and creates deep connections with other sailors.
How does nudity become both a positive and negative aspect of the sailing lifestyle?
-Nudity can be liberating and a return to the essentials of life, away from societal norms, but it can also be shocking for newcomers who are not yet accustomed to the cultural differences in the sailing community.
Outlines
🚤 Embracing the Boat Life: Challenges and Sponsorship
Brett and Jade Evans share their experiences of sailing nearly 10,000 nautical miles, reflecting on the challenges and joys of boat life. They mention the impact on relationships, the constant need for boat maintenance, and the difficulty of forming and leaving connections with locals and other sailors. The paragraph introduces Bottle Bottle as a sponsor, highlighting the Hydro X water bottle's features, such as being BPA free, double wall insulated, and having a convenient carry handle. The couple humorously notes the product's utility as a boat hook and provides a discount code for viewers.
🛠 The Perpetual State of Repair and Cleaning
The script discusses the ongoing cycle of repairs and maintenance on a boat, emphasizing that something is always broken or in need of attention. It also touches on the necessity of regularly cleaning the boat's bottom to prevent issues with moss, algae, and barnacles. The couple humorously describes the inevitability of dealing with these tasks and the impact on their relationship, suggesting that the lifestyle is not for the faint of heart.
🌊 The Unpredictability and Sea Sickness of Life at Sea
This paragraph delves into the unpredictability of life on the water, where the couple's location and plans are constantly subject to change due to weather, tides, and other factors. It also covers the issue of sea sickness, which can affect them even when anchored or sailing, and the difficulty of maintaining regular life routines and relationships due to the constant motion of the boat.
🍹 The Social Aspects: Alcohol Culture and Small Space Living
The script addresses the prevalent alcohol culture among sailors, cautioning about the potential for excessive consumption. It also talks about the challenges of living in a small space on a boat, which includes the lack of privacy, the need to avoid hoarding, and the necessity of maintaining cleanliness. The paragraph highlights the importance of using ocean-safe products to protect marine life and the environment.
💩 The Reality of Holding Tanks and Community Dynamics
The couple candidly discusses the less glamorous aspects of boat life, such as managing human waste through holding tanks. They also touch on the dynamics of the sailing community, including the presence of gatekeepers and in-fighting among sailors, while also acknowledging the strong bonds and friendships that can form despite these challenges.
🚀 The Positives of Boat Life: Community and Connection
Despite the challenges, the script highlights the strong sense of community among sailors, who often rally to help each other in times of need. The couple shares anecdotes about making lifelong friends and the unique camaraderie that comes from shared experiences at sea, suggesting that the bonds formed in the sailing community are particularly strong.
🛁 The Ups and Downs of Small Space Living
The paragraph explores the dual nature of living in a confined space on a boat, which can lead to both clutter and a sense of closeness. It discusses the practicality of cleaning and the downside of having less personal space, as well as the need to be mindful of one's actions and possessions in a limited environment.
🌊 The Inevitability of Boat Rocking and Seasickness
The couple reflects on the constant motion of the boat, which can be both soothing and challenging. They discuss how the rocking motion can sometimes be comforting, like a摇篮, but also lead to seasickness. The paragraph also humorously notes the physical benefits of the constant need to stabilize oneself on a moving vessel.
🔧 The Constant Repair Cycle and Its Rewards
The script acknowledges the never-ending cycle of repairs on a boat, but it also celebrates the satisfaction that comes from fixing things and the opportunity to engage in hands-on projects. The couple expresses their enjoyment of this aspect of boat life and the sense of accomplishment it brings.
💕 The Strengthened Relationships and Shared Experiences
The final paragraph focuses on the positive impact that boat life can have on relationships, especially romantic ones. The couple shares their love for sailing with each other and the unique experiences they've shared, from surviving storms to enjoying sunsets together. They also mention the pride and interesting stories their family and friends have due to their unconventional lifestyle.
🌞 The Liberating Aspect of Nudity and Cultural Deconstruction
In a bonus point, the couple discusses the cultural shift that occurs when living aboard a boat, where nudity can become a natural and non-sexualized part of life. They acknowledge the initial shock for newcomers but also the eventual acceptance and liberation from societal norms that comes with it.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Sailing
💡Boat Life
💡Relationships
💡Maintenance
💡Cleaning
💡Sea Sickness
💡Unpredictability
💡Alcohol Consumption
💡Small Space Living
💡Community
💡Sustainability
Highlights
Brett and Jade Evans have sailed nearly 10,000 nautical miles, experiencing various cultures and environments.
It takes approximately 3 years to adapt to the boat life, as stated by the couple.
Sailing life has a significant impact on relationships, often causing strain between couples and friends.
Bottle Bottle's Hydro X is sponsored and highlighted for its BPA-free and double wall insulated features.
The constant need to clean the boat's bottom due to moss, algae, and barnacles is a recurring challenge.
Seasickness is common due to the boat's constant rocking motion.
Unpredictability is a key aspect of boat life, affecting travel plans and causing difficulties in scheduling.
Superstitions and traditions are prevalent among sailors due to the uncontrollable elements of sailing.
Alcohol consumption is a notable part of the sailing community's culture.
The use of ocean-safe products is crucial to protect marine life and is a conscious choice made by sailors.
Living in a small space on a boat comes with its own set of challenges and adjustments.
Handling human waste through holding tanks is an unpleasant but necessary part of boat life.
The sailing community, despite its challenges, offers a strong sense of camaraderie and support.
Gatekeepers and in-fighting among sailors are negative aspects of the community that can hinder inclusivity.
Despite the challenges, the couple finds joy in the sailing community and the unique lifestyle it offers.
The couple appreciates the unpredictability of boat life, which allows them to live more in the present.
The constant maintenance and fixing of things on the boat are seen as opportunities for hands-on work and learning.
Sailing with a loved one can create a deep bond and memorable experiences, despite the relationship challenges.
The couple discusses the cultural shift towards nudity as a natural and non-sexualized aspect of life at sea.
Transcripts
we are Brett and Jade Evans and we have sailed nearly 10,000 nautical miles we've done a lot
along the way a lot of countries a lot of sites a lot of experiences but more importantly it has
taken us approximately 3 years from the time that we entered boat life and I read somewhere
that 3 years is how long it takes to get a feel for a new life a new environment a new
place and you read on the internet so it's true clearly clearly true and here we are 3
years later and we have some opinions about boat life that we would like to share with
you today before we can jump into that though we do want to thank this week's sponsor which
is bottle bottle so stick around for the next 60 seconds and we'll get right back to it the
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episode let's get to work starting with number one and now this is going to be number one not
based on a hierarchy or anything like that just one of the 10 things and that is going to be
[Music] relationships no matter how much in love you are going into boat life it is it I mean it
wrecks havoc on relationships and we've seen it tear aunder many many couples so it's not for the
faint of heart you can only spend so much time with one person before they start driving you
mad friends they just don't understand the life we're living and the time zones and the locations
and conversations just having conversations about normal life we're living such a different
life that just having normal conversations is a struggle and then the relationships that you
make with local people as you travel through their countries are really hard cuz then you leave and
then the relationships you make with other Sailors are really hard because then you leave and you go
different directions and that's hard all sorts of relationships they're just tough number two
something is always broken till we take a break [Music] so I went into this lifestyle with such
naive optimism that one day everything would be done everything will be done and we'll sail and
everything will be fixed and we'll just sail no as soon as everything is done something breaks
as soon as everything is done your ring needs to be replaced or your hatches are now leaking or
Brett drops the there's always something broken always and I mean you can even tie that into
number one there's some relationship always broken when brett drops the turbo if there's
not something broken there's something that needs to be cleaned if there's not something
to be clean there's something that needs to be polished or waxed or there is always a list of
things to fix number three huh that kind of goes in with number two kind of cleaning the [Music]
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Bottom now this one gets its own category because it is such a thing that is just
kind of all consuming cleaning the bottom of the boat the boat grows moss and algae and
Barnacles and it just constantly especially because you'll get so sucked into enjoying
the cruising lifestyle and then you'll be ready for the super exciting passage and
you'll be ready to go and then you're all of a sudden like ah we have to clean the bottom and
or or you're sailing along and you have this amazing wind and you're like wow we should be
doing like nine knots and you're doing like six and you're like all right we didn't clean the
bottom get crabs in the ears the internet really thinks that's going to happen to us explain a
lot this one's pretty obvious but it gets on the list because it's obvious
because it's super true the boat rocks the boat rocks and sometimes you get
seasick you mean like rocks no I mean like it just rocks back and forth oh
constantly I completely am just like can't hear
anything Rocky depend yeah it's always kind of rocking pretty much always rocking to some degree
to some degree it's always rocking right now it's rocking a lot I don't if you can see the Shadows
but we're actually we're at a Marina and we're rocking we're rocking a lot we're rocking rock
on yeah and it's just uncomfortable and that's whether you're on anchor whether you're sailing
we're a monoh hole so just a single V and so yeah we rock a lot and uh that often includes a little
bit or a lot of bit of sea sickness I I tend to get a little bit seasick on like the first day of a passage and
and I get seasick on anchor Jade get seasick on anchor I don't really get seasick on anchor but
she does so we kind of we take turns being just a little bit seasick I don't know that's better or
worse yeah I don't know o this is a big one number five is unpredictability oh that world will never
know down into this band we about to attack all right because we are the life that we live is
constantly moving we're sailing from Anchorage to Anchorage country to Country City to City being
able to tell people where we are and where we are going to be especially is almost impossible
it is so impossible that my mom got flagged as a potential terrorist because when she would
come visit us on the boat she was constantly buying oneway refundable tickets for a single
person she'd often be buying like last minute harassed at the airport like crazy and that was
why because of our unpredictable lifestyle she had to pay the cost of that one and that's just
the real that's just the reality of it is that we just don't know I mean people say hey we want to
come visit you in 6 months where are you going to be and we legitimately can't even tell you what
country we're going to be region of what side of the ocean yeah we might be yeah we might be
in the other side of the Atlantic we don't know and that's just part of this life and maybe some
people are better at it than we are but sure I'm sure I'm sure some are better at like sticking to
that schedule but for us just part of the way that we live is that it's just unpredictable
because because of the wind and because of the weather and because of tides and currents and
personality type of sailors and the personality and in our personal life you know you go to sleep
one night with your anchor all set and you think everything's good and then the boat in front of
you drags anchor or a Squall pops up or one of your O-rings rusts off and now you're taking on
water whatever it is you can't predict what's going to break next if the weather is going to
change if the Coast Guard's going to do a random inspection if you're going to get SI whatever like
it is the most unpredictable lifestyle there's noas r i Now understand why there is so much like
Superstition and like there's so many Traditions around sailing want to believe you have some
control you want to believe you have some control but you don't this tattoo will make the weather
good for me exactly what is it you never leave on a Friday or a Monday I don't even know don't
bring bananas on a boat yeah there's so many so many traditions and that's why it's because it's
so you have so little control that you want to hope you have something thus Superstition
is born yes yes it's why I only wear socks on my left foot it was yours number six alcohol [Music]
[Music] consumption hello alcohol culture among the Sailing Community is real and if you're not
careful you will consume too much there's there's alcohol and every get together it's
hey do you want to come over for Sundowners hey do you want to come over for an espresso
Martini you know it's 9:00 a.m. do you want to do mimosas whatever there is so much alcohol
just around it all and maybe that goes back to the unpredictability it's yeah we are supposed
to be sailing right now but we can't so let's get drunk maybe I don't know maybe it is it's
there but it's there it's definitely there number seven this one is more you than me but I use it
as well oceans Safe products where did gender rule that one babe well I don't wash my hair
so give the camera to her and I'm going back to bed rain is just [Music] the way our Boat Works
when we shower when we wash our hands when we do dishes all of that water goes out of the boat into
the ocean that's just the way it works that is every boat on the water 99.9% maybe there's some
that store I don't think so though which means which means that any shampoo you use any dish
soap any hand wash any Foot Scrub whatever it is that you use ends up in the ocean which is going
to affect the fish and the Dolphins and the whales and the reefs the coral all of it so you have to
find super specific oceans safe usually a little bit more expensive products to have on board so
that you don't hurt the ocean and quite frankly they all suck number eight living in a small
space and down the road and then this is this is our garage it's our boat cabinet and then throw
it out here we have it a hanging Locker oh I mean there's some really big boats but most boats very
small square footage and a lot of NE netives come with that when you live in a small space
you can't have a lot of things you're not going to be really storing Christmas decorations right and
when living in a small space means that it gets really messy really fast and you're kind of on top
of each other all the time you don't have your own space you can constantly hear everybody yeah it's
a small space and so I mean yeah their dog hair collects quickly human hair collects quickly they
have to vacuum like seven times a day yeah I mean you leave three dishes out and all of a sudden the
whole boat feels overrun by dishes and so yeah it it can feel crowded and if you want to go back to
number one again uh number nine this one is kind of a holding tank problem smoke and a lot of
grunting you know we were talking about you know reef safe products when we wash our hair dishes
things like that the exception is when we flush our toilets there is a holding tank that holds
the human waste if you just think about that for some period of time there is going to be
a storage tote full of your we don't really need to get into it so much basically any lifestyle
where you have to handle your own human waste is an unfortunate yeah whether that's van life boat
life plane life any kind of off camping life I just like honestly it I don't think anybody
enjoys it yeah at all yeah yeah that's it's kind of gross kind of sucks number 10 the community
ooh I bet you weren't expecting that one everybody talks about how great the saing community is but
here's some things about this community that that really really really suck Gatekeepers people who
think sailing needs to be a super specific way and if you didn't grow up on it if you aren't
in like the old boys club like you can't be part of it and it's super unfortunate and it keeps the
growing generation from accessibility to it and it's just a little bit sour and there is
a lot of that in this community especially online especially among armchair Sailors and then in real
life I would say one of the sourest things is all of the in fighting Sailors just love they're like
old married couples they just love to bicker about literally everything like it's and everybody knows
the right way to do it everybody knows the right way to do it it's mon holes or it's catamarans or
it's a heavy boat or it's a light boat never get a sailor started on the correct way to take care
of te but I will say the one thing we will all agree on as Sailors though is the power voters
that's the Saving Grace no we don't mean it we don't mean it we love you guys we love the
power just don't W us yeah we're just jealous that you can go fast Newton's third law equal
and opposite here's 10 things that absolutely Rock about boat life number one the community
this community absolutely rocks my socks off I don't know just rocks your socks just and it's
a really cool Community excluding the power boers nobody rocks the boat you know what
we actually our neighbor right here is a power Boer and he seems really cool we actually really
yeah if anything happens in an Anchorage you know somebody loses their dinghy uh somebody is
dragging anchor somebody is there immediately to help somebody runs a ground people rally
together to help them out the community is really really cool you have you have friends and family
anywhere you go going back to you know alcoholism go up in an anchor sh Rock up to your boat hey you
want to come over for drinks like immediately like that's pretty cool yeah it's super cool
yeah we've made some of the greatest friends and you know they've got your back and a lot
of people haven't seen people for a long time so they see you and they're like another person you
know and there's just that oh okay going back on the list holding tanks that will never make
it on the positive list do you have anything else to throw onto the list yeah holding tanks
so because you are now fairly connected to your bowel movements you really know how things are
going so you know do I need more fiber do I need you know maybe whatever it is I'm going back to
number one you really know how well your partner's doing lately exactly that's all space number eight
living in a or number three of positives living in a small space it cleans up real quick yeah it gets
messy really fast but it cleans up really fast you don't end up hoarding things yeah you have
like one favorite pair of clothes and you really take care of that pair of clothes because that's
your one pair of clean clothes it only takes five minutes to wipe down all the cabinets and
you can usually always hear the other person if they call for help usually usually number
seven wait four number four do you mind I read some of these sure number seven SL number four
oceans Safe products yeah I because it is so much safer healthier it's better for the environment
it's better for the reef that's just better right obviously we don't want to be putting chemicals on
our bodies we don't be putting into the ocean so even though maybe our skin isn't as soft or hair
isn't quite as luscious not the Luscious Hair it's healthier we're probably less likely to get cancer
probably I mean for from that aspect at least yeah yeah sun damage who knows who know H number six
alcohol consumption number five even number five alcohol consumption there's always a great party
in the Anchorage it's true and like I said yeah you rock up to an Anchorage you drop your anchor
someone almost always is going to come up your boat and say hey I saw you this other Anchorage do
you want to come over for Sundowners or hey we're all meeting up with the beach later do you want
to come hang out by the fire ah rum the sailor's equalizer number five number four we really should
have just counted back down unpredictability this life is unpredictable because we aren't living you
know weeks or months or years in advance we are really living now right so we are thinking about
what is the weather today tomorrow and maybe a week out but that's about as far as you can plan
on weather and so yeah we're making plans for in a few months but that's about it we aren't super
strict on time right we aren't worried about is it 9:30 that we started work is it 10:00 it's
you just live a lot more connected in a way it helps you not be so uptight yeah in a way it makes
you more uptight but in a way it makes you less uptight number four number three yeah I'm really
confused these numbers don't seem to be working I know it's cuz we're counting backwards but this
was number 10 one still confused all messed up anyways this one is boat rocking seven it should
be seven seven seven seven we should just count it back from 10 the boat rocking SL seasickness
why is that a good thing I know sometimes it rocks you to sleep like a baby sometimes it
does also you're constantly working out just standing you are constantly working out talk
about the have to work for those stabilize your muscles you know our knees our knee muscles they
got all the little tiny muscles stabilizing those tiny muscles those tiny muscles they get you yeah
that's how it's a good thing and it helps you keep your boat cleaner because you can't leave
stuff sitting around on on the counter and on the table put you got to put stuff away cuz you
might get waked by the community whatever cleaning the bottom is a fabulous opportunity to practice
your breath holds that's not you swallow something also it's a workout getting down and scrubbing the
bottom sometimes it takes some scrubbing to get it off if you've been in Anchorage for too long it's
going to take some elbow grease and knee grease and shoulder grease and then if you wait too too
long and the Barnacles start growing and you get down there with your squeegee and it's like the
most satisfying thing like really satisfying when you get it super clean and then you sail
and you're like o we are just flying number two something is always broken I'm going to take that
one because I knew coming into this life that this is going to be a big project and I love project I
love working with my hands and so living this life gives me the opportunity to always fix something
and I always am almost every day I am fixing something I'm really glad you still enjoy it
and it hasn't broken you yet I do sometimes it's a little redundant like fixing the same thing
maybe I just need to fix it more right number one relationships I don't think that there is
any better Vision then sailing beautiful tropical locations with the one that you love and continue
to spend all your time with them sailing off into the sunset I can't what what is that the the
stereotyp champagne in hand yeah exactly little champagne sailing yeah with the one you love into
the sunset I love doing this life with you it's super fun great you know if you can survive the
relationship struggles the payoff is there for sure for sure for sure our family gets to brag
about us to everybody cuz we're doing something so random and weird be like hey did you know
my little sister just sailed across the Atlantic Ocean how crazy is that yeah wild and anyway what
you doing cabbage I don't know I was trying to think of something to buy she telling the grocery
clerk that's great that's great true story yeah I believe it I can know exactly who that was too
the friends that we make out here are like Soul friends it is really really cool when we meet up
with them again because we have so many stories that we have to share and catch up and when we
see a boat that we recognize we're instantly like hey I know you from blank our I saw you wherever
and you were immediately connected even though you may not really even know each other you are
instantly friends because you shared an Anchorage during whatever storm and you both survived and
now you can talk about it forever yeah so trauma bonding you get a trauma bond constantly yeah be
like ah we rode out that hurricane with you or we did that storm with you or do you remember
when that boat dragged anchor we thought it was going to take us out yeah yeah it's great it's
fantastic yeah solid actually it's pretty cool it is really cool all right one bonus positive and
negative nudity it's a positive and a negative when you get out here among the sailors and you
get away from society and you unplug it's just liberating to the point of of you just realize
how much of the culture you grew up in and the culture of society and industrialism and and I
don't know everything it's all deconstructed and goes just back to the essentials and you realize
how honestly if you take any of these one through 10 you can apply it to the bonus pick any of those
and you can you can see why tanks nudity we've seen people peeing off the back of their boat
this is a good point nudity all right there you go I'm telling you like it all applies at some
point you let go of all of the cultural stigmas and then the human body is just that and it's not
sexualized and it's not weird and it's just humans being humans honestly it's really only a negative
when you first enter the sailing world and you haven't come to terms with that yet and then it's
shocking naked people everywhere but not that many but more than in like normal life more than what
you'd seen prior in your whole life that's true yeah at least mine yeah and and and then you get
over it and and then it's just fine then it's just li no big deal yeah the sun on your skin
it's lovely a negative is that then regular people come out and they think you're psycho hippie which
is possibly true and that wraps up the 10 with a bonus suckiest plus one plus the greatest parts of
living on a CBO full-time cruising the world so thank you for joining if you have any more that
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