How did Denise overcome Temptation? | Radio #8
Summary
TLDRIn this episode of 'Spice and Nice,' the hosts share a personal encounter with temptation. Despite the allure of a fun night out with an attractive stranger, the host chooses to prioritize household chores and spending time with her husband. The conversation delves into the importance of commitment and responsibility in relationships, highlighting the emotional bond between the host's husband and his stepdaughter. The episode concludes with reflections on overcoming fears of responsibility and the power of emotional connections.
Takeaways
- đ The video is an episode of 'Spice and Nice' featuring hosts SP and Nice discussing personal experiences.
- đč The hosts talk about a recent temptation involving a chance encounter at a bar where SP works part-time.
- đïž The encounter happened on a Saturday and involved a missed meeting with a 'cute guy' who is possibly Korean American.
- đź SP and the guy had a strong connection and good energy when they interacted, which was evident in their non-verbal communication.
- đ The guy called SP twice on Saturday, and each time SP anticipated his questions, showing a deep understanding of each other.
- đïž There was a plan to meet again at the bar on Monday, which created a dilemma for SP between going out for fun or staying home for chores.
- đ SP decided to stay home, doing household chores and spending time with her husband, resisting the temptation of a fun night out.
- đ§ SP reflects on the importance of priorities and what is worth keeping, showing maturity in her decision-making.
- đ€ The conversation also touches on the topic of responsibility, with SP expressing her fear of not being good enough when faced with responsibilities.
- đšâđ§ The hosts discuss the concept of step-parenting and the commitment it entails, emphasizing the emotional bond over biological ties.
- đČ The episode concludes with a discussion about a game night experience that brought up feelings of shame and the importance of overcoming personal fears.
Q & A
Who are the hosts of the 'Spice and Nice' episode mentioned in the transcript?
-The hosts are SP and Nice.
What temptation did the host encounter recently?
-The host was tempted to go out for a fun night with a cute guy who offered free drinks, instead of staying home for household chores.
What was the host's decision regarding the temptation to go out?
-The host decided to stay at home and do the household chores instead of going out.
How does the host justify her decision to stay home?
-She considered the importance of completing her household chores and spending time with her husband.
What does the host mean by 'thinking about what would I lose if I give into the temptation'?
-She means considering the consequences of not doing the household chores and the time lost with her husband if she were to give in to the temptation.
What does the host imply about the relationship between her and her husband?
-The host implies that they have a strong bond and emotional connection, which is important to maintain and prioritize.
What role does the host's husband play in their relationship?
-The husband is described as being very honest and emotionally supportive, helping the host deal with emotions and anger.
How does the host view the concept of 'step' relationships, such as stepfather or stepmother?
-The host believes that 'step' relationships should not be distinguished from biological relationships, as the commitment to raise a child should be the same regardless of blood relation.
What advice did the host give to her husband about being a stepfather?
-She advised him to commit to being a father without the 'step' label and to experience and learn through the process, as there is no book that can fully prepare someone for fatherhood.
What emotion did the host feel during a game at their friend Dang's place?
-The host felt shame, which was a significant emotion for her during the game.
What does the host's experience with the game reveal about her feelings towards responsibility?
-It reveals that the host has a deep-seated fear of not being good enough and fulfilling her responsibilities, even though she knows she can do it.
Outlines
đ· Temptation and Priorities
In this episode, the hosts, SP and Nice, discuss a recent temptation they faced. The temptation involved a chance to meet a charming individual at a bar where SP works part-time. Despite the allure of a fun night out with free drinks, Nice chose to stay home, focusing on household chores and spending time with their husband. The decision was made by weighing the potential loss of time with family and the importance of household responsibilities. The episode highlights the theme of resisting temptation and the value of prioritizing personal commitments over fleeting pleasures.
đšâđ§ The Bond of Stepfather and Stepdaughter
The second paragraph delves into the emotional journey of a stepfather and his relationship with his stepdaughter, AA. The stepfather's commitment to AA is highlighted, emphasizing that despite not being biologically related, he chose to be her father out of love and responsibility. The hosts discuss the importance of not labeling relationships with 'step' prefixes, as it can create unnecessary divisions. The conversation also touches on the stepfather's initial doubts and how he sought guidance on being a father figure. The hosts believe that the emotional connection and commitment are what truly define a family, not blood relations.
đł Overcoming Shame and Embracing Responsibility
In the final paragraph, the host reflects on a personal experience of shame during a game at a friend's place, which led to a realization about their fear of responsibility. The host admits to an inner struggle with the fear of not being good enough, despite daily affirmations of self-worth. This introspection reveals a deep-seated issue with self-doubt and the constant battle to overcome it. The episode concludes with the host's ongoing journey to confront and embrace responsibility, signifying personal growth and self-improvement.
Mindmap
Keywords
đĄTemptation
đĄMaturity
đĄResponsibility
đĄEmotional Support
đĄStepfather
đĄAdoption
đĄCommitment
đĄSelf-Control
đĄPrioritization
đĄEmotional Connection
đĄPersonal Growth
Highlights
Introduction to the podcast 'Spice and Nice' with hosts SP and Nice.
Mention of a recent small temptation that occurred the day before.
An encounter with a cute Korean American guy at the bar where Nice works part-time.
The strong connection and good energy between Nice and the guy they met.
Nice's ability to read the guy's intentions without him asking questions.
The guy's promise to meet at the bar on Monday, creating a temptation for Nice.
Nice's internal struggle between going out for fun and staying home for chores and time with the husband.
Nice's decision to stay home, prioritizing responsibilities over temptation.
Nice's realization of the importance of resisting temptation and the value of priorities.
The emotional support Nice provides to her husband and its impact on him.
The husband's honesty about his reasons for staying with Nice, citing her cuteness.
Discussion on the difference between men and women's reasons for staying committed.
The emotional bond between Nice's husband and his stepdaughter AA, and its significance.
Nice's perspective on the importance of commitment and responsibility in relationships.
Advice given by Nice to her husband on being a stepfather and embracing the role fully.
Reflection on the concept of 'step' relationships and the importance of viewing them as genuine parent-child relationships.
Nice's personal struggle with the fear of not being good enough in fulfilling responsibilities.
Emotional experience during a game at a friend's place, leading to realization of personal shortcomings.
Closing thoughts and sign-off for the next episode of 'Spice and Nice'.
Transcripts
hi guys episode of spice and nice I am
man that's SP and I'm
nice you have go through the Temptation
and you get over
that oh there was a one very recently
but it was a small Temptation it just
happened yesterday oh yes oh my God I
don't know if you're watching this but
if you are you know who you are Saturday
I the person even know you have a
YouTube Chanel probably does probably
does uh so what happened was that
Saturday I met this person
at at the bar where I parttime at and
then he was saying ah you know he
supposed to meet somebody on Saturday
night and the person didn't turn out
purly ask to ask uh Team to ask him to
meet at the bar because I know you're
working today he's a very cute guy I was
like oh did he say I what is it Korean
Korean American or something like that
so it's the kind I like so after that
and and this friend of mine honestly We
Vibe very well together we have very
good energy together when we talk it's
kind of like okay this is how we get
along we don't really we don't text we
don't text hey how you know we don't do
that we only see each other if we happen
to appear at the same time yeah but I
can read him that so well for example
there were two times on Saturday and he
called me he said hey the KN stamp I
love him he didn't ask the question I
already answer he was how did you know
I'm going to ask that I said I see your
face I know by the way it happened twice
okay this is how well our energy match
okay as friends like to be friend he's a
very friendly
person so he told me that he will be
there at the bar on Monday instead which
is yesterday right okay so I was having
myself I was like oh should I should I
go maybe I should go cuz I have nothing
on yesterday night actually and he said
that you will treat me drinks oh okay so
I was like maybe I should go but my
husband like I should stay with him
because on weekend I'm really out right
yeah I like because Monday
this is how boring it is the Temptation
was to go out for a very fun night with
somebody that know is going to be fun
with somebody else that's going to be
cute and with free drinks right how
great is that I mean for is heaven corre
okay versus stay at home to do laundry
to clean the toilet because Monday is my
household Char day this is how I said it
laundry toilet vacuum the house mop the
floor and they cook for my house
yeah so it was a huge Temptation for me
but I decided I decided to stay at home
so how I dealt with it was I just told
myself I said that uh what would
sometimes it's about thinking what would
I lose if I do give into the Temptation
I would lose I will lose time to do the
household CHS because even though the
household CHS are boring they have to be
done yeah they have to be done which
means tomorrow I have to come in and and
do them again if I don't today I'll do
them tomorrow right and then second I
will lose time with my husband because
I'm already out I mean you wouldn't mind
up probably but yeah so so I told myself
I just okay you just don't think about
it anymore so I just had a glass of wine
by myself at home I it's okay then some
wi what some nice shows talk to your
husband look at see how cute he is okay
he cue okay all right all good I just I
realiz oh theise I didn't say of the KN
I become mature they have the priority
what is important what is worth of
keeping yeah but because of this denying
the Temptation right I resisted it
you're watching this you know who you
are okay so anyway uh I was a bit
sensitive with my husband yesterday I
was like you can't have a hopeful the
laundry because I was like I give her my
now for you of course he doesn't know
this you you come and help with the come
now you like okay
he got sced up on nothing poor poor guy
yeah he got sced up on nothing he did
tell me the reason why he say she two
kill so he just say back because she to
cute yeah that's also can be a reason
you know it's a problem it's a problem
for him I don't think that if a guy say
he took K I need to stay back I will I
think that's the difference between
woman and man woman need a better reason
to stay back with a man no because it's
not just he's cute no I'm cute
yeah her husband say she cute that's why
he say yeah he's cute I know I'm cute
and I I take care of his uh I help to
cheer him up yeah so that's why he said
he he can take care of the finance but
he's emotional I help him with it yeah
because the first time we met right that
there was a period of time there was
something that made him very angry he
said last time before he met me he
always feel angry inside inside has
always this anger that
is waiting any time to come out and Bash
people you said but after he met me uh
he went down a lot so he's not so angry
like he's of course he still gets angry
but he's not like the monster is waiting
to bust out at any time back out angle
so yeah I guess that's interesting when
I asked him the reason right because I
say like can you think but he's but he's
very but he's very honest I know he
honest but the the thing he give is not
useful for me when he say ask how do so
how do you keep up with her for last
almost 10 years 10 years almost 10 years
he said oh just because she cute I'm
like oh my God that's is not helpful at
all if he say that's the reason that I'm
going to give give into Jo that's not
going to work no because that is the
that's the most obvious reason but then
but then the reason is the emotional
part also really I think the reason that
Joy still survive with me would be
AA everybody has a weak spot yeah AA is
our weak spot no AA you see this is the
issue a weak spot can also be the thing
that gels you guys closer we can fight
so hard in the room and as a moment we
step out of the room we see every we
look at each other like we stuck with
each other right now so it yes it can be
a weak spot but it can also be the thing
that and by way she not even his
daughter I know but he will but I think
it's so amazing like they were so born
so much with each other that sometime I
forgot that they related you know what I
mean like that's the scary right
but I think to be frank I think that
alone makes him an amazing man yeah so I
think that when was the first one month
when he would a he were very doubt and
he was very confused very lost and he
will very don't know what to do with AA
and I remember this what he asked me I
say can you teach me how to be a father
I never be a father s you're
psychologist can you just tell me what I
need to learn to be a father to be a
stepfather that's why you have to
experience it your no this what I tell
him I
say in this world have no adoption
father stepf father whatever the people
book the word in it just to separate you
from the child yeah okay you want to be
her father you are her father yeah and
you have to think that's what you
committed to
do if you cannot think like that then
you don't even step in because I don't
like when people call Stepmom stepdad or
whatever step that that right it's just
to divide the child and it's more
confusing I think if you choose your
heart and your soul to committed to
raise the person up as your own as your
own I don't say your own child I'm say
your own is like someone that like even
friend right we we don't call step
friend
what right do you it me it mean like
some friend out and then a new friend
yeah I get what you mean like if if I
say okay and we're done and then
suddenly I have new friend like my new
Step friend correct and we don't even do
that with like step teacher or like
set whatever like like I think the only
reason why it appears it happens is
because of the blood relation part yeah
but that's mean nothings friends we we
don't but but you look at all the
children who adopt you if you really
compare then you have to compare to that
level as the moment the child they're
looking for for family you should just
consider that you choose to be their
parent that's it that's it that's it no
step no extra huge commitment and
responsibility yeah so I think after
that day when I give him that sentence
he will more confident and from that to
now they both feel like like like they
even forget F of you not even look the
same I just feel like it is amazing
because you know you think about it this
way even even even blood related moms
and dads sometimes they treat their
children badly right and this is
somebody who has who is not related to
him in any way at all like he didn't
even know about her existence until so
it was like a so it was like a but but
yet but yet it was still a commitment
and I think that's why it's very for me
it's very amazing because it's about
responsibility right yeah and you know
responsibility something we not very
good
at oh oh my God I I hate people not resp
that's why when I realize that you know
I I hate people don't responsibility but
I'm still survived with you for the last
few years who with you I I'm respons you
scared of responsibility but you see
responsibility but you scared of
responsibility I'm scared that I'm not
good enough that I will not be able to
rise up to the occasion and fulfill what
is needed to fulfill does it make sense
yeah so so we we played some games um at
our dear friend dang's place for his
near
program okay for those of you guys who
attending your now I'm not going to give
away any details but there was some uh
emotions there and I think my biggest
one was
like Shame Shame was my biggest oh my
God I'm a different with you yeah I know
I asked you that's why I asked you and
what happened was that that's when I
realized that oh when the M came up I'm
not going to talk about the game or any
of the other words but when the words
came I was like oh this is the one the
was like oh this is the one I can feel
it you know and it was yeah so so that's
why I don't like respons Beauty not not
because I even if I know I can do it I'm
still scared that I will not be good
enough does it make sense like I will
not be good enough even though I
brainwash myself every day that I'm good
enough but it's very
deep-seated it's very deep
inside yeah I'm not going enough and we
will see you guys at the next episode of
spy and I am and the Spy ni bye
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