NukeStream: Preparing Your Home for the Player Lifestyle
Summary
TLDRIn this episode of the Nuke Stream, the host discusses strategies for transforming one's living space into an attractive bachelor pad conducive to a player's lifestyle. He emphasizes the importance of a clean, well-organized apartment, offering tips on creating a comfortable environment with good lighting, tasteful decor, and amenities that cater to both personal comfort and the needs of potential romantic interests. The host also shares insights on overcoming last-minute resistance from guests and the benefits of a home that reflects one's personality and care for life's details.
Takeaways
- 🏠 **Create a Comfortable Space:** The speaker emphasizes the importance of making one's living space comfortable and accommodating for both personal relaxation and for guests, particularly women they may be interested in.
- 💡 **Lighting Matters:** Proper lighting is discussed as a key element in setting the mood, suggesting the use of dimmable or color-changing lights to create a more intimate atmosphere.
- 🎨 **Personalize Your Space:** The script suggests using wall art, artifacts, and personal touches to make the apartment reflect one's personality and experiences, which can be attractive to visitors.
- 🧹 **Maintain Cleanliness:** A clean apartment is highlighted as essential, not only for health reasons but also to make a good impression and reduce anxiety for guests.
- 🚫 **Avoid Clutter:** The advice to resist the urge to overfill the apartment with unnecessary items is given, as clutter can detract from the overall aesthetic and feel of the space.
- 🔞 **Keep Inappropriate Items Out of Sight:** The script advises to hide any items that might be considered weird or off-putting, such as adult toys, political or controversial items, and explicit materials.
- 🛋️ **Furniture and Layout:** The importance of having a well-organized and thoughtfully arranged space is mentioned, including comfortable seating and a home bar that can serve as conversation starters.
- 🌹 **Scent Your Space:** Using candles, diffusers, or natural methods like boiling cinnamon to create a pleasant aroma in the apartment is recommended to make the space more inviting.
- 📚 **Be Selective with What's on Display:** The speaker suggests curating what books and items are visible, choosing those that reflect well on one's character and interests without being off-putting.
- 🛠️ **Use Tools for Maintenance:** The use of tools like lint rollers, steam cleaners, and vacuums is mentioned for keeping the apartment clean and well-maintained.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video script?
-The main theme of the video script is about creating an appealing and comfortable living space, often referred to as a 'bachelor pad', that can be attractive to potential romantic partners.
Why is it suggested to have a nice space according to the script?
-Having a nice space is suggested because it shows competence, can keep girls coming back, provides plausible deniability, and makes it easier to overcome last-minute resistance.
What are some reasons to have a home bar mentioned in the script?
-A home bar is recommended because it adds to the aesthetics of the place, provides an opportunity to make drinks for guests, and serves as a form of plausible deniability for inviting someone over.
What is the significance of 'plausible deniability' in the context of the script?
-'Plausible deniability' refers to having a reasonable excuse or activity that can be used to justify inviting someone over to your place, making them feel more comfortable and less likely to resist the invitation.
What is the role of lighting in creating the right atmosphere according to the script?
-Lighting plays a crucial role in setting the mood. It is suggested to use dim, warm lighting or lights that can cycle through colors to create a cozy and intimate atmosphere.
What is the importance of keeping the bathroom clean and well-stocked with certain items as per the script?
-A clean bathroom with items like makeup remover, feminine wipes, and a fresh roll of toilet paper shows consideration and comfort for guests, which can be particularly important when inviting romantic interests over.
What should be done to maintain the cleanliness of the living space according to the script?
-The script suggests keeping the apartment clean within 30 minutes of it being spotless, which includes cleaning the toilet, emptying the trash, and removing any signs of previous guests such as hair or used condoms.
Why is it advised to have a mattress protector according to the script?
-A mattress protector is advised to prevent stains from bodily fluids during sexual activities, ensuring that the mattress remains clean and prolonging its lifespan.
What are some items that should be considered 'not to have out' in the living space according to the script?
-Items such as weapons, controversial political items, explicit materials, and any collectibles that might be considered weird or niche should be kept out of sight to avoid making guests feel uncomfortable.
What is the purpose of having a nice view or interesting artifacts in the living space as mentioned in the script?
-A nice view or interesting artifacts can serve as a form of plausible deniability and can make the living space more attractive and engaging for guests, showing that the host has good taste and an interesting lifestyle.
Outlines
🎥 Introduction to the Nuke Stream Episode
The speaker introduces a new episode of the Nuke Stream, discussing the importance of setting up a comfortable and appealing living space to accommodate both oneself and potential romantic interests. The episode's theme revolves around transforming one's home into a 'bachelor pad' conducive to a 'player lifestyle.' The speaker shares personal anecdotes and emphasizes the need to create a space that is not only comfortable for personal use but also inviting for the women one might bring home. The mention of a new lighting setup and intro suggests a focus on creating an appealing atmosphere.
💡 The Importance of a Well-Designed Living Space
The speaker delves into the significance of having a well-designed living space, particularly for those looking to improve their dating life. He suggests that as one grows older, it becomes important to move beyond the college setup of a mattress on the floor and create a space that is accommodating for both personal comfort and for guests. The speaker shares his thoughts on the importance of location, financial decisions, and the impact they have on one's lifestyle and attractiveness to potential partners. He also discusses the benefits of living in an urban environment with easy access to amenities and social activities.
🤔 Balancing Personal Taste with Attraction
The speaker discusses the balance between personalizing one's living space and making it attractive to others, specifically women. He advises against oversharing personal hobbies or interests that might be considered niche or off-putting to guests. The speaker also touches on the importance of making financial decisions that allow for a comfortable lifestyle in one's 30s, suggesting that smart choices now can lead to a more attractive living situation later on. He also mentions the idea of 'spinning plates,' encouraging men to experience a variety of relationships to understand the concept of abundance.
🏠 Creating a Comfortable and Inviting Home
The speaker provides advice on how to make one's home comfortable and inviting, discussing the use of lighting, organization, and personal touches that reflect one's personality and interests. He suggests using LED strips in moderation, having a home bar, and creating a space that tells a story about the homeowner. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of cleanliness and organization, as these factors contribute to a welcoming atmosphere that can help to overcome last-minute resistance from guests.
🛋️ Enhancing the Bachelor Pad with Aesthetics and Comfort
The speaker continues to elaborate on the elements that can enhance a bachelor pad, including the use of artwork, lighting, and furniture that align with one's personal style. He advises against minimalism and practicality, suggesting that a balance between aesthetics and comfort is key. The speaker also recommends using Pinterest and other platforms for inspiration and emphasizes the importance of cleanliness, especially in the bathroom, to create a pleasant environment for guests.
🧼 Maintaining Cleanliness and Order
The speaker stresses the importance of maintaining cleanliness in one's living space, particularly the bathroom, as a way to create a positive impression. He provides specific tips on how to keep the bathroom clean, such as using a steam cleaner and ensuring the trash is regularly emptied. The speaker also mentions the use of makeup remover and feminine wipes as thoughtful additions for guests, and the importance of having clean towels and a well-maintained bathroom.
🚫 Avoiding Unwanted Items and Clutter
The speaker advises on the types of items that should be avoided or kept out of sight in one's living space to prevent giving the wrong impression. He mentions controversial items, political memorabilia, explicit materials, and certain collectibles that might be perceived as odd or unappealing. The speaker also discusses the importance of having a clean and organized appearance, including the use of storage solutions and the strategic placement of personal items.
🌹 Creating a Welcoming Environment with Details
The speaker provides a detailed account of how to create a welcoming environment in one's living space. He suggests having a variety of amenities such as mouthwash, extra towels, and bathrobes for comfort. The speaker also recommends using candles or wall plug-ins from Bath & Body Works to create a pleasant aroma. He emphasizes the importance of these small details in making the space inviting and comfortable for guests.
🔚 Wrapping Up with Final Thoughts
In the concluding part of the script, the speaker summarizes the importance of creating a well-designed and comfortable living space. He reiterates the purpose of showing competence and care through one's living environment and the benefits it brings to personal life and relationships. The speaker thanks the audience for watching and hints at using a new outro for the episode.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Bachelor Pad
💡Plausibility Deniability
💡Last Minute Resistance
💡Aesthetics
💡Congruency
💡Home Bar
💡LED Strips
💡Steam Cleaner
💡Condo
💡Feminine Wipes
💡Maturity
Highlights
Introduction of a new lighting setup and intro for the 'nuke stream'.
Discussion on creating a comfortable and accommodating space for both personal and guest enjoyment.
The importance of not just settling for any girl that comes your way and understanding abundance in dating.
Advice on making financial decisions that impact your lifestyle in your early 30s.
The benefits of living in a clean city and the convenience it offers for lifestyle and dating.
The significance of making your home a reflection of your personality and interests.
How to create a bachelor pad that impresses and retains women's interest.
The role of competence in attraction and how to demonstrate it through your living space.
Strategies for dealing with last-minute resistance from women when inviting them to your place.
The impact of having a clean and organized apartment on reducing anxiety for guests.
Tips on maintaining a clean bathroom as a reflection of your lifestyle and consideration for guests.
The use of lighting to set the mood in your apartment for different occasions.
Importance of having a home bar and how it can serve as a conversation starter and display of taste.
How to use wall art and personal touches to make your apartment more inviting and reflective of your personality.
The role of music and sound in creating a relaxed atmosphere in your living space.
Practical advice on keeping your apartment clean and presentable at all times for unexpected guests.
Discussion on the types of items to avoid displaying in your home to maintain a mature and appealing environment.
Final thoughts on the importance of aesthetics, comfort, and care in creating a living space that reflects your best self.
Transcripts
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hey what's up guys this is another
episode of the nuke stream um playing
around with some lighting uh got some
red light in the background I know I'm
trying to do something but we'll see
what happens but uh yeah this is the the
new the new lighting new intro hope you
guys liked
it um it's a little long but I'll
shorten it later some sometimes just
messing around but uh yeah welcome guys
uh another episode of the nuke stream
today we're going to be talking about um
how to get your crib your your home your
apartment your spot your bachelor pad
how to get it uh primed and ready
for the player Lifestyle the spinning of
the plates bringing girls at strange
hours of the night and all that right um
I know there's some there's some guys
that you know all they had was a
mattress um and they were able you know
um they were able to bring girls back to
this just mat and a TV on the flooor or
whatever um and they did just fine right
but as time goes on as you get older um
you kind of want to build a space or
build a apartment or a home that's very
accommodating not only for you but also
for the women that you're going to be
bringing over um so yeah you you can't
do the whole mattress thing on the floor
I mean in college you know it's
contextual right in college it's great
because no one expects you to live nice
and um
and and all that and then in if you you
know if you're if you hit rock bottom
too it's kind of like you don't even
care anymore right so but when you're in
between when you're doing well you're
just you know want a comfortable space
um then you know why not put a little
effort into your home and uh first off
you should always make it the way you
want it right but there's just some
things that you have to compromise or
have to do in order to make the most of
this part of your life with just
spinning plates right you may not want
to do it forever but there every man you
know I'm going to prescribe every man
should spin plates even if it is for
just six months just to understand what
abundance is and how
um how how it feels to have options
versus settling for any girl that comes
your way right um but anyways guys I'll
put my link in the chat you guys know
where to find me uh like And subscribe
if you haven't already after the show if
you have any suggestions for Content or
anything like that or any questions
please comment and like as well and uh
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Friday um you know very practical stuff
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I check I'll check the chat in the
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sometimes middle of the day if I'm not
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prescriptions and helping you guys with
questions or anything like that right so
yeah guys join the patreon $5 a month uh
you get to support me and also I write
articles and now there's a group chat
and uh once I get enough members I'd say
like 50 members then I'll start doing
videos of just like really practical
dating stuff and you know get you from
two lays a month or five lays a year to
maybe 10 lays a year or something like
that right um I know that doesn't seem a
lot right but five five girls versus 10
girls is a big boost right most people
only sleep with most guys aren't even
getting laid right and if they are it's
like three girls a year so anything uh
to help you guys move that needle a
little bit I will be dropping bombs in
the chat and all that stuff so anyways
Guys Without further Ado back to the
topic
so um you want
to essentially turn your apartment crib
whatever into a bachelor pad right um
you know we see these M movies and all
that stuff where it's like a rich guy he
has a penthouse apartment somewhere in a
large corporate building and uh you know
like Bruce Wayne Right Where it's it's
like this exaggeratedly Rich kind of
space right and you don't need that to
impress women however you you got to do
like most of most of uh getting women
and like uh gaming and all that stuff a
lot of guys quit because they don't they
want to optimize day one right and and
as you go through
life you can't uh use I I need a perfect
answer or a perfect solution as your
excuse not to to take action for your
reproductive problem you need to do the
best you can with what you got so um one
of the thing one of the low one of the
lower hanging fruits in terms of M of
improvement and also help you with game
and retaining women and you know
ultimately just being uh Cut Above the
Rest is having a nice a nice space right
so before we get into how to you know
organize things things to have things
that helped me and all that stuff um
your first thing you want to do is make
money right and I know that's easy to
say right but like um the more money you
make and the better Financial de
decisions you make when you're younger
um the better you can live in your early
30s which is that window where or you
know you start hitting your stride in
life you know um you don't want to be
the guy that messed up constantly in his
20s and then hits his 30s and he still
has to live in the outskirts of town 30
minutes away from anything interesting
right because that is going to make your
it's going to suffer from your Logistics
and all that that's not to say that if
you enjoy living far away from the city
it means you're a failure but it just
brings more challenges in terms of
bringing back to your girls back to your
place now if you're like me and enjoy
the city um especially Southern City
Southern Clean Cities like Dallas
um living downtown is great you know
there's there's plenty to do there's hot
girls because hot women tend to
congregate in the nicer areas downtown
there's college girls all around um and
you know planning a day here is easy you
know I I got an apartment near a very
popular area um very cool popular area
and there's bars all over easy to bar
hop easy to uh take girls back to my
place easy to take do errands you know
my anything from taking Tadashi to the
vet right across the street getting dry
cleaning done grabbing Chipotle if I
don't feel like cooking everything is
walking distance so it makes my life
easier and I can I don't have to turn on
my car for literally every errand I have
to run
um yeah uh so first thing you want to do
is you know make money but let's assume
assuming that you live in a place that's
not horrible you're not living in the
hood and you're not living you know in
in the country which you know Paul from
Kam on podcast um he has a whole guide
but because he actually that's that's
how where he lives that's who he is
right he likes the country and all that
so uh but I always think you know living
in the city is great um it's a great
place in a clean City in a Republican
state right it's always um a good idea
you know we have like one bum for like
20 blocks right and um private security
you know people come here as soon as a
branch falls after a storm there's
people come cleaning it up we have
landscaping services for the
neighborhood it's great it's like it
solves a lot of problems that I know
eventually I'm G to have a home I want
to have a home because I want a yard for
Tadashi maybe have it get adopt another
Shiva um maybe build a studio if I want
to keep doing this or at least Studio to
play music and just have a space that
feels mine right but for now um until
maybe home prices drop or interest drops
then I'm stuck in this apartment which I
I'm not really complaining uh so yeah
make sure you guys keep making good
financial decisions so that when you're
in your 30s you can start doubling down
on the things that make you attractive
and make it easy to bet beautiful women
right especially For You younger guys as
you can see more and more men are are um
not trying so when you guys who are
building yourselves up right now it's
probably all my followers if you're guys
in your 20s and you're listening to my
stuff then you're probably in already in
the top 20% of guys right it's just
you're not unattractive you're you're
not
um unattractive to
women um but you're not they're not
flocking to you yet right that and that
takes time right usually around your 30s
is when you start noticing a big shift
in how women treat you and all that but
it's a topic for another day U so yeah
keep making smart financial decisions
you will be able to afford a nicer place
maybe a house or anything and then you
can hit you know live in a place where
you can just walk down the block to a
nice bar take a girl
out
um and you
know you can just two blocks down walk
to your place have her in your arm she
won't she'll be like man this guy is you
know he lives in a nice spot I don't see
why I shouldn't um get with this guy
right but anyways uh so there you know
several points um but before I begin uh
on those points we have godsy what's up
man uh Wayne Smith Men abilities might
be a good future topic just a list of
guy things a guys should be able to do
not for others but to keep the money
they earn and maintain that what's there
save money is a value yeah uh we're
going to talk about some job stuff on
Sunday um on posto Jack Napier show it's
going to be very practical about jobs
and all that stuff everyone on posto has
a kind of a different background I come
from more of a stem engineering nuclear
background military and all that stuff
so it's going to be valuable you know um
like I said I love talking about the 10
10,000 yards St of red pill stuff but I
also like talk about super practical
stuff to get us from point A to point B
right which is why I ask people like
what's your plan um we can't do this
whole what is thing you know hey did you
know that scientists say this great uh
how does that make my life better right
remember if it's not red pill it's not
useful or if it's not useful it's not
red pill uh so yeah it's interesting to
learn about different aspects of Science
and human behavior but that's not really
useful it's just for fun it's
entertainment and I think ultimately
science scientists researchers all that
kind of like don't like that about the
red pill is that we view science it's
like that's interesting and then we go
back to mental models that even even if
they're not um rooted in reality
sometimes they work and that's what they
hate you know and they want to convince
me of certain things like do you guys
really think that scientists convincing
you that you're a bad person because
you're a man automatically you think
that helps you as a guy does it you know
that date like weirdo he was like um you
know men are more Pro have a higher
propensity for beastiality than women
and I'm like okay dude but like how does
this help why do you think we don't take
you seriously and why do you how does
this help anyone like I don't think I
have you know what are the chances you
meet somebody that wants to have sex
with an animal that's a dude right I
don't get it like why are we even
talking about this it's what a waste of
time you know U meanwhile I'll say
something like hey you know Comfort does
not build
arousal right Alpha [ __ ] beta bucks
besides hypergamy right people don't
understand that and there was a whole
discussion under one of my threads
about um orgasms like women orgasm more
when they're comfortable right and and
the study is dumb because they said oh
women don't orgasm on a first night late
or that but I don't know whatever right
um and the thing is
that you know how is that helpful for
you to for someone to tell you hey women
need comfort to orgasm like does it do
they really have you guys tried it you
know if you guys really think that just
all all they're doing is try to trying
to get this
um trying to get uh women to look better
in front of everyone and men look worse
it's just like and if women look bad
then they'll find a way to make men look
worse right women like
beastiality but men do it more women men
like it more we're just like Jesus
Christ you know like no we don't like no
like that's an a psychological that's a
psychological outlier like you'd be hard
pressed to find a guy that's into that
right um needle and the haystack kind of
deal is negligible if we find a person
that's like that then we just throw him
in jail or in a mental hospital we move
on like we've always done right like why
do we even have to talk about this um
however guys you know ending their lives
after a divorce that's pretty common so
we need to focus on that but you know
they want to focus on that and waste
your time and make you feel bad for
being a man because you know you haven't
had that enough your whole life so
yeah um you're not unattracted to him
but you're nothing special with there
yeah it's the top 20% like you wanna you
want to start there right and then
within that you there's things that can
help you get um to that 4% um that
everyone talks about um these are
arbitrary numbers guys don't look too
much into the numbers but 20% to 4% one
of the thing and that's why you know
that's basically the basis of this new
ex stream is like we take take the
10,000 yard look of the whole thing and
then we we we we all most of us if you
guys are in the chat you're probably in
the top 20% but um now we got to get
higher we have to get that edge um and I
know sometimes it doesn't feel like it's
worth it but a lot of guys be like all
that's for a girl and I'll say hey what
about for three girls what about a high
body count what about freedom and peace
because that's what the end goal of this
right um when you have abundance um you
feel at peace you don't feel like every
girl is you know the the your needs are
in the hand of some chubby five um who's
late to a date and and it's not a joy to
be around right your your sex life you
you never feel that anxiety that you you
won't you don't know when you're going
to have sex again you know that sometime
this week you're going to have sex right
and that's a really comfortable feeling
and I feel like if you it's worth all
every single ounce of effort that I've
ever put in into this stuff that I wake
up and I know someone is going to have
sex with me this week some girl is going
to have sex with me this week and if she
doesn't have sex with me this week then
the next week and you know what maybe I
just need some time to rest I've been
going out too much or I need to sleep or
I got a big job or big project or
whatever or I want to spend time with my
dog or my family so I've already had sex
a lot in the past and I know I'll have
it in the future so I don't care I just
I don't have to like set aside that big
of a time um in my life for that so yeah
um anyways uh here we
go uh science is what you you make it
yeah you can you can change around the
the stats all you want to make to make
your point right it's just like we don't
have time for this like what works what
works what's getting me late you
know you guys can keep your debates
obviously I'll debate for clout so I can
reach more guys guys but
like you guys know how I am I probably
don't even have the patience for that
so um anyways so building the perfect uh
the perfect Bachelor pair we're going to
discuss why you should the basics that
you need for your apartment or home um
what not to have out and then ultimately
like uh some ideas that I and then
personally the things I use and
Implement into my own apartment um that
you know girls have commented on and
liked and enjoyed and made pretty much
life easier for me as a um womanizer
right um I feel like I should be
retiring soon I'm getting bored of
dating but uh I will pass every ounce of
knowledge I ever learn to you guys uh
through here and for free um and then
I'll write a book I guess eventually um
you guys have some crazy stories and
crazy
lessons but without further Ado why you
should okay here are some four reasons
why you should um it shows competence
right everyone everyone wants you to
care and the reason for example you're
like scrolling through YouTube and you
just see a guy like these guys that
build a
house um this guy that these These Guys
in like some third world country in Asia
that build a house underground or
something or a pool right you know that
you know those those guys that just take
one stick and they and they build all
that and you and you're wondering why do
I like this so much or the people that
are doing like uh on Instagram or
YouTube the people that are power
washing um cars or cutting the lawn or
something or doing something cool or
something very satisfying the reason you
like that stuff is because you're seeing
competence in action you're seeing
people um that care the people that
putting effort towards something and and
then them achieving something and people
really enjoy when you care about things
right have you have you guys ever been
to a friend's house who just their house
is a mess their toilet is dirty and and
it's just like Jesus Christ like do you
care about anything have you ever been
out with a guy where you're you know
you're dressed nice and that guy dressed
like a slob you know didn't even wash
his hair or something it's just like you
don't want to be around people like that
because while they are Maybe funny and
and you know cool to be around they just
show a lack of care and um I don't know
about you guys but when I have anyone
over F friends family or girls I like to
make my space very accommodating because
I want people to know that I care and
that's that's basically rule number one
of life is that you have to care like
the more you care the better you'll do
right and that's very important it's
more of like a overall arcing arching
arcing um thing is hey I care I give a
[ __ ] I'm invested in my life and I'm
invested in myself and I'm going to show
that in different ways whether it be
competence like just going to like in my
body going to the gym going all that in
my job being comp competent on my job
caring being involved in in at work um
and then in my sex life it's like all
that converges right but like one of the
things that people see as part of who
you are is how you live right and if
they see that you have an interesting
apartment with interesting things and
it's cozy and it's well organized and it
has a personality and it's cozy and all
that stuff people want to come back
people want to see you and especially
women right so showing that you care is
very important in any aspect of life
especially your home
so anyways uh yeah and and that this
will keep girls coming back right um
think about it it's what you know like
right now it's it's cold out I don't
know where you guys live I know uh SC
speed you live in Australia ocean man I
think you live in
Dr or Puerto Rico Puerto Rico right um
Wayne Smith I don't know where you live
but
uh um yeah
if you have a cozy apartment with like
for example my apartment has a home bar
I got you know music in the background I
you know I play piano for women
sometimes or they'll play for me you
know recently I had a women play for me
and I was very
impressed um and all that and
um you know I have couches I have
pictures of my family all around I have
an Alexa TV so I you know voice command
the TV to like put on some low low fire
beats and just make it a very attractive
spot you know I have video games but
they're not out like you know like I
don't have like a Shelf full of like
PlayStation 4 games you know I I have
them neatly organized inside of a
cabinet somewhere and I have I have my
switch IA switches look kind of like
aesthetic so you know if a girl a lot of
times I've gotten women you know say oh
you have a switch I like this game I
like that game because you know a lot of
a lot of women are playing more games
and you know like they're they're
um what do you call it uh they
are um suggesting more games like uh now
I play overcooked or you know a lot of
girl like girls like to play video games
now like cuty games right so if you
build a space where they feel
comfortable where they can be themselves
it's like it they'll keep coming back
they'll enjoy the time there and hell
here it saves you money right because
instead of going um out to go on dates
they sometimes they be like hey can we
just cook at your place you know your
place is comfortable you know or can we
just watch a movie because it's cozy
it's cold out it's cozy you have a very
nice spot your bathroom's clean and you
have feminine products for them and all
that so so yeah it's it's very important
that uh you know you you have your place
set up correctly so these women can come
back and then maybe they'll start not
wanting to spend money on dinners and
stuff when they can just be like hey can
I go to your apartment and cook for you
right so you see how how we went from
from um make good money have some
uh take some time out to make your spot
look nice um and then you know have a
couple plates and have one of the girls
she'll probably hey like hey can we just
stay go to your place and I'll cook for
you and you know you save money and you
you don't have to go outside obviously
maybe going outside is fun you want to
go on a DAT but you know like saving
yourself a hundred bucks and eating and
having a woman for you is
probably much better sometimes than
going out but anyway so yeah it'll keep
them coming back and that's what you
want
um ocean man I once went into the
apartment of a for former acquaintances
smell of animal piss and [ __ ] from a
variet pets boxes full of books and
other stuff shooting around an unhinged
bathroom door yeah it's like what the
hell like you don't want to come back
there you know you want to come to a
place where come into a place where it
smells good and all that stuff so yeah I
know how you feel my friend upper middle
west okay so maybe
uh Kansas no that's not Upper
Midwest
Illinois
Minnesota Puerto Rico yes I knew I
thought someone else is from wee wee is
from uh Dominican Republic you are from
Puerto Rico I get you guys confused
sorry uh Chad alkins what's up man how
you doing Chad um look look like
everyone a lot of people aren't here
they're all watching axess Vegas but
that's fine um everyone can watch it on
their own time uh my netive wisdom is
Led strips the girls at my college un
say it's 5 yeah I would be careful with
LED strips because um I would say don't
use it for your whole apartment I'll say
just for your TV you know those LED
strips that kind of connect to your TV
and when you're watching shows or
playing PlayStation it change it changes
to match the color those are nice but I
I wouldn't LED your whole house um
because it just start starts looking too
like
uh it just starts looking too tacky you
know um but I think place that use in
moderation LED lights are better and and
then there's other version of more
mature looking kind of lights for your
apartment if you guys look on
uh on on Amazon also there's a lot of
influencers and guys on Instagram that
have like uh products that hey um here's
my crib these are the things that I got
and there's Pinterest too so we'll get
into that
um yeah animal cross yeah girls like the
Animal Crossing they like the overcooked
and Mario Party maybe so yeah girls like
video games but the thing is like don't
turn your don't make your living room
into a uh into a man like a gaming cave
you know like have have a little bit of
like maturity like I love video games
right but I'm not gonna put Pokemon
posters um o above my couch right you
could good right
but you know when it comes to this
womanizing stuff you're not always going
to you
know you're not always going to bring
girls over that are okay with or that
understand your nerdy Hobbies right most
every girl now you don't know her into
know her right um there are women that I
swore were like these [ __ ] kind of
like Stacy type girls and then they
ended up having you know loving to watch
anime and playing video games right and
there are women that I'm like oh she's a
nerdy girl but they like you know they
don't they don't like the fact that I
have a Studio G like box set of Studio
gibly over
there like what's this you're into this
so it's like keep it to a minimum you
can still have it out but just keep it
to a minimum and all that and I say like
when you have a girlfriend or you just
don't and if you truly don't care like
go ahead but like understand that you're
going to have that kind of
like kind of feeling where oh [ __ ] like
is this guy one of those weird nerdy
guys you know but uh I'm sure you guys
can figure it out so I live in a dorm so
yeah yeah
um yeah too much LED when you're past 30
30 years old doesn't look good but like
when you're younger it's not a big deal
because you know as you as you grow
older as a man and um you know women
have certain expectations
right the ocean man I have a two room
apartment one is a small bed room though
there's a big office studio and the four
years is in the living room kitchen C
damn
man what uh what what uh town in Puerto
Rico are you living in that sounds chill
you have a good
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good times I wanted I wanted the
Roosevelt I live in San The View I have
is the freaking freway damn man well
it's better than no view my view is
amazing I I have a lot of first kisses
right here is my balcony that is like
the it's just Dallas like the Dallas
Skyline perfect Dallas Skyline um and
then if you look to the left it's like
my neighborhood's the top of building
all my neighborhoods like I've had so
many first kisses on that balcony and
the girls think it's magical but you
know that's that's my Skyline and it's
pretty awesome so sorry
manto
Ric you know the most one of the most
beautiful places on Earth right but
anyway
um so
what was I saying
um so yeah
uh keeps girls coming back plausible
deniability would be your next reason to
to kind of
implement um have a nice place right
um so when when we talk about plaus
deniability you know we always
say girls need a reason boys just need a
place this is that kind of like you know
saying where you have a place right your
place needs to have the plausible
deniability for example I have plenty
like oh I have a puppy that's usually
more than enough to get a girl to come
back to your play hey you want to meet
my puppy um or hey I I'll play You A
Song Piano or hey I'll make you a drink
I have like you know home bar and all
that stuff um or hey I have a nice view
I have so much plausible deniability but
remember guys I'm pretty far along and
I'm pretty much professional I'm kind of
a Savage when it comes to this dating
stuff so I knew what I was doing right
so plausible deniability can come in
many forms like the four forms I told
you it's in my dating thread basically I
think the best uh plausible deniability
is is a is a puppy right and I know you
know if you if you like dogs and you
already have one Implement that don't
get a puppy just to have plausible
deniability right it's a it's a human
sorry it's a living thing and you
shouldn't get a dog just to impress
ladies although it helps them
tremendously but um you know you should
get a dog because you want a dog but if
you have a dog or are thinking of
getting one it is the best possible
diability it's ridiculous right um and
also for gaming chicks on the street
going for a walk is pretty awesome
so anyways guys
um what was I saying uh hold
on
I gotta I'm gonna retweet I gotta
retweet
uh something hold
on one second
guys see if it gets more more people in
here um but anyway uh let me turn on
these lights I'm not like I'm liting
this lighting it's too dark but know
I'll figure it out next time but um but
yeah
uh let me
uh plausability right so whatever you
guys are into any cool hobbies anything
you want to you know obviously you can
make up plausible deniability hey I got
a mid you want to see
him um when it comes to plausible
deniability uh think about the things
that you're into that are cool that are
interesting right for you guys that are
more nerds like me and all that stuff
there's a lot of things like that you
shouldn't use don't use your nerdy
Hobbies as plausible deniability unless
you're on a day with a girl that has
expressed enthusiasm in your hobby right
so if you let's say
um you know you have anime figurines or
whatever you're into or you collect
something if she says that I'm into
anime first or I'm into stuff really
first then go ahead and you know you can
use that as your plausible deniability
but try to make the cool the universally
cool things about you or interesting
things about you your plausible
deniability for example if you are a
musician that is your plausible
deniability hey you want I could play a
song for you what's what's your favorite
song um if you have a nice view that
will be your plausible deniability if
you have a home bar whatever that will
be your plausible deniability um but
your nerdy stuff like your Nintendo
switch that I have out and my you know
um
um I don't know watching crunchy roll or
something um any any anything like
that um it
will kind of run the risk of weirding
her out if she's not already
enthusiastically expressed that she's
into that stuff too right um but yeah
posible I believe okay moving on to it
makes it easier to come overcome last
minute resistance yes so you guys
understand last minute
resistance um basically you have the
girl there you're walk into your
apartment you have her there she's happy
or she's driving you back to your
apartment or you're finding parking so
you can go to your apartment whatever
and last minute she says hey I'm not
feeling this right or hey I need to go
or hey I just changed my mind or
something right um and girls do that you
know they they have a [ __ ] anti-s [ __ ]
defense where they're like crap I don't
want them to think I'm a [ __ ] or if I
sleep with him now he's is probably
going to think I'm a [ __ ] or whatever
you know whatever anti- [ __ ] defense she
has right when she walks into your
apartment and she sees how comfortable
it is and how like warm and inviting
your apartment is it could kind of like
be like okay this guy's kind of he's not
a weirdo he has this life together um
you know things might happen you know
this guy seems to know what he's doing
right and I know girls say like oh is
this how you is where you bring all your
girls this is really nice you know I get
all I bet all the girls you bring her
like it or something whatever [ __ ]
right um
but
honestly
um
the the last minute resistance can
be I have ways to defeat it it's not
super ethical not legal but it's not the
most ethical thing but in terms of um
your apartment being in tiptop shape
you'll be able to kind of create a
feeling of comfort and relaxation you
know um around your around the girl
especially if you live in a nice area
she'll figure out like oh this guy is
musician he has makes nice drinks he has
a cute puppy I kind of want to hang out
here for a couple hours you know I'll
waste his time and see and then you
defeat that last minute resistance with
kind of like a nice spot a comfortable
spot right remember is put your put your
put your
uh put yourself in the girl shoes the
girl is very uh you know she's attracted
to you but there's still anxiety meaning
she's in a strangers apartment she's
much weaker than you and um she's
probably kind of tipy so she's running a
big risk right you know things usually
don't happen like that but you know
never mind she's running a big risk
right but if you if you sees that your
apartment is nice and organized and
looks good then um you know it will kind
of calm her down and and that anti-
defense slowly goes down right um
anyways all right so let's talk about
Basics that you need to make your your
place look good right everyone has their
own personality everyone has their own
way of making their apartment look cool
for me I kind of went for like the
Indiana Jones look where I have
artifacts of all my travels and places
I've been because you know kind of
traveled a lot because of the Navy and
then as a child I traveled too um so I
have stuff like from all the countries I
went to artifacts uh little
statues um trinkets that people bring me
so my house almost looks like a museum
right if I if I showed you my my
uh my fireplace um you'll be like man
this looks like a like a museum display
right because I want that I want my
apartment to tell a story and your
apartment should tell a story about you
right that way when you have a girl come
over um all everything that she talked
about on the date with you you can add
to that congruency of who you are
because it's shown in your adventures
through pictures artifacts and Just Vibe
I hate using the word Vibe right but
like just just the feeling of oh this
guy is who he says he is he's he's
traveled and we talked about traveling
but here's actually the pictures of him
going places right oh he talked about
his mom and his dad how much he loved
them here's a picture of his him and his
family on his birthday you know um and
all that um but you know it it it's
important that you have that you choose
what kind of what you you're trying to
convey with your apartment right so in
my case I had to find a way to display
all this stuff and not have it cluttered
all over my apartment right so I had to
get shelves I had to get um you know uh
kind of like find shelves and stuff like
that to kind of display the stuff or in
an organized fashion that way my
apartment and look all cluttered and all
that stuff which it's it is kind of
cluttered right now so I'm finding ways
to declutter and all that stuff
but ultimately yeah it's it's a it's a
great it's a great way of adding
congruency to who you are as a man right
um so also if you're a musician uh to
keep your music stuff organized you know
your guitar on a nice stand or on the
wall right keep your if um you have a
nice setup for your computer you know
keep everything the cables the wiring
you know cable management very important
keep everything nice and organized right
because you want your cuz when you have
a mess a messy apartment or cled
apartment it kind of adds to the anxiety
and and the fun it takes away from the
funu whatever so so yeah um so you know
you want to have posters or or wall art
you know I I personally don't like
modern art or anything like that it's
too boring you know look at stuff look
at the vibe of of what you want for your
apartment right if you're your apartment
like for example if you want to give the
vibe of just like a very I don't know
let's say like cyber Punk like cyberpunk
with plants you know if you go on
Pinterest you find some interesting
stuff there so you're probably gonna
have a couple LEDs but also you want to
have like plants all around your
apartment right and maybe the wall art
will be of some futuristic thing or some
kind of like uh theme futuristic theme a
motorcycle futuristic motorcycle or
something like that on the wall and that
looks cool it adds to the apartment
right and makes your apartment look
super cool and relaxed and chill right
um but that's for you to decide whatever
your Vibe wants to be it needs to match
your personality and what you want your
place to be right so um let's say like
ocean man um his geek and nerd and art
stuff is mainly in his studio and PS4 is
in living room with the TV yeah so maybe
his studio is
probably um kind of more on the nerdy
side because that's that's kind of where
you are do your thing right but maybe
you had a couple plants a little couch
in the in the background or something
you know there's plenty of ideas if you
guys go on Pinterest there's so many
ideas right I used to go on a on forchan
on the Fashion Board there was always
like a post your living space kind of
thread and people gave ideas and all
that stuff and you have Pinterest and
you know now you have these influencers
on Instagram and Tik Tok that kind of
like show off their places and then you
know they suggest discount things to
make your place look better you know
obviously they're trying to sell you a
product but some sometimes it's you know
like it's it's not a terrible idea to
invest in stuff so yeah make sure that
your wall art represents you and don't
make it too like don't make it don't buy
a wall art of Pikachu you know like kind
of buy wall art of like more mature
things just so you can have that kind of
like you know so a girl doesn't walk in
and be like is that Pikachu really you
know you save that for maybe one day
you'll date a girl that likes Pokemon
and she's okay with that but you
know um
so a one suggest another suggestion is
have have pictures of you doing fun
stuff you know like a lot of guys will
only have sports pictures anime stuff um
hot girls or hot chicks you know like
have P pictures of your family of your
friends of you socializing being a
normal person right you love your family
right so why not have pictures of them
you know pictures of your dog you doing
cool stuff memories um very important
right because if you don't you know it's
just going to make your place look kind
of like like dead you know like who who
are you you know you
don't who are who are the people in your
life you know you want to present an
image to yourself and to the to people
like hey I'm a normal person and I have
a normal life right it's like Instagram
but in real life
so I could add some furniture in the
studio if I want to draw women live
there you go you know let's get these
hamsters rolling let's get these let's
brainstorm that's what we're here for
right and if you guys have suggestions
I'll take them you know
um but but yeah so
um I I have a I have a home bar home bar
helps trendly really adds to your place
um my my previous show uh on
alcohol um we talk about uh how to build
a home bar and all the concepts and
stuff so highly recommend you don't need
a big ass wide huge thing right it could
be just a what like a 3 by3 table and
you just organize it and have a couple
um levels to that table and then you
have a home bar and you and you know you
make it look nice right I I'll post a
picture on Twitter of my what my home
bar looks like I think it's kind of
dirty right now I was making drinks
yesterday before uh going out but uh
yeah um very very cool it really adds to
your apartment and it kind of
makes gives you more plausible
deniability because you could be like
hey hey girl I can make you a drink you
know so anyways
uh so lighting is important um for a lot
of apartments that lighting that the
ceiling lighting is very bright and
white and it kind of like kills the mood
so I would suggest uh going on Amazon or
anything and getting some lights that
kind of dim or lights that U cycle
through color so like you know if things
get hot and heavy with the girl you can
go to that red light or something and it
adds to like the kind of experience and
you put on some some like some music or
something personally I like when I'm
getting intimate with a girl I like
ratone it just puts me in the mood and
all that stuff right um
so um for the most part uh yeah lighting
is important right like don't have too
many lights but also have some kind of
lighting that's like dim and low and
kind of sexy and all that stuff and um
you know I'm going to leave it up to you
guys to find stuff that kind of goes
with your apartment right like again
Pinterest is your friend there's you
have the internet the internet has
plenty of ideas be creative and um uh
for you guys that are into Tech and into
like kind of like
having nice setups like there's plenty
of people on on
Instagram or reals that that show you
like different suggestions and different
things so you can have a really cool
setup like right now I'm going to add
some stuff to my setup and then I'll
take a picture for you guys and you know
maybe maybe I'll tweet like hey show me
your battle station or show me your
setup that and I can get suggestions too
and all that so so yeah it's it's very
important um that that we straight notes
on this stuff because you know find some
cool TCH to make our places look nice
godset says girls care about Aesthetics
guys T to be too minimal and too
practical yeah you got to find a you
gotta find a middle ground right
because you know you can't live in a on
a mattress on the floor right you got to
make your place look kind
of inviting you
know
so Tony class said low pulsing red
lights ratone from a soundar will do it
geez yeah yeah there's a there's
speakers that like you know they go with
the that they they move they flash
lights um with the music right so yeah
there you go and you could easily find
that Amazon really cheap you know this
stuff's really it'll break in a year
right but it's cheap
so I also make some paintings and hang
them in a wall there you go like now you
have now you you're decorating your
apartment with your own stuff and you
have a story to tell like hey this is
painting inspired me to do this it's
literally guys like once you start
giving it a little of thought and care
it becomes so easy to like impress women
it's just ridiculous right and we're
here to get go from that 20% to that 4%
if you know if possible way Smith says I
did the vintage light buls they make a
soft orange almost light comforting in a
lamp by the couch yeah actually my
friend just gave me like a three tier
one which has three one on you know like
and actually like mine is tall and it
has the button on the bottom that you
don't have to like you know kind of like
find it's just you you step on it it's
the buttons on the floor and man does it
I think it's lit right now if you see
behind me and it just creates a nice
orange soft light and that just gets you
kind of like relaxed in the mood imagine
you bring a girl you make her a drink
and you have some nice lowf five music
playing in the background and she's
already like three four drinks in and
you know you can make your move and
she'll she'll look at you know she'll
look at the vibe and should be like wow
like this guy's know what he's doing
like this guy's good I'm glad I'm here
you know this is the best state I've
been on in a long time so yes I highly
recommend the vintage light bulbs as
they give you a nice and they look nice
you know they're aesthetic you know
there not like the old school bulb you
know it's actually like a vintage light
so so
yeah um thanks for the comments what
type of music not to play
uh I don't know for the most part when
you're when you have a girl over you're
playing music for you know just like
more smooth relaxed music low Pace you
don't want to like um put on like heavy
metal or something like you know guys
use your Noggin like come on don't don't
play
like you know something soft relax chill
you know that's why I always say low
five is good because it's it just
relaxes people relaxes me I listen to it
at night sometimes so yeah anyways
uh so yeah less is more guys resist the
urge to have clutter don't overfill your
I know it's hard because there's so much
cheap crap on Amazon and if you're not
careful you end up filling your
apartment with like a whole bunch of
[ __ ] you don't need so just be careful
with that um yeah
um yeah and then keep your apartment
clean right um You you need to keep your
apartment clean it like my rule for
myself is keep your apartment within 30
minutes of it being very clean right
that means you can have a little stuff
out maybe you forgot to take out the
trash you don't have to be uh
super strict with yourself right but
like there you just got to keep your
apartment clean right and if for you
guys that are really taking off right
you know like one of the things you
should always be careful is the bathroom
trash right girls tend to throw condoms
in there after you have they have sex
with you they're you know their wipes
the wipes that you have they'll start
they'll throw that stuff in there and
when the next girl comes she's gonna see
that she's G be like ew what the hell um
you know so
I'm not saying discourage women from
finding out that you have other girls
but like there's better ways to do that
than an old condom or a bloody paper
towel or paper towel in your trash right
um so essentially what you want is to to
clean your apartment have within 30
minutes you're have a full clean
apartment or dorm room or house or
whatever so if if a girl texts you hey
can I come over tonight you have enough
time to like clean up and at least make
it presentable right and make sure that
the most important things that you
should always keep clean is um you know
the things that smell like your toilet
your trash stuff like that that smell
those are all mood Killers right imagine
you're bringing a new girl back and she
smells amazing you smell good and then
you open your apartment and it smells
like rotting bananas or rotting fruit in
your apartment or she goes to the toilet
and there's doooo stains on the toilet
right so always make sure that those are
your priority before going out right if
you're going out just to talk to girls
or to a Sal night or whatever or you're
going on a date those two things should
be taken care of before you leave your
house right under no circumstance will
you let your house leaving being super
smelly if you have pets you want to make
sure they didn't pee anywhere or poop
anywhere um not that women really care
that much A lot of women understand dogs
and all that
stuff so um yeah make sure that your
bathroom trash trash can is constantly
emptied out and uh I use like the the
the the plastic bags from the grocery
store as bags trash bags for the
bathroom trash
um yeah and then your bathroom should
also be inviting guys just like anywhere
anywhere else so thanks to have your
bathroom would be um a makeup remover so
if you ever go to a hotel they have
makeup remover on the counter so what
you want to do is like keep a couple of
those for yourself and then have them
out in a nice little bowl or nice
obvious place that way if a girl comes
over you could be like hey I have makeup
remover right it's it's a nice thing to
do it's a nice gesture it shows that uh
it's consideration right you already
blew her back out or you're about to
blow her back out the least you can do
is give her some feminine products so
she can clean her face all right another
thing you should have is right above the
toilet you will have
um feminine wipes right um that way
before a girl sleeps with you if you
guys notice before a girl sleeps with
you or She's kissing you and you're in
the middle of making out sometimes
she'll stop and be like hey I need to go
to the bathroom she says that because
she's going to go clean her vagina
because she's expecting or it could be
possibly lead to sex right so if you
have a feminine wife she doesn't have to
like roll the toilet paper in a thing
around her finger and wipe her vagina
with dry ass toilet paper right feminine
wipes are designed for her private parts
so you can wipe uh wipe it down or she
could wipe it down and be clean and be
ready for um for you right and make sure
you some oh and make sure you don't let
her flush them right all of them I don't
think any feminine wipes are flushable
um even the ones that say they do
apparently especially if you guys own
your own home you don't want to pay that
uh plumber Bill to get that unclogged
right so yeah have some feminine wipes
right above the toilet and that way she
can clean herself and also guys for
yourself too like um let's say it's been
a long night out and things are getting
hot and heavy and you know your junk is
not going to smell the best I know we
have dude wipes um I heard they were
good I haven't tried them but uh you
know feminine wipes also work on your
junk too wipe yourself wipe yourself off
that way at least when you guys are
going into it you guys don't have smelly
genitals right it's consideration thing
so um yeah those are two things you must
have in your bathroom obviously fresh
roll of toilet paper make sure your
toilet is clean clean it um one of the
best ways to clean your apartment and
clean is getting a steam cleaner you
know those handheld steamers um those
are great right the other day I steamed
my toilet and you guys know where the
screws are on your toilet um
those um over the months or Years start
getting a lot of nasty crap in them I
don't know if it's piss or dooo or or or
whatever and I used my steamer and I
just steamed both of those my whole
toilet and I just saw all this
disgusting crap fall out of those nooks
and crannies on my toilet and now my
toilet looks like I just you know
completely new right so steaming also
works on your on different surfaces it
like on the walls if you have like um
like stains on the walls that are hard
hard to get out or if um you know your
oven um or your stove top anything right
um Steamers are good and they're not
that expensive definitely worth it for
keeping your apartment clean and makes
and it makes cleaning stuff really
really easy and you're it's you're
useful in your car too especially if
you're cleaning your tires or your your
uh rims or stuff like but um so yeah
highly suggest that also I have like a a
spot a wet spot cleaner vacuum I bought
it from hoover.com it's about $100 it's
good for the couch if you have pets and
they have accents on the carpet it
cleans it right up it's great and um
it's good for other surfaces too and
your car as well um and you'll need it
for your couch couch is great because
you know o over the months if you have
girls over sometimes you know you'll
start on the couch and sometimes you'll
be too into to it to put down a
blanket on the couch before you guys go
out or maybe you get one of those
blanket covers for the couch and you can
um you know don't have to worry and then
you just wash the blanket and all that
so yeah just be uh just be mindful that
you know you have to clean your couch if
you have women over and you're getting
busy you have to clean your couch right
you don't want friends and family
especially your mom sitting on a couch
where you know you were getting busy uh
week before right
so so uh a cat can make a bath can make
his bathroom look decent at the dollar
store organizers and trash Canam plus
cleaners for like 15 20 bucks keep some
nice towels on the hooks they they make
ones called dude wipes yeah um dude
wipes really good towels yeah um the
dollar store uh what do they call it
here has a lot of nifty little things
that for organization and all that um
terms of like making your bathroom smell
good like I said steamer get all that
nasty [ __ ] out of your toilet all the
you know that black gunk in your shower
too A lot of girls like to shower after
sex so um you know make sure your shower
is good to go um like again at at hotels
if you guys stay at hotels uh they have
like little samples of shampoo and stuff
and have those in a drawer somewhere
that way if a girl wants to shower after
sex or something you can tell her hey I
have conditioner I mean you as a man
should have conditioner too if you have
hair but um you know if you know if she
wants something more feminine you have
stuff ready to go for her and she'll be
very impressed by that um and the steam
and the steamer will clean out all that
nasty [ __ ] in at the bottom of your tub
which accumulates like I think once a
month you should clean out your tub
clean your tub and stuff like that um or
hire someone to do it that works too for
yeah so nasty smell is most important um
make sure you clean your you know like
the basics clean your floors all stuff I
think for me the thing I hate to clean
the most is the dishes but I have a
dishwasher be careful with your
dishwasher because you get Clogg um
and all that stuff and and if you have
dishes in there even if it's not a lot
go ahead and run it if you're going to
leave the house because you know
dishwasher smell that the smell will
seep out too
um but yeah uh have your living room
cleaned up any anything on the floor and
make sure you clean up after your pets
if you have any basic stuff right not
hard um so what not to have
out
um don't controversial stuff right like
don't have a gun out like if you have a
weapon don't leave it out on your on
your um on your coffee table or
something like that right even if the
girl is super conservative and stuff
like that that could send the wrong
message it can make girls feel even more
anxiety they will feel on edge you know
weapons make people feel some type of
way right so don't have your any weapons
whether even if it's like something
weird like a sh shuriken or a sword or
something like don't have that crap out
right um put that stuff away um or just
you know don't have it in a place that's
visible right um I don't know I don't I
don't know why you would have a gun out
anyway um and not locked away um when
you're not at your house but
sure um controversial political stuff
like I have a trump art of the deal book
you might not want to have that out you
know you might want to put that
somewhere or if you have a bookcase put
it like maybe turn it around or
something or put it in a a in an
inconspicuous area that way you know
girls don't you don't have to explain to
women oh no that was just a gift from my
dad blah blah you know some women get
really emotional with this politics
stuff like no politics anything like
that um any books like any game books
that you have out too like uh maybe you
know I do have players handbook right
over there from rolot
tomasi but I mean girls it the book is
inconspicuous right but if you have it
in a place where it's like on your
coffee don't have those stuff on your
coffee table you know like uh like I
have roer's bang book you know kind of
hidden in my bookcase and all that stuff
so um you don't want to have any weird
Collectibles like if you collect anime
dolls and stuff like that you don't want
to have that crap out like in right in
the open or I would suggest like if you
guys have Funko Pops you know like don't
have that crap either out in the open
have it in like in an inconspicuous area
you know
um and all that so
um yeah that it you should have
interesting stuff in your apartment but
not stuff that'll create some kind of
don't be just don't be weird right just
um don't have your like Trump book on
the on the coffee table don't have weird
stuff right if you know like here's
something that I have trouble with is
that I have a
drawer my my nightstand drawer has a lot
of like sex stuff right I have handcuffs
I have like restraint and all that stuff
and I should move that to the bottom
drawer put it like get one of those
drawers that are secret that like open
like that that way like if she's you
know looking for something and she
stumbles upon my drawer shees all this
stuff you should be like whoa this guy
you know um make sure that uh you know
you keep stuff harder to find at least
right if you guys have any like weird
anime stuff um you
know and all that like maybe like I said
before dolls posters of like women with
giant tits or something like that like
be careful with that stuff right that
could really make make women think
you're weird not stuff uh Flags you know
like don't have a free don't have like a
Palestine flag or Israel flag or the
Confederate flag or anything like that
don't turn your apartment to all like
bald eagles and in an American flag like
I I have the American flag or I'm
looking for a new American flag for my
apartment right but I'm not going to get
a giant American flag and put it you
know I I'll display it I'm proud of my
country and I'm proud of my flag but um
I'm not gonna you know go overboard and
all that stuff um and then like
the calendars of half naked women and
all that stuff uh it's kind of
tacky I don't know if you guys want to
but it just it it takes away from from
the apartment in my in my opinion
obviously if I had a if I had a garage
and I had a car place where I worked on
stuff projects or my car
I wouldn't care I just be like yeah it's
the garage right no I'm not bringing a
girl into the garage but in in terms of
like my living room and stuff I won't
have that kind of crap there so I don't
think you guys should
either but anyway
yes directional yeah no illuminated bus
of Ryan Stone um yeah I'm going to get
it made I'm going to get a bust of Ryan
Stone
made and
um and then uh you know actually I get a
I get like a poster of all rule zero and
put it above my couch and I'll be like
who are those guys and I'll be like
those are that's rule zero you should
watch that show we should watch it
together on this date see what
happens best book to leave out is a
Secret Language of Birthdays ah
yes that is the book you want to leave
out right that book will catch a girl's
eye and you that girl will oh my God
it's the best posible deniability I've
ever it is like it is Chick crack but
almost literally like literally almost
crack right um I already did a whole
show on this um if if anyone of my
followers can find it and want to link
it in the chat then go ahead it's
definitely will get you guys laid right
um or you know or you guys can like you
know go to the science Bros who who tell
you you have a higher chance of of being
into bcity than women I'm sure that's
helpful or whatever um
I gotta hide my copy of main C oh man
yeah you gotta hide it bro like um you
know I you know what book I don't hide I
don't hide Bronze Age uh mindset on my
on my coffee table I don't hide
that so girls like asking about that
book but I don't hide it uh [ __ ] got to
be refined from the son of it even the
mistakes yeah pretty much if the girls
really into anime Cubs will she still
find it weird if the guy has that kind
of stuff around possibly here's the
thing here's the thing I I think I
talked about once
um the interesting about thing about
women is that they are allowed to be
into this stuff openly and weirdly and
they and have posters and weird stuff
all
over um their house right they don't
have that burden of performance of
trying to not be weird or not come off
weird however you do right I would I
would be like hey there are different
ways to show your ner like like for
example there is a difference between
having a whole bunch of comics and manga
just laying out on your coffee table of
like half naked Wu girls right that's a
little weird now if I was your friend or
if I was a guy I'd be like cool that's
whatever dude it's cool we're I'm an
anime fan too I get it you know I get it
like you know like I get it but for a
girl you don't know she might not get it
and she most likely won't so those are
the things you have to hide at least put
away before going on a date however if
you got like a box set of the or if you
got the berserk M manga the berserk
manga looks very classy if you you know
um on a shelf right and she'll open it
and she'll see anime but it's just the
way it's presented it just looks cooler
right and less weird right so you see
what I'm saying like takes a little bit
of nuance to understand that there's
just some things that will weird out
girls and you don't want to have that
stuff out whether anything from a weapon
from a a a trunk FR book to a half naked
anime girls on a poster or on a magazine
or something sitting on your couch right
you don't want to have that stuff out um
because it you know most likely it will
Weir the grow out girls don't have that
um problem right you can go to a girl's
house she could have swastikas on the
walls right but if uh you'll be like man
I got to get out of here but first I'll
smash and then I'll get out of here you
know that's how guys think you know so
so yeah thanks godspeed chick chick
crack stream that will tell you about
the Secret Language of Birthdays most
powerful chick crack of all time like
literally like
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hell stupid alerts sorry about that um I
am thinking of getting a book about
interpreting Dreams yeah um I also like
coffee coffee table books are pretty
cool like I have a um I have The Secret
Language of Birthdays I have a drink a
really big drink book which is like how
to make all these drinks and all that
stuff and then I have a
um edigar alen po poet book that looks
really cool it looks like so cool and it
it just adds to the to the vibe of the
apartment right you know you just got to
take some time be creative guys kind of
like I know we're dudes and we we want
to be simple we want it what works right
but at some point in your life you know
it's nice to have a really classy cool
place to just be proud of you know like
treat it like like a piece of artwork or
or a project right where you go in and
you fix stuff and maybe you throw stuff
away you buy a couple things buy
lighting and when you look back you're
be like damn I did that right and then
girls would be like wow you know you're
so cool you're like you're like a
bachelor and I just and they'll want to
be at your place all the time you know
and i' rather I'd rather be at my place
than spend money on a girl that is not
my girlfriend you know so
yeah uh
so another thing not to have out um yeah
anything sexual too anything sexual like
don't have it out like don't have your
sex stuff out handcuffs make sure you
put that stuff away maybe you had saw a
girl that day and you know um this is
going to sound kind of gross but like if
you if you're getting busy a lot make
sure scan the bedroom for Condoms um
scan the for used condoms scan the bed
for used condoms and all that stuff um
make sure your
sheets uh oh make sure you have
um mattress protector you know because
as you get better sexually with women
women are going to start uh having
squirting orgasms and there's going to
be a lot more liquids during sex right
um so
basically uh a mattress protector will
protect that and you won't stain your
mattress with female juices right so
it's important that uh you have a
mattress protector most mattress
protectors you can uh I mean they're all
washable you wash them and all that
stuff when it comes to drying them um
for the sheets you don't have to dry you
dry them like 90% dry and then you lay
them out turn on your F your ceiling fan
and it'll they'll dry out nice and'll
you know you won't have as much wrinkles
for your sheets right so your your um
your sheets don't have to dry dry like
90% And then spread them out over your
bed and just run the run the fan on high
and it'll dry himself you'll have less
wrinkles for your mattress protector I
don't think you're I don't think you
should use bleach on
it
uh yeah um you shouldn't use
bleach
but for some reason sometimes the stains
are hard to get out it's really weird
sometimes I feel like you know maybe you
just better better off buying a new one
I got some blood on my mattress
protector either I went too hard in the
sack or she had her period or something
happened but uh you know there was a lot
of blood um and it wouldn't come off
right and got understand too guys like
when women have sex no matter how
confident they say they are when when
when there's a lot of liquids coming out
of their body whether it be
blood you know orgasm or whatever they
just feel insecure right so and one of
the part of the reason they feel
insecure is because they think they're
you're ruining they're ruining your
sheets in your in your mattress you know
just tell them hey I got a mattress
protector for these situations don't
worry don't worry just have fun enjoy it
don't worry we'll wash the sheets in the
morning it's not a big deal um always
have extra sheets so because you know
after you have sex you don't want to
like sleep on the wet spot or something
like that or um or anything like that so
you know you could throw the sheets off
wash them in the morning put new sheets
on um and all that and uh you'll be good
to go right I I personally use four
pillows pillows are important that's
where you put your head and don't only
have one pillow guys have several
pillows that way if she stays the night
she can have somewhere to rest her head
and she can feel relaxed and again
she'll want to keep coming back and you
know you want your placeat to come back
with minimal effort so yeah um Ohan man
the sex stuff will be in a briefcase
under the bed that's hilarious you just
put the you put the briefcase on the bed
and you just click then you open and you
just kind of go through what you need
for the that's hilarious if you're
serious that's pretty Bas but it's also
hilarious
so Daniel says what if the Hitachi Wan
needs to be charged uh then you charge
it before dude you gotta remember to
charge it a Hitachi is that like the one
that girls use on their [ __ ] or
something I don't know I'm a I'm a
boomer I don't know much about this
stuff I know about handcuffs and stuff
so LOL just kidding
Legend of Zelda chime oh yeah wait
what's the legend Legend of Zelda
chime is that when you open the the
treasure
box anyways um hold
on yeah I remember that he had like
glass dildos yeah yeah he had glass
dildo what's up Marty um you that's I
don't think that was real that's that
had to been tongue and cheek right he
carried a suitcase with glass dildos
like and no one like talks about that we
just gloss we just glossed over that
like Is that real
like a suitcase full of glass dildos
what the [ __ ] that's weird I personally
I have bed restraints
handcuffs
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um and then you know condoms and stuff
like that
but yeah oh and um
the the the Eye covers what do you call
them iPad eye cover uh face mask cuz
girles you know when you blind girls
um you know turn it turns them on I
guess
so uh he had it at the opian Anthony
show yeah I only saw the recording like
I only heard the recording I didn't know
there was like an actual video of that
episode episode I remember him talking
about that but I was just like hearing
it on YouTube so I don't know
if but hey if it's real it's real that's
pretty crazy um I don't recommend having
a a suitcase full of glass
dildos I make my girl wear an eye patch
all yeah I mean yeah Ro you gotta
roleplay different stuff and all that uh
yeah and then the light for the bedroom
guys the lighting has you know make you
know that warm lighting is awesome
especially the lower you can get it I
you like to use red lighting there's
there's a lamp that I have it's the one
I using it's right up there um
basically
uh you can it changes to any color you
want there's a whole bunch on Amazon
just you know
um so
yeah girls count the condoms yeah if
they if they are your girlfriend they
will but like girls that are just in a
rotation they know what it is most girls
are dumb they know what it is they know
that they're not they're not the they're
not wifey so they're not going to um get
too much you know they're not going to
care too
much uh oh also the you know those
things that you put behind your
headboard on your
bed um that have like a they're like you
screw them in all that those are those
are nice too right because you know when
you're getting busy the headboards
most likely you got a cheap headboard
like me right because you know Furniture
is expensive and then you're you're
hooking up and that headboard is going
to be like swinging especially if it's
wood it's going to be swinging and
smacking your wall you're going to be
like the neighbor is going to get pissed
if you have neighbors and also it's just
going to like make you feel like damn I
gotta you know it's it's distracting
right so if you get these things that I
forgot what they call them you you stick
them on the wall and they go in between
your headboard and the wall and you
screw them you tighten them up and then
it keeps the headboard from like um
moving right they just keeps it in place
and then a four pack is like 20 bucks or
something like that and it's nice
because it keeps it it takes one Les one
more distraction off
of off of uh you know off of you during
sex and all that stuff uh trying to
think of what else you should have extra
towels always have extra towels she can
wipe herself off something I also have
is um a bath Rob two bath robes one for
me one for her right so if we wake up in
the morning we we're comfortable and you
know she can walk around half naked she
doesn't have to wear your clothes or
something like that so you know just a
thing um another thing is a tray I have
a
tray um you know you can get them at
home goods or Walmart or something it's
nice little tray so if you're bringing
stuff to the bedroom like chilling you
can bring stuff you can serve like
alcohol and stuff it just I don't know
it just adds to the apartment it's it
looks cool and all that trying think
what else I have
um
uh yeah oh um mouthwash is important
make sure you guys have mouthwash in
your
bathroom um a girl after sex will want
to clean her mouth out mouthwash is the
best way to do it that way when she
wakes up in the morning if she wants to
go again she it's not going to smell
terrible
right trying to think what else what
else what else I mean I probably missed
a whole bunch of stuff that have in my
apartment that I'm just so used to
having that I forget but uh guys at the
end of the day Pinterest is your friend
look at Vibes Styles things that make
your place look good whe you know it
could be you know um kind of
like uh maybe it's a country farm look
or it's you know
like City kind of bachelor pad rich guy
look whatever Vibe you know just look up
masculine bedroom or masculine living
room on Pinterest and Google and all
that stuff and get ideas and set up your
place the way you want it right
ultimately it's your place and it's wait
it's what you want
so represent you and then you know
follow this advice for what it's worth I
mean if you guys are already
doing
um if you guys are already doing well
and all that stuff um with the ladies
then you know and it I guess don't
change anything right but if you guys
you know want to help yourselves out
then follow my advice you know this is
more this is less red pill this is more
just you know me giving you
prescriptions and stuff like that but
you know I just wanna I want everyone to
win Marty says headboard wall buffer is
that what they call them yeah I just
installed some and they're great like I
don't have to worry about my headboard
and the thing is I tighten my headboard
with uh it's uh hex screws I think and
it's cheap my my my my bedroom set my
bedroom furniture set is cheap I want to
change it but you know I'm a guy I don't
like to spend money unless I absolutely
have to
um but it keeps the headboard from you
know slamming into
the uh into the to the wall
so uh well I got a busy weekend after
this I'm going to go on a shopping spre
yeah man um man I wish I wish I could
just like give you guys a tour of my
apartment and just
like um maybe I I'll make a thread I'll
make a thread things you need to have in
your apartment as a as a
bachelor yeah I'll do that thread
tomorrow I think tomorrow morning I'm
not doing much but I GNA upload do some
do some work from home stuff and then
I'll I'll do that um so yeah for for you
ocean man I will make that thread and
I'll give you ideas and remember you
don't have to make your place just like
mine right but the things I I think the
most important thing you need to have
for your play is
clean clean place don't have weird stuff
out like guns half naked anime girls and
and stuff you can have your hobbies but
only like you know if you like anime
maybe have the berserk book set out
instead of like half naked anime mangas
or have naked girls on a manga cover you
know um keep the weird stuff out of you
um empty your bathroom
trash every day or wait before a woman
comes over you know you don't want
questions and you don't want you know
just it's just just do it right and and
bathroom trash is disgusting and all
that
um and oh and like some girls leave lots
of hairs right
so kind of scan your room for like super
obvious like toughs of hair from other
women I know you're not supposed to
distract women from or sorry discourage
women from finding out that you have
other girls but don't like leave like
giant don't make it incredibly obvious
and gross right like a used condom in
the trash or um big large TPS of hair
right if she finds one strand of hair
big deal you know but if she like lots
of hair and like another toothbrush a
used toothbrush and things that make it
obvious that things that could make her
believe that you actually have a
girlfriend you're cheating on her right
because there's just so many it's just
there's so much [ __ ] in your apartment
right just be careful with that um
but
yeah my hobbies are all contained in one
room gotcha and set room takes one
minute to get to awesome all right Aaron
Clary said his new house was decorated
like James Bond
nice is it really I thought he lived out
in way out there Wayne SM lint rollers I
got yeah man the older I get the more
lint rollers become more important I
have a Sheba and Shea's like twice a
year sh like crazy so I need lint
rollers like and you need and I get good
ones lint rollers are good for your
couch um for your mattress you can get
all those hairs out all that weird stuff
out you know
um and all that uh but yeah lint rollers
yeah good catch L rollers are really
good oh and finally uh before I go uh
candles so make your house make your
apartment smell good right um things
that make your apartment smell bad we
already talked about like trash sh
rotting food all that crap toilets you
know like I said take that steam cleaner
like I think every guy should have a
steam cleaner that stuff is really
awesome like especially for your car
it's great for your car it's great for
cleaning looks and crannies in in the
house um so
um those will get better the bad smells
but to now for to make your apartment
smell good like um candles are good but
the best candles by far are the Bath &
Body Works candles which you can order
online the wall plugins are good but
sometimes they're a little strong and
maybe I don't know if it's healthy to
have that oil stuff burning slow burning
in your apartment it does smell
incredibly good though like every time
I've used one I've gotten a compliment
from a girl um and they come in these
little bottles and you just plug them
into the wall and uh your your house
will smell amazing
so um but I don't know if it's like
healthy for you I don't know if slow bur
slow burning
oils mess with your brain or something
or give you cancer down the road so I
got to look into that but yeah Bath and
Body Works candles are the best all you
need is one in your bathroom and one in
your living room and your whole house is
covered your house will smelling good
and you don't have to keep them you
don't have to light them all the time I
say light them um an hour before you
have the girl come over or 30 minutes
before you have the girl come over and
then in the bathroom and all that stuff
because you know the bathroom's
constantly you're fighting with bad
smells and all that stuff
um
diffusers I don't know much about
diffusers
um uh you guys have a good suggestion
for diffuser I want one for my room I
just don't know what the hell to get and
also like for diffusers um is it also
like a humidifier too but with sense is
that what a a diffuser
is Wayne Smith personal treier I love
sage hippie chicks dig it does yeah I
heard like Sage is like
a it's good for getting rid of
smells is it really worth getting Sage
to burn I don't I don't know incense
yeah you have incense the thing with
incense is that it's like a lot of weed
smokers use it and it's kind of like
um it smells good but you're just like
oh you're you're using this because it
just reminds me of people who smoke weed
right and that's just like I don't know
that's me personally though I prefer
just like normal candle and candles look
aesthetic and I have a candle holder and
all that stuff
so not as strong as immun fire but yeah
okay I I've seen some good ones I'll
look for Amazon tonight um before I go
to bed and and I'll uh what do you call
it and I'll cop one I like the ones that
are like there's one that's like fire it
looks like fire probably be good for my
room and then and are they strong enough
for like my apartment is like 900 square
fet um would it cover my whole apartment
or just my room or something or so I
guess you're saying they're not that
strong but whatever anyway guys yeah the
smells are important make your apartment
smell good also making some tea boiling
some cinnamon um some cinnamon some
ginger together make some tea and then
that'll make your apartment smell good
slow slow Bo slow boil some cinnamon
always is good sometimes like it'll take
time for bad smells not bad smells
strong smells to go away like if you
cook steak you know you might want to
open the door uh any windows or if you
have a balcony open that while you cook
steak and also you might want to um
clean the the the Skillets really fast
if you have a girl coming over because
those smells are super strong so you
want to do that
um yeah there are studies that say it's
good for killing airboard stuff a good
smudging and you you're good for what H
interesting I look into it thanks uh but
yeah guys that's all I have uh thanks
for you guys stopping by I know uh
there's axis Vegas going on and other
people a lot of people are streaming
right now now but you guys decided to be
here so I appreciate it um hopefully you
guys stick some some away and if you
have like like I said comment below
after the show if you guys have anything
you want to add things you know because
I'm hey I'm willing to learn too if you
guys got stuff but uh all in all guys
biggest takeaways is um I already
explained why you should make your place
nice B we talked about Basics you need
for your apartment and your home keep it
clean and uh things not to have
out you know and uh ultimately
you know the purpose of having a nice
place is not so much to impress people
but it's to be comfortable and to show
competence to show that you care right
um you want to show the world that you
care whether it be your job whether it
be with the women you date whether it be
your physique whether it be how you
speak act how you dress and then like
how you live it's one of the ways you
can show people you care right and I
know as guys we want to be simple we
don't care if it if it works it works
right but just there's always a little
space for a little bit of uh you know
care for you know
Aesthetics and comfort and all that
stuff so um yeah guys that's all I have
and uh thank you um for watching me so
I'll
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