Cuckold mindset part 3

Beauty Ray
28 Jul 202408:42

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Bella delves into the 'cuckold mindset', addressing its appeal to 'hot wives' who may be intrigued by their partner's fantasies. She explains that men, being highly visual, are drawn to women's sexuality and derive pleasure from seeing their partners experience it fully, even if it involves another man. Bella suggests that this desire stems from a man's wish to see his partner's happiness and pleasure, which he may feel he cannot fully provide. She encourages viewers to consider this perspective, highlighting the importance of mutual happiness and pleasure in relationships.

Takeaways

  • 👀 Men are highly visual and are attracted to beauty, bright colors, and 'big' things, which includes women's sexuality.
  • 🔥 Men are described as being 'addicted' to women's sexuality, deriving a sense of power and nurturing from it.
  • 👫 In relationships, men want to see their partners express their sexuality and derive pleasure from it, which is a form of visual fulfillment.
  • 🌟 The concept of 'seeing the full picture' is important to men, suggesting they want to witness their partners' pleasure in its entirety, which may involve fantasies of others.
  • 🚫 Some men may feel inadequate if they believe they cannot provide enough pleasure to their partners, leading to fantasies of others fulfilling this role.
  • 🤔 The video suggests that men may secretly desire to see their partners experience pleasure, even if it's with someone else, due to a deep-seated desire for their partner's happiness.
  • 💔 There is an inherent sense of humiliation in this fantasy, but it's suggested that some men find this aspect appealing as it relates to their partner's pleasure.
  • 🙅‍♂️ Not all men are comfortable with this idea, with some viewing it as a form of cheating or a blow to their ego as the 'alpha' in the relationship.
  • 👥 Men are portrayed as being more collaborative and less jealous than women, willing to let another man fulfill their partner's desires if they believe they can do it better.
  • 💕 The ultimate goal is happiness for both men and women, with sexual pleasure being a significant component of a woman's happiness, according to the video.
  • 📚 The video encourages viewers to explore the 'cuckold mindset' further, emphasizing that men's attraction to women's pleasure is a fundamental aspect of their nature.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of Bella's video?

    -The main topic of Bella's video is the 'cuckold mindset' and its implications for 'hot wives' and their partners.

  • Why does Bella believe men are very visual?

    -Bella believes men are very visual because they love pretty women, bright colors, and everything big, getting turned on by what they see.

  • What does Bella suggest men get from women's sexuality?

    -Bella suggests that men get a lot of nurturing and power from women's sexuality, and they are addicted to it.

  • Why might a man want to see his partner with another man, according to Bella?

    -According to Bella, a man might want to see his partner with another man because he desires to see the full expression of her sexuality and pleasure, which he believes he cannot provide alone.

  • What does Bella suggest is a common misconception about men's feelings towards their partners' sexual pleasure with others?

    -Bella suggests that while some men might think of it as cheating due to ego, deep down, they secretly want to see their woman experiencing pleasure.

  • What does Bella mean by 'hot wives' in the context of her video?

    -In the context of Bella's video, 'hot wives' refers to women who are attractive and sexually appealing, and whose partners may be interested in seeing them with another man.

  • What is Bella's view on the potential moral conflict for 'hot wives' considering this lifestyle?

    -Bella acknowledges the potential moral conflict but suggests that 'hot wives' should consider it as a way for their partners to experience them in a way they cannot on their own.

  • How does Bella describe the typical reaction of men when they see their partner being happy?

    -Bella describes that men are very collaborative and supportive when they see their partner being happy, especially through sexual pleasure.

  • What does Bella believe is the ultimate goal for men in this context?

    -Bella believes the ultimate goal for men in this context is to see their women happy and experiencing pleasure, which they value highly.

  • How does Bella suggest men feel about the idea of their partner being with another man who can provide more pleasure?

    -Bella suggests that men might feel a mix of jealousy and collaboration, but ultimately, they crave to see their partners experiencing pleasure, even if it's with another man.

  • What advice does Bella offer to those who might be interested in exploring this mindset further?

    -Bella advises those interested to dive deeper into understanding the cuckold mindset and to consider the value of experiencing pleasure and happiness in their relationships.

  • How can viewers get in touch with Bella for further discussion or to share their experiences?

    -Viewers can get in touch with Bella through the link provided in the video description, where they can find her Twitter and a special link for communication.

Outlines

00:00

👀 The Visual Appeal of Women in the Cuckold Mindset

Bella introduces the third video in her series on the cuckold mindset, focusing on the perspective of 'hot wives' who may not understand their partner's desires. She emphasizes that men are highly visual creatures, attracted to beauty and bright colors, and are particularly drawn to women's sexuality. Bella explains that men derive a sense of power and nurturing from women's sexual expression. The video suggests that some men may fantasize about their partners being with someone else to experience a level of pleasure they believe they cannot provide themselves, especially if they perceive themselves as inadequate in some way. This can lead to a form of voyeurism where the man gains satisfaction from seeing his partner's enjoyment, even if it's with another person. Bella encourages viewers to consider this perspective as a way for men to experience their partners in a fuller, more complete sense.

05:00

🔍 Exploring the Male Desire for Women's Pleasure

In the second paragraph, Bella delves deeper into the male psyche, suggesting that men are not just visual but also collaborative, willing to allow another man to fulfill their partner's desires if they believe they cannot do so themselves. She contrasts this with women's tendencies towards jealousy. Bella posits that men crave witnessing women's pleasure in various forms, not limited to sexual pleasure but extending to happiness and enjoyment in daily life. She believes that many women are not experiencing this pleasure and that the cuckold fantasy can be a means for men to ensure their partners' happiness. The video aims to shed light on the visual nature of men and their deep-seated desire for women's pleasure, encouraging viewers to reflect on these dynamics. Bella invites viewers to engage with her for further discussion or to share their experiences through the links provided in the video description.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Cuckold mindset

The 'cuckold mindset' refers to a psychological state or fantasy scenario where a man derives pleasure from the idea of his partner being sexually engaged with another man. In the video, this concept is discussed as a common theme among 'hot wives' and their partners, suggesting that it can be a source of excitement and fulfillment for some couples.

💡Hot wives

'Hot wives' is a term used in the script to describe women who are seen as sexually attractive and desirable. The video suggests that these women's partners may be interested in seeing them with other men, as a way to explore their own sexual fantasies and desires.

💡Visual

The term 'visual' in this context highlights the idea that men are highly influenced by what they see. The script explains that men are turned on by the visual aspects of women's sexuality and that this visual stimulation is a key component of the cuckold fantasy.

💡Sexuality

Sexuality in the video is discussed as an expression of a woman's sexual identity and desires. It is portrayed as something that men are attracted to and want to see fully expressed, especially in the context of the cuckold fantasy.

💡Pleasure

Pleasure is a central theme in the video, with the script suggesting that men derive satisfaction from seeing their partners experience sexual pleasure. It is used to illustrate the idea that men may want their partners to have experiences that they themselves cannot provide.

💡Fantasy

Fantasy in this context refers to the imaginative scenarios that individuals explore in their minds, often related to sexual desires. The video discusses the cuckold fantasy as a specific type of sexual fantasy that involves a partner being with another person.

💡Collaborative

The term 'collaborative' is used to describe the dynamic between men in the cuckold scenario, suggesting that they may be willing to share their partners with others in order to fulfill their own desires and fantasies.

💡Ego

Ego is mentioned in the script as a potential barrier to embracing the cuckold mindset. It refers to the individual's sense of self-importance or pride, which may conflict with the idea of their partner being with someone else.

💡Humiliation

Humiliation is briefly touched upon in the video as a component of the cuckold fantasy. It suggests that there may be an element of degradation or submission that some individuals find appealing in this scenario.

💡Alpha

The term 'alpha' is used to describe a dominant or leading figure, often in a social or sexual context. In the video, it contrasts with the cuckold mindset, as an alpha male might be less inclined to share their partner due to their desire to maintain control and dominance.

💡Feminine

Feminine in the script is associated with traditional gender roles and the expression of female sexuality. It is used to emphasize the idea that women's pleasure and enjoyment are highly valued by men in the context of the video's discussion.

Highlights

Introduction to the third video in the 'Cuckold Mindset' series by Bella.

The video targets 'hot wives' who may not understand their partner's perspective on the cuckold lifestyle.

Men are described as very visual creatures, attracted to beauty, bright colors, and size.

Men are said to be turned on by seeing women express their sexuality.

Men are addicted to women's sexuality, deriving nurturing and power from it.

The desire for men to see the 'full picture' of their partner's sexuality is discussed.

The fantasy of another man providing pleasure is explored as a dream for many men.

The idea that a man might feel inadequate in providing pleasure is presented.

The concept of a 'hot wife' and the moral dilemmas she might face is introduced.

The video suggests that men secretly desire to see their partners experience pleasure with others.

The phrase 'happy wife, happy life' is used to emphasize the importance of a woman's happiness.

The video touches on the idea that men may feel collaborative with other men in satisfying their partners.

The potential jealousy and collaboration among men in the context of the cuckold lifestyle is discussed.

The importance of visual stimulation for men and their addiction to women's pleasure is reiterated.

The video concludes with an invitation for viewers to engage with Bella for further discussion or to share experiences.

The video aims to inspire viewers to explore the cuckold mindset further and potentially lead to happier relationships.

Transcripts

play00:00

hello everyone welcome back to my

play00:03

channel my name is Bella and in this

play00:05

video we are going to be talking about

play00:08

the cockled mindset number three I

play00:12

already published two videos about

play00:14

cockled mindset and you guys have been

play00:16

loving them so this is the number three

play00:19

of that

play00:21

um of that sequence okay and this video

play00:25

is more going to be for the hot wives

play00:28

out there who don't really understand

play00:31

what's going on um and why do their men

play00:36

feel the way they do and what do they

play00:38

see actually with the [ __ ] holding

play00:41

mindset right so first things first we

play00:44

have to understand that men are very

play00:46

visual okay they love pretty women they

play00:50

love bright colors they love you know

play00:53

everything big okay so

play00:57

um men get turned on by what they see

play01:01

okay what I mean by that if you are a

play01:05

hot woman meaning a hot

play01:10

wife or hot girlfriend um he wants to

play01:14

see you okay he loves the way you look

play01:18

he you

play01:20

know he just wants to see you express

play01:24

your

play01:27

sexuality and the thing is that

play01:30

men are actually really addicted to

play01:32

women's sexuality they get a lot of um

play01:36

nurturing from it they get a lot of um

play01:39

Power from it okay so um yeah but

play01:45

sometimes when it's just you and her

play01:50

together you don't really get to see in

play01:52

the full picture right you don't really

play01:54

get to see her in the full picture and

play01:58

you know because either is like um under

play02:01

you or she's on the top yeah when she's

play02:04

on the top you can see a little bit more

play02:05

but it's still not like the full picture

play02:08

right so because men are visual they

play02:10

want to see the full picture of you okay

play02:14

so meaning that if there's another right

play02:18

man possibly somebody who can do it

play02:20

better he's going to love seeing all of

play02:24

that sexuality in you all of that

play02:26

pleasure you experiencing so much

play02:28

pleasure in you like that it's something

play02:30

a lot of men dream about even more than

play02:32

just you know sleeping with you they

play02:35

want to see they want to see you in this

play02:38

kind of a um is this in this kind of a

play02:42

pleasure right and especially if the man

play02:44

is

play02:46

small he just he knows he cannot give

play02:48

you that much pleasure

play02:50

or that can he cannot give you so much

play02:54

get you to express so much sexuality

play02:56

right just him thinking about another

play02:58

man doing this job is something that is

play03:01

going to blow his mind and uh you as a

play03:04

hot wife um maybe you you are not

play03:08

feeling called to this lifestyle because

play03:10

you are like oh I don't want to be

play03:11

cheating on him or I don't want to you

play03:14

know like you just feel it's morally

play03:16

wrong uh just think about it this way

play03:19

like he wants to experience you in a way

play03:21

that he cannot experience you when he is

play03:25

with you just himself right he wants to

play03:27

see fully because he thinks you are hard

play03:30

he thinks you deserve better and uh he

play03:33

gets a lot from the experience as well

play03:36

okay yeah there is a certain amount of

play03:38

humiliation of course but to be honest

play03:41

um men love this whole picture of um

play03:45

your sexuality so

play03:49

um I would say

play03:52

that yes some men they have this kind of

play03:54

ego in the way they're like oh I don't

play03:56

want my woman to be with another man but

play03:58

I believe that every

play04:00

secretly wants this you know they want

play04:02

to see the woman actually having

play04:06

experiencing pleasure right because I

play04:09

believe that's what women actually bring

play04:12

to the table which is their enjoyment

play04:15

and their pleasure right um especially

play04:17

feminine women right

play04:20

um what they say happy wife happy life

play04:25

okay every man wants to have a happy

play04:27

woman every man wants to have a happy

play04:29

happy wife right but sometimes you don't

play04:33

see her happy you know like or you don't

play04:35

know what you could do to make her happy

play04:38

and the biggest expression of a woman's

play04:40

happiness or pleasure is through you

play04:44

know sexual pleasure

play04:47

right and um yeah it's

play04:52

extremely valuable for your husband to

play04:56

see their women having pleasure and

play05:00

being happy so

play05:02

um I want all of you possible future

play05:07

hotwives to think about it this way okay

play05:10

men are not the same as us okay men are

play05:13

very visual they are

play05:16

not yes some of them are going to think

play05:18

of it as

play05:20

cheating the ones who cannot who just

play05:22

have like the ego like they want to be

play05:24

the alpha but probably like then you

play05:26

wouldn't be watching this video um but

play05:30

possibly this is the case he just wants

play05:32

to he thinks you're incredibly hot

play05:35

because if you were not hot then he

play05:37

would not want to see you

play05:40

okay um it's about you okay he wants to

play05:43

see you right he wants to see you having

play05:45

all the pleasure and all the enjoyment

play05:47

that you can have he cannot give you

play05:50

right

play05:52

um so I see a lot of men actually they

play05:55

want to make women happy I believe that

play05:57

a lot of men want to make women happy

play05:58

and it doesn't have to be just just

play05:59

through you know sleeping with her or

play06:01

something or like through sexual

play06:03

pleasure but a lot of women they

play06:05

are never happy okay like they just

play06:09

complain a lot or stuff like that so

play06:11

might start thinking about this kind of

play06:13

fantasies they're like oh maybe if I was

play06:15

a bigger different man you know

play06:19

like she could be actually happy so this

play06:22

is actually one of the one of the signs

play06:26

okay he wants you to get a bull

play06:30

because he wants to see you experience

play06:31

it right um

play06:35

so men are not

play06:39

really I men are jealous yes but in a

play06:43

way they're also very collaborative with

play06:46

other men they're not like I believe the

play06:48

women are like really jealous of other

play06:49

women like um you know what I mean but

play06:52

men if they know that there's another

play06:54

man who can do the job better they're

play06:55

going to just let it do let him do it

play06:57

right women are not so collaborative

play07:00

right like that right so um yeah I hope

play07:04

this video um could shine some a light

play07:08

into the cockold mindset how do [ __ ]

play07:10

holds and not just [ __ ] holds but

play07:12

generally Allen thing they're very

play07:14

visual you know like they take visual

play07:18

you know like how would I say it they

play07:21

want to see things okay they want to see

play07:24

you and they want to they're also very

play07:28

addicted to women 's pleasure men loves

play07:31

men love women's pleasure in whatever

play07:33

shape or form whether it's her laughing

play07:35

her smiling her enjoying a good meal her

play07:38

you know just having fun her having fun

play07:41

in bed all of these men are just craving

play07:45

women's pleasure and I feel like there

play07:47

is not a lot of it in today's world okay

play07:50

a lot of women

play07:52

are not really experiencing pleasure

play07:55

right so colding is a way to getting to

play08:00

get more of that so um yeah I hope this

play08:03

video inspired you to dive deeper into

play08:08

this thing and I hope

play08:10

that a lot of new happy men and happy

play08:14

women are going to be made after this

play08:16

video because that's what I am all about

play08:20

and um yeah if you want to talk to me

play08:23

there's a link in my

play08:26

description where is another laying

play08:28

there's a my Twitter in the description

play08:30

there's my special link where you can

play08:32

come and talk to me if you have any

play08:34

questions or if you want to share your

play08:35

experience I would love to hear about

play08:37

that and yeah thank you so much for

play08:40

watching bye

Rate This

5.0 / 5 (0 votes)

Etiquetas Relacionadas
Cuckold MindsetRelationship DynamicsSexual PleasureVisual AttractionGender RolesEmotional NurturingFeminine PowerMale EgoIntimacy IssuesHappiness Pursuit
¿Necesitas un resumen en inglés?