Wake up! She "loves you" ONLY because you help her
Summary
TLDRThe video script shares the story of a man who supported a woman financially and emotionally for years, only to be left heartbroken when she repeatedly left him and showed uncertainty about their relationship. The speaker offers advice to men, emphasizing that true love involves patience, commitment, and mutual respect. He warns against staying in relationships where the woman is only interested in material success or repeatedly breaks up during tough times. The message is clear: recognize the red flags and know your worth.
Takeaways
- 😢 A man's selfless support for a girl he loved included paying her tuition, even at the cost of his own education.
- 🚫 The girl only agreed to date him after he started making money, which is seen as a red flag indicating her interest might be more financial than personal.
- 💔 Despite being in an on-and-off relationship for six years, the girl has shown multiple signs of not being fully committed, including breaking up over arguments and expressing uncertainty about her feelings.
- 🤔 The man sought advice after the girl's hesitant response to a marriage proposal, which is a clear sign that she may not see a future with him.
- 🔺 Key advice for men is that a woman who genuinely loves you will not abandon you at the first sign of trouble but will work through issues together.
- ❤️ True love involves patience, understanding, and a long-term vision of a shared future, without hesitation or second thoughts.
- 💍 Most women in love would be thrilled by a marriage proposal, and hesitation can indicate a lack of commitment or being 'on the fence' about the relationship.
- 🤑 If a woman only shows interest when you are successful, it may suggest she is more attracted to your success than to you as a person, which is a sign of a gold digger.
- 💔 A pattern of multiple breakups indicates emotional immaturity and a lack of commitment, which is not conducive to a healthy, long-term relationship.
- 🤝 Helping someone should not be tied to expectations of a relationship or marriage; true kindness is given without strings attached.
- 📵 The man was advised to cut ties with the girl as she does not truly love him and has been using him for her own benefit.
Q & A
What was the main issue the man in the story faced?
-The man faced an unrequited love situation where he had supported a girl financially and emotionally for years, even sacrificing his own education, but she did not genuinely love him back and was only interested in him when he became successful.
How did the man support the girl financially?
-He helped her pay for her tuition when her parents couldn't, even though he himself was a student and eventually had to drop out of school because he couldn't afford to support both of them.
What was the first red flag that the man noticed in his relationship with the girl?
-The first red flag was that she only agreed to date him after he started making money from a couple of side hustles, indicating that her interest in him was tied to his financial status.
Why did the girl leave the man for another guy after she finished school?
-The script does not provide a specific reason for her leaving, but it implies that her feelings for the man were not genuine and that she may have been more interested in his financial support than in him as a person.
How did the man react when the girl left him for another guy?
-He begged and pleaded for her to return to him, which she eventually did when he relocated to a foreign country.
What did the girl's response to the man's marriage proposal reveal about her feelings towards him?
-Her response revealed that she did not genuinely love him and was hesitant about marrying him, suggesting that she was not fully invested in the relationship.
What advice was given to the man regarding his relationship with the girl?
-The advice given was to cut off ties with the girl immediately, as she was not truly in love with him and was likely using him for his financial support.
What are the key signs that a woman genuinely loves a man, according to the script?
-A woman who genuinely loves a man will not run off or break up at the first sign of trouble, will engage in conversations to solve issues, and will see a future with him, being invested in the long-term success of the relationship.
What does the script suggest about a woman who hesitates at a marriage proposal?
-The script suggests that if a woman hesitates at a marriage proposal, it indicates uncertainty about her feelings and commitment level, and it could be a sign that she is not fully invested in the relationship.
What is the implication of a woman only showing interest in a man when he is successful?
-The implication is that the woman may be more interested in the man's success and what she can gain from it rather than genuinely caring for the man as a person.
What is the message conveyed about expecting a relationship in return for help?
-The message is that expecting a relationship in return for help is emotionally manipulative and defeatist. True kindness and help should come without expecting anything in return, and a person's gratitude for help does not obligate them to reciprocate romantic feelings or commitments.
What should a man do if he finds himself in a similar situation as the man in the story?
-The man should recognize the signs of an unrequited relationship, understand his self-worth, and consider ending the relationship if it is clear that the other person is not genuinely invested in him.
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