Men Will Fall In Love With You When you Speak to Them This Way
Summary
TLDRThis video emphasizes the power of actions over words in communication, particularly in relationships. It discusses how actions can create intrigue and provoke deeper emotional responses, as opposed to simply stating intentions. The speaker suggests using non-verbal cues and restrained anger to communicate effectively and maintain attraction. The importance of rationality and creating challenges to deepen connections is also highlighted. Additionally, the video promotes a series of courses on improving dating life, offering various strategies and psychological insights.
Takeaways
- 🗣️ Speak through actions, not words: Actions without words create mystery and demand attention, leading to a stronger impact.
- 🧠 Less talking, more intrigue: Over-talking reduces the effect of words, while silence and actions create a deeper connection.
- 🎭 Friction creates obsession: The contrast between verbal statements and non-verbal cues can provoke strong emotional responses.
- 🔬 Activation of emotions: Similar to genetic predispositions, certain actions can activate latent feelings of love in people.
- 🎁 Thoughtful actions speak volumes: Doing something thoughtful or unexpected can send stronger messages than words alone.
- 😠 Show controlled anger: Expressing displeasure through controlled anger demonstrates power and high value.
- 🗨️ Rationality in love: Being rational and discussing obstacles in a relationship can deepen emotional bonds by challenging the other person.
- ❓ Maintain mystery: Not revealing feelings immediately and creating uncertainty can increase attraction.
- ⏳ Enjoy the uncertainty: The period of not knowing if someone likes you enhances the excitement and intensity of a relationship.
- 🎓 Learn strategies: The speaker offers courses and personal advice to help people apply these techniques in their dating lives.
Q & A
What is the main message of the speaker about communication in relationships?
-The speaker emphasizes the importance of speaking with actions rather than words. Actions without words have a mysterious quality that forces people to pay attention and interpret intentions, which can be more effective in building attraction and love.
How does the speaker suggest using non-verbal cues in relationships?
-The speaker suggests that non-verbal cues can communicate intentions more effectively than words. For example, giving a thoughtful gift or doing a favor can show that you care, even if you verbally say you don't want a relationship.
What is the concept of 'friction' in the context of the speaker's advice?
-Friction, in this context, refers to the tension or conflict between what you say and what you do. This tension can create an obsession and make people pay closer attention to you, potentially activating feelings of love.
How does the speaker relate the concept of 'genes' to the activation of love in relationships?
-The speaker uses the analogy of genes to explain that certain predispositions, like love, can be activated by the right environment or circumstances. Actions that create friction or tension can act like an environment that triggers the activation of these feelings.
What is the speaker's advice on revealing your intentions in a relationship?
-The speaker advises against revealing your intentions too early or too directly. Instead, he suggests showing your intentions through actions, which can be less intimidating and more effective in building a connection.
How does the speaker view the role of rationality in deepening love?
-The speaker believes that being rational, especially in discussing the challenges of a relationship, can actually deepen love. Rationality can provoke a person to convince themselves of their love and commitment, strengthening their emotional bond.
What is the significance of showing 'constrained anger' according to the speaker?
-Showing constrained anger when someone does something wrong can demonstrate power and high value. It can create a longing in the other person to regain your approval, which can be a powerful tool in a relationship.
Why does the speaker recommend not revealing your feelings at the beginning of a relationship?
-The speaker suggests that not revealing your feelings can create a sense of mystery and uncertainty, which can increase attraction. This approach can make the other person more invested in figuring out your feelings, thus deepening their interest.
What is the speaker's opinion on the effectiveness of surprise gifts in relationships?
-The speaker believes that surprise gifts can be effective in creating a sense of value and appreciation. However, he advises against revealing the intention of the gift, allowing the action itself to speak louder than words.
How does the speaker describe the process of falling in love in the context of rationality?
-The speaker describes falling in love as a process that can be deepened by rational discussions about the challenges of a relationship. This approach can lead to a self-affirmation of love, as the person convinces themselves of their commitment and desire to make the relationship work.
What are the courses offered by the speaker and how can they be accessed?
-The speaker offers courses such as Emotional Mastery, the Psychological Game of Attraction, Feminine Woman Natural Chemistry, Charisma Blueprint, and Nice Girl. These can be accessed through a bundle purchase at a discounted rate, with options for a one-time payment or installments.
Outlines
🤔 Speak with Actions, Not Words
The paragraph emphasizes the importance of using actions instead of words to communicate intentions. Overuse of words diminishes their impact, while actions engage attention and invite interpretation. This creates a sense of mystery and fascination, potentially triggering deep emotional responses like love. The analogy of activating a dormant gene is used to illustrate how actions can provoke latent feelings. Examples include giving thoughtful gifts or doing favors while verbally downplaying one's intentions.
😡 The Power of Controlled Anger
This paragraph discusses the impact of showing controlled anger instead of rage when someone makes a mistake. Demonstrating controlled anger at appropriate times can create a powerful impression and elicit a desire in others to regain your approval. It compares this to the fear felt when summoned to a principal’s office and highlights how this tactic can increase the value others place on your positive emotions and validation.
🧠 Rationality in Love
The paragraph advises using rationality to deepen someone's feelings for you, especially in long-distance relationships. Highlighting potential obstacles and doubts can provoke the other person to overcome them, thereby reinforcing their commitment. The process of rationalizing challenges makes them more determined to make the relationship work, thus affirming their love. The comparison to convincing oneself of love illustrates this psychological effect.
🕵️♂️ The Mystery of Unrevealed Feelings
This paragraph suggests not revealing your feelings too soon to maintain an air of mystery and increase attraction. It emphasizes the importance of uncertainty in the initial stages of a relationship, which heightens interest and value. The analogy to prehistoric courting behaviors illustrates how uncertainty can enhance the excitement and stability of relationships formed in real life compared to those initiated online.
💼 Commercial Break: Courses for Dating Advice
This paragraph introduces a commercial break promoting the speaker's dating advice courses. It offers various packages at discounted rates, providing comprehensive content to improve dating lives. The speaker assures honesty and straightforward advice, unlike typical therapy or family advice. Details about different course bundles and payment options are provided, along with an assurance of content quality and effectiveness in enhancing dating experiences.
🙏 Conclusion and Call to Action
The final paragraph encourages viewers to support the channel by purchasing the courses. It reiterates the benefits and quality of the offered content and concludes with a friendly farewell, inviting viewers to take action and improve their dating lives through the provided resources.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Actions speak louder than words
💡Mystery
💡Predisposition
💡Friction
💡Non-verbal cues
💡Constraint
💡Rationality
💡Uncertainty
💡Validation
💡Dating strategies
Highlights
Actions speak louder than words; speak with your actions to have a greater impact.
The more someone speaks, the less people listen, unless they are mindful and on platforms like YouTube.
Actions without words have a mysterious quality that forces people to pay attention and interpret intentions.
Verbal and non-verbal cues can create friction, which can increase attraction and obsession.
Dormant feelings of love can be activated through time or pain, similar to how certain genes are activated by the environment.
Non-verbal cues and thoughtful actions can show intentions better than words, creating an environment for love to grow.
Communicating through actions lowers psychological defenses and allows ideas to be absorbed smoothly.
Showing constrained anger when wronged is powerful; it indicates high value and self-control.
Displaying anger in moments of clear injustice creates a desire for validation and to return to a happy state.
Rationality and discussing obstacles in a relationship can make someone in love fight harder to overcome them.
Not revealing your feelings initially adds mystery and can increase the intensity of attraction.
Uncertainty during the early stages of a relationship increases value and attraction.
Communicating indifference or mixed signals can create a stronger desire and attraction.
Meeting through friends and family naturally incorporates a period of uncertainty that enhances attraction.
The Mindful Attraction University offers comprehensive strategies to improve dating life.
Transcripts
the most important thing is learning to
speak with your actions and not your
words the more you speak the more you
reveal with your words the less of an
effect it's going to have think about it
and this is very this is something
that's very linear the more somebody
speak the less you listen the less you
listen to them unless they're on YouTube
and unless they're mindful attraction
okay the more they speak the less they
listen but one of the things that people
pay most attention to is actions without
words actions without words have a
mysterious quality to them it forces you
to pay attention it forces you to
interpret what the person is doing what
is the intentions behind their actions
and that's the beauty you could verbally
say you want one thing but you could
also equally through your through your
non-verbal cues tell people you want
something else and that friction that
friction creates an obsession it makes
people pay closer attention to you and
if they have the potential the inner
potential to be able to love you that
could provoke a a a reaction where they
fall in love it's like this imagine you
have a gene a um a predisposition for a
certain trait and you know how certain
predispositions are only activated
certain genes are activated through the
environment so for example let's just
say goab you have a predisposition for
schizophrenia and then you put yourself
in an environment to have to activate
that Gene maybe you took shs maybe you
took aaska or even maybe you went to a
10day retreat and it it created it
activated a psychosis a psychotic
episode all of a sudden that Gene gets
activated right and where it was dormant
a lot of us when we meet people the
dormant the love that we have for them
is dormant because we're we actually
have a connection with them and
sometimes you either need time or pain
in order to activate that feeling or in
order to turn on that Gene and some of
these traits that I'm going to be
talking to you like speaking through
your actions and not your word which
allows a friction you can say I don't
want a relationship but through your
actions you show it that fr ition it's
like turning on that Gene it's like
creating the environment for that Gene
to be activated in and so even so for
example you can say I don't want love I
don't want a relationship but then you
give them a very very thoughtful gift or
maybe you you you do them a big favor
right or maybe you travel to where they
are in their minds they're going to say
okay you know they say they don't want a
relationship but they're doing this for
me and that friction it's like creating
their environment that activates the
gene it is the stress that activates the
gene it is the the the friction between
that that creates the fire right so it's
always good not to if for example let's
just say you have a a surprise gift
don't tell them you have a surprise gift
don't say it just be more quiet about it
right all of those things or let's just
say you you are going to um you want
marriage right for example right and you
want marriage but you don't want to be
creepy about it you could just say you
don't want it but then with your actions
you show it the thing about it is that
it's like intimidating telling people
what you want creat psychological
defenses doing it through your actions
lowers defenses but it also allows them
to take in the idea like allowing like
like it's it's just more smoother you're
not you're not you're penetrating the
membrane without hurting the organism
per se all right so don't reveal your
intentions speak through your words you
know it's like for example it's like
saying I [ __ ] hate you okay that'll
that'll get you you're like okay dude I
don't know what the hell I did to you
but you hate me but it's another thing
for me to say I like you but then
through my actions I say I hate you
which one do you think will be more
mentally destabilizing the action part
because it's confusing it that's what
I'm trying to tell you man is that this
speaking through your
actions engages a person's brain with
more intensity and if there's potential
for love they'll fall in love a little
bit quicker right now the next one is
showing your constrained anger when they
do something wrong nothing with turn
people off more than rage [ __ ] Bronx
type of rage right like like like
Florida type of Rage that will turn
people off right or if they're toxic
turn them off but during the moments of
clear Injustice which is very moment a
lot of moments in life when you meet
people they're going to make mistakes
right and if they make mistakes you have
to be able to call them out on it and
when you call them out on it you have to
please do it and don't look happy don't
look happy show them anger show them
constraint and anger so and also hold in
that anger hold it in and hold it in for
a few hours or a few days the reason why
is this there's
power and showing people you're not
happy with them one only people of power
only people who have high high value in
this Earth on this Earth are able to
show F to show anger and self-constraint
willingly inability to do that shows
weakness so just being willing to show
anger when you're always happy now
they're [ __ ] up they're like um can we
talk cuz um I I don't I be honest I just
didn't like what you did last week right
that change in tone makes people afraid
for example it's like going to the
principal's office it's the same
sensation it's like uh oh I'm in an
office and there's a dude and he's not
happy that sensation of sensing their
non-verbal cues showing people you're
not happy with your non-verbal cues
creates a longing a desire to see your
happy side they desire to see the happy
side they used to see before and that
sensation creates a desire to get your
validation a desire to turn that frown
upside down and this like I said
predisposition for a certain um um um
mental illness can also if you they have
a predisposition to love you it'll
activate it easy money Easy
Money the next one is rationality people
when you fall in love the best thing you
could do is is to make the person
falling in love deeper is be rational be
rational I swear to God so if you're
long distance relationship one of the
things a lot of people will do is that
they'll talk about long distance and
they'll say how we're going to overcome
it and they'll be like Oh I'm a love
hero I we will overcome this [ __ ]
right when in reality I don't recommend
it what you should do is talking about
all the negatives say look man I like
you but man like it's just so far away
how are we going to do it most
relationships don't last I don't know
I'm moving out of here how are we going
to plan it out nothing infuriates
somebody who's in love than rationality
oh my God I [ __ ] hate that [ __ ] what
the hell you mean 1 plus 1 equals 2 what
are you talking about we can make a work
I don't care if you if you're if you're
a [ __ ] Kenya I'll be an African I'll
do it I swear to God I'll go
there putting the obstacles in front of
people makes them muster up the energy
to jump over them and that mustering up
of the energy if you really observe the
inner mechanisms of somebody who's under
receiving this what you'll notice is
that they're convincing they're they're
fighting with themselves no no no no no
they're wrong they're wrong they're
wrong no we can make it work we can make
it work we can make it work
that is a that is a self-affirmation you
are pretty much conv telling yourself I
will love you I love you I love you I
will love you I will love you I will
love you you're like convincing yourself
of that we can make it work we can make
it work I don't care I'll do this I'll
do that if we try hard if you just try
can you just
try so you don't have to be an [ __ ]
and say and be and go Full Throttle on
this right well pride month is over you
could just in initially just put up some
resistance just put up some some
resistance man show some pride put up
some resistance it'll work that way now
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thing they like about working with me is
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I'm not giving you the advice your
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give is honest raw and straight to the
point you're going to get honesty from
me okay do that or or they're going to
leave you the next thing is don't reveal
how you feel at first there's nothing
look man like and it's kind of similar
to the first one if you feel like you
like them just show them you like them
verbally try your best not to say it try
your best it it's going to look it's
going to let you be your needy creep
isord self to to to an extent that you
could be needy but they won't get a
little scared of you that's all with
this strategy by just telling not
telling them what you by just not
revealing you how you feel and even
throwing them off the mark saying you
don't want a relationship for example
you could be so [ __ ] creepy and needy
and get away with it you have no idea so
for all the people who just cannot help
and they can't control their emotions
this is the way for you to be creepy and
get away with it now the only way for
this to work is that they have to find
your attractive nothing is worse than
somebody who's creepy and unattractive
in in your eyes all right and the thing
is is that the reason why this works
right is that you might say but you know
why do I have to hold on to how much I
feel why can't just just tell them now
put it this way it's the mystery that
matters for example have you seen those
faceless YouTubers where they don't show
their face and as soon and so the whole
time it was fun and as soon as they show
their face all of a sudden the mystery
is gone but it was a fun experience
right and that's how it is right you
kind of had that mystery do they like me
do they not like me do they like me do
they not like me do they like me do they
not like me and that
undulation is so critical for people
falling in
love naturally when you meet people back
in the prehistoric days if you met a
prehistoric chick right and and and
you're trying to holler at her initially
you wouldn't know if she liked you back
you wouldn't because she's going to play
koi prehistoric koi right she doesn't
want want people to see her flirting and
so you're going to have to wait a few
weeks or day or months depending on how
how they're counting time in that tribe
for you to find out and in in those
moments you don't know if they like you
you get glimpses that they like that
they like you but you don't know and
that's one of the qualities that makes
relationships from people that you meet
in real life more longterm and stable
it's because there's a there's a it's a
period of of uncertainty that increases
how much they how much you like them cuz
you're thinking about them more but
there's a settling aspect to when you
know they like you there's like a and
and and just notice how it is dating
people you meet through your friends and
you had to go through this versus dating
people in real life and and and matching
with them and you know they like you
that uncertainty period honestly is one
of the most fun Parts it's it's it's
it's honestly one of the it's honestly I
think the best part about is that you
flirt with people and you don't know if
they like people you kind of get a sense
that has such it's such an important
part of the dating process because it
increases your value your value is so
high in those moments that naturally
there's a lowering of the value once you
know they like you but it's like when
you meet on Tinder you start here but
when you meet through real life you
start here because you don't know they
like you so you lower honestly oh you
like they you you're you're finally
dating them you guys kiss the the
intensity lowers it lowers but not to
the same degree as when you find when
you know them through your friends and
family and you don't know if they like
you that that is so important man and so
that's why I tell people
just just just try to communicate that I
don't know if you if I like you or not
right or better yet meet people through
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