vidio 6

Summary

The speaker begins with Islamic greetings and praises, then discusses the importance of maintaining good relationships with the friends of one's parents even after they have passed away, as emphasized in various hadiths. The narrative includes examples from the lives of companions of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), illustrating the value of honoring one's parents through acts of kindness to their friends and fulfilling their promises. The speaker also highlights the significance of praying for and seeking forgiveness for deceased parents to ensure their honor and to be seen as dutiful children.

Takeaways

• 📿 Importance of Gratitude: The speaker emphasizes starting with praise and gratitude to Allah for blessings such as faith and unity.
• 📖 Significance of Hadith: The speaker discusses a hadith narrated by Umar radhiallahu Anhu, which emphasizes maintaining good relations with the friends of one's deceased father as a form of respect and honor.
• 👥 Importance of Good Relationships: The hadith underscores the value of maintaining good relations with the friends of one's parents even after their passing.
• 🤝 Act of Kindness: An anecdote about Ibn Umar radhiallahu Anhu giving his belongings to a Bedouin because the Bedouin's father was a friend of his own father, highlighting the importance of honoring parental relationships.
• 🙏 Continual Prayer: The speaker stresses the importance of praying for deceased parents and fulfilling their promises as a way to honor them.
• 💬 Role of Supplication: The speaker notes that continuous supplication for parents and fulfilling their promises can elevate a person’s status as a dutiful child.
• 📜 Narratives from Hadith: Various narratives are shared to emphasize the importance of doing good deeds and maintaining relationships in honor of one's deceased parents.
• 🌟 Mercy of Allah: The speaker discusses the boundless mercy of Allah, stating that even if one has been undutiful to their parents, there are ways to seek forgiveness and make amends.
• 💔 Compassion for Children: Emphasis is placed on showing compassion and kindness towards one's children, with examples from the Prophet Muhammad's interactions with his grandchildren.
• 🤲 Importance of Charity: Encouragement to perform acts of charity on behalf of deceased parents, with the assurance that the rewards of such deeds will reach the parents.

Q & A

What is the significance of the greeting 'Bismillahirrahmanirrahim' in the script?

'Bismillahirrahmanirrahim' means 'In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful' and it is often used by Muslims to invoke the name of Allah before starting any task to seek His blessings.

Why is the praise of Allah and the Prophet Muhammad mentioned at the beginning of the speech?

Praising Allah and the Prophet Muhammad is a common practice in Islamic speeches to express gratitude for the blessings received and to seek blessings and peace upon the Prophet.

What does the hadith narrated by Umar radhiallahu Anhu teach about maintaining relationships?

The hadith emphasizes the importance of maintaining good relationships with the friends of one’s deceased parents as a way of honoring them.

What are the two interpretations of 'after the father is gone' mentioned in the script?

'After the father is gone' can mean either that the father is temporarily absent or that he has passed away.

What is the reward for doing good to the friends of one's deceased parents according to the script?

Doing good to the friends of one's deceased parents can elevate one's status and earn the respect and support of those friends, especially after the parent's death.

How did Ibnu Umar radhiallahu Anhu exemplify the teachings of the hadith regarding maintaining relationships?

Ibnu Umar gave his vehicle and turban to a Bedouin because the Bedouin's father was a friend of his own father, showing his commitment to maintaining relationships with his father's friends.

What did Abu Hurairah radhiallahu Anhu say about honoring one's deceased parents?

Abu Hurairah emphasized that maintaining relationships with the friends of one’s deceased parents is a way to honor them and fulfill one’s duties towards them even after their death.

What actions did Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam recommend to honor deceased parents?

Rasulullah recommended praying for them, seeking forgiveness for them, fulfilling their promises, doing good to their relatives, and honoring their friends.

What does the script say about the value of praying for deceased parents?

The script mentions that praying for deceased parents and seeking forgiveness for them can make a person who was previously disobedient to their parents considered obedient.

How can acts of charity benefit deceased parents according to the script?

Acts of charity performed with the intention of benefiting the souls of deceased parents can bring rewards to both the giver and the deceased, as mentioned in the hadith.

Outlines

00:00

🙏 Introduction and Significance of Respecting Parents' Friends

The speaker begins with a traditional Islamic greeting and praises Allah for blessings of faith and well-being. The focus shifts to a Hadith narrated by Umar ibn Al-Khattab, emphasizing the importance of maintaining good relations with friends of one’s deceased parents. The Hadith underscores that such actions honor the deceased and can bring personal benefits, like support from those friends. Several examples from Islamic tradition illustrate this principle, including instances where companions of the Prophet Muhammad showed kindness to friends of their fathers. The speaker highlights that true respect for deceased parents is demonstrated by honoring their friends without expecting material benefits.

05:02

💔 Seeking Forgiveness for Deceased Parents

This paragraph discusses the means by which one can make amends for any wrongs done to parents who have passed away. It emphasizes the importance of praying for them, seeking Allah's forgiveness on their behalf, and performing charitable acts in their name. By doing so, a person who may have once been disobedient can still be seen as a dutiful child. The speaker references various Hadiths that promise rewards for those who perform Hajj or other good deeds on behalf of their deceased parents. The overarching message is that Allah’s mercy provides opportunities for redemption even after a parent's death.

10:02

🤲 Supporting Children and Helping Those in Need

The speaker elaborates on the virtues of supporting one's children, especially those who return to the parental home after facing hardships like widowhood or divorce. This act of support is considered a form of charity and maintains familial bonds. The speaker references Hadiths that highlight the rewards of helping those in distress, including multiple forms of forgiveness and elevation of one's status in the afterlife. Furthermore, the speaker stresses the importance of showing kindness and mercy to children, as exemplified by the Prophet Muhammad, who demonstrated immense affection towards his grandchildren. The message concludes with a reminder that compassion is a key attribute in Islam and those who lack it are admonished.

Keywords

💡Silaturahmi

Silaturahmi refers to the concept of maintaining and nurturing familial and social bonds in Islamic tradition. In the video, it emphasizes the importance of keeping good relationships, especially with the friends of one's deceased parents, as a form of respect and gratitude. This practice is highlighted as a way to honor the parents even after their death.

💡Hadith

A Hadith is a report of the sayings, actions, or approvals of the Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam). The video discusses various hadiths that underscore the significance of maintaining relationships with the friends of one's parents and the spiritual benefits of praying for and doing good deeds on behalf of deceased parents.

💡Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, meaning 'The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him,' refers to the Prophet Muhammad. The video frequently quotes the Prophet's teachings to highlight the virtues of honoring one's parents and their friends, both during their lifetime and after their death.

💡Rahmatullahi

Rahmatullahi means 'mercy of Allah.' The video begins with this phrase, setting a tone of reverence and gratitude for Allah's blessings, which include the guidance provided through the Prophet Muhammad’s teachings. It emphasizes the mercy and compassion that Muslims are encouraged to show towards others.

💡Barakah

Barakah refers to blessings or divine grace. In the video, it is implied that maintaining good relationships and honoring one's parents, even after their passing, brings barakah. This concept underscores the belief that good deeds and proper conduct lead to spiritual and worldly blessings.

💡Umar radhiallahu Anhu

Umar radhiallahu Anhu, meaning 'May Allah be pleased with him,' refers to Umar ibn al-Khattab, a prominent companion of the Prophet Muhammad. The video narrates his actions and sayings to illustrate the importance of respecting and maintaining ties with the friends of one's parents.

💡Ibn Umar radhiallahu Anhu

Ibn Umar radhiallahu Anhu, 'May Allah be pleased with him,' refers to Abdullah ibn Umar, the son of Umar ibn al-Khattab and a respected companion of the Prophet. His example in the video demonstrates the practice of honoring his father's friends, thereby highlighting the importance of familial and social bonds.

💡Dua

Dua is a prayer or supplication to Allah. The video discusses the practice of making dua for deceased parents, which is seen as a way to seek Allah's mercy and forgiveness for them, thereby fulfilling one's duties towards them even after their death.

💡Istighfar

Istighfar means seeking forgiveness from Allah. The video mentions that asking for forgiveness for one's deceased parents is a means of honoring them and can lead to being considered a dutiful child. This practice is presented as a path to spiritual redemption and fulfillment of parental obligations.

💡Haji

Haji refers to the Islamic pilgrimage to Mecca, a significant religious duty. The video explains that performing Haji on behalf of deceased parents is a way to honor them and gain spiritual rewards. This act symbolizes the deep respect and ongoing duty towards one's parents, even posthumously.

Highlights

Opening invocation and greetings in Arabic.

Praise to Allah for the blessings of faith and unity.

Explanation of the importance of maintaining good relations with friends of one's parents after their passing, based on a hadith narrated by Umar radhiallahu Anhu.

Clarification that 'after the father's passing' can mean either temporarily or permanently.

Emphasis on the merit of treating one's father's friends well without seeking personal gain.

Story of Ibn Umar radhiallahu Anhu giving his turban and mount to a Bedouin because the Bedouin's father was a friend of his own father.

Hadith of Abu Hurairah radhiallahu Anhu about maintaining ties with a father's friends to honor the father.

Encouragement to pray for deceased parents, fulfill their promises, and maintain relations with their friends.

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam's teaching on the value of fulfilling promises and showing respect to parents' friends after their death.

Anas radhiallahu Anhu's hadith on gaining divine approval by seeking forgiveness and praying for deceased parents.

Allah's mercy in allowing children to repent for past disrespect to parents through prayer and good deeds dedicated to them.

Significance of performing acts like Hajj on behalf of deceased parents, bringing rewards to both the performer and the parents.

Encouragement to recite specific prayers for the benefit of deceased parents as mentioned by Alama Aini rahmatullahi alaih.

Hadith about the importance of maintaining charity for deceased parents and how it benefits both the giver and the deceased.

Final note on how children can continue to respect and honor their parents after their passing through consistent good deeds, prayers, and maintaining their promises.

Transcripts

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim asalamualaikum

warahmatullahi

wabarakatuh alhamdulillah

alhamdulillahabbil alamin wasatu

wasalamu pertama-tama Mari kita

panjatkan puja dan puji atas kadirat

Allah subhanahu wa taala sehingga kita

masih diberi nikmat iman dan nikmat kes

sat serta salam tak lupa kita panjatkan

kepada junjungan kita yakni nabiah

muhammadahu Alaihi

was baik saya akan melanjutkan hadis

ketig was

Umar radhiallahu Anhu berkata bahwa

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

bersabda Sesungguhnya kebaikan yang

terbaik adalah berhubungan baik dengan

seseorang yang telah menghubungkan baik

dengan bapaknya setelah bapaknya pergi

hadis riwayat Muslim

miskat maksud setelah bapaknya pergi

mengandung dua pengertian bisa jadi

Bapak tidak ada untuk sementara waktu

atau bapak tidak ada untuk selamanya

karena sudah meninggal dunia berbuat

baik kepada sahabat-sahabat bapak dapat

menginginkan derajat karena mungkin ada

beberapa kepentingan di balik itu Yakni

dengan berhubungan baik dengan sahabat

Bapaknya bisa jadi sahabat bapak itu

akan menolong kita secara

khusus Tetapi setelah Bapak meninggal

dunia berbuat baik kepada sahabatnya

harus lepas dari tujuan itu tetapi

karena suatu penghormatan kepada Bapak

kita diriwayatkan dalam sebuah hadis

bahwa Ibnu Dinar radhiallahu Anhu

mengatakan suatu ketika Ibnu Umar

radhiallahu berjalan melalui suatu jalan

di

Makkah almukarah tiba-tiba beliau

berjumpa dengan seorang badwi Ibnu Umar

radhiallahu Anhu memberikan kendaraan

dan sorban miliknya Ibnu Din radhiallahu

Anhu berkata kepada Ibnu Umar

radhiallahu Anhu Tuan orang itu akan

cukup merasa gembira walaupun tidak

mendapat kebaikan sebanyak

itu Tuan telah memberikan sorban dan

kendaraan kepadanya Ibnu umaradallah anu

menjawab Ayahnya adalah sahabat ayah

saya dan saya mendengarkan dari

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

bahwa silaturahmi yang paling baik

setelah ayahnya meninggal adalah berbuat

baik kepada sahabat ayahnya Abu Hurairah

radhiallahu Anhu berkata ketika saya

sampai di ke Madinah Ibnu Umar

radhiallahu Anhu mendatangi saya lalu

berkata Tahukah Engkau Mengapa saya

mendatangi engkau saya mendengar dari

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

bahwa Siapa yang berkeinginan untuk

silaturahmi dengan bapaknya ketika

bapaknya sudah meninggal dunia maka

hendaknya Dia berbuat baik kepada

sahabat-sahabat bapaknya dan Bapak saya

Umar radhiallahu Anhu berkata adalah

sahabat dari bapak engkau sebab itulah

saya mendatangi engkau atau

tarwib dalam hadis lain Abu usaid Malik

bin Rabi radhiallahu Anhu mengatakan

Kami para sahabat Rasulullah sedang

mengikuti Majelis Rasulullah Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam seorang dari Banu

Salamah mendatangi kami lalu berkata

setelah wafatnya kedua orang tua saya

Dengan cara apakah untuk tetap berbuat

baik kepada mereka Rasulullah Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam bersabda Ya berdoalah

untuk mereka dan Mintalah kemampuan

untuk mereka jika mereka telah membuat

suatu janji maka tunaikanlah berbuat

baiklah terhadap kerabat mereka dan

Hormatilah sahabat-sahabat

mereka dalam hadis lain dinyatakan

setelah mendengar Sabda demikian Orang

itu berkata begitu baik dan begitu

bernilai da ini maka rasulullahahu

Alaihi wasam bersabda baik

amalkanlah hadis

keemp

was dari Anas radhiallahu Anhu berkata

bahwa Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

Wasallam bersabda Barang siapa yang

kedua orang tuanya sudah meninggal dunia

atau salah seorang keduanya telah

meninggal dunia maka hendaknya Dia

sedang hendaknya dia sedangkan dia

adalah orang adalah orang yang tidak

taat kepada mereka apabila dia selalu

meminta kemampuan untuk mereka dan

selalu mendoakan Mereka maka dia akan

dianggap telah taat kepada mereka hadis

riwayat ba

betapa besarnya anugerah Allah Subhanahu

subhanahu wa taala apabila kita telah

terlanjur mendurhakai orang tua karena

suatu perbuatan yang dapat menyakitkan

hati orang tua tetapi orang tua bukanlah

sesuatu yang dapat dibenci karena

kebaikan dan pengorbanan mereka terhadap

anaknya sehingga anak-anaknya menyesali

perbuatannya itu tetapi Adakah cara

untuk menebus dosa ini sedangkan orang

tuanya telah meninggal dunia Allah

subhanahu wa taala dengan karun yang

begitu besar telah memberikan jalan

yaitu dengan mendoakannya

danohonampunan untuknya ser bersekah

yang pahalanya ditujuk untuk arwah

mka maka kalauulu anak itu dianggap

durhaka dengan perbuatan baik ini anak

itu akan dianggap sebagai anak yang taat

kepada orang

tuanya peluan masih terbuka apabila

peluan ini pun dilepaskan maka anak itu

sangat keras hati dan tidak mempunyai

kebaikan apa-apa berapa Banyakkah orang

yang hidupnya selalu menyenangkan hati

orang tuanya dari perbuatan kita

seharihari selalu saja ada kekurangan

dan

keikhlafan jika seseorang selalu

mengamalkan amalan-amalan yang yang

manfaatnya dapat disampaikan untuk arwah

orang tua yang telah wafat maka hasil

yang baik pasti akan diperoleh Kakan

dalam sebuah hadis bahwa siapa yang

mengerjakan haji yang pahalanya

disampaikan untuk orang tuanya maka dia

tetap menjadi haji walaupun hajinya

untuk orang tuanya dan mereka akan

diberi-beri berita gembira dan di sisi

allah subhanahu wa taala anak demikian

akan dipandang sebagai anak yang taat

kepada orang tua walaupun dahulu Dia

adalah anak durhaka dalam hadis lain

dinyatakan bahwa siapa yang mengerjakan

haji untuk salah seorang dari orang

tuanya maka orang tuanya akan mendapat

pahala satu Haji sedangkan anak yang

mengerjakannya akan mendapat pahala

Haji

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim Alama Aini

rahmatullahi alaih mengutip sebuah hadis

dari Syarah Bukhari bahwa Barang siapa

membaca doa berikut ini Satu

kali maka Allah akan

menyampaikan pahalanya kepada orang tua

dan dia menunaikan hak-hak orang tuanya

Adapun doanya sebagai

berikut

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

alhamdulillahiabbil

alamin rbis samawati warabbil ardh

warbilamin wahul kibri fwati W ARD

ilamin

wulmatu fwati Wal wahual Azizul

Hakim hual maliku rbus samawati warabbul

ardhi warabbul

alamin walahun Nuru Fis samawati Wal ARD

wahu Azizul

Hakim dalam hadis lain dinyatakan bahwa

jika seseorang menunaikan sedekah nafil

maka apalah susahnya dia menyampaikan

pahalanya untuk arwah orang tuanya

syaratnya mereka haruslah orang Islam

dalam keadaan demikian pahalanya akan

sampai kepada

mereka dan pahala orang yang

menyedekahkannya tidak akan berkurang

sedikit pun menurut hadis ini tidak

perlu apa-apa lagi cukup

dengan menafkahkan sesuatu dan

Sampaikanlah pahalanya kepada orang tua

Abdullah Bin Salam Radiallahu anhu

berkata demi zat yang mengutus

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

dengan hak perkara ini ada dalam

al-quran yang suci bahwa Janganlah

memutuskan silaturahmi dengan orang yang

menjaga silaturahmi dengan bapakmu

karena apabila demikian kamu akan

kehilangan Nur diberitahukan dalam

sebuah hadis bahwa Siapa yang menziarahi

kubur orang tuanya ataupun seorang dari

keduanya maka dia akan diampuni dan

dianggap sebagai anak yang taat kepada

orang tuanya allahubar a radhiallahu

Anhu berkata saya telah diberitahu bahwa

Siapa yang telah ingkar kepada orang

tuanya ketika mereka masih hidup jika

mereka telah meninggal maka

beristigfarlah untuk mereka menunaikan

hutan Mereka kalau ada dan dan juga

tidak menyalahkan mereka Maka akan

dianggap sebagai anak taat kepada orang

tuanya dan siapa yang telah taat kepada

orang tuanya semasa mereka masih hidup

tetapi ketika orang tuanya telah

meninggal Dia tidak

menyalatkannya dia tidak menyalatkan

mereka tidak menunaikan Hut mereka dan

juga tidak beristigfar bagi mereka maka

ia akan dianggap sebagai anak yang

durhaka kepada orang

tuanya dalam hadis k

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Majah

misyar datang kembali kepadamu Maksudnya

anak tersebut telah bersuami tetapi

suaminya telah meninggal dunia atau

menceraikannya oleh atau oleh

sebab-sebab lainnya sehingga Ia datang

kembali ke bawah tanggung jawab

tanggungan bapaknya maka membelanjai

anak perempuan seperti ini adalah

sedekah yang paling baik sebabnya jelas

sekali pertama di dalamnya ada unsur

sedekah kedua membantu orang yang

mendapat musibah ketiga memelihara

silaturahmi keempat kasih sayang

terhadap anak sendiri kelima memberi

ketenangan jiwa kepada orang yang

ditimpa kesulitan karena pada permulaan

hidupnya di bawah tanggungan bapaknya

adalah sangat menyenangkan bagi bagi

seorang anak perempuan dan tidak merasa

terhina Tetapi setelah berpisah karena

pernikahan dan memiliki tempat tinggal

sendiri jika ia harus kembali ke rumah

orang tuanya dan kembali berada di bawah

tanggung tanggungan bapaknya maka ia

akan merasa berdukacita Rasulullah

Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam bersabda

Barang siapa yang membantu seseorang

yang tertimpa musibah dan kesulitan maka

baginya disediakan 73 magfirah atau

keampunan dan dengan satu saja

daripadanya semua masalahnya dapat

diselesaikan dan dengan 72 lagi

derajatnya akan ditinggikan pada hari

kiamat beberapa hadis yang makn seperti

di atas telah dikemukakanada keterangan

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pertah peraht

kepadaasah was jika saya memberi belanja

untuk anak Abu Abu bei Umu saledangkan

iah anakku Apakah saya tetap mempo

pahala ras

wasuk diaau

dapat pahala kasih sayang dan pemberian

terhadap anak sendiri walaupun mereka

tidak berhajat adalah sesuatu wajib yang

disukai suatu ketika salah seorang dari

dua cucu Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

Wasallam yaitu Hasan radhiallahu Anhu

dan Husain radhiallahu Anhu berada di

sisi Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

Wasallam dan Rasulullah Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam sangat sayang kepada

keduanya ketika itu Iqra bin habis

radhiallahu Anhu yang merupakan ketua

Banu Tamim juga berada di sana maka iqr

radhiallahu Anhu berkata Saya memiliki

10 orang anak tetapi saya tidak pernah

memberi kasih sayang kepadaor pun dari

mereka seperti ini Rasulullah Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam memandang terhadapnya

dengan pandangan tidak suka lalu

bersabda Siapa yang tidak mengasihani

tidak

dikasihani dalam hadis yang lain

Diceritakan bahwa salah seorang batwi

berkata kepada Rasulullah Sallallahu

Alaihi Wasallam engkau sangat

mengasihami anak-anak tetapi kami tidak

berbuat demikian maka Rasulullah

Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam menjawab

bagaimana saya dapat mengobati kamu

sedangkan Allah subhanahu wa taala telah

mengeluarkan sifat rahim dari hatimu