Nur Ahmad Satria | Kriteria mencari jodoh
Summary
TLDRThe video script discusses the importance of prioritizing religion and good character when choosing a spouse, as emphasized in a hadith. It outlines criteria for selecting a life partner, including religious commitment, beauty, wealth, and lineage. The Prophet Muhammad's guidance on marrying for faith is highlighted, cautioning against marrying solely for beauty or wealth which could lead to betrayal. The script also advises on the virtues of marrying a virgin, a woman of noble lineage, and one who is likely to bear children. It concludes with a recommended prayer for finding a suitable spouse and emphasizes the significance of careful consideration in marriage to ensure a harmonious and respectful union.
Takeaways
- 😀 The script discusses a hadith that emphasizes the importance of choosing a spouse based on four main factors: wealth, beauty, religion, and lineage.
- 👨🦲 It highlights that prioritizing religion in choosing a spouse can lead to a successful and blessed marriage, as it is believed to ensure love and affection between the couple.
- 🧐 The hadith is not a strict command but rather an explanation of what generally attracts men in choosing a wife, and the importance of putting religion first.
- 👫 The script mentions that if both partners share the same religion, the next step is to look at their character and good behavior.
- 🚸 The Prophet Muhammad advises against marrying for beauty or wealth alone, as these attributes can lead to negative outcomes such as infidelity or greed.
- 💔 It warns that marrying for beauty alone could result in betrayal, and marrying for wealth could lead to the wife being unfaithful due to the wealth itself.
- 👰 The preference for marrying a virgin is mentioned, with the Prophet Muhammad stating that virgins are softer in speech and more likely to produce offspring.
- 🌐 The script also discusses the importance of marrying someone with a good lineage, especially if they come from a noble or respected family.
- 🤰 It suggests that marrying a woman who is known to be fertile is beneficial, as it can lead to a larger family and is seen as a blessing.
- 💰 The dowry is mentioned as a factor to consider, with the advice that it should be reasonable and able to support the woman in case of divorce.
- 🙏 Lastly, the script provides a prayer for those seeking a spouse, emphasizing the importance of a sincere and humble request to God for guidance in finding the right partner.
Q & A
What are the four main aspects a man should consider when choosing a wife according to the Hadith mentioned in the script?
-According to the Hadith, a man should consider a woman's wealth, beauty, religion, and her being a virgin when choosing a wife.
What does the Hadith emphasize as the most important factor in choosing a life partner?
-The Hadith emphasizes that prioritizing religion above all else when choosing a life partner will lead to receiving everything else.
What is the Hadith's stance on marrying a woman for her beauty alone?
-The Hadith warns against marrying a woman solely for her beauty, as it might lead to her being unfaithful.
What does the script suggest about the importance of a woman's religiousness in marriage?
-The script suggests that choosing a woman who is religious will bring luck and happiness in marriage.
What is the significance of a woman's lineage or ancestry in the context of marriage according to the script?
-The script implies that marrying a woman with a good lineage or ancestry, especially from noble or respected families, is preferable.
What does the script suggest about the preference for marrying a virgin over a widow?
-The script suggests that marrying a virgin is preferable because they are softer in speech, more likely to bear children, and more accepting of their circumstances.
What is the script's view on the importance of a woman's fertility in marriage?
-The script views a woman's fertility as an important factor, with the Prophet Muhammad recommending marrying women who are likely to conceive.
What is the script's advice regarding the 'mahr' or dowry in marriage?
-The script advises that the dowry should be reasonable and manageable for the woman to live on in case of divorce.
What are the potential issues that can arise from marrying a woman who is significantly wealthier than the man, according to the script?
-The script suggests that if a woman is much wealthier than the man, it can lead to conflicts and potentially divorce due to feelings of inferiority or power imbalances.
What is the script's stance on the importance of a woman's age, height, and wealth in comparison to the man's?
-The script indicates that ideally, a woman should be younger, shorter, and less wealthy than the man to maintain a balance in the relationship.
What dua or prayer is suggested in the script for those seeking a spouse?
-The script suggests reading the dua 'Sapu Jagad Rabbana Atina Fiddunya Hasanah wafil Akhiroti Hasanan wa Qina 'Adzab' 15 times after the five daily prayers for those seeking a spouse.
Outlines
😀 Prioritizing Religion in Marriage Selection
This paragraph discusses the importance of prioritizing religion and good character when choosing a spouse, as emphasized in a hadith. It explains that men are generally attracted to women based on four aspects: wealth, beauty, religion, and lineage. The hadith suggests that focusing on religion will lead to a happy marriage. The paragraph also mentions that while beauty and wealth are factors, they should not be the main criteria. The Prophet Muhammad advises against marrying solely for beauty or wealth, as these can lead to negative outcomes. Instead, marrying a religious woman is recommended for a successful and blessed union.
😇 Criteria for Choosing a Spouse Based on Hadith
The second paragraph outlines specific criteria for selecting a spouse according to Islamic teachings. It highlights the preference for marrying a virgin over a widow, as virgins are believed to be more tender, loving, and likely to produce offspring. The paragraph also discusses the importance of lineage, suggesting that marrying someone with a good family background is preferable. Additionally, it mentions the desirability of a woman who is kind-hearted and fertile. The hadith cited emphasizes the importance of these qualities for a harmonious and blessed marriage.
🙏 Prayers for Seeking a Spouse and Considerations for Women
This paragraph provides a prayer for those seeking a spouse, which is to be recited 15 times after the five daily prayers. It also suggests a prayer for parents seeking a suitable son-in-law, which involves reciting a specific phrase 1111 times on Wednesday and Thursday nights. The paragraph further discusses the importance of careful consideration for women when choosing a husband, as marriage is likened to a binding contract from which they cannot easily escape. It advises that a woman should be married to a God-fearing man, as this will determine her treatment and happiness in marriage.
😅 Additional Criteria for Marriage and Humorous Sign-off
The final paragraph humorously suggests that women should ideally be superior to men in four aspects: age, height, wealth, and status. It then transitions into a more serious note, discussing the potential issues that can arise when a woman is wealthier than her husband, such as conflicts and even divorce. The paragraph concludes with a light-hearted sign-off, indicating a friendly and informal tone.
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Keywords
💡Hadith
💡Marriage Criteria
💡Religion
💡Beauty
💡Wealth
💡Lineage
💡Akhlaq
💡Virginity
💡Dowry
💡Prayer for Spouse
💡Divorce
Highlights
A hadith emphasizes the importance of choosing a spouse based on their faith, beauty, and wealth, but prioritizes faith for a successful marriage.
Men are generally attracted to women considering four aspects: faith, beauty, wealth, and lineage, but faith should be the priority.
A strong faith and good character are essential for a lasting relationship, even if both partners share the same religion.
The Prophet Muhammad advises against marrying solely for beauty or wealth, as these attributes might lead to unfaithfulness or greed.
Marrying a religious woman is encouraged, as it is believed to bring fortune and happiness.
Imam Mawardi warns against marrying extremely beautiful women due to the potential for jealousy and temptation.
The Sunnah supports marrying beautiful women, but the focus should be on their character and faith.
Virginity is preferred in a spouse, as it is believed that virgins are softer in speech and more likely to produce offspring.
A woman's lineage and noble ancestry are considered important in choosing a spouse.
A spouse should be forgiving, kind, and likely to conceive, as these traits are seen as blessings in marriage.
The dowry should be moderate, allowing the woman to sustain herself in case of divorce.
Some scholars suggest that a woman should be younger, shorter, less wealthy, and of lower status than her husband to maintain harmony.
A woman may be superior to her husband in certain aspects such as beauty, wealth, and social status, but this should not lead to disrespect.
A specific prayer is mentioned to seek a suitable spouse, emphasizing the importance of faith and good deeds.
Parents are advised to recite a specific prayer or dhikr for 1111 times on Wednesday and Thursday nights to find a suitable spouse for their children.
Al-Ghazali highlights the need for caution in choosing a spouse, as marriage is a lifelong commitment similar to servitude.
Hasan bin Ali suggests marrying a God-fearing person, as their piety will ensure respect and kindness in the marriage.
The importance of valuing a better life through understanding and applying the teachings on choosing a spouse is emphasized.
Transcripts
Hai di dalam sebuah hadits shohih
disebutkan Hanin Nabi Shallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam makalah mungkah lembar actually
Arbain limaliha walihasabiha
walijamaliha walidiniha fathfar pizza
tit ini saripati Adakah rowahu muslim
seorang wanita dinikahi karena empat
perkara karena hartanya keturunannya
kecantikannya dan karena agamanya maka
Pilihlah wanita yang taat agamanya
niscaya engkau akan beruntung Hadits
Riwayat Muslim
Hai hadits ini bukan merupakan perintah
yang wajib dipenuhi di dalam memilih
perempuan yang akan dinikahi
Hai tetapi menjelaskan bahwa pada
umumnya laki-laki selalu tertarik pada
perempuan dengan memandang empat perkara
tersebut Percayalah Apabila seseorang
memprioritaskan agama diatas segalanya
maka ia akan mendapatkan segalanya
[Musik]
Hai rosulullohi shollallohu Alaihi
Wasallam memerintahkan seorang laki-laki
untuk mengutamakan agama dan akhlak di
dalam memilih istri manakala antara
lelaki dan perempuan telah sama agamanya
maka langkah berikutnya adalah lihat
akhlaqnya agama yang kuat dan akhlak
yang baik lebih dapat menjamin kekuatan
cinta dan kasih sayang di antara
keduanya
[Musik]
Hai jangan sampai faktor diluar agama
menjadi prioritas hal ini sebagaimana
pesan Baginda Nabi Muhammad Shallallahu
Alaihi Wasallam janganlah kalian
menikahi perempuan Karena kecantikannya
bisa jadi kecantikannya justru
membuatnya durhaka
Hai janganlah kalian menikahi perempuan
karena hartanya bisa jadi hartanya
justru membuatnya terjerumus tetapi
Menikahlah dengan perempuan ya memiliki
agama hadits riwayat Ibnu Majah
[Musik]
kriteria-kriteria di dalam mencari jodoh
yang pertama adalah lihat agama dan
akhlaknya yang kedua
Hai kriteria yang kedua adalah
kecantikannya
Hai sunnah menikahi perempuan yang
cantik Kendati demikian
Halo halo Imam Mawardi berpendapat bahwa
makruh menikahi perempuan yang sangat
cantik karena akan mudah menyembuhkan
kecantikannya dan justru yang
dikhawatirkan adalah mudah untuk
mengundang fitnah atau bahkan mengundang
pria jahat berbuat yang tidak-tidak
perlunya memilih pasangan dari segi
parasnya guna mewujudkan rasa aman dari
kemaksiatan lelaki yang sudah memiliki
istri yang cantik normalnya tidak mudah
untuk berpindah
ada lain
kriteria yang ke-3 masih gadis atau
perawan Nabi Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam bersabda alikum bila Bakari
fainahu nah azabu Afwah Anwal takluk
arhaman warogo bilymoon Menikahlah
dengan perempuan yang masih gadis
sesungguhnya mereka lebih lembut tutur
katanya lebih banyak memberikan
keturunan dan lebih Ridho dengan sesuatu
yang sedikit mudah menerima apa adanya
hadits riwayat Ibnu Majah
Hai kesunahan memilih perempuan yang
masih gadis sebagai istri tentu berlaku
selama tidak ada hal lain yang
mendorongnya untuk menikahi janda
[Musik]
Hai jika dibandingkan dengan janda
perempuan yang masih gadis memiliki
keistimewaan yaitu sangat mencintai
suaminya sebab Ia adalah lelaki
pertamanya di dalam pernikahan Selain
itu berdasarkan watak manusia akan
cenderung dengan kekasih pertamanya
banyak kesan yang tidak bisa untuk
dilupakan sedang janda terkadang mudah
membandingkan dengan suami pertamanya
sehingga menganggap suami kedua tidak
lebih baik dari yang pertama
Hai GTA Lia mencari jodoh yang keempat
adalah bernasab baik sunnah menikahi
perempuan yang jelas asal-usulnya
Apalagi anak atau keturunan dari orang
Shaleh atau orang Arif
Hai kriteria yang
[Musik]
Hai murah kasih sayang dan mudah hamil
Nabi Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam bersabda bahwa Jul Waduh Dalwa
Luda paini muka sirun bikumul Umam
nikahilah perempuan yang pengasih dan
mudah hamil Sebab aku akan berlomba
memperbanyak umat hadis riwayat Abu
Dawud Bagaimana melihatnya
Hai perempuan yang mudah hamil maka
Lihatlah saudari-saudari nya manakala
mudah untuk memiliki anak biasanya yang
bersangkutan juga demikian yang keenam
kriteria yang keenam adalah perempuan
yang ringan maharnya mahar tidak terlalu
tinggi tidak terlalu rendah
sedang-sedang saja
namun yang baik adalah dengan mahar itu
manakala ada mungkin kegagalan
pernikahan pihak perempuan bisa hidup
pasca mengalami perceraian dengan
suaminya artinya apa dengan mahar itu
bisa menghidupinya karena ditinggal oleh
suaminya gara-gara perceraian
Hai Di dalam kitab i'anatut tholibin
Hai banget juz 3 halaman 314 ada
Sebagian ulama mengatakan bahwa
hendaknya perempuan berada di bawah
laki-laki dalam empat hal jika tidak
bisa jadi perempuan tersebut justru
merendahkan suaminya pertama usia kedua
tinggi badan ketiga harta keempat
kedudukan hendaknya perempuan lebih
unggul dari laki-laki dalam empat hal
yakni paras kecantikan etika perang Hai
dan Barry
halo halo ini
Hai sejati satu contoh laki-laki dengan
perempuan pihak perempuan lebih kaya
daripada pihak laki-laki maka kerapkali
sering terjadi ketersinggungan bahkan
menuju ke perceraian ada yang bertanya
apakah ada doa mencari jodoh
Hai dari ilmu-ilmu yang saya peroleh
dari guru-guru Saya ada satu ijazah yang
mudah dan gampang diingat yaitu membaca
doa Sapu Jagad Rabbana Atina Fiddunya
Hasanah wafil akhiroti hassanah wa qina
Adza Bannar dibaca sebanyak 15 kali
sehabis sholat 5 waktu sedangkan yang
dibaca oleh orang tua atau orang yang
mencari menantu maka bacalah doa atau
dzikir lailahailallah
muhammadurrasulullah sebanyak 1111 pada
Hai malam Rabu malam Kamis dibaca secara
Istiqomah hingga mendapatkan menantu
yang diidamkan
kau bahagia
Hai Oliver Al Ghazali
Ia menjelaskan bahwa perlunya
kehati-hatian di dalam memilih calon
suami bagi perempuan mengingat dengan
nikah dengan pernikahan perempuan ibarat
budak yang tidak bisa melepaskan diri
dari ikatan nikah sedang suami dengan
bebas bisa melakukan talak 1 mpama bebas
apa yang dikehendakinya Oleh karena itu
ketika Wali menikahkan anaknya dengan
pria yang zalim fasiq tidak jelas
aqidahnya Mekkah dia telah menciderai
ajaran
banyak di dalam sebuah riwayat ada
seorang yang bertanya kepada Hasan bin
Ali
Hai aku memiliki anak perempuan pada
Siapakah aku harus menikahkannya Hasan
bin Ali menjawab nikahkanlah dengan
orang yang bertakwa Jika dia
mencintainya niscaya dia akan memuliakan
Jika dia tidak mencintainya dia tidak
akan berbuat zalim terhadapmu
Hai itulah kriteria-kriteria mencari
jodoh beserta doa-doanya mudah-mudahan
ilmu yang saya berikan bermanfaat
sehingga kita bisa menghargai kehidupan
yang lebih baik
[Musik]
Hai banget hahaha
bye
halo halo
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