Biggest Hater Ever

Summary

In early 2021, a teenage girl and her boyfriend began receiving extremely mean and personal text messages from an anonymous bully. The harassment escalated over nearly two years, with the culprit sending hundreds of harassing messages and doctored photos daily. The girl's mother launched an investigation to find the stalker, even getting the FBI involved. However, in a shocking twist, the investigation revealed that the mother herself was the cyberbully all along, sending the cruel messages through a VPN and trying to frame another teen. The mother has since pled guilty and been sentenced to prison, though her motivations remain unclear.

Takeaways

• 😱 A teenage girl was anonymously cyberbullied via text for almost 2 years
• 😢 The extremely mean and personal texts told her to kill herself and severely harassed her
• 👩 The girl's mother launched an investigation with authorities to uncover the stalker
• 😨 The FBI got involved but found the messages were sent by the mother all along
• 🤯 The mother used a VPN and doctored photos to frame the daughter and bully her
• 🚔 The mother was arrested and sentenced to years in prison for stalking her daughter
• ❓ There is still no known motive or explanation from the mother about why she did this
• 🤔 Speculation is this may have been Munchausen syndrome by proxy or an obsession with power
• 😞 The daughter pleaded for leniency, not wanting her mom to go to prison because of her
• 😰 This bizarre case makes you wonder - your biggest hater could be anyone, even family

Q & A

Who was sending the harassing text messages to the teenage girl?

The investigation revealed that it was actually the girl's mother who was sending the harassing text messages and photos, not an anonymous troll as originally thought.

How long did the harassment go on for?

The mother sent harassing messages and photos to her daughter and her boyfriend for almost 2 years.

What methods did the mother use to harass her daughter?

The mother sent hundreds of threatening text messages, doctored photos to bully her daughter, and tried framing another classmate to avoid suspicion.

Why did the mother launch an investigation into the harassment?

Ironically, the mother worked with authorities to launch an investigation to find the "culprit" and cover her own tracks, while she was the one behind it all along.

What was the mother's sentence for her crimes?

The mother was sentenced to 19 months to 5 years in prison after pleading guilty to two counts of stalking a minor.

How did the daughter feel about her mother's sentencing?

The daughter hoped for leniency and did not want to feel responsible for putting her mother in prison.

Why did the mother refuse to explain her motivations?

The mother openly admitted to and apologized for her actions but never explained why she did it in the first place.

What legal charges was the mother convicted of?

The mother pleaded guilty to two counts of stalking a minor.

What was the prosecutor's reaction to the case?

The prosecutor said it was one of the most confusing and complicated cases he's ever had to deal with.

What lesson does this story provide?

This bizarre case illustrates that your biggest hater could potentially be someone very close to you, even a family member.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 The Bizarre Case of Self-Cyberbullying

This segment covers a perplexing story from 2021, involving a teenage girl and her boyfriend receiving abusive messages from an unknown source, leading to a lengthy investigation. Initially suspected to be the work of an external cyberbully, the plot twists when it's revealed that the girl's mother, Kendra Lari, was behind the harassment. Using VPNs to conceal her identity, she sent over 349 pages of demeaning messages and even attempted to frame another child for her actions. The case, which involved the FBI due to its severity and the targeting of minors, concluded with Lari's arrest and sentencing to up to 5 years in prison. The narrative explores the shocking discovery of a mother's betrayal, her manipulation of the investigation, and the unanswered questions regarding her motives.

05:02

🤔 Unraveling the Why Behind the Cyberbullying

The second paragraph delves into the motivations behind Kendra Lari's actions, which remain largely speculative and unexplained. Despite her guilty plea and apology, Lari never clarified why she chose to torment her daughter and her daughter's boyfriend with daily abusive messages. This part of the story highlights the complex emotional and legal aftermath for the victims, with the daughter expressing a wish for leniency for her mother, contrasting with others' desire for stringent punishment. The case is presented as both bizarre and tragic, raising broader questions about the nature of hate, the potential for anyone to be a 'hater,' and the disturbing possibility that those closest to us could harbor hidden animosities.

Keywords

💡harassment

The video focuses on the story of a mother relentlessly harassing her own daughter through anonymous text messages. Harassment here refers to the persistent bullying and threats made towards the daughter over an extended period. This bizarre case of severe harassment forms the basis for the video's commentary on hatred and trolling.

💡catfishing

The mother pretended to be someone else in order to harass her daughter, which the video describes as "catfishing." This concept of tricking or deceiving someone using a false online identity is key to understanding the strange tactics the mother used.

💡troll

The initial anonymous texter is described as a "troll" - an internet slang term for someone who posts inflammatory content to get a reaction. The revelation that it was the mother trolling her own child all along is a shocking twist.

💡hater

In analyzing potential motives, the video asks philosophically about one's "biggest hater" - a strong disliker or critic. The mother's hatred of her own daughter, to the point of dedicated harassment, raises puzzling questions about hatred.

💡motive

The video fixates on the unknown motive behind the mother's sustained attacks on her daughter. Her reasons are a mystery, leaving room for only speculation as to what would drive such vengeful behavior.

💡abuse

While not stated outright, the mother's behavior constitutes psychological abuse towards her daughter. The lasting impacts of such maternal abuse during the daughter's formative years are left unexplored but concerning.

💡leniency

Ironically, the victimized daughter pleaded for leniency in her mother's sentencing. This tragic outcome embodies the video's stance on the senselessness of such hatred between family members.

💡baffling

The prosecuting attorney describes the case as "one of the most confusing and complicated" he's seen. Similarly, the video is baffled by the absurdity of both the mother's actions and her reasons behind such a prolonged harassment effort.

💡question mark

In conveying the puzzling nature of the mother's motivation, the video states "the whole thing is just a giant [ __ ] question mark." This sums up the mystery at the heart of such abnormal behavior between parent and child.

💡hatred

Ultimately, the incomprehensible depth of the mother's hatred towards her own offspring is the most disturbing mystery. The video poses existential questions about the irrational nature of human hatred through this case.

Highlights

A teenage girl started receiving mean text messages from an anonymous troll

The girl's boyfriend also started getting the same nasty messages

The girl's mother launched an investigation to find the culprit

The FBI got involved in the investigation due to the harassment of a minor

The investigation concluded the mother was sending the harassing texts herself

The mother used a VPN to avoid being tracked down

The mother sent hundreds of obscene messages and doctored photos daily

The mother tried to frame another teen for sending the messages

The mother was sentenced to up to 5 years in prison

The daughter wanted leniency but the boyfriend's family wanted punishment

No motive was ever identified for why the mother bullied her daughter

The case left the prosecutor confused due to its complexity

The daughter didn't want her mom to go to prison because of her actions

The daughter will now grow up without her mother around

The story makes you wonder who your biggest hater really could be

Transcripts

this is a bit of an older story I want

to cover today but it's one that I still

think of from time to time because of

its absurdity it's vintage 2021 which in

Internet years is prehistoric basically

it's fallen out of everyone's

Consciousness and I need to do my due

diligence to put it back because man oh

man is it a weird one so let's dive in

it all started in early 2021 when a

young teenage girl started to receive

really mean text messages from an

anonymous Troll and she was getting

Cyber Bullied through these messages for

quite some time her boyfriend then

started to get the same messages they

were extremely personal they were

extremely nasty constantly telling her

to kill herself this and that and the

mother got really upset at this because

obviously who wouldn't her daughter is

being harassed by some weirdo degenerate

as I imagine any good caring parent

would do they see this kind of behavior

and they start rolling up their sleeves

giving them one of these why I ought

when I find who's behind this so she

starts to launch an investigation and

work collaboratively with authorities to

find the culprit who's behind this could

this be the work of the infamous hacker

known as

forchan and they went on a hunt to track

this person down because it didn't stop

and it was tons of messages hundreds of

messages over a Year's worth of

harassment and

349 pages worth of DMS with this [ __ ]

and eventually the FBI got involved in

this case to figure out who's doing this

because it was so personal and so

targeted and mean that they really

wanted to figure it out and this is all

attacking a minor too so it was like

stalking a minor uh just harassing

unrelenting and eventually the

investigation concludes that it was the

mother that was sending these text

messages she was running it all through

a VPN to try and avoid being being

tracked down so she had a real nefarious

scheme here where she would just keep

telling her daughter to kill herself and

insulting her and the boyfriend there

was even this subplot that arose where

she started to blame another classmate

that could have been behind it so she

started to try and frame another child

for this it was [ __ ] wild and keep in

mind the mother was the one working so

closely with the authorities to I guess

throw them off of her Trail so this

whole thing was kind of like that

Spongebob meme where it's like Maniac on

the loose and he's on the walkie-talkie

with the maniac post behind him with his

face on it that was this case in real

life seven the Isabella County mom who

catfished her own daughter for almost 2

years is going to prison Kendra lari was

arrested in December for stalking her

daughter and her daughter's boyfriend

now I didn't mention a moment ago but I

will now that it was more than just

sending those really nasty messages

apparently Kindra lari would even send

her daughter doctored photos of herself

I guess like with really mean [ __ ] on it

it didn't go into detail but I read one

of the reports that it was more than

just text she would send photos too so

I'm guessing she would like Photoshop

[ __ ] with her daughter in there to like

Bully her further off of it it's so

baffling for nearly two years she sent

hundreds of harassing and obscene

messages and pictures to the teens every

day it wasn't until the mother of the

boyfriend and lari herself went to

police for help that's when they

discovered lari was the one sending the

messages police also found she tried to

frame a third teen as the one sending

those messages today in court she was

sentenced to up to 5 years in prison so

she'll spend at least 19 months in

prison for all of this and what's even

Wilder is that there's still no

explanation for why what was her motive

motive why would she do this this is

some huge [ __ ] hater energy she's

waking up real early in the morning to

have extra time to hate her own daughter

she would send up to 12 text messages a

day every day all just [ __ ] on her

daughter and her daughter's boyfriend it

doesn't seem like there's anything to

gain out of this except for making your

daughter scared and miserable and

potentially traumatizing her cuz her

daughter is a very young teenager during

all of this so I I can't imag

what her motivation was and she's never

explained or elaborated on what the plan

was so I've seen speculation that people

thought this was maybe another like

mousin by proxy situation if anyone is

familiar with like the Gypsy Rose case

you're probably familiar with that term

but I don't know if that would

necessarily even apply here I I really

don't know it maybe it is the mom trying

to like isolate the daughter somehow by

making her afraid of all of her

classmates or maybe trying to push the

boyfriend out of her life the whole

thing is just a giant [ __ ] question

mark of why would anyone ever do this

and she did this every day for over a

year this was part of her morning

routine get a nice cup of Joe and [ __ ]

on your

daughter why maybe a power thing like

maybe she was bullied in high school so

now she's trying to you know do the same

to like take that back she's like

passing the torch to herself to be the

bully now I I don't get it no one really

does and she has not said why at least

not from what I found all all you can

find is speculation and theories on what

the motive could possibly be Isabella

County prosecutor David Barber said this

is one of the most confusing and

complicated cases he has had to deal

with not only from the case itself

Kendra lari harassing and catfishing her

daughter and her daughter's boyfriend

for more than a year but also when it

came to sentencing when it comes to

sentencing they hope to let the victims

have a say but the two victims here here

lacari's daughter she was hoping for

leniency she didn't want to feel

responsible for putting her mom in

prison the other victim her boyfriend

their family wanted the book thrown at

lari that's another super [ __ ] up

component to all this because not only

was the daughter the victim of this

Relentless harassment campaign from her

own mother but now her mother is going

to be going away to prison because of

all of it so now she's going to be

growing up without her mom around for

quite some time it's just a really sad

situation I don't know why the mom did

this and also why she refuses to

elaborate on what she was [ __ ]

thinking she openly admitted to all of

it and she apologized saying she doesn't

want to hurt anybody else but she still

has never said why she did it in the

first place and continued doing it for

so so long it just I don't understand

maybe she was like you know beta testing

her [ __ ] talk for her League of Legends

solo quue games so she'd like use her

daughter as a guinea pig like let's see

how my daughter reacts when I tell her

this not enough tears I'm going to have

to go harder I need to make sure that

all the dog [ __ ] players in my Lobby

feel really bad I need to make sure my

trash talk is s tier but anyway she

played guilty to two counts of stalking

a minor and she's going to prison for

some time now and it's just a really

weird situation obviously but it really

makes you think your biggest hater who

exactly are they it could be anyone and

don't give me any of that Mumbo jumbo

baloney about how everyone loves you you

don't have haters you do I'll hit you

with the cold water even if there was a

perfect person that existed they would

have haters because they are perfect

they would hate them for that so no

matter what I promise you there are

people that don't like you and who are

they this story makes you think makes

you sit back and go

H it really could be anyone what if the

person that's replying to all of your

tweets saying awful things like You're

so short how why'd you end up so short

dummy stupid face greasy little Goblin

man what if that person is actually my

own mother or father what if they're

both in on it what if they both have alt

accounts where they're constantly

spamming my [ __ ] pointing out every

insecurity that I could possibly ever

have could be you never know as is clear

here so yeah anyway that's really about

it see you