I learned a system to work without motivation
Summary
TLDRThe video script shares a four-step system for overcoming procrastination and achieving goals, even when motivation is low. The first step is to clearly define the task at hand. The second step involves setting a timer for a short period, like 10 or 30 minutes, to get started on the task. The third step is to involve others, such as joining a study group or working out with a friend, to increase accountability and social support. Finally, the fourth step is to keep score and track progress, which taps into our natural competitiveness and desire to improve. The speaker credits this system for personal successes, including passing a difficult calculus course, losing weight, and building a successful business. The system is also used in coaching sessions with over 9,000 people, emphasizing its effectiveness in various aspects of life.
Takeaways
- 📝 Clearly Define the Task: Breaking down a large goal into smaller, manageable tasks can make it easier to start and complete.
- ⏰ Set a Timer: Using a timer can help overcome inertia and get started on a task, even when you're not feeling motivated.
- 🤝 Do It with Someone Else: Accountability and social interaction can greatly improve motivation and the likelihood of completing a task.
- 🏆 Keep Scoring: Monitoring progress through a scoring system can increase motivation by providing a sense of competition and achievement.
- 📈 Use a System: Implementing a structured system, like the four-step process described, can help overcome procrastination and achieve goals.
- 🤔 Identify the Next Task: Knowing exactly what to do next is crucial for making progress and avoiding confusion that leads to inaction.
- 🏋️♂️ Incremental Progress: Starting with small, achievable goals, such as 10 minutes of work or exercise, can lead to longer periods of productivity.
- 🧘♀️ Mindfulness and Discipline: Recognizing the need to work even when you don't feel like it is a key aspect of self-discipline.
- 📚 Learning from Others: Observing and adopting strategies from successful individuals can provide insights into maintaining motivation and discipline.
- 🚫 Overcoming Procrastination: The system presented helps to combat the tendency to delay tasks, which is a common barrier to productivity.
- 💪 Consistent Effort: Consistent small efforts over time, such as daily practice or study, can lead to significant long-term achievements.
Q & A
What was the speaker's initial struggle with calculus in university?
-The speaker struggled with calculus because they couldn't motivate themselves to study, read the textbook, and do the required work, leading to failing the course three times.
How did the speaker transform their approach to tackle calculus after understanding the habits of straight-A students?
-The speaker realized that straight-A students had specific strategies to stay motivated. They broke down the task of passing calculus into solving sample problems each week, making the task more manageable.
What is the first step of the four-step system the speaker developed to overcome procrastination?
-The first step is to clearly define the task. The speaker used this approach to break down the task of passing calculus into solving sample problems each week.
Why is it important to break down a big goal into smaller tasks?
-Breaking down a big goal into smaller tasks helps to eliminate confusion and makes it easier to start working on the task. It turns a daunting goal into a simple, actionable step.
What is the second step in the speaker's system for getting things done?
-The second step is to set a timer for a short period, like 10 or 30 minutes, to start working on the task. This helps to overcome inertia and get the work started.
How did the speaker use a timer to help with their calculus studies?
-The speaker set an alarm clock for 10 minutes and committed to working on calculus problems for that duration. This approach helped them to start working and often led to continued study beyond the initial 10 minutes.
What is the role of social interaction in the speaker's system for getting things done?
-Social interaction, or doing the task with someone else, is the third step in the speaker's system. It provides accountability, motivation, and support, making it easier to stay on track.
How did joining a study group help the speaker with their calculus studies?
-Joining a study group provided the speaker with a sense of community, accountability, and shared knowledge. It motivated them to work on problems, show up, and learn from others.
What is the fourth step in the speaker's system for motivation and productivity?
-The fourth step is to keep scoring. By measuring progress and success, such as the number of problems solved or tasks completed, it creates a sense of competition and motivation to improve.
How did the speaker apply the four-step system to other areas of their life, such as fitness and business?
-The speaker applied the system by defining tasks, setting timers, working with others, and keeping score in various contexts like fitness workouts, business goals, and personal development.
What is the significance of using a score or a measure of success in the speaker's system?
-Using a score or measure of success taps into the natural human desire for competition and achievement. It helps individuals to stay motivated, track progress, and feel a sense of accomplishment.
How did the speaker's approach to learning guitar illustrate the principles of their four-step system?
-The speaker started by practicing for just 10 minutes a day, setting a timer, and gradually increasing the time as they improved. This showed the principles of starting small, setting a timer, and building up to larger goals.
Outlines
📚 Overcoming Procrastination and Achieving Goals
The speaker reflects on their struggle with procrastination and lack of motivation, particularly during their university years when they failed calculus three times. They express admiration for disciplined students and eventually discover that these individuals use specific strategies to stay on track. The speaker outlines a four-step system that helped them to overcome procrastination, lose weight, and build a successful business. The first step involves clearly defining the task at hand, as exemplified by their calculus studies where they broke down the task into solving sample problems each week. This approach helps to reduce confusion and makes it easier to start working on the task.
🕒 Using Time Management and Social Accountability for Productivity
The second part of the speaker's narrative focuses on the importance of setting a timer as a tool to combat inertia and start working on tasks. They recount their personal experience of using a timer to commit to 10 minutes of work, which often led to longer periods of productivity. The speaker also emphasizes the power of working with others, as social accountability can motivate individuals to perform better. They share their experience with a study group in university, which provided a supportive environment that helped them to succeed in their studies. The speaker suggests that keeping score, as seen in sports and other competitive environments, can be a powerful motivator for personal productivity. They encourage viewers to use this four-step system to initiate tasks and build lasting habits.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Procrastination
💡Motivation
💡Calculus
💡Study Group
💡Accountability
💡Timer
💡Scorekeeping
💡Discipline
💡Task Definition
💡Inertia
💡Weight Loss
💡Business Success
Highlights
People often accomplish tasks even when they don't feel like it by showing up and working through problems daily.
The speaker failed calculus three times due to lack of motivation and discipline.
Successful students were not necessarily more motivated but had effective strategies to keep going.
A four-step system was developed to overcome procrastination and increase productivity.
The system helped the speaker lose 100 pounds and build a million-dollar business.
Step one is to clearly define the task at hand to avoid confusion and start taking action.
Breaking down a large goal into smaller tasks makes it more manageable and likely to be started.
Using a journal and the WHOOP system can help clarify what the next task should be.
Step two involves setting a timer for a short period to initiate work and overcome inertia.
Committing to a short work session can lead to extended periods of productivity.
Step three is doing the task with someone else for social support and accountability.
Study groups and collaborative work can enhance motivation and learning.
Step four is keeping score to introduce a competitive element and measure progress.
Natural competitiveness can be harnessed to motivate oneself to do more.
The speaker used this system to pass calculus with an A- after failing it three times.
The same system has been applied in a gym setting to coach thousands of people.
Defining tasks, setting timers, working with others, and keeping score are key components of the system.
The system can be applied to any area of life to increase motivation and achieve goals.
Transcripts
you ever wonder how people manage to get
stuff done even when they don't feel
like it they show up every day and
exercise right or grind through
difficult problems no matter how they
feel I always wanted to be one of those
people when I was younger I had failed
calculus three times in University
because I just couldn't get myself to do
the work now I'd done enough work in
high school to get into a good
University but once I got there studying
and showing up in class was not really
at the top of my list for things like
English or sociology I was fine but
calculus required me to actually show up
read the textbook and learn things to
pass it and there was no part of me that
wanted to do that I would look at those
straight A students and think I wish I
had their discipline and their
motivation but once I discovered how
they did it I realized those students
weren't actually more motivated they
just had these little tips and tricks
that they kept them going when they
didn't feel like it and once I broke it
all down and pulled it into a four-step
system I was able to fix my
procrastination stop waiting for
motivation and get more things done and
this is the same system that later
helped me lose 100 lb and build a
million-dollar business but to
understand the system you have to start
with step one and that is clearly Define
the task I had to pass calculus on my
fourth try so I started looking at it a
little bit different I reviewed the
textbook and realized if I could do all
the sample problems I'd know enough to
pass the final now I still didn't want
to do it but at least I knew what to do
and instead of this General task of I
need to pass calculus I broke it down
into solve sample problems each week
then when I sat down to study all I had
to do was solve those problems people
are like T T completing machines if you
know exactly what to do you are more
likely to do it but if there's any
confusion if there's anything that
doesn't make sense your brain sends up
this does not compute kind of error and
you won't even get started so you have
to break down the big scary goal into a
simple task I like to grab my journal
and use a system called whoop from the
book rethinking positive thinking
whenever I'm stuck on what to do next
that's for another video but for now
let's just break the task down into a
small digestible chunk and get going
most of the time when things aren't
moving forward in my health or my
business is because I don't actually
know what I'm trying to do or what the
next task should be so that would be
step one now I was actually able to help
over 9,000 people using this system and
I'll share how later once you figure out
the next task then it's a matter of
getting yourself to do it and that's
where step two comes in now I know what
I needed to do was pass calculus but it
still didn't mean I wanted to do it I
would sit on my bed looking at my bag
with my textbook in it thinking G I just
don't want to open that my roommate at
the time used to just come home from
class and get straight to work well I
would procrastinate for for hours I
asked him one day how he stayed so
motivated and he said I just commit to
doing 30 minutes of work when I get home
no matter what even if I don't feel like
it I'll work for those 30 minutes but
most of the time I kind of get things
going and I keep working until it's done
I thought it was brilliant so I decided
to try it but I was not nearly as
ambitious as him so I grabbed an alarm
clock and set it for 10 minutes and
started working so that's step number
two set a timer inertia is very powerful
this means if you're procrastinating on
something it's more likely that you will
keep procrastinating on that thing until
something makes you change a timer is a
perfect tool to break things up I
committed to opening that book and
trying to solve the first problem in
that 10 minutes and once I got the first
one I started the second and soon I was
solving problems reviewing the chapters
and actually studying and that 10
minutes turned into 60 and soon I had
solved all the problems for that week
nowadays I use my phone or this fun
little timer called The Tick timer I'll
put a link below if you want to buy one
I'll write down a task like write an
email to my list and set a timer to get
started I usually do three chunks of 25
minutes on 5 minutes off so a total of
75 minutes of work and that's usually
enough to get through most tasks when I
was learning to play my guitar I would
only practice for 10 minutes per day for
the first 3 months part of the reason is
cuz it was difficult it made my fingers
hurt and progress was slow so more than
10 minutes felt too hard as I got better
and became more fun I bumped that up to
30 minutes and later an hour and then I
actually learned how to play the goal of
the timer is to remove the barriers to
you starting a task and once it started
80% of the hard work is done but even
starting a timer requires motivation to
do and sometimes you are just not
feeling it besides who's going to notice
if you don't do the thing you can put it
off till tomorrow right that's exactly
what was happening with my calculus work
and soon weeks were going by without me
doing anything I was destined to fail a
fourth time and I probably would have
given up unless one of my classmates at
the time tapped me on the shoulder and
asked if I wanted to join her study
group I'm not overly social with
strangers but I knew I was in trouble so
I decided to go it was one of the best
decisions I made in my University career
it's also step three of the system do it
with somebody else humans are social
creatures even if you are a basement
dwelling gamer you're probably playing
games online with your friends it's more
fun you take it a bit more seriously and
you get further into the game when you
have people to do it with my study group
wasn't a bunch of geniuses in fact I
thought I was way behind but it turns
out I was ahead of some of them in the
book that Weekly group gave me a reason
to open my book work on those problems
and show up somewhere to share what I
learned we taught and learned from each
other and our Collective knowledge was
more than any one person had on their
own I've since used this trick to get
myself to work out write do breath work
track my food do cold plunges all sorts
of things my favorite way of doing this
now is to just text a friend or
co-worker and say what do you want to
accomplish in the next 25 minutes if
they're working they'll say something
like I want to schedule all my meetings
for the next week and I'll say I want to
write the subject and outline of my
weekly email and we'll set a timer for
25 minutes in 3 2 1 go just that little
bit of accountability is enough to get
you moving you don't want to be the one
who lets the other person down at the
end of the 25 minutes so you just focus
and get it done there are also services
like Focus mate or flow Club where
people work together online to get
things done in fact I sometimes hop on
and host a free online Zoom session
where anyone can join and work with me
and if you subscribe to my email list
I'll send you an invite to the next one
so now you have a clearly defined task
and a timer and a friend to do this with
and this can get you going for the short
term but I found this little secret that
unlocks unlimited motivation in almost
everyone I've tried it with including my
seven-year-old it's so good that
multi-billion dollar Industries are
created around it if you've ever watched
a football game what's the first thing
you look at when you turn it on uniforms
shoes field the crowd nope it's probably
the score in fact probably wouldn't
watch the game if it didn't have a score
football is a billion dooll industry a
multi-billion dollar industry based on
one team beating the other on a
scoreboard so why don't we use that for
ourselves step four is keep scoring
people are naturally competitive you're
always looking to see how you compare
against other people if you're ahead of
them you're happy if you're behind
you're either discouraged or you feel
like you have to do something about it
one of my old coaches told me men will
die over points and in my experience
that is totally true when we were doing
the practice problems for calculus we
would keep track of how many we got
right and how many we missed we weren't
necessarily trying to beat everyone else
we all wanted to pass and we kind of
rooted for each other but if you were
falling behind you felt it and you
wanted to fix it I've seen this play out
in School in Fitness and in business we
keep grades we look at the scale we
check our bank accounts there are scores
everywhere so when you're trying to get
yourself to do hard things you want to
find a way to measure success how many
minutes did you work how many tasks did
you get done how many emails did you
respond to how much weight did you lift
for calculus I'd score myself on how
many questions I got right how I did on
the test and my overall grade at the end
of class and I ended up passing with an
A minus after failing that class three
times now I've since used this system to
lose 100 lb and build a million dooll
business in fact at my gym we've been
coaching all four of the steps in every
session we coach with 9,000 people over
the last 15 years step one Define the
task we have a big whiteboard where we
write the workout of the day every day
step two set a timer we have a timer we
use to get people started and the
workout is measured by how much work you
can get done in a certain amount of time
step three do it with someone we almost
never do one-on-one sessions because
people work better when they share their
suffering with others step four keep SC
we write the results on the Whiteboard
and celebrate any Milestones people
achieve you can use this system to get
anything started without motivation but
what if you've tried and failed so many
times to get yourself going that you've
started to give up go check out this
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