10 THINGS to NEVER Do WHEN You are WITH WOMEN (LOWERS Attraction and RUINS DESIRE in Relationships)

Summary

In this video, the speaker outlines 10 crucial mistakes men should avoid when dating or in relationships with women. These include actions like initiating public displays of affection, boasting about financial success, over-complimenting, and over-sharing personal insecurities. The speaker emphasizes the importance of maintaining confidence, emotional independence, and creating a strong, charismatic frame. Key advice includes letting the woman take the lead in expressing affection, never revealing vulnerability too soon, and waiting for her to say 'I love you' first. By avoiding these missteps, men can maintain attraction and increase their perceived value in the eyes of their partners.

Takeaways

• 😀 Never initiate public displays of affection (e.g., kissing or hand-holding). Attraction decreases when you show neediness or seek emotional reassurance.
• 😀 Avoid revealing how much money you make. Let your lifestyle and resources speak for themselves. Over-qualifying with money signals insecurity.
• 😀 Don’t overtly compliment her beauty. Compliment her only when she seeks reassurance. Complimenting her first signals lower dating value.
• 😀 Don't spend excessive time talking about her day. She wants you to be more interesting than her, so focus on your own life and interests to raise her attraction.
• 😀 Never pretend to care about things you don't. Acting interested in something just to make conversation makes you seem inauthentic and lowers respect.
• 😀 Never allow her to persuade you into making irresponsible decisions, like spending money you can’t afford or making bad business choices. Set a frame of responsibility.
• 😀 Never tell a woman you want a relationship. This signals emotional neediness and lowers her respect for your strength and emotional resilience.
• 😀 Never mention being dumped or heartbroken. Always appear strong and grounded. Revealing past heartbreaks undermines your perceived value and attraction.
• 😀 Never admit to insecurities. Appear confident and strong at all times. Showing insecurities leads to a loss of respect and attraction.
• 😀 Never say 'I love you' first. Saying it first signals emotional dependency and makes her question your value. Wait until she expresses love first.

Q & A

Why should you avoid public displays of affection with a woman?

Public displays of affection can signal emotional attachment or neediness, which can lower attraction. Instead, let her initiate physical contact if desired.

What is the problem with telling a woman how much money you make?

Telling a woman how much you earn can come across as overcompensating or trying to impress her, which signals insecurity and lowers attraction.

Why is it advised not to compliment a woman's beauty too often?

Over-complimenting her beauty can make you appear as if you're compensating for a perceived lack of value. It subconsciously signals lower dating value, which can decrease her attraction.

How does focusing on her day in conversation affect the relationship?

Constantly discussing her day can make you seem less interesting and more emotionally invested in her life. Instead, making the conversation about your own projects and experiences increases attraction.

Why is it a mistake to pretend to care about topics that don't interest you?

Pretending to care about topics just to keep the conversation going feels inauthentic and can cause her to lose respect for you. Authenticity is crucial for maintaining attraction.

What should you do if a woman tries to persuade you to make an irresponsible decision?

You should stay grounded and make logical, responsible decisions. Never let her pressure you into overspending or making poor financial choices, as this can diminish your perceived value.

Why is it important not to tell a woman that you want a relationship too soon?

Expressing a desire for a relationship too early can make you appear emotionally needy, which decreases her attraction. Instead, let the relationship develop naturally without rushing into commitment.

Why should you avoid discussing past heartbreaks or rejections with a woman?

Discussing past rejections or heartbreaks can undermine your perceived strength and stability. Women are attracted to men who seem emotionally resilient, not those who dwell on past failures.

How do admitting insecurities affect your relationship with a woman?

Admitting insecurities can make you seem weak or unconfident, which lowers your perceived value. Confidence and emotional strength are key to maintaining respect and attraction.

Why is it advised to wait for a woman to say 'I love you' first?

Saying 'I love you' first can signal emotional neediness, making her question your emotional stability. Waiting for her to express love first ensures you maintain your emotional strength and attraction.