When Women PLAY GAMES by going HOT AND THEN COLD on you - DO THIS! (Q&A with CASEY ZANDER)

Summary

In this insightful video, Casey addresses a subscriber's dilemma about a woman exhibiting 'hot and cold' behavior in their communication. He emphasizes that her inconsistency likely stems from her managing multiple relationships rather than playing games. Casey advises the subscriber to recognize his own emotional investment, set clear communication boundaries, and detach from the situation to regain personal value. By treating her like other women he dates and avoiding retaliatory tactics, he can shift the dynamics of their interaction, ultimately enhancing his dating success. The key takeaway is to approach dating with confidence and self-worth.

Takeaways

• 😀 Understand that hot and cold behavior may not be intentional; the woman could simply be busy with her life.
• 😀 High emotional investment can create an imbalance in attraction; detaching emotionally can shift dynamics.
• 😀 Women's perception of their market value can influence their behavior in dating scenarios.
• 😀 Limit communication channels to signal higher value and maintain intrigue.
• 😀 Setting boundaries on how and when to communicate can enhance your perceived status.
• 😀 Avoid trying to punish or manipulate emotions through social media posts about other women.
• 😀 Treat the woman you like with the same indifference as you would with others to avoid appearing needy.
• 😀 Remember that attraction is often based on how you manage your own life and interests.
• 😀 Women tend to pursue men who seem less emotionally invested and more secure in themselves.
• 😀 Ultimately, prioritize your own well-being and emotional independence in dating.

Q & A

What does it mean when someone exhibits 'hot and cold' behavior in dating?

Hot and cold behavior typically refers to someone who alternates between showing a lot of interest and then withdrawing or being less responsive, which can create confusion about their true feelings.

Why might the woman in the email be behaving this way?

She may be juggling multiple relationships or simply responding to her life and emotions at her own pace, rather than deliberately playing games.

What does the author suggest about emotional investment in relationships?

The author suggests that being overly emotionally invested can lead to imbalance, where the person who is more interested may not be viewed as desirable by the other.

How should one approach communication in dating according to the script?

The script advises setting clear communication boundaries and only engaging on specific platforms or times to convey value and limit accessibility.

What is hypergamy and how does it relate to the dynamics discussed?

Hypergamy refers to the tendency for individuals to seek partners of higher status. The script suggests that the woman may feel she has higher options than the man, which influences her interest levels.

What should someone do if they feel like their interest level is higher than the other person's?

They should consider pulling back and not pursuing as aggressively, allowing the other person to come to them, which may reset the dynamic.

Is it advisable to post about other dating experiences to elicit a reaction from someone who is being 'cold'?

No, the author advises against this tactic as it may come off as needy or disingenuous, and it can potentially damage the relationship further.

What is the significance of a 'man of status' in the context of this discussion?

A 'man of status' is perceived as someone who is busy and has high value, making him less accessible. This dynamic can make him more attractive to potential partners.

How can someone convey their own value in dating interactions?

By establishing boundaries for communication and demonstrating a balanced emotional investment, which signals confidence and self-worth.

What is the key takeaway for managing relationships with women who exhibit 'hot and cold' behavior?

The key takeaway is to maintain emotional balance, set communication boundaries, and not chase excessively, allowing the woman to initiate when she feels inclined.