How to manipulate men
Summary
TLDRThe video script features a life coach addressing the misconceptions about her methods as portrayed in the media. She clarifies that her teachings are not about manipulating men to achieve a lavish lifestyle, but rather about fostering supportive and healthy relationships where both partners encourage each other's dreams. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love, confidence, and femininity, and provides practical advice on communication and behavior within relationships. She also discusses the negative impact of nagging and the benefits of setting a positive example. The life coach shares her personal experiences and challenges the stereotypes associated with her approach, inviting viewers to ask questions and engage in a dialogue about relationships and personal growth.
Takeaways
- 🎥 The speaker has been absent from her YouTube channel but has been active on TikTok, where her content went viral.
- 📱 She discusses the misconception that her coaching is about manipulating men to get ahead in life, clarifying it's about mutual support and encouragement in relationships.
- 👥 The speaker emphasizes the importance of supporting one's partner's dreams and ideas, rather than dismissing them as impractical.
- 🦌 She uses the analogy of animals (deer, workhorse, dairy cow) to describe different types of feminine energy and how they affect relationships.
- 🌟 Margarita encourages women to amplify their partners' positive qualities and to stop nagging, suggesting that positivity and support can lead to a better partnership.
- 🤔 The speaker advises women to be mindful of how they communicate with their partners, comparing a man's focus to a locomotive and suggesting indirect communication can be more effective.
- 💔 She cautions against sharing personal or sensitive information too early in a relationship, to avoid decreasing one's perceived value.
- 👠 Margarita stresses the significance of self-love and confidence for women, linking it to their sense of femininity and sexual attraction.
- 👨❤️👨 She supports the idea of committed relationships where both partners are worthy of each other's support, rather than blindly supporting anyone.
- 📰 The speaker addresses negative reactions to her coaching methods in the media, defending her approach and explaining her intentions.
- 📈 She plans to continue posting content that includes life coaching and fashion, aiming to provide value and insight to her audience.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The main topic of the video is addressing the misconceptions about the speaker's approach to relationships and how she teaches women to support and encourage their partners, rather than manipulate them.
Why did the speaker take a break from her channel?
-The speaker took a break from her channel to focus on creating content for TikTok, which went viral, and to address the media's portrayal of her teachings as manipulation.
What is the speaker's stance on the term 'manipulation' in the context of relationships?
-The speaker argues that the term 'manipulation' has been misinterpreted and that her teachings are about positive reinforcement and support within a relationship, not about controlling or using men.
How does the speaker feel about the media's portrayal of her as a 'manipulator'?
-The speaker is frustrated by the media's portrayal and seeks to clarify her teachings, emphasizing that she advocates for mutual support and encouragement in relationships, not manipulation.
What does the speaker suggest women should do when their partner has a 'crazy' idea?
-The speaker suggests that women should support their partners by saying 'yes,' asking the right questions, and helping to transform the idea into something the partner is passionate about.
What is the speaker's view on nagging in a relationship?
-The speaker is against nagging, stating that it is unproductive and that there are better ways to communicate desires and needs without resorting to constant repetition.
How does the speaker define 'femininity' in the context of her teachings?
-The speaker defines 'femininity' as a balance between self-love, confidence, and the ability to support and encourage one's partner, rather than controlling or being submissive.
What is the speaker's advice on raising one's value in the eyes of a potential partner?
-The speaker advises not to complain about past hurts and to keep personal issues private, especially in the early stages of dating, in order to maintain a sense of value and self-respect.
What is the significance of the 'three archetypes of women' mentioned by the speaker?
-The 'three archetypes of women' are used as an analogy to illustrate different approaches to relationships: the deer representing the divine feminine, the workhorse representing a woman who takes on too much, and the dairy cow symbolizing a nurturing role that can detract from a woman's sexual energy.
How does the speaker suggest women can support their husbands without appearing controlling?
-The speaker suggests that women should support their husbands by setting a positive example, encouraging their dreams, and avoiding nagging or negative criticism.
What is the speaker's future plan for her YouTube channel?
-The speaker plans to resume posting on her YouTube channel, focusing on life coaching content, fashion, and breaking down complex subjects, while also addressing any questions or topics submitted by her audience.
Outlines
🎥 Returning to YouTube with a Purpose
The speaker begins by addressing their absence from their YouTube channel and explains the reason for their hiatus. They discuss their newfound success on TikTok, where they have been creating content about life coaching and relationship advice. The speaker clarifies that their approach is not about manipulating men to get ahead in life but rather about fostering supportive and encouraging relationships. They also touch on the misconceptions spread by the media about their intentions and methods.
🦌 Understanding Femininity and Archetypes
The speaker delves into the concept of femininity using animal archetypes to illustrate different types of women in relationships. They discuss the 'divine feminine' represented by a deer, the 'workhorse' woman who takes on too much, and the 'dairy cow' that symbolizes a woman treating her partner like a child. The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love, confidence, and maintaining one's feminine allure. They also refute criticisms of their methods and explain their real-life application in improving relationships.
💬 Communication Strategies and Dating Advice
The speaker provides advice on communication within relationships, suggesting that women should avoid nagging and instead implement positive changes themselves. They discuss the importance of not complaining about past hurts on dates and the need to maintain a sense of self-worth and confidence. The speaker also talks about supporting a partner in a committed relationship if they are 'worthy' and explains how to approach asking for help without causing resistance. They conclude by addressing the backlash they've received and their plans for the future of their channel, which will include a mix of life coaching and fashion content.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Manipulate
💡Femininity
💡Life Coaching
💡Archetypes
💡Support
💡Tick Tock
💡Lavish Lifestyle
💡Nagging
💡Confidence
💡Divine Feminine
💡Committed Relationship
Highlights
The speaker has been absent from her YouTube channel but has gained popularity on TikTok, where she shares life coaching advice for women.
She emphasizes that her advice is not about using men to get ahead, but rather about building supportive, encouraging relationships where both partners can thrive.
She suggests that women should believe in and support their partner's dreams and ambitions, rather than dismissing or shutting down their ideas.
The speaker explains that supporting a man's ideas and passions can help him gain confidence and believe in himself, which benefits the relationship.
She advises women to stop nagging and complaining, and instead focus on positive reinforcement and modeling the behavior they want to see.
The speaker clarifies that she is not advocating for creating a lavish lifestyle through manipulation, but rather for fostering healthy, supportive relationships.
She uses the metaphor of different animal archetypes (deer, workhorse, dairy cow) to illustrate different types of feminine energy and roles in a relationship.
The deer represents the divine feminine that is sought after and revered, while the workhorse takes on too much and the dairy cow becomes overly maternal.
The speaker encourages women to amplify their partner's top qualities and strengths, rather than focusing on their flaws or shortcomings.
She shares an example of how she 'manipulated' her husband into a dream vacation by supporting his interest in attending an RV convention.
The speaker advises women to ask for things from their partner in a non-confrontational way, giving him space to redirect his focus without resistance.
When dating, she recommends not complaining about past relationships or revealing too much personal information too soon, in order to maintain value and mystery.
The speaker emphasizes the importance of supporting one's own husband or long-term partner in a committed relationship, if he is a worthy, upstanding man.
She pushes back against critics who accuse her of 'brainwashing' men, arguing that her advice is about fostering healthy, supportive relationships.
The speaker plans to resume posting on her YouTube channel, covering a mix of life coaching and fashion topics, while addressing the misconceptions from the media.
She invites viewers to submit questions or topics they would like her to cover in future videos, showing her commitment to supporting and empowering women.
Transcripts
the most elaborate setup ever you're
like on a box of something on the wheel
or whatever I felt like if I didn't
start this video just do it just do it I
wouldn't have done it at all so here we
are we're in the car we're gonna have
this conversation I um got used to
filming my tick tocks in a car so I
think if I don't do it now we're never
gonna do it hi welcome back to my
channel I've been M.I.A I've ghosted you
it's true the reason I'm pulling up my
phone is because we need to talk about
something how to manipulate men we're
gonna learn how to manipulate men that's
what I'm going to teach you right now
because they are so so easy to
manipulate not I have taken some time
off this channel I started to make tick
tocks about two months ago and
it just went a little bit viral
basically the content I used to put on
this YouTube channel was all about my
you know
shopping and luxury and lifestyle and in
the meantime in my private life I
probably don't ever talk about that to
anyone I know and I do coaching for
women that's what interests me you guys
know about that what I love and I
thought you know what let me just
separate it I'll put that onto my Tick
Tock cool suddenly it resonates it like
super resonates to the point where I'm
making three full videos a day on Tick
Tock and the Press has gone a bit wild
and said that I like to manipulate men
to get what I want so I thought instead
of just coming back and saying hey I'll
be back now I'll be putting up more
content I would come with some context
so we're gonna look at this article I'm
gonna break it down I'm gonna talk about
what I've been doing on Tick Tock if you
want to go on Tick Tock you can you
don't have to I'm going to be putting a
lot more life coaching content on here
of course there will still be some
fashion because you know why not why not
but mainly it'll be that because I think
that's what the world wants right now
that's what women want so the Articles
say meet the life coaching uh woman who
tells you how to manipulate men to get
further in life now when I was
interviewed by the Press I never said
get further in life what I talk about on
Tick Tock is about how to have a family
relationship whereby you don't berate
each other you don't knock each other
you don't
negatively affect each other and by
encouraging each other you can actually
go a lot further in life not that you
being a woman can go further in life by
using the man but both of you encourage
each other's dream and it came from this
video where I could basically explained
this I said that if a man has a lavish
idea or something crazy that he wants to
do a lot of women's Instinct will be to
just shut it down because we think men's
ideas can just be crazy and it's not
based in reality and it's not practical
and he shouldn't do it but instead I
said just say yes say it's a great idea
ask him the right questions it will
inevitably get you to a place where some
crazy idea turns into something that
he's actually passionate about and
because you supported him ladies
understand the support of a woman is
pivotal in feminine energy and making
your man believe in himself okay so it's
more so about belief in himself and what
he can do this car is getting hot guys
what are we gonna do
let's see if you guys can deal
with a little aircon an Aussie life
coach goes viral for teaching women how
to manipulate men and amplify their
femininity now
manipulate if you actually look up the
word means skillfully influence and if I
can help women skillfully influence men
into having a life that they both dream
about
then good I will I will because not
everything's got to be done with a
hammer sometimes you can attract more
with honey than you can with
so you know that's what I'm gonna
do she tells them to amplify their
femininity and stop nagging in a video I
did say to stop nagging nagging is not
going to get you anywhere we know it why
do women nag why is there even a word
called nag because you keep saying it
again and again and again there are ways
to go about life without negging
get what you want girls okay Margarita
34 encourages women to use a tenacity
craftiness and femininity to get further
in life to enjoy a lavish lifestyle now
I never said on my whole tick tock
or in my chat to the press that I want
to create a lavish lifestyle for anybody
that I coach I mean if it happens
fantastic and I never said that I want
um women to get that from men because
essentially that's not what I'm talking
about I'm talking about relationships
self-love confidence femininity lavish
lifestyle they got from the fact that
I've probably got a luxury Lifestyle
Channel and they put two and two
together let it be known
that me supporting my husband meant
going to places where he had to train
for his profession where we had to live
in accommodations for students or
whatever and there was more cockroaches
than there was floor space okay so let
that be known so it was no lavish
lifestyle because who said it Michelle
Obama and nobody talked about this
lavish lifestyle part with her when she
said oh her and Barack Obama were
driving in a car they saw some pizza
vendor on the street and he said isn't
that your ex-boyfriend from high school
from college whatever she goes yeah and
he goes look at that you could have been
with a pizza vendor and she said no if I
was with him he would have been the
president of America okay that's what
the legend says happened
so surely that's exactly what I'm saying
if you amplify what he can do you can
both excel in life okay then they put
this nice picture of me I appreciate
that thank you uh they put the two
videos
cool I can link them in the description
box below but you can just look up Tech
talk
and then I did this system of the three
archetypes of women and one of my videos
and they picked it up they said she
Compares women to deers and cows and
horses and look
I did those archetypes because I love
archetypes I understand
archetypes well it's very Carl Jung it's
very understandable to the human mind so
I said people said what's femininity and
I said look femininity they're like oh I
don't want to take abuse I don't want to
be controlled I don't want to surrender
to a man and I said okay think of
femininity like this if you're a deer
that's divine feminine it doesn't take
abuse it's sought after people go out to
try and look for one when everyone sees
it they stop in reverence and they go oh
my God look at that deer look at this
little tail flicking you know it's it's
sought after hunted in terms of like if
you want the man to chase you the
context of the video was that compared
to a Workhorse which is a woman who
takes everything onto herself does
everything for him doesn't let him do
anything he becomes a stain on the couch
essentially and then she's like who's
this guy
um he does nothing for me well that's
the dynamic and then the dairy cow is
like the mother energy where you start
treating your husband like you're his
mum and we don't want that because as
Esther peral said female sexuality is
very much linked to female narcissism as
much as we throw that word around as
being bad everyone's got narcissism in
them women are attracted to their own
selves if a woman's not attracted to
herself she's not going to want to sleep
with a man she's got to feel good in her
own body hence if you're in a mothering
role in a carer role you're not going to
feel sexual you're not going to be in
your divine feminine so I use those
examples they were like oh she's talking
about women like their animals oh
having kittens about that
she said praise a man's top qualities I
agree if you want something to amplify
Law of Attraction manifestation
talk about that don't complain about
things because it will decrease the
chance of change yeah don't complain
about the same thing again and again set
up systems where you don't have to
Margarita says she manipulated her
husband into a dream holiday by
attending a convention in Las Vegas now
listen
I said they said give me an example of
how one would do this of like supporting
a guy's hobby or dream and then getting
what you want I said it's very simple so
if your partner says oh I really want to
go to let's say an RV convention because
I want to buy an RV is going to be like
an RV you stupid idiot why do you want
an RV like where are we going to go
we've got 7.5 children where are they
going to fit you could just be like okay
interesting let's go have a look at them
maybe the comment is going to be
somewhere interesting maybe you can take
a holiday afterwards but you're going to
have boosted that masculine energy of
leadership in him and you're probably
not going to end up with an RV anyway
babe trust me anyway so I manipulated my
husband I manipulated my husband into
being a family man and providing for me
that's the that's the funny part of this
article that I find really amazing that
she said um yeah I was written by a
woman
um that they said that you know I'm
manipulating men like manipulating men
to what having happy relationships
God Christ helped the world manipulating
the poor men
um so then they wrote my rules practice
top qualities don't complain about the
bad things
I said if you want him to have a healthy
lifestyle instead of nagging him about
his weight just implement it yourself
you always set an example be like wow
I'm really loving my lifestyle yes
chicken salad I'm joking but you know
what I mean I made another Tick Tock
when they were like walk away once you
ask him for something basically the
premise is this
a man's mind
is like a locomotive
it's very focused it goes in One
Direction woman's mind Ferrari can go
all over the place not all
just majority he'll say 80 we could
switch from task to task not all
so when you ask a man suddenly when he's
focusing on his task or watching his
whatever
on TV hey can you go and do this can you
wash the dish
I advise say it and go to the room say
it nicely and leave the room because
what women do and how we jeopardize
ourselves if we say it can you wash the
dishes he's in the middle of something
that that redirection of that locomotive
is gonna be like screeching it's gonna
be pain turning around it's not going to
be easy
so if you stand there you're going to
see his resistance and in our female
brain is going to be like huh
doesn't want to do that for me and you
don't want that just say it leave and
he'll probably redirect locomotive by
himself he'll Grumble a bit about it
he'll think about it and he'll probably
do it most of the time so just take
yourself out of that vicinity anyway
um when dating don't complain about how
X's hurt you no this one is a juicy one
I said to raise your value in someone's
eyes number one and number two to not
give away your personal real raw
realities on the first second or third
date why is that person deserved that
why is that person deserve to know you
like that really think about it women
get hurt because they date a guy and
then he goes to her because she's
already slept with him and told him all
of her innards she's like basically just
spill everything that's private that's
sacred
keep you keep that to yourself why would
you express how an ex hurt you number
one
because that's sacred and number two by
value decretion I don't mean high value
women and all this jargon and garbage
what I mean is
you don't want to come in saying how
you've been hurt by everybody
you just say it ended whatever later
when you're together you can explain but
you
there's a mental human capacity that
happens when you say that somebody
straight away thinks oh so so you put up
with that
you value yourself like that that's how
you see yourself and confidence is the
most attractive thing in the world so
don't divulge that they don't deserve
that yet
according to Margarita women should
support their men no matter what they do
I said you should support your worthy
husband three keywords yours means yours
not someone else's husband yours husband
meaning you're married to him or
long-term partner I don't mean support
Jake on the road over there who you've
just started dating he's got nothing to
do with you I mean in a committed
relationship you should support your
partner
if they're worthy that being the third
key word
worthy as in like you look up to them
they're an amazing human being yes I
support my mum my friends my husband too
what's the big deal uh brainwashing man
here she is looking glamorous thanks
they call me glamorous a few times and
which was nice and um then the comments
um on this newspaper article literally
that it's been in New York Post
everywhere it's like I'm a horrible
woman get rid of her she doesn't
appreciate man you know what's amazing
about today's culture is half the men
are coming for me
see it's true the men are coming from
you because they're like using men to
manipulate us to pay for your bills
I'm not using you need to pay for my
anything paid my for myself my whole
life got married had a child and now we
heard a combined household
silly
um and then the women are you know are
like oh but but why should I put up with
that but you know what actually women
really get it because what I'm talking
about is not throwing everyone in the
bin
I really believe in human connection and
family especially if you're gonna go and
have children and preserving that and
finding someone really good to build
that with and I really want to support
women through it because I've noticed
the culture is you know he is late today
or something I said girl you don't need
that girl bye leave him okay
but what are the tools what tools are we
using like what can we do to to help
women understand what is what and when
is where and how is how so that's what I
want to do uh what's going to happen to
this channel I'm going to start posting
again and stop stop ghosting you because
that's disrespectful I fully appreciate
if you guys just feel disrespected and I
do apologize
the content is going to be
um me breaking down these big subjects
and the content is going to be some
fashion you know what I mean if you want
a bit of fashion now the bag I'm wearing
is this LV
ship been wearing it for a year it's
what I do I get a bag and then I get
like one track mind about it anyway guys
love you lots like jelly dots and I'll
see you on the next one ask me any
questions in the box below anything that
you want to know or see or me to break
down or divulge
um any subjects anything that's happened
in your life write it down and um
I'll be on it like a carbonate
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