Body Language That Gives Off Big D*ck Energy
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker discusses how to project 'Big D' energy through body language. Key points include not over-qualifying oneself, letting others discover your worth, maintaining a mysterious aura, and exuding confidence. He advises against being overly talkative or 'thirsty' around women, and instead suggests being selective and strategic in social interactions. The speaker also shares advanced tactics for displaying Big D energy in social settings, emphasizing the importance of self-improvement as a foundation for these strategies.
Takeaways
- 😌 Calmness is key: To exhibit 'Big D' energy, one must remain calm and avoid over-qualifying oneself.
- 🤫 Less is more: Let people discover your worth instead of aggressively self-promoting.
- 🕵️♂️ Mystery attracts: Maintain an air of mystery; don't reveal everything about yourself to pique interest.
- 💪 Confidence is crucial: Display unwavering self-assurance in all social interactions.
- 🚫 Avoid thirst: Don't come off as desperate by not giving excessive attention to everyone, especially in social settings.
- 👀 Selective engagement: Be strategic in who you engage with and avoid indiscriminate socializing.
- 🙅♂️ Don't argue: Refrain from getting into arguments, especially with women, as it detracts from your 'Big D' energy.
- 👉 Stand your ground: Be assertive and don't be afraid to call out inappropriate behavior or walk away from uncomfortable situations.
- 🤷♂️ Be mysterious: In social groups, avoid over-attention to women to maintain an air of intrigue.
- 💬 Brief and exit: When talking to someone you're interested in, keep the conversation short and leave an impression before walking away.
Q & A
What is the main focus of the video?
-The main focus of the video is teaching men how to give off 'Big D energy,' which the speaker describes as a confident and self-assured presence that doesn't seek validation from others.
What is the first tip for giving off 'Big D energy'?
-The first tip is to 'calm down' and stop trying to over-qualify yourself. The speaker emphasizes that men shouldn't try to convince others of their value but should let their value be demonstrated naturally.
Why does the speaker say 'discovery trumps disclosure'?
-The speaker believes that it is more powerful to let people, especially women, discover things about you on their own rather than telling or bragging about your achievements. This creates a mysterious aura, which the speaker argues is more attractive.
What does the speaker suggest is a common mistake men make when trying to impress women?
-The speaker points out that many men try to brag about their wealth, accomplishments, or possessions, which comes off as insecure and gives 'small D energy.' Instead, he suggests letting women find out naturally, which makes the man seem more confident and mysterious.
How does the speaker define confidence in terms of 'Big D energy'?
-The speaker defines confidence as being calm, collected, and unbothered by external factors. A man with 'Big D energy' doesn't get rattled or feel the need to prove himself. He’s comfortable with who he is and doesn't seek validation from others.
What behavior does the speaker associate with 'small D energy'?
-The speaker associates 'small D energy' with being overly talkative, trying too hard to impress others, acting nervous or insecure, and being 'thirsty' by constantly seeking attention from women.
Why does the speaker advise against being 'thirsty' in social situations?
-The speaker advises against being 'thirsty' because it shows desperation and low self-worth. Instead, he suggests being selective and confident, only pursuing women you are genuinely interested in without giving every woman your attention.
What does the speaker say about arguing with women?
-The speaker warns that arguing with women gives off 'small D energy.' He believes that men should avoid letting women get under their skin and instead remain calm and confident, either walking away or addressing the situation without becoming emotionally reactive.
How does the speaker suggest handling attention in group social settings?
-In group social settings, the speaker suggests not giving women too much attention and allowing them to become curious about you. By not acting like other men who constantly seek attention, you create a sense of mystery and intrigue, which is attractive.
What advanced tactic does the speaker suggest for approaching women?
-The speaker suggests an advanced tactic where, after approaching a woman and saying something brief and slick, you should walk away instead of continuing the conversation. This tactic shows confidence and a lack of desperation, making the woman more likely to be intrigued and circle back.
Outlines
🧍♂️ Displaying Big D Energy
The speaker emphasizes the importance of not over-qualifying oneself to project Big D energy. He advises against trying to convince others of one's value and instead suggests letting one's actions and presence naturally demonstrate it. The speaker also stresses the concept of 'Discovery Trumps Disclosure,' meaning people should discover your worth rather than you disclosing it. He encourages maintaining a mysterious aura and not bragging about personal achievements or possessions.
🚶♂️ Exhibiting Confidence and Selectiveness
This paragraph focuses on the idea that having Big D energy means not being 'thirsty' or overly eager when approaching women. The speaker suggests that men should be selective and not give attention to every woman they see. Instead, they should carry themselves with the confidence that they already have what they need and are not desperate for anyone's approval or company. He also mentions avoiding arguments and not letting others get under one's skin as a sign of Big D energy.
💬 Advanced Social Tactics for Big D Energy
The speaker discusses advanced social tactics for displaying Big D energy in group settings. He advises not to constantly seek the attention of women but to maintain an air of mystery, which can make them more intrigued. He also introduces an offensive approach where a man should briefly interact with a woman he is interested in and then walk away, leaving an impression that piques her curiosity. The speaker stresses that these tactics work best when a man has already done the 'front-end work' of self-improvement.
🔚 Wrapping Up the Big D Energy Talk
In the final paragraph, the speaker summarizes his advice on Big D energy, reiterating the importance of self-improvement and the tactics discussed. He acknowledges that without the foundational work of bettering oneself, these tactics alone will not be effective. He concludes by appreciating his audience for their support and mentions his role as a teacher at Kingpin College, focusing on helping men make money.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Big D Energy
💡Over-qualify
💡Discovery Trumps Disclosure
💡Mysterious Aura
💡Thirsty
💡Confidence
💡Not Being Afraid to Offend
💡Acting the Part
💡Tactics
💡Self-Improvement
Highlights
Calm down to give off Big D energy
Don't over-qualify yourself to demonstrate value
Allow people to discover your value rather than disclosing it
Discovery Trumps Disclosure when it comes to personal value
Maintain a mysterious aura to project Big D energy
Avoid bragging to appear more confident
Confidence is key to Big D energy
Display confidence without being intimidated
Don't be thirsty or overly eager in social interactions
Selectively engage with people to avoid appearing thirsty
Act as if you already have what you want
Avoid arguing to prevent giving off small D energy
Handle conflicts with grace or by walking away
Do not let anyone get under your skin to maintain Big D energy
Be mysterious and not overly talkative in social settings
Use brief interactions to pique interest
Improve yourself before applying these tactics
These methods won't work if you don't put in personal effort
Transcripts
what's good YouTube what's good what's
up man Z Happ back at again with another
Banger man in today's video man I'm
going to be talking
about body language that gives off Big D
energy man so listen if you trying to
give off that Big D energy no Diddy all
you need to do is number one calm the
[ __ ] down calm the hell down bro too
many of y'all dudes be trying to over
qualify yourself convince girls really
just trying to convince people in
general of of your value that's the
problem if you want to give off Big D
energy you don't convince people of your
value your value is just it's just it's
demonstrated it's shown people can feel
it if they don't then [ __ ] them who
cares but I'm not going to convince
somebody oh I'm I'm I'm this or I've
done this or I just did this oh yeah I'm
I I I make this amount of money oh yeah
I I have this like nobody no no that's
not how you go about it so if that's if
that's how you act right now you need to
do a complete 180 stop doing that [ __ ]
right the [ __ ] now okay let people
figure out [ __ ] about you stop telling
them I don't know if you'all heard this
[ __ ] before but Discovery Trump's
disclosure let me say that one more time
Discovery always trumps disclosure you
let people find out [ __ ] especially with
women you let them find out stuff about
you right you don't tell them see when
you tell a woman when you're when you're
very braggadocious and you just want to
you just have to tell a woman oh yeah I
make this amount of money oh yeah my my
my my my Johnson is this big oh yeah I I
drive this oh yeah I used to do this
like bro bro bro bro you need to have
that mysterious aura about you that's
how you give off Big D energy right
because a dude who who really like that
and really got it like that he doesn't
have to convince people he doesn't have
to go around telling people that's a big
Telltale sign
that somebody's faking it or they're not
really like that and women can sniff
that [ __ ] up like like [ __ ] animals
bro they can sniff that [ __ ] out so
easily so if you're if you're over here
trying
to listen if you're a big talker as a
guy you need to stop right now you need
to stop because you were giving off
small D energy when you're a big talker
trying to convince people of [ __ ]
there's no need to convince anybody just
put your head down grind do what you
need to do and let people find out
things about you you get what I'm saying
you don't need to be telling everybody
and the thing is bro listen this is
listen this is chess not Checkers okay
the crazy thing is which really not
crazy I mean it's [ __ ] common sense
when you think about it when you
downplay what you got going on people
will overhype it but when you overhype
something people will downplay it this
is just human nature okay this isn't
even a a a woman thing a male thing this
this is just basic human nature but you
know in particular when you're dealing
with chicks do not please do not
overhype something about you let her
find it out or downplay it now I'm
telling you nine times out of out of 10
she is going to overhype it I can't tell
you how many times bro I've like not
told a chick like something crazy about
me and then she found out she's like oh
you do this oh you drive this oh and now
she's like you what I'm saying I'm
telling cuz cuz now it's like damn he
didn't even tell me that he didn't even
try to flex it what else does this [ __ ]
have under his sleeve you get what I'm
saying that's that's what goes in
somebody's mind when you uh just keep
your mouth closed and you just let
people find out [ __ ] find out [ __ ] about
you you get what I'm saying now another
sign of having Big D energy is having
the ultimate confidence now I'm sure
y'all already knew that [ __ ] but let me
just
expound have y'all ever met somebody who
was just confident as [ __ ] just cool
calm collect
there's nothing anybody could do to get
them out of their body or get them riled
up nothing they were just confident
within themselves there's nothing that
anybody could do about it that right
there is Big D energy that's the type of
energy you want to have with
everybody men women everybody when you
talking to a dude you look him in the
eye say what you got to say you're not
scared you're not intimidated you not
nothing you just confident as [ __ ] say
what you got to say right same thing
with women when you trying to talk to a
girl you like and you trying to RIS her
up you confident as hell you not nervous
you not stuttering you not shaking you
not trying to convince her it's like
listen baby this is me take it a leave
you know what I'm saying like you know
you giv her opportunity to meet you
right that type of energy is Big D Big D
energy and people are naturally
attracted to that you know what I'm
saying because you give off leadership
qualities you get what I'm
saying
now I'm GNA give you guys another way of
how you demonstrate having Big D energy
now this is more so geared towards like
if you're trying to attract
women when you're going out next time
you go out
right you'll see most guys right are
thirsty as
[ __ ] bro bro most dudes are thirsty as
hell bro I mean any girl that walks by
they're breaking their neck to look at
her bro they're looking at every single
chick gawking at her staring at girls
bro like they are just thirsty as hell
talking to every single girl trying to
talk to every girl hey uh you're so
beautiful hey can I get your number hey
you're you're so bad oh my hey hey hey
like it's crazy it's honestly crazy hey
can I can I can I buy you a drink hey
can I pay your bills [ __ ] is so
thirsty and let me just say if you can
somehow manage to not be thirsty you are
already ahead of most dudes bro because
so many dudes are thirsty as hell but a
part of having Big D energy is not being
thirsty right I'm not saying you got to
be passive and just let women come to
you you can definitely go up to a chick
who you like
but like being thirsty and looking at
every single girl trying to talk to
every single girl you know no matter how
she looks or how she behaves that gives
off thirsty energy small D energy right
you do not want to do that stop being
thirsty
you need to select who you want to go
after strategically and not just talking
to every single girl willy-nilly
everybody gets your attention everybody
gets your time no only the girls that
you like the baddies you know what I'm
saying but
anyway so listen next time you go out
with your friends or by yourself
wherever next time you go
out you need to walk as if you're the
[ __ ] you know you're the [ __ ] and you
already have ho that's how you have to
car yourself I'm not saying be a
[ __ ] or be rude or like no [ __ ]
don't talk to me I'm not saying that
what I'm saying is you have to act as if
you're good you're straight you don't
need any of these chicks like I I'm I'm
straight regardless that's how you have
to car of yourself bro you have to
that's how you have that's how you
maintain that that um Big D energy right
when you walking in like a group of
girls walk by you not damn y'all are so
bad no [ __ ] you just walking you might
you might look at him keep it keep it
pushing keep it pushing you know what
I'm saying because you know what you got
going on you get what I'm saying you
confident within yourself you don't need
to like who cares if you see something
you like go talk to but if if if not
ain't nobody I'm not breaking my neck to
look at you I'm not you know what I'm
saying don't be thirsty that's the
overall that's what I'm saying do not be
thirsty and another thing don't argue
with
[ __ ] that gives off small D
energy when you arguing with people
especially women if you a dude and you
like arguing with chicks or you let a
woman get under your skin really anybody
don't let anybody get under your skin
but in particular women never let never
let women get under your skin or get you
riled up or get you out your body that's
small D energy you get what I'm saying
because a dude who's confident and has
some [ __ ] up his sleeve what is he
arguing for when somebody's making a
scene yelling at him cursing at him
trying to trying to get him out his body
trying to get him out of his body what
does he do he
smiles he smiles or he just walks away
there's no need to see listen man you
have to act the part okay this is the
only way to give off Big D energy you
have to act the part and I'm telling you
it is drastically different from how the
majority of men act most dudes do not
act like this at all everything that I
said in this video they do the complete
opposite they they display small D
energy but if you do everything that I
say in this video
bro
bro you are going to give up that energy
that women cannot deny they are just
attracted to you get what I'm
saying they can't deny it because again
the majority of men do not do this they
don't act like this they know nothing of
this
nothing
so hey man do what you got to do another
thing man I can't tell you how many
times times like I've you know been out
in like the like the the party scene
club scene the N life
right bro women be having the ultimate
confidence they will just go up to any
dude say whatever the hell they want do
whatever they want can you buy me a
drink can you do this are y'all online
are y'all doing like just whatever
ultimate confidence the dudes be like
yeah yeah like nervous as hell I'm like
[ __ ] what the [ __ ] are you nervous for
what are you scared for like dudes be so
scared to offend offend a woman like and
usually I've seen this with like women
going up to guys I mean cuz usually most
guys don't like start [ __ ] with other
guy like they're not like going up to
random dudes usually I've seen this with
women going up to guys and they be
asking a question maybe asking for a
favor asking for something or just
making a comment just saying anything
and the dude be the dudes we having
nervous energy I'm like bro why are
y'all [ __ ] so scared to offend a
random joint that you don't know she
could be bad she could be mad it doesn't
matter D just be nervous as hell you
need to stop being afraid to offend
somebody or coming off how whatever the
hell stop being scared you need to have
the mindset like listen if this chick
says some dumb [ __ ] you've offended me
I'm not worried about offending you
you've offended me I'm going to walk
away or I'm going to be like that was
Dum you know what I'm saying I'm going
to call you out dudes be so scared to
say it how it is call out [ __ ] call
out bad behavior or just just I don't
know man [ __ ] just be having nervous
energy so if that's you you need to cut
that [ __ ] out that's how you have big D
energy you like you stop being nervous
you say what you want to say if if a
chick is coming at you saying some dumb
[ __ ] or some [ __ ] you don't like call it
out or just walk away you be like what
like you know what I'm saying don't be
afraid to you know what I'm saying stand
up to a woman like basic [ __ ] but I
don't know man that's like I've seen
that [ __ ] so many times dudes be out in
the night life and they have nervous
energy you need to be confident as hell
confident now another thing man now this
is some advanced level game for y'all
boys man this is some advanced level
game I'mma give you guys two tactics
right to to to display Big D energy so
let's say you're in like a like a social
setting you're in like a group you know
what I'm saying night life it's like you
and your friends and it's like you guys
are hanging out with like another
another group of girls right kind of
like a three man fourman or whatever the
hell right but basically it's like you
and your your dogs and there like some
girls in the group as
well the way you show Big D energy is
not giving the girls a bunch of
attention this [ __ ] works every single
time bro I can't tell you how many times
I've been in a group with my friends and
like one of the dud will like constantly
be trying to get out the girl constantly
trying to flirt with her constantly
trying to talk to her constantly trying
to trying to get her and I'm not saying
[ __ ] I'm not saying [ __ ] to her I'm just
chilling doing my own thing talking to
my maybe talking to my man's but I'm
really not giving her no attention and
it never fails she just has to talk to
me she has to know my name she has to
know how come like she has to know this
is just bro this is just how women are
bro they just they got to know why is
this [ __ ] so quiet why how come he not
talking why is he not trying to get at
me like these other [ __ ] what is going
on you get what I'm saying you have to
give off that mysterious energy bro
that's how you give off Big D energy you
got to be mysterious not like listen
when you're not acting like everybody
else something's up they like
H what's going on here this is very
peculiar I must I must figure out this
[ __ ] that's how they think bro the next
tactic I'm about to tell y boys this is
is more of like a offensive approach
right like what I what I just told y
that was more like like defensive like
you know what I'm saying not really
giving them no attention just kind of
you know what I'm saying just chilling
this is a more offensive
approach again this is some advanced
level game for y'all boys man y I really
should be putting this [ __ ] on the
patreon but listen [ __ ] it I got y'all
so what you want to do is if you see a
chick you like let's say you at the bar
you at it's going to be kind of hard to
do this at the well no [ __ ] it you can
do it anywhere bro bar club event any
any night life or any social situation
wherever the hell bro homecoming who
cares and if you see a chick that you
like right what you want to do is now if
you want to really give off that Big D
energy and not come off thirsty what you
do is you say something to her then you
just walk away like you keep it briefe
and you just walk away most guys what
they do is they'll go up to a chck
that they like and it's a constant
trying to get her it's a constant trying
to prove yourself a constant trying to
trying to get the chick so I've seen so
many dudes who like and I've done this
too like I listen don't get me wrong
I've done this dumb [ __ ] too going up to
a chick bad as
hell maybe give her a compliment get to
talking to her and you're just trying to
keep the conversation going you're like
forcing it trying to force the
conversation listen slowly but surely
that is giving off small D energy stop
trying to force conversations but again
the dude go up to the girl give her a
compliment trying to force the
conversation just thinking about random
[ __ ] to talk about then it gets dry then
it gets awkward then he starts talking
about just random [ __ ] just trying to
keep the conversation going that shows
that you were too thirsty you car way
too much you were too
invested you're done you're
done what you do is you see a jint you
like go up to it say some slick [ __ ] and
then you walk away
you walk away right I'm not saying you
leave the venue but you you just walk
away watch her try to Circle back watch
her try to Circle back because it's like
damn he just said that slick ass [ __ ]
and I I kind of [ __ ] with him you know
he's kind of cute but how come he didn't
try to keep talking to me how come he
didn't try to keep Rising me up it's
something about him we don't know he
must already have girls like listen I'm
telling you I'm telling you I'm telling
you bro this is what you must do now
here's the thing if you a ugly ass [ __ ]
this [ __ ] ain't going to [ __ ] work so
don't even like you need to do the the
the front end work first you need to do
you know improving yourself getting your
money a point like you need to
constantly be improving yourself for
this for all this [ __ ] to work all these
tactics are not going to save you if
you're just straight busted okay you got
to like come on BR you got to meet a
[ __ ] halfway you got to at least you
know have some [ __ ] going but you do the
you know if you put the work in then you
do these
tactics man oh man
I'm telling you I'm telling you I'm
telling you this is how you give off
that Big D energy but yeah man that's
all I got for y boys today man hopefully
yall enjoyed this [ __ ] um again Lincoln
bio Kingpin College teaching your boys
how to make money easy peasy man hey but
I'm out appreciate y'all boys for the
support
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