The Muslim needs to know how to SPEAK
Summary
TLDRThis video script emphasizes the critical role of communication in achieving success, asserting that it's the foundation of leadership. It identifies two main barriers to effective communication: negative beliefs and lack of authenticity. The speaker explains how bad beliefs, formed from fearful thoughts and feelings, can hinder action, while good beliefs foster positive outcomes. Authenticity is highlighted as essential for genuine connection. The script encourages viewers to visualize positive scenarios to shape good beliefs and to embrace their true selves to communicate effectively, drawing examples from personal experiences and figures like Donald Trump to illustrate the power of communication.
Takeaways
- 🗣️ Communication is crucial for success and leadership.
- 🚫 Resistance in communication can stem from past negative experiences.
- 🧠 Bad beliefs are formed from negative thoughts and feelings.
- 🔑 Visualization can help shape good beliefs by tricking the mind into thinking positively.
- 🌟 Authenticity is key to effective communication; being true to oneself is more appealing than trying to conform.
- 🚫 Avoid over-scripting conversations as it can lead to inauthenticity and hinder communication.
- 💪 Repeatedly visualizing positive outcomes strengthens beliefs and actions.
- 🌱 Bad beliefs can paralyze actions and prevent personal growth.
- 🌐 Communication skills can significantly impact one's influence and attractiveness to others.
- 🔄 Overcoming bad beliefs and embracing authenticity can lead to increased influence and better communication.
Q & A
What are the two main reasons that block effective communication according to the speaker?
-The two main reasons are bad beliefs and a lack of authenticity.
How are bad beliefs formed according to the script?
-Bad beliefs are formed through a process that starts with a thought, followed by a feeling, which then solidifies into a belief.
What is an example given in the script to illustrate how bad beliefs are created?
-The example is a person who wakes up with the thought of getting into a car crash on the way to work, which leads to fear and anxiety, ultimately forming a bad belief.
Why do many Muslims avoid discussing human psychology and the brain according to the speaker?
-The speaker suggests that many Muslims avoid discussing these topics because they are so powerful and closely related to the formation of beliefs.
How does the speaker describe the relationship between thoughts, feelings, actions, and reality?
-The speaker describes a process where thoughts lead to feelings, which then lead to actions, and these actions shape reality.
What is the role of visualization in shaping good beliefs as explained in the script?
-Visualization is a technique where the mind imagines scenarios, and by repeatedly imagining positive outcomes, it strengthens good beliefs.
Why is authenticity important in communication according to the speaker?
-Authenticity is important because it allows individuals to be their true selves, which in turn makes them more attractive and influential communicators.
What does the speaker suggest is a common problem among Muslims regarding communication?
-A common problem is the belief that they should not be authentic, leading to scripting conversations and limiting their true potential.
How does the speaker define authenticity?
-Authenticity is being true to oneself without filtering or conforming to others' expectations.
What impact does the speaker claim good communication can have on relationships with family and friends?
-Good communication can lead to increased energy, happiness, and influence in relationships with family and friends.
What is the speaker's personal experience with communication and how did it change?
-The speaker had poor communication skills due to trauma, which created bad beliefs. After working on these beliefs and embracing authenticity, their communication skills improved, and they gained more influence.
Outlines
🗣️ Mastering Communication Through Beliefs
The speaker emphasizes the importance of communication for success in life and identifies two main reasons that hinder effective communication. They introduce the concept of beliefs as a significant factor in shaping our actions and communication. Bad beliefs, often stemming from negative thoughts and feelings, can be detrimental to one's life. The speaker encourages the audience to understand that beliefs are formed in the mind and then solidify in the heart. They also highlight the importance of authentic communication and how it can lead to becoming a leader. The paragraph concludes with advice on visualizing positive outcomes to shape good beliefs.
🌟 Cultivating Good Beliefs and Authenticity
The speaker discusses the process of creating good beliefs through repetition and visualization, stressing that it must be done multiple times to be effective. They touch on the common issue of Muslims feeling they should not be authentic, which leads to over-preparation and ultimately inaction. The speaker argues that authenticity is key to effective communication and that trying to conform to others' expectations can lower self-esteem. They encourage the audience to embrace their authenticity and not to filter themselves in an attempt to please others. The paragraph concludes with the idea that good beliefs and authenticity can lead to empowerment and a more attractive personal presence.
🌈 Unlocking Potential Through Authentic Communication
The speaker shares personal experiences and the impact of overcoming bad beliefs and embracing authenticity on their communication skills. They highlight the power of communication to influence others and build relationships, using Donald Trump as an example of someone with strong communication skills despite other shortcomings. The paragraph underscores the idea that good communication can enhance one's influence and attractiveness. The speaker concludes by reiterating the importance of having good beliefs and being authentic, as these are the keys to mastering communication.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Communication
💡Beliefs
💡Authenticity
💡Visualization
💡Thoughts
💡Feelings
💡Leaders
💡Influence
💡Trauma
💡Empathy
💡Self-esteem
Highlights
Communication is key to success in life.
Two main reasons block effective communication.
Beliefs are the root of communication, either good or bad.
Bad beliefs are created from thoughts and feelings.
The mind and heart are powerful in shaping beliefs.
Actions are shaped by beliefs, not just habits.
Visualization can shape good beliefs.
Repeating positive thoughts strengthens beliefs.
Authenticity is vital for effective communication.
Being inauthentic can lead to communication breakdowns.
Over-scripting can hinder natural communication.
Good communication can increase personal influence.
Authenticity and good beliefs lead to empowerment.
Communication can attract supporters and influence others.
Good communication can change perceptions and relationships.
The power of communication can build or destroy nations.
Having good beliefs is essential and never leads to wrong paths.
Being authentic and having the right beliefs can make one a master communicator.
Transcripts
if you want to succeed in life then you
need to master communication now I'm not
here to tell you why communication is
good you already know that but you have
always everyone has had that time where
they try to communicate with someone
that time at mosque at
Juma they tried to say asalamu alaykum
to someone but then they felt a
resistance they felt something was
pushing them
back why well we were going to solve
that very issue because the reason why
you cannot speak properly is because of
two main reasons and we are going to
destroy the things that block you from
communicating
effectively communication is what
creates leaders and you my friend are
going to be a leader you are a leader of
your
flock and I'm about to teach you the
most powerful skill and that is
communication
communication stems from two things
beliefs
and another one I'll reveal after
beliefs you see
beliefs are either good or bad
throughout your life you have had bad
beliefs now how are bad beliefs created
the
thought the
feeling and then the belief you see I'll
give you an example a person goes to
before he goes to work he wakes up he's
about to go to work and he gets the
thought that he's going going to end up
in a car crash and when he and when he
has this thought he has fear he starts
to fear that oh no I won't be able to
come back to my own family and provide
for them I won't be able to do anything
I'll be crippled I'll be in the hospital
paralyzed now he starts to fear this he
starts to get
anxiety now this is where a new belief
has been formed because of the thought
and the
feeling a lot of Muslims don't like to
actually not don't like to a lot of
Muslims don't talk about the human
psychology the human brain the
human everything about the human body
they don't talk about this because it is
so
important you see the mind is very
powerful the heart is very powerful
beliefs come from the
heart and the mind creates the beliefs
it go it starts from the mind and then
it goes into the heart now a lot of you
have bad beliefs now what you must
understand is every single action is
shaped from its beliefs the reason why
you do things is not because you
are you you just have a habit it is all
based on
beliefs this took a long time for me to
realize that it was not all about how I
thought that okay I think now I have to
do it is all based on beliefs you think
Wild Things probably you think of
jumping off an airplane you think of it
but you don't do it now if you believed
you wanted to do it like firmly believed
you would do it it is from beliefs not
all the time of your thoughts or
intentions as they say you
see it comes there there are two things
good belief Bel and bad beliefs now what
a lot of people have is bad
beliefs now this is a very bad thing
this can destroy your whole life bad
beliefs I've seen it happen too many
times people have bad beliefs people
start thinking bad bad things are going
to happen to them and they stop fearing
and then they don't don't do the action
like in prev like in the previous video
I mentioned thoughts feelings action
reality that is the process of how it
works now if you start thinking that hey
if I speak in a certain way then I'm
going to get a
negative feedback if I speak to someone
then they're going to see me in a
negative way that is another problem you
are creating a bad
belief now how do we shape a good belief
so that way you can be on your way to
actually communicating properly
visualization you see the mind doesn't
know from from imaginary to real if you
start imagining that you are in cold
weather if you start imagining that you
are in the middle of the the
Arctic suddenly you're going to feel
cold why because the subconscious the
mind doesn't know from real to imaginary
and likewise if you start imagining
yourself in the Sahara Desert you're
going to feel a bit
hot you
see your mind is the start of beliefs
now I want you to start thinking good
things I want you to start thinking of
the outcome is going to be
good I want you to start feeling good
about that thought the more you repeat
this the stronger your beliefs are going
to be you cannot do this once because I
made this mistake myself I only did it
once and then I thought hey this is not
working you have to do this multiple
times you need to start thinking good
you need to start feeling good about it
that is how you create a new belief and
as we all know beliefs shape actions
every action is based on his beliefs you
do not see the atheist preaching that
Allah is true why because he doesn't
believe in Allah and
likewise you do not see the Muslim
preaching that Allah is not real because
he believes that Allah is real and so he
preaches that Allah is real it's all
based on
beliefs the second point I would like to
touch upon is another common problem
that a lot of Muslims
face they
believe that they should not be
authentic you see the thing is is that a
lot of Muslims think that if I use a
script if I think of what I will say to
someone then they'll start to see me in
a positive way but then they overwhelm
themselves with too many scripts on what
to say to a person and then they are
left overwhelmed and they don't know
what to do and so because they don't
know what to do they don't do
anything that is why when you speak when
you want to speak to that person you
just
cannot because you are not authentic
you're not being your true self you are
limiting your your morals you're
limiting what you are capable of you're
capable of so much more but you have
limited
yourself I I can teach you the things
like pauses like I have done now I could
teach you to extend the words to make
you to make everything more emphasized I
can speed up the process to make things
less
boring but it all comes down to two
things your beliefs your good beliefs
and your
authenticity you have blocked your real
self you have blocked your real self for
such a long time I myself I'm a person
who loves to talk about
indepth things detail things that people
don't like to talk things that people
don't talk about
often this is my personality this is my
authenticity you have your own
authenticity now don't start to go
overboard with authenticity by thinking
that because some people will start to
say hey me being authentic is me
swearing
profanity this word that word this word
that is not what I'm trying to say not
take it overboard be yourself do not try
and filter yourself because when you try
and filter yourself what you are trying
to do is you are trying to
conform to people and that is where your
self-esteem goes down it
drops the reason why you cannot talk to
people is because you are not authentic
you are trying to conform you're trying
to make people think good of you and
when that happens you cannot be
satisfied you will never be satisfied
this is from the traps of Shan he wants
you to start thinking that people need
to think good of me he makes you believe
that oh you need to start making people
think good of you I have so many haters
and it doesn't bother me I have so many
lovers it doesn't bother
me it's not
about what you are looking it's not
about how you are perceived by the
people it's about your how you feel
yourself it's about your morals that is
the most important thing your morals are
the most important thing
you must hold dear to because once you
hold dear to it you're going to be a
person of authority you're going to
speak like you know what you are talking
about you are going to
speak with
energy the thing is is that when people
are not authentic everyone can see
through you they know you're not
authentic and so they they they brush
You Away you've you've had that time you
try speaking someone and you you
stumbled you fumbled you didn't know
what to say and so they got the ick they
didn't like it and so they try to get
away from the conversation they try to
shorten the conversation but when you
have good beliefs when you have
authenticity when you don't script
anything this video is not scripted when
you don't script things you're going to
find a level of empowerment you're going
to see yourself as a different
person you're going to
become more attractive a lot of Muslims
try to be more attractive but one of the
worst things that remove that
attractiveness is the
communication you could be one of the
most ugliest ugliest
people but you could have 10 out of 10
conversation level you could be the best
conversator and you'll have so many
supporters I'll give you an example love
him or hate him I'm not here to say but
Donald Trump has a lot of lovers firm
lovers but he also has a lot of haters
because of his
communication he may not be the best
looking guy he may not have the best
looking
hair but he sure does have a lot of
devotees because he's a good
communicator he has a 10 out of 10 wife
I'm not telling you to look at his wife
but he has a good wife because he is a
good
communicator that is the power of
communication when you implement these
two things I have taught
you
beliefs
authenticity once you do this with your
close ones with your family you're going
to find more energy from them you're
going to see that hey my mom's a bit
more happier than usual why because you
are more articulate you are more
charismatic
that is the beauty of
communicating there are so many things
you can unlock with communication so
many I'll give you an
example there was a time where I wasn't
the best person at communicating I was
terrible at communicating due to the
trauma I went through and that trauma
created bad beliefs once I start fixing
these these bad beliefs and turning them
into good beliefs as I started gaining a
level of
authenticity you first have to start
with beliefs then it comes to
authenticity and then when this happened
I gained too much attaction too many
people started seeing me as something my
influence went
up this video the previous video more
influence communication is so powerful
it can destroy Nations and at the same
time it can old Nations all by the
permission of Allah so what you must
understand is you need to have good
beliefs good beliefs will never go wrong
it will never take you anywhere wrong
but bad beliefs will always throw you
into a rabbit hole and another thing
authenticity just be yourself don't put
a limit to your mind you are the best
version of yourself no one is better no
one is a better version than you what I
mean is that they are not you they
cannot be you and that is a
superpower you are
different and that is how people will
recognize you if everyone was the same
if everyone wore the same clothes if
everyone spoke the same you wouldn't
know who to who's who but if you are
different if you more charismatic if
you're authentic if you have the right
beliefs then you are well and truly on
your way to communicate like a
master that is all you need to know
about
communication beliefs and authenticity
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