How To Appear Hotter As A Guy (From A Woman's Perspective)
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Courtney Ryan reacts to a TikTok about non-appearance-related traits that make men more attractive. She discusses popular opinions like wearing a backwards hat, chains, hoodies, and reading books. Courtney shares her personal views, often differing from the mainstream, and emphasizes the role of age demographics in attraction. She also includes her own suggestions, such as wearing a watch, having good posture, and showing a calm demeanor. The video aims to offer diverse female perspectives and tips for men looking to enhance their appeal.
Takeaways
- 😀 The video is a reaction to a TikTok about what makes a guy appear more attractive without changing physical appearance.
- 🧢 Backwards baseball hats are a recurring popular opinion among women, though the creator doesn't personally find them attractive, associating them with a certain 'vibe'.
- 💍 Wearing a chain is highlighted as something many women find attractive, with a cultural reference to TikTok trends and younger audiences.
- 👕 The trend of guys wearing hoodies with tied strings is mentioned as appealing, but the creator finds this niche and age-dependent.
- 📚 Women find men who read for fun attractive, with references to Instagram accounts like 'Hot Dudes Reading', suggesting intelligence and learning are appealing traits.
- 🐕 The creator adds that men with animals (dogs or cats) are seen as more compassionate and caring, which is attractive to women.
- ⌚ Wearing a watch is seen as a mature, masculine, and punctual look, which the creator personally prefers over a chain.
- 💪 Rolled-up sleeves and visible forearms are described as attractive, as they showcase strength and vascularity, which women love.
- 😌 A calm demeanor is highly attractive to women, making them feel safe, secure, and comfortable around the man.
- 🧍 Good posture is emphasized as a key factor in making men appear more confident, healthy, and attractive, as poor posture detracts from a man’s presence.
Q & A
What is the main topic of the video?
-The video focuses on reacting to a TikTok that discusses what women find attractive about a boy's appearance, particularly things that don't physically alter one's appearance but make them come across as more attractive.
What is Courtney Ryan's opinion on wearing a backwards hat?
-Courtney Ryan is not a fan of the backwards hat, associating it with a 'f-boy' vibe, which is not her type. However, she acknowledges that many other women like it, and it may make some men appear more attractive.
Why does the TikTok suggest wearing a chain makes a man more attractive?
-The TikTok suggests that wearing a chain makes a girl's mind wander, hinting at the chain's association with certain intimate activities. Chains are seen as sexy by many women, particularly younger ones.
Does Courtney agree with the attractiveness of wearing a chain?
-Courtney acknowledges that many women find chains attractive, but it is not her personal preference. She also mentions that the age demographic might play a role in why some women like this style.
What is the third style tip discussed in the video?
-The third tip is that a man wearing a hoodie with the strings tied up is considered attractive. However, Courtney has never heard of this before and believes it might be more appealing to women who are into a laid-back or street style.
What does the TikTok mention about men who read?
-The TikTok claims that seeing a man reading a book is highly attractive to women, implying that it shows intelligence and a love for learning.
Why does Courtney believe that men who read are attractive?
-Courtney agrees with the idea that men who read are attractive because it signals intelligence, a love for learning, and a calm demeanor, all of which are appealing qualities to women.
How does Courtney relate to the idea of men reading being attractive?
-Courtney shares that when she sees her husband reading a book, it has a positive effect on her, reinforcing the idea that intelligence and calm behavior are attractive traits.
What additional traits does Courtney find attractive in men?
-Courtney adds several traits to the list: men who take care of pets, wear watches, have good posture, roll up their sleeves, and maintain a calm demeanor.
How does Courtney conclude her reaction to the TikTok video?
-Courtney acknowledges that the TikTok video is less toxic than some others she has reacted to and appreciates hearing other women's perspectives. She invites viewers to share their thoughts and experiences in the comments.
Outlines
👋 Introduction and Overview
Courtney Ryan welcomes viewers to her channel and introduces the topic: reacting to a TikTok video. The video poses the question, 'What do you think is attractive about a boy’s appearance?' and focuses on non-physical attributes that make men appear more attractive. Courtney emphasizes that she will share her own thoughts, regardless of whether she agrees with the TikTok creator, and adds that it's important to hear different perspectives, as not all women have the same preferences. She also teases that viewers should stick around for her personal tips on improving attractiveness.
🧢 The Backwards Hat Phenomenon
The first tip from the TikTok video suggests wearing a backwards hat to appear more attractive. Courtney humorously reacts, stating that this tip appears frequently on lists, but she personally dislikes the look, associating it with a 'f-boy vibe.' Despite her preference, she acknowledges that most women find it appealing and that for already attractive men, the backwards hat can enhance their appearance. However, she doubts that it could drastically change a woman's opinion if she doesn’t find a man attractive in the first place.
💍 The Appeal of a Chain
The second tip is that women find it highly attractive when men wear chains, with the TikTok creator suggesting it makes a woman’s mind 'wander.' Courtney explains the meaning behind this, referencing a TikTok trend where girls fantasized about chains during intimate moments. Despite her own lack of enthusiasm for chains, she notes that many young women like this accessory, and that it featured in her own popular video on 'sexiest things men wear.' She also highlights that preferences may vary based on age, with younger women likely being more drawn to this style.
🧥 The Hoodie Strings Trend
The third TikTok tip mentions tying up hoodie strings as an attractive feature. Courtney expresses surprise, as she has never heard of this trend before, and wonders if it’s related to a laid-back, street style that certain men embody. She references seeing pictures of Tom Brady wearing a hoodie with tied strings and speculates whether his influence helped spread the trend. While she doesn’t personally find it appealing, she concedes that it might suggest intentionality in a man’s style.
📚 A Man Who Reads
The final tip claims that a man reading for fun is highly attractive to women. Courtney agrees, sharing that she’s seen an Instagram account dedicated to 'hot guys reading,' which reinforces the idea that women find intelligence and a love for learning attractive. She mentions how watching her own husband read positively affects her. Additionally, she reflects on how certain Instagram accounts like 'Hot Dudes Reading' and 'Hot Dudes with Dogs' emphasize traits women find irresistible, such as intelligence and compassion.
🐕 Courtney’s Own Tips for Attractiveness
At the end of the video, Courtney shares her personal tips for making men more attractive. She highlights how owning a pet, like a dog or cat, signals kindness and responsibility. She also recommends wearing a watch, which she believes is superior to a chain, as it symbolizes maturity and punctuality. Other tips include rolling up sleeves to show forearms, maintaining a calm demeanor, and having good posture. She believes these traits exude confidence, strength, and attractiveness, ending her reaction on a positive note.
💬 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
Courtney concludes the video by praising the TikTok creator for a less toxic video compared to one of her previous works. She acknowledges that the creator’s content resonates with many people, as indicated by her 6 million TikTok followers. Courtney appreciates the opportunity to react to different opinions and invites her viewers to share their thoughts in the comments. She also encourages them to connect with her on Instagram and suggests they tag her in TikTok comments if they want her to react to other videos.
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Keywords
💡Backwards hat
💡Chain
💡Hoodie with tied strings
💡Reading for fun
💡Age demographic
💡Calm demeanor
💡Body language
💡Vascularity
💡Posture
💡Watch
Highlights
Introduction to reacting to a TikTok video about attractive traits in boys' appearance.
The question posed in the TikTok: 'What do you think is attractive about a boy's appearance?'
Courtney emphasizes that these traits don't alter physical appearance but make men come across as more attractive.
Courtney highlights the importance of hearing diverse perspectives from other women, especially regarding attraction.
First attractive trait mentioned: Wearing a backwards hat. Courtney reacts by sharing her personal dislike for the backwards hat, but acknowledges many women find it attractive.
Courtney notes that a backwards hat won't make someone unattractive more attractive, but can enhance attractiveness if already perceived as good-looking.
Second attractive trait mentioned: Wearing a chain. The TikTok creator claims it makes girls' minds 'wander,' and Courtney explains the context behind this trend.
Courtney includes chains in her video about the sexiest things men wear, emphasizing it's a popular choice among women.
Courtney believes the appeal of chains and backwards hats varies with age, pointing out that younger demographics are more into these trends.
Third attractive trait mentioned: Wearing a hoodie with the strings tied up. Courtney finds this odd but considers it a niche preference for a certain laid-back or street style.
Courtney remarks on the importance of context and age demographic in determining what women find attractive.
Fourth attractive trait mentioned: Reading for fun. Courtney agrees this is universally attractive and shares the example of a popular Instagram account dedicated to men reading in public.
Courtney adds her own insights, including men with animals (dogs or cats) as a major attractive trait, signaling compassion and care.
Courtney emphasizes the appeal of a watch, calling it a masculine, punctual accessory that is superior to a chain.
Additional traits Courtney mentions: Rolled-up sleeves (showing forearm vascularity), a calm demeanor (projecting safety and security), and good posture (enhancing confidence and health).
Transcripts
hi everyone welcome back to my channel
if you're new here I'm Courtney Ryan and
today we are reacting to a Tik Tok so
we're going to watch it together
reconvene and I will tell you what I
think the little question box on the
video says what do you think is
attractive about a boy's appearance um
and the video focuses on things that
don't actually alter your appearance but
make you come across hotter anyways now
before we get started I do also want to
say regardless of if I agree with her or
not I do think it's helpful to hear some
other girls perspectives that are not my
own necessarily because not every girl
thinks the way that I do or is attracted
to what I'm attracted to or caters to
the same age demographic necessarily you
know it can be nice to hear some other
opinions I'm also going to throw in some
of my own ideas at the end of the video
so be sure to stick around for that if
you're a guy and you're like a six and
you want to automatically get to a 10
then do these things also just an FYI
these things are not actually changing
your appearance but they're going to
make girls think you're hotter anyway so
let's get right into it number one wear
a backwards hat you know that Tik Tok
sounds it's
like that's us when you guys wear
backwards hats like just go do it I'm
going to make some comments after each
point to make sure that we're still on
the same page saying these things will
take you from a six to a 10 is obviously
emphatic um instead for engagement
purposes so I wouldn't take that too
seriously if you're a viewer also I have
to say this girl looked so familiar and
I thought to myself where have I've seen
her before and turns out a few years ago
I actually reacted to one of her toxic
advice videos that she had posted I mean
she has 6 million followers on Tik Tok
so clearly people are into what she's
doing so anyway the first one is wear a
backwards baseball hat this one just
continues to haunt me it is everywhere
in every single list that I react to now
if you've seen any of my videos
discussing this you probably already
know my thoughts but just to give the
little cliffnotes version here I am
personally not really a fan of the
backwards baseball hat but I do
recognize that I am really in the
minority here like I get it you know to
me it just gives off a sort of f boy
type Vibe which is just not my type at
all just to be transparent not my type
but I imagine that's why so many other
women like it so I mean if you are a
very inshape attractive guy and you
throw on a backwards baseball hat it's
probably not going to make you any less
attractive if anything it's going to
make most girls think that you're more
attractive but again this is one of
those things where if a woman finds you
unattractive I don't necessarily think
that just throwing on a backwards
baseball hat is going to all of the
sudden like make her change her mind
about you so I think that's something
important to keep in mind as well I
think some of these things can make a
man more attractive if a woman already
finds you at least somewhat attractive
so let's continue okay number two can
you guys wear a
chain please literally marry me I need
you biblically it is so attractive and
it makes a girl's mind wonder she said
it makes a girl's mind wander and we're
going to be a little spicy here for a
second while I explain what she means by
this just to make sure that everyone is
understanding there was a sort of trend
or big thing happening on Tik Tok a few
years ago of girls talking about how
when a guy wears a chain it makes them
picture the chain hanging down on them
during a certain
activity I'm going to let you take that
as you will but I just wanted to explain
what she meant by makes our mind
wander okay now I actually included a
chain and one of my sexiest things that
men wear video according to women which
I actually believe is my most post
viewed video here on YouTube um and the
reason why I included it is because I
asked my female audience over on
Instagram for submissions and this was
one of the most submitted responses at
the time of filming that video I think
this was a couple of years ago again
this is one that I'm really not as much
a fan of but many girls do like this
perhaps age demographic also comes into
play here as well I think this girl
makes videos specifically for teens and
younger men I'd say early 20s I can't
necessarily say that a backwards hat and
a chain would be perceived the same way
if if you're 22 years old versus 42
years old for example so that's
definitely something to keep in mind I
don't know how old this girl is she
looks very young in my opinion I'm 28
for reference she looks like she's maybe
22 23 I could be totally wrong but even
an age difference from early 20s to late
20s can drastically change what a woman
is attracted to and interested in so
again just something to keep in mind I
do think the age demographic thus far in
this list is definitely a factor okay
number three this is really Niche but
when a guy wears a hoodie and he ties
the strings up this is delicious we need
this we love this like I said it's
really Niche but not a lot of guys do it
it's so hot a hoodie with the strings
tied
up huh I have legitimately never heard
this before again I think age
demographic is absolutely a factor here
I don't get it I don't get it I'm going
to Google guy wearing hoodie with the
string
tied I could see the little hoodie with
the tied up strings being attractive to
a woman who is into more of a very
laid-back Style on a guy maybe more
street style a guy who wears hoodies and
maybe bag your clothing um who's really
into sneakers or baseball hats chains
like I'm just picturing a very specific
type of guy when I think about a hoodie
and then a hoodie with the strings tied
just from looking at these pictures like
they're all very Street Style guy on Tik
Tok who is attra
active typee Vibe oh here's a picture of
Tom Brady wearing a hoodie with the
strings tied up was Tom Brady a transend
hitter here did people start doing it
after they saw him do it or did he maybe
copy one of his sons I don't know was he
inspired yeah I'm not really
understanding this one as much maybe if
anything it could make you look more
intentional like you put a little bit of
extra effort in by tying the strings
don't know okay and the last one here
last but not least when a guy reads for
fun if I saw a guy reading a book on the
spot right here right now i' marry him
okay let me know if you want a part two
because I could make a million of
these I now am understanding why she has
6 million followers there actually used
to be this Instagram account and I don't
know if it still exists or not I'll
check on my phone during this video um
but it was dedicated to hot guys reading
books it was legitimately just full of
pictures of guys reading in public on
the bus on the train on the subway in
New York at a cafe I mean it was just
strictly dedicated to photos of men in
the wild reading books because I do
think it is something that women find
very attractive and I agree okay let's
look up hot dudes hot dudes hot dudes
reading the captions are typically a
little bit spicy um but it it's a whole
Instagram account here dedicated to hot
dudes reading there's also one hot dudes
with
dogs because again that's something that
women find attractive I would add that
into
um My Little section here a guy with an
animal a guy with a dog or a cat for me
it's a cat because I'm a cat lady but
either one I love dogs too but yeah I
think this one is absolutely true I
think reading is just one of those
things that is associated with
intelligence it just makes you come
across as a guy who likes to learn which
women find attractive I'll even add here
when I watch my husband read a book it
does something to my brain
chemistry love it in the beginning of
the video I mentioned that I'll give you
guys a few of my own here at the end one
would be as I mentioned a guy with an
animal I would say a dog or a cat this
just does something to a woman's brain
it makes you look kind and compassionate
and caring I think a guy who is a dog
dad or cat dad also signals to us that
you can take care of something aside
from yourself which is sexy another
would be a watch I think a watch is far
superior to a chain and legitimately
every single way but my husband has a
watch business so I understand that I
might be a little bit biased but I just
think it makes a man look masculine and
mature and punctual a man who's not
going to be late instantly hotter in my
opinion best accessory for a man without
a doubt and I stand by that the next one
I would add in would be rolled up
sleeves which you have absolutely heard
me talk about before this is just going
to show us a little bit of your forearm
and highlight the vascularity in your
arm which women love it's showing us how
strong you are we love that this plus
the watch lethal combo next would be a
calm demeanor I think a guy who has a
calm demeanor is so attractive to women
because it makes us feel safe and secure
and comfortable around you it's no
surprise that the guy who is cool calm
and collected is attractive to women so
nothing groundbreaking here the last
little thing I would add in here would
be good posture body language is
something that is incredibly powerful in
terms of Attraction I think it's going
to make you look more confident makes
you look healthy and taller pretty
self-explanatory if you're a guy who's
walking around slouched all the time you
are doing yourself a huge disservice
this is something that I have to keep
reminding myself of too anytime I
mention it in a video I always sit up a
little bit taller because it's just
something that you have to remind
yourself of right you are just going to
look more attractive if you are sitting
up straight versus slouching and that's
facts I've actually done an entire video
about posture if you're interested in
more of the details go watch that on my
channel but all right guys that's all I
have for this reaction video I will say
this video clip from her is way less
toxic than the one that I reacted to a
couple of years ago so Bravo I don't
know what her other content looks like
but like I said she has 6 million
followers so clearly people are liking
what she's doing so we can't knock that
right again I like reacting to videos
like this from time to time just because
it's nice to hear the perspective of
another woman get some other opinions on
here the point of my channel is to offer
a woman's perspective so I like to do
this sometimes via reaction videos and
just see what you guys think let me know
some other things down in the comments
that you think make a man more
attractive I would love to know some
things that you've maybe done that have
gotten a positive reaction from women
let me know down in the comments if you
haven't already be sure to follow me
over on Instagram at Courtney Christine
Ryan I love connecting with all of you
guys over on there as well and if you
ever have a video you want me to react
to tag me in the comment section
specifically on Tik Tok that's the
easiest way for me to see it sometimes
my DMs get a little bit flooded and I
might miss it so just tagging me down in
the comments is the easiest way to go
but as always thank you all so much for
watching and I will see you all next
time
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