Trans When Ideology Meets Reality My conversation with Helen Joyce 1080p 25fps VP9 160kbit Opus

Falsimiro Desmentirenko
21 Mar 202451:03

Summary

TLDREste video presenta una conversación profunda entre el anfitrión y Helen Joyce, autora del libro 'Trans: When Ideology Meets Reality'. Joyce discute la realidad de los sexos biológicos y cómo la ideología transgénero está en conflicto con esta, afectando espacios seguros para mujeres, la participación en deportes y la protección de los derechos de los homosexuales. A través de historias personales y análisis, el video explora temas como la identidad de género, los derechos de las mujeres y la libertad de expresión, resaltando la importancia de enfrentarse a la ideología con hechos y la realidad científica.

Takeaways

  • 🔍 La creencia en la realidad y la ciencia como contrapunto a la ideología trans está en el centro de la discusión.
  • 📚 Helen Joyce destaca por su libro 'Trans, cuando la ideología se encuentra con la realidad', que examina críticamente la ideología trans.
  • 🧪 La biología y la ciencia se presentan como fundamentales para comprender la realidad del sexo biológico, enfatizando su naturaleza binaria.
  • 👥 La transición de género, especialmente en niños y adolescentes, se cuestiona por sus implicaciones permanentes y la presión social asociada.
  • 🏳️‍🌈 La distorsión del lenguaje y la identidad de género es un tema recurrente, cuestionando la afirmación de género basada únicamente en la autodeclaración.
  • 📖 Otros libros recomendados incluyen 'Daño Irreversible' de Abigail Shrier y 'Material Girls' de Kathleen Stock, que exploran aspectos similares de la ideología de género.
  • 🤔 El cuestionamiento y la búsqueda de respuestas sobre las causas y efectos de la ideología trans resaltan la complejidad del tema.
  • ⚖️ La discusión sobre espacios segregados por sexo, deportes y derechos de las mujeres subraya la tensión entre los derechos trans y los derechos de las mujeres.
  • 🎓 La experiencia de Maya Forstater, quien perdió su trabajo por expresar creencias sobre el sexo biológico, ejemplifica las consecuencias sociales de cuestionar la ideología trans.
  • 🛡️ 'Sex Matters', la organización cofundada por Maya Forstater, lucha por el reconocimiento de la realidad del sexo y contra la imposición de la ideología de género en la sociedad.

Q & A

  • ¿Qué libro escribió Helen Joyce que se menciona en la conversación?

    -Helen Joyce escribió el libro 'Trans, when ideology meets reality'.

  • ¿Cuál es la profesión actual de Helen Joyce mencionada en el diálogo?

    -Helen Joyce trabaja para una organización de defensa llamada Sex Matters.

  • ¿Qué tema central aborda el libro de Helen Joyce?

    -El libro aborda el conflicto entre la ideología de género y la realidad biológica del sexo.

  • ¿Cuál es la postura de Helen Joyce sobre la realidad del sexo?

    -Helen Joyce sostiene que el sexo es una categoría binaria y clara, basada en la biología y no sujeta a la autoidentificación personal.

  • ¿Qué argumento utiliza Helen Joyce para explicar la diferencia entre sexo y género?

    -Helen Joyce argumenta que el sexo está determinado biológicamente y es binario, mientras que el género se refiere a roles y expresiones culturales, que pueden variar y ser más fluidos.

  • ¿Cuál es la crítica de Helen Joyce hacia la autoidentificación de género?

    -Critica que la autoidentificación de género ignora las realidades biológicas del sexo y puede tener consecuencias negativas en espacios segregados por sexo, como los deportes y baños públicos.

  • ¿Qué caso específico se menciona en el diálogo que ilustra la lucha por el reconocimiento del sexo biológico?

    -Se menciona el caso de Maya Forstater, quien perdió su trabajo por expresar creencias sobre la inmutabilidad del sexo biológico y luego ganó un caso de apelación que estableció un precedente legal.

  • ¿Qué efecto tiene la política de identidad de género en los niños según la discusión?

    -Según la discusión, la política de identidad de género puede confundir a los niños sobre su sexo y género, llevándolos a decisiones prematuras sobre su identidad que pueden incluir intervenciones médicas irreversibles.

  • ¿Cómo describe Helen Joyce el impacto de las políticas de identidad de género en los espacios femeninos?

    -Describe que estas políticas están erosionando espacios seguros diseñados para mujeres, como baños y vestuarios, al permitir el acceso basado en la identidad de género en lugar del sexo biológico.

  • ¿Cuál es la visión de Helen Joyce sobre la solución al conflicto entre la ideología de género y la realidad del sexo?

    -Helen Joyce aboga por un enfoque basado en la realidad biológica y la protección de espacios seguros para mujeres y niñas, manteniendo el respeto y la dignidad para todas las personas, independientemente de su identidad de género.

Outlines

The video is abnormal, and we are working hard to fix it.
Please replace the link and try again.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Realidad

La realidad se menciona como un concepto fundamental en el discurso, enfatizando la importancia de basar nuestras percepciones y acciones en lo que es factual y observable. La discusión gira en torno a cómo la ciencia, que busca entender la realidad a través de la evidencia y el método científico, a menudo choca con ideologías que intentan distorsionar o negar aspectos de esta realidad. Este choque se ilustra en el contexto de las diferencias sexuales biológicas, un área donde la realidad es binaria y clara, contrariamente a ciertas afirmaciones ideológicas.

💡Ideología

La ideología se presenta como un sistema de ideas o creencias que a veces entra en conflicto con la realidad observable, especialmente en temas de identidad de género y biología sexual. En el diálogo, se discute cómo ciertas ideologías intentan redefinir la realidad de las diferencias sexuales, lo cual plantea problemas prácticos y éticos, especialmente cuando estas ideologías impactan áreas como el deporte, la seguridad y los derechos de las mujeres.

💡Sexo

El concepto de sexo es central en la discusión, definido como una categoría biológica basada en la estructura reproductiva y los cromosomas. La conversación enfatiza la naturaleza binaria del sexo (masculino y femenino) y cómo esta realidad biológica es incontrovertible, desafiando las afirmaciones de que el sexo es un espectro o socialmente construido.

💡Transgénero

El término transgénero se refiere a las personas cuya identidad de género difiere del sexo asignado al nacer. En el video, se explora cómo la experiencia transgénero y las ideologías que rodean la identidad de género se encuentran con la realidad biológica del sexo, y se cuestiona cómo la afirmación de identidades transgénero en ciertos contextos puede complicar la comprensión y la aplicación de conceptos de sexo biológico.

💡Identidad de género

La identidad de género se discute como la percepción personal de uno mismo en relación con el género, que puede o no alinearse con el sexo biológico de una persona. La conversación en el video aborda cómo la noción de identidad de género choca con la realidad biológica del sexo y cómo esta tensión se manifiesta en la sociedad, el derecho y la política.

💡Derechos de las mujeres

Los derechos de las mujeres se mencionan en el contexto de cómo las políticas de identidad de género pueden afectar espacios y oportunidades destinados a mujeres. Se discute la preocupación de que permitir la autoidentificación de género sin considerar el sexo biológico podría socavar los derechos y protecciones específicas destinadas a las mujeres, especialmente en áreas como el deporte, la seguridad y los espacios privados.

💡Espacios de un solo sexo

Los espacios de un solo sexo se discuten como áreas designadas para ser utilizadas exclusivamente por un sexo, como baños y vestuarios. El diálogo destaca cómo la intrusión de individuos del sexo opuesto en estos espacios, bajo afirmaciones de identidad de género, plantea problemas de seguridad, privacidad y comodidad para las mujeres, enfatizando la importancia de preservar estos espacios por razones de seguridad y derechos.

💡Autoidentificación de género

La autoidentificación de género se refiere al proceso por el cual una persona declara su género sin necesidad de evidencia o confirmación externa. En el diálogo, se cuestiona la práctica de permitir la autoidentificación de género para cambiar documentos legales o acceder a espacios segregados por sexo, debido a las posibles implicaciones para la seguridad y los derechos de las mujeres.

💡Deporte femenino

El deporte femenino se menciona en el contexto de cómo la inclusión de atletas transgénero (hombres biológicos que se identifican como mujeres) podría afectar la equidad y la competitividad. Se discute la preocupación de que permitir a estos atletas competir en categorías femeninas basadas en la identidad de género, en lugar del sexo biológico, podría darles una ventaja injusta, socavando el propósito de tener categorías deportivas separadas para hombres y mujeres.

💡Libertad de expresión

La libertad de expresión se aborda en el marco de cómo el debate sobre género e identidad de género a menudo se encuentra con la censura o el etiquetado de ciertas opiniones como 'transfóbicas'. Se destaca la importancia de mantener la libertad de expresión para discutir y cuestionar críticamente las implicaciones de las políticas de identidad de género en la realidad, los derechos y la ciencia.

Highlights

Introduction to the concept of the 'religion of reality' by a guest, highlighting the conflict between science, reality, and certain oppositions.

Helen Joyce discusses her background, from aspiring dancer to PhD in mathematics, and her transition to journalism and advocacy.

The inspiration behind Helen Joyce's book 'Trans: When Ideology Meets Reality' and the complexities of gender identity.

Discussion on the binary nature of sex and its clear distinction from the continuum of other human characteristics.

Exploration of the distortion of language in the context of gender identity and its implications on society.

Highlighting the opposition faced by those questioning gender self-identification policies and the labeling of such inquiries as bigotry.

Insights into the psychological and societal impacts of gender identity issues on children and adolescents.

The phenomenon of peer pressure among young people to identify as gay or trans to fit in, and the questioning of one's sexual orientation.

The role of teachers and educational materials in promoting gender identity exploration among young children.

Critical examination of the concept of gender self-identification and its impact on women's spaces and rights.

Personal stories of detransitioners and the consequences of medical interventions on gender dysphoric youth.

Discussion on the evolutionary and biological significance of sex, challenging the narrative of gender fluidity.

Examination of the legal and social pressures to conform to the dominant gender identity ideology.

The controversial inclusion of trans athletes in women's sports and its fairness.

The struggle of maintaining a rational discourse on sex and gender identity amidst accusations of bigotry and political polarization.

The foundation and purpose of the advocacy organization Sex Matters, co-founded by Maya Forstater.

Transcripts

play00:11

Welcome to the poetry of reality. I don't  have a religion, but I think if I had one,  

play00:16

it would be the religion of reality. And it's  a pleasure to, uh, meet Helen Joyce here as  

play00:23

I haven't met her before. I wanted to meet  her ever since reading her wonderful book,  

play00:27

Trans, when ideology meets reality.  Uh, science is all about reality,  

play00:35

and science and reality have come up  against some competition, some opposition,  

play00:41

and Helen has been in the forefront of  fighting against some of this opposition. 

play00:50

There's a character in a a Kingsley Amis novel,  I think, who gets interviewed on television,  

play00:56

and the interviewer tells him who he is and  what he does and how long he's done it. So,  

play01:03

um, that's a typical trope of television to to to  tell the interviewee about herself. But I'm going  

play01:10

to ask Helen to introduce herself very briefly. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me on.  

play01:16

Well, I work, um, for a an advocacy  organization called Sex Matters now,  

play01:21

but my background has been rather varied. So when  I was a little girl, I wanted to be a dancer,  

play01:25

and I actually went off to dance school  when I left school at 16. And after 2 years,  

play01:30

realized that wasn't a great idea and went and  did a a degree in maths in Trinity College Dublin. 

play01:35

And I stayed and did my master's in Cambridge  and my PhD in maths at UCL in London, and then  

play01:41

spent 3 years doing post doc in mathematics  before changing course and going into public  

play01:45

understanding of maths and science. And then in  2005, I joined The Economist as the education  

play01:51

correspondent, and I spent 17 years there doing  various jobs Along the way, living in Brazil as  

play01:56

a foreign correspondent and then becoming  an editor of various sections of the paper,  

play02:00

including the international and finance  sections. And one fateful day in 2017,  

play02:06

the editor sat down beside me at lunch and  said, why do the kids keep coming home and  

play02:10

saying such and such is trans? And I said, I  have no idea. Shall I look into it for you? 

play02:15

And my first attempt to find an author, I  found somebody who had been through a lot of  

play02:19

queer theory and gender studies at university and  managed to write 3 pages about people identifying  

play02:24

as male or female, man or woman, without ever  mentioning that sex is about reproduction and that  

play02:30

the sexes are reproductive roles and that they're  evolved categories. And I had to bin that piece,  

play02:35

and I ended up writing it myself. And by  this time, I realized that there was a lot  

play02:39

of very odd stuff happening here. And that  turned into my book, which came out in 2021. 

play02:45

It is a very odd phenomenon because, um,  I'm used to continue wherever I look. I  

play02:51

mean there's tall versus short, fat versus  thin, old versus young. All these things  

play02:56

are a smooth continuum. The one thing that  isn't is sex. I mean sex really is binary. 

play03:03

There's no question about it. You're either male  or female and it's absolutely clear. You can do it  

play03:07

on gamete size. You can do it on chromosomes.  Um, and so it is, to me, as a biologist,  

play03:14

distinctly weird that people can simply  declare I am a woman, though I have a penis. 

play03:24

Um, that that seems to me to be a strange  distortion of language because we language  

play03:30

is useful as something to express your thoughts  clearly. And so I'm bewildered by it, and I was  

play03:38

fascinated to read your book and and I learned  tremendous lot from it. While I'm about it,  

play03:42

I could recommend a couple of other books.  Irreversible damage by Abigail Shrier,  

play03:50

um, about the particularly focusing on young  girls and how they get misled. And this one,  

play03:58

Material Girls by Kathleen Stocker,  I've I've listened to this on audio,  

play04:02

so I don't have a physical copy of the book. So I printed out because I got a cover  

play04:06

of it. Helen, what do you think lies  behind this odd distortion of reality? 

play04:17

So that was basically the question that got  me into this in the first place. And, I mean,  

play04:22

I've been thinking really almost full  time about this for about 5 years now,  

play04:25

and I don't have a pat answer for you. I  think, like, a lot of interesting phenomena,  

play04:29

it's a lot of things. I would say that  when I started to write about it first,  

play04:34

I quickly realized that this wasn't treated the  same way as anything else. Like, just asking very  

play04:38

obvious questions, Like, um, don't you think that  if we allow people to self identify their sex,  

play04:43

this will lead to, for example, destroying women's  sports or putting rapists in women's jails? 

play04:49

People would turn this back on me and say,  you think that trans people are predators,  

play04:53

or you think that trans people are in  bad faith, you're a bigot. And I hadn't  

play04:56

experienced this before in, at that  point, about 14 years as a journalist. 

play05:01

That's a willful misunderstanding, isn't it? Yes. It is. It is willful misunderstanding. Um,  

play05:06

and I mean, I slowly became aware that  what we were talking about here was an  

play05:10

intensely linguistic movement. Like,  there isn't a sense in which a man  

play05:13

can become a woman except linguistically. Like, yes. Okay. He can have operations and  

play05:18

people some people do. Most trans people don't  have any operations, don't take any medicine,  

play05:22

don't have any genital surgery.  But that doesn't change your sex. 

play05:26

I mean, the reason the female eunuch is called  that is that Germaine Greer was pointing at the  

play05:31

way that the man is seen as the full human  and the woman is seen as the lacking human.  

play05:35

She is a female eunuch. She's a man that you've  castrated. But actually, female people aren't  

play05:41

male people lacking something, you know, or  male people lacking something with a little  

play05:45

grow bag that you pop a baby out of every now and  then. Know, female people are their own category. 

play05:50

Female and male are actually  very profound categories. They're  

play05:52

profound biological evolved categories. Well, evolutionarily, they have to be.  

play05:56

That's a it's it's a the gift of giving  birth is something that that pervades the 

play06:02

Yes. Uh, the whole, um,  

play06:04

anatomy and physiology and psychology, actually. Exactly. And if you're a mammal,  

play06:08

every part of your body is female.  Like, earthworms have both parts,  

play06:12

you know. Yes. But, you know, my hands are female. My jaw is female. It's not just that I have,  

play06:17

you know, I'm a man with a uterus popped in and  no penis. But so it was the only sense in which  

play06:22

a man can can become a woman or a woman  can become a man is by saying so. It's a  

play06:26

speech utterance. And so I've come to see I  think there are many things happening here. 

play06:30

There's things happening in medicine, in politics.  But one of the things that's happening is a long  

play06:36

run, maybe 2 or 3 century move towards seeing  categories and classification as inherently  

play06:45

oppressive. So people think, you know,  you know, heteronormative is a bad thing,  

play06:52

or they think that, um, you know, the traditional  family is constraining. And they miss the point  

play06:59

that these things often like, when I say  evolved, I don't mean, like, ev evolutionary  

play07:04

biology. I mean that they they they came to be  over significant amounts of time for a reason,  

play07:09

and they're supportive as well as constraining. But everything that's structured or categorized  

play07:15

or named or classified, that's now seen as  something imposed upon people. So somebody  

play07:21

like Judith Butler, for example, who's the  queer theorist who wrote Gender Trouble,  

play07:25

which is kind of the foundational text that  academia uses when looking at these issues,  

play07:30

says that gender is, uh, is an imitation for which  there is no original, that she doesn't see sex.  

play07:37

She says sex is socially constructed, and gender  is the real thing. And there isn't any foundation  

play07:43

for gender. It's just something that's made  meaningful by performing it over and over again. 

play07:47

Now I hadn't come across this at university. As I  say, I studied mathematics. And, uh, you know, I  

play07:52

spent my time proving theorems and defining my  terms very carefully. So I was blissfully ignorant  

play07:57

of the fact that significant numbers of young  people are being taught this sort of nonsense.  

play08:01

But they come out of it thinking that somebody  who says, look, there are 2 sexes and the sex that  

play08:06

you are is the sex that you were conceived as. They think that what you're doing is imposing  

play08:10

social roles on them. So I was brought up to think  that what was liberatory and what was progressive  

play08:18

was to say, well, this little person is a girl.  Let's not let her stop. Let's not let that stop  

play08:23

her doing anything. She could be an astronaut. She could be president. Well, I 

play08:26

mean, I think we were all sort of when I  I was brought up to think that you could  

play08:31

do whatever you wanted to. You you have the  power to to to, as you said, be an astronaut,  

play08:35

be be whatever you damn will like. And it's  as though this trend now is reverting to  

play08:42

stereotyped. Girls like pink and boys like blue  and boys like playing with with Meccano sets and  

play08:50

girls like playing with dolls. And and it's a  stereotyping which I kind of revolt against,  

play08:57

and yet it seems to be increasingly fashionable. Absolutely. And it's worse than just the  

play09:02

old fashioned stereotyping that would have  said, look, this child is definitely a boy,  

play09:06

and if he doesn't like rugby and so on, well, he's  a poofter, and let's bully him. It's now saying  

play09:12

he's actually a girl. Yes. 

play09:14

So, you know, there's the pink and the blue  boxes have been re, uh, structured and remade  

play09:19

and reinforced, and a child who doesn't fit  into the one that's for the sex that they were,  

play09:23

inverted commas, assigned at birth, we have to  pop them into the other one. And if you call  

play09:27

them out on this, they say, no. No. No. No. No. That's gender expression. That's gender  

play09:31

roles you're talking about. We're talking  about gender identity, which is a sort  

play09:35

of an a positive innate knowing that you pop into  the world with. But nobody pops into the world  

play09:41

knowing that sort of thing about themselves. Children learn it from the stereotypes. They  

play09:45

self examine and match themselves against the  stereotypes. So now we say to little, you know,  

play09:50

what you used to call a sissy boy, you know,  that little boy now thinks that he's meant to be  

play09:54

a girl. And teachers may say that's not what I'm  telling him, but it is what they're telling him. 

play09:59

Yes. I'm just very upset to see evidence from your  book and others that teachers and doctors perhaps  

play10:07

are latching onto a child who's expresses the  slightest doubt about this, and then it affirms  

play10:15

them as being the opposite gender to their sex. I mean, it's worse than that they latch onto it.  

play10:22

They suggest sell it. Yes. 

play10:24

You know, these books for 2 and 3 and 5  year olds say you must examine your gender. 

play10:30

I've got here a quote from a a a girl from  America. I think she must have been about  

play10:35

12 when this happened to her. She was in  she says I was in a very liberal school,  

play10:42

and she says there was so much peer pressure to  either be gay or trans at this school. Basically,  

play10:48

it felt like you weren't cool if you were  heterosexual. This made me even question myself  

play10:53

quite a few times even though I'm heterosexual. I know that this pressure can be real for so  

play10:58

many children. Some of them actually be gay  or trans, and I will definitely support them  

play11:03

and fight for them in the end. But that's pretty  young to be labeling myself in any permanent way,  

play11:08

in my opinion. She was a very bright  girl. She's actually written books,  

play11:13

uh, about about science for for children. I was very, very impressive, and I was  

play11:19

really depressed to read her letter that that  there there is peer pressure and even teacher  

play11:24

pressure to really go against reality. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. And teachers  

play11:33

think that they're being progressive. You know? So in this country, we don't have a syllabus  

play11:37

for sex ed, for relationships and sex ed. There's  some sort of very vague things that you're meant  

play11:43

to cover, like the fact the facts about sex  and gender identity or the facts about sexual  

play11:48

orientation and gender identity without telling  you what those facts are. I don't think there are  

play11:52

any facts about gender identity. And so there  are these external providers who are basically  

play11:56

lobby groups that write unbelievably inaccurate  materials and then sell them to schools. So I've  

play12:03

seen short videos and they're so nicely made. There's one by, um, a guy called who calls  

play12:07

himself Ollie and his sidekick is a  balloon, and they call themselves Pop  

play12:10

and Ollie. And Pop and Ollie, you know, it's  very bright and colorful, and they're like,  

play12:15

your sex is the best guess that a doctor had when  you were born. They looked at you and guessed. 

play12:20

We're guest? Guest, guest. We're  

play12:23

waiting for you. Wait a 

play12:24

minute. They guessed your sex. You you had a penis and yet they guessed. 

play12:28

Yeah. They so they often doctor. Yeah.  They often conflate this fact that there  

play12:32

are people who have differences or disorders of  sex development. There's a tiny number of people. 

play12:36

I mean, a few people do need investigations  to 0.2%. Exactly. Exactly. And even then,  

play12:41

you know, mostly, they're getting investigated for  conditions that don't cast out on their sex. It's  

play12:46

just their genitals have not developed normally. Yeah. So, I mean, probably about half a dozen  

play12:50

people a year in this country, in Britain, have  their sex assigned at birth. The rest of us,  

play12:54

the doctor writes it down. Anyway, so it says,  you know, so the doctor guesses your sex and then  

play12:59

when you're old enough, you get the chance to tell  everybody what sex you are. Are you male, female,  

play13:04

a boy in regard, or something else in between? And then and then stars come behind them and  

play13:09

it looks like you're going through the galaxy  and it says, or something else entirely. And  

play13:14

we get off this this putative sex spectrum down  here. And what do you meant to make of this if  

play13:19

you're 8? Like Right. First off, that you're very  boring if you think that you're a boy or a girl. 

play13:24

But also, you're just given no hints as to what  this gender thing is. So you look around and you  

play13:28

see Barbie and GI Joe and, you know, that sort of  thing. And you say, well, I don't like Barbie. I  

play13:34

might be a boy. It's incredibly regressive. Yes. Somewhere in your book, there's a a  

play13:42

story about a a mother who said who had 8  children, and she said, and not a single  

play13:47

one of them is boring sis. Is that is that what what she said? So so cis is this very new coinage  

play13:54

that's, uh, with by analogy with trans. Yes.  Because what they don't want is you saying, you  

play13:58

know, real women and trans women, or normal women  and trans women, or actual women and trans women.  

play14:03

They want there to be 2 types of women, so they  need asymmetric words to trans, and that is cis. 

play14:08

Cis. Yeah. On the same side of. 

play14:10

Yes. And so this, uh, this woman, I found this  

play14:12

quote in an enclosed Facebook group in America  for parents of trans kids. Uh, somebody gave  

play14:18

me a password into it, and I lurked there for a  while and watched. And there were doctors, gender  

play14:22

doctors in there suggest selling treatments,  answering questions with extremely inaccurate  

play14:27

information, like claiming that science is settled  on things that it's not. But mostly what you saw  

play14:32

was the parents reinforcing each other's false  beliefs. So a new parent will come in and go, hi. 

play14:37

You know, my my great little my great  little trans boy, which is a girl,  

play14:41

you know, she's 4. I'm learning so much from  her. Sorry. Um, I forget forgotten which way  

play14:45

around of having this child. Let's say it's  really a girl, and this girl says she's a boy. 

play14:50

You know? My little trans guy, I'm learning  so much from him, but I'm just wondering,  

play14:53

like, I I'm a bit worried about socially  transitioning him in case I'm leading him  

play14:57

on the path to medicalization. And then people  will love bomb her and come in and say, wow,  

play15:02

great to have you here with us. Love bomb, that is what, um,  

play15:05

religious cults do. Uh, they they love  bomb is the phrase I actually use, I think. 

play15:11

Yes. That's right. And then if you if you  step out of line, if at any point you say,  

play15:15

well, I'm not going to do whatever the thing is, 

play15:18

and you are just gonna get piled on and you  will get kicked out. Yeah. And the thing that  

play15:22

these people use more than anything  else is the emotional blackmail of  

play15:26

telling you that if you don't get with the  program, your child will kill themselves. 

play15:30

Now that is appalling because that  because well, put it another way,  

play15:34

the evidence for that had better be damn  good. Otherwise, it is the most appalling  

play15:39

blackmail. How good is the evidence? I mean,  the evidence that it does lead to suicide. 

play15:43

It doesn't. So the important thing to understand  is that the reason they say suicide, it's not  

play15:49

just that it's emotional blackmail. It's that  they're suggesting that you put your child on  

play15:52

a pathway that leads to sterility. Because if you  put a child on puberty blockers early in puberty  

play15:59

and then you put them on cross sex hormones, at  some point, we don't know exactly when, but maybe  

play16:02

20 or 21, you've missed your opportunity.  Your own sex organs are not going to grow. 

play16:07

You are not going to be a person who can  conceive or impregnate somebody else. So  

play16:12

they're sterilizing children, and the only reason  you would ever do that is to save a child's life. 

play16:16

Save her. So so it has to be Yeah. It has to be death. It has to be death  

play16:19

or sterility. Yes. 

play16:21

So that's why suicide. Now there are not  a lot of children committing suicide,  

play16:25

thankfully. It's very, very rare in minors  to commit suicide. So that's the first bit  

play16:28

of evidence that this is not true. There's  an enormous boom in trans identification. 

play16:32

There has been no concomitant boom in suicide,  again, thankfully. But there have actually been  

play16:38

a few papers that have looked at children who  are on the waiting list for gender clinics. And  

play16:44

what they have found is that these children, you  know, they do have a lot of mental comorbidities,  

play16:48

mental health comorbidities. So you are  seeing higher rates of depression, anxiety, 

play16:52

even disorders. So that's there anyway, and  they're depressed anyway or or Yes. Or bulimic or 

play16:58

or something like that. They say that, of  course, that it's it's, you know, the stress,  

play17:02

the minority stress that's causing these things,  but there's no evidence that that's true. It's  

play17:06

at least as probable, and I would say much more  probable, that a child who's looking for solutions  

play17:11

to feeling miserable and is suggest sold that  if you're trans, you can re reinvent yourself,  

play17:16

you know, you're like a phoenix, you'll rise from  the ashes a new person, all your problems will  

play17:20

be left behind. So, yes, though so so the suicide  rate is and the self harm rate is a little higher  

play17:26

than it is in the general population, but not  out of line for mental health conditions. Yeah. 

play17:31

And and important to say, there is  literally no evidence that transitioning  

play17:35

the child will will decrease that risk. Yes. So so it does seem like terrible emotional  

play17:42

blackmail. People like you who are standing up  about this, mostly women, I suppose, are getting  

play17:48

an awful lot of persecution. Um, I think you're  very brave. And and, um, JK Rowling's very brave. 

play17:56

Kathleen Stock's very brave. Maya  Forstater is very brave. Is that  

play18:00

how you pronounce it? Yes. It is. Yes. What gives you the courage? 

play18:04

I mean, that's I don't want to answer for  anybody else, although I work with Maya daily,  

play18:08

so I sort of see where she comes from in it. And I  know Kathleen and I've met Jo Rowling. Uh, it's my  

play18:13

privilege to have met her. In my case, I was lucky  to work somewhere that has a very collegiate and,  

play18:22

uh, rigorously intellectual atmosphere, namely The  Economist. But even there, of course, there were  

play18:27

people who didn't agree that I should be speaking  about this, and it was awkward on occasion. 

play18:31

I would say in my case, I was in too deep. Yeah.  So far, I was stacked and blurred that there was  

play18:38

no way back. You know? Like, I I before I  knew that this was going to be a problem,  

play18:41

I was so far in that I couldn't get back. And then I, um, I was, you know, I was quite  

play18:47

I was quite negative about it. I really felt  something very bad was happening. And, you know,  

play18:51

all the people who think that something very bad  has happened, they'll pick a different bit of it.  

play18:55

They'll say it's about free speech or it's about  women's rights or it's about children's health  

play18:59

or it's about just, you know, basic reality or  sanity. And it was all of those things for me. 

play19:04

But then I went to an event at which,  um, some detransitioners were speaking,  

play19:08

and this would have been, I think, late 2019.  And I found it a profoundly upsetting event.  

play19:16

So at this one in particular, there were 6  young women. Of course, there are boys who  

play19:20

transition and detransition too, but this was 6  young women, all of whom had thought they were  

play19:23

boys. And they were all of them lesbians who had  been misled by their early gender nonconformity  

play19:29

into thinking they must be boys, and they had  gone various stages down the medical pathway. 

play19:34

And one of them who was 23 was this very  articulate young woman who had suffered from  

play19:39

anorexia in her teens, and at 18, had stumbled  upon the idea that she was trying to starve away  

play19:44

her curves because she was meant to be a boy. And  by 21, she had all her sex organs removed and was  

play19:50

on testosterone. She had no breasts, no uterus, no  ovaries. She had a beard. Her hair was receding. 

play19:55

And by 23, when she still wasn't feeling any  better, when she still had an eating disorder,  

play20:01

she one day had the thought, how can  an operation, namely a hysterectomy,  

play20:07

that only a woman can have turn me into an Anne?  And that bounced her all the way back to I am a  

play20:15

woman. That is just a fact about me. And so I sat  there and I listened to these young women. And,  

play20:21

you know, I have a very soft spot for gay kids. I have a gay son myself. He's never had gender  

play20:26

dysphoria. It's important to say that. He's never  had any theory that he's a girl or anything like  

play20:30

that. But I have a soft spot for these kids  because they're quite nonconforming and,  

play20:35

you know, finding their way finding your  way as a teenager is difficult anyway. 

play20:39

But for these kids, it's a little bit more  difficult. Because as they're growing up,  

play20:43

they're also realizing they're different. I mean, how many of these children do  

play20:47

you think are just simply gay anyway? Well, I mean, according to the Tavistock  

play20:51

Clinic, which is the UK's main gender  identity clinic for children, uh, the  

play20:55

great majority of the children they see are same  sex attracted. There's a strong statistic there. 

play20:59

Been perfectly happy Yes. Going up as Yes. So we are turning potentially healthy gay  

play21:05

adults into sterile straight  simulacra of the opposite sex. 

play21:09

And one of the points you make, I think, is that  that there are certain parents who would rather  

play21:13

have a trans child than a gay child and Yes. 

play21:18

Is is that part of the motivation? Yeah. And I don't think it's always  

play21:21

stated upfront Um, you know, some people think  that that's very implausible. But I think that  

play21:27

they they don't realize the dynamic in some  families and in some cultures as in, you know,  

play21:32

local cultures and school or whatever. It's  really hard to be gender non conforming. Like,  

play21:37

right bone deep gender non conforming. I don't mean someone like me who's a fairly normal  

play21:41

woman but did a PhD in maths. I mean somebody that  everything about your style and your taste and  

play21:47

the way you move and your interests just really  screams, you know, camp for your boy or butch if  

play21:53

you're a girl. And you have to have you have to be  let a lot of freedom to be yourself and not a lot  

play22:00

you know, nothing has to be made of this by the  grown ups around you. And as things start to be  

play22:05

made about it, you start to question yourself  and think, like, why am I so different? Like,  

play22:09

why am I a boy who only likes the girls? And why am I a girl who only likes the  

play22:13

boys? What's wrong with me? And then  the thought comes up in your own mind,  

play22:17

was I meant to be a girl? Was I meant to be  a boy? We knew this already in about 2000. 

play22:22

The research had been done. The the the the  papers have been examined. We know that the gender  

play22:27

nonconformity comes first in these kids, and the  gender dysphoria, the distress, is a result of the  

play22:34

gender nonconformity and the meaning that is made  of that. So if no meaning is made of it, you just  

play22:39

grow up. And you might be an unusual straight  person, but you're quite likely to be gay. 

play22:44

But if a lot of meaning is made out of it, you  interpret that as being that there's a woman  

play22:47

inside or there's a man inside. And then the  people around you may think that too. And your  

play22:52

parents may find this very hard. Like a man who's  always wanted a boy to take to the football and,  

play22:59

you know, he he can with the best will in the  world, he may fail to not seem disappointed. Yeah. 

play23:05

And the same with the mother who wanted a daughter  who went to ballet and to go shopping with and so  

play23:09

on, and she gets some little rough and tumble  character who just wants tree climbing and  

play23:12

rugby. You get the impression that you're a  big disappointment to your parents and this  

play23:17

dynamic can unfold between them both. And what  you need is family therapy really, from someone  

play23:23

supportive to point this out to you and to guide  you gently through. And instead, you end up in  

play23:28

a gender clinic, and they say, oh, your child's  gender identity. Oh, you have a little trans boy. 

play23:32

You have a little trans girl. Yeah. Whereas in in the  

play23:36

past, we would have just said, well, well,  she she's a tomboy and and and you know? 

play23:40

Well, with a girl, you would have. Poor old boys.  The boys, they tried to straighten them out. 

play23:44

Yes. Yes. Horrible. Yes. But the girls was much easier. You just  

play23:47

let them out, tell them to climb some trees, and Yes. 

play23:49

You know, look back when they're 16. Yes. Um, I'm perfectly happy to, um,  

play23:54

address a trans person by their preferred name  and prefers preferred pronouns. I think it's  

play23:59

just a matter of politeness really. Um,  what I object to is the insistence that  

play24:07

I am a woman. I mean you're not a woman. You're you're I'm perfectly prepared to  

play24:11

call you she if you if you if you like, and  call you whatever your preferred name is.  

play24:17

But to say I am a woman is a debauching of  language, and that's where I draw the line. 

play24:23

I've become much more hard line on this, and I  would like not to be. I would like I would have  

play24:27

started where you are. But what I've learned is  that somebody who expects to be called she also  

play24:33

expects the words woman and female and mother  and sister and daughter. And it's very hard if  

play24:40

you give away sexed language to explain why this  person cannot, in all circumstances, be treated  

play24:46

as a woman. So often people do this preamble. It it happens to me less now, but 2 years ago  

play24:51

when my book came out, it happened a lot.  They would give a preamble to any interview  

play24:54

with me in which they said, uh, you know,  of course, neither of us is transphobic,  

play24:58

and we're very happy to use people's names and  pronouns and treat you as a woman or treat you  

play25:03

as a man. And I started to think, like, what do  you mean by treat somebody as a man or a woman?  

play25:07

Because we've got rid of all the unjust and  un, uh, unjustifiable differences between the  

play25:12

sexes and the way we treat people now. Yeah. Uh, we've equalized pension age. You know,  

play25:17

my mother had to leave her job when she got  married in the Irish civil service because  

play25:20

there was a ban on married women. We've got rid  of all that stuff. And now treating somebody as  

play25:25

a woman means either I just noticed that  they're a woman in a in a in a space like  

play25:30

any other space where it just doesn't actually  matter what what sex people are, or it means  

play25:34

we're in a single sex space and they shouldn't be there. Luckily, I'll come on to that in a moment. 

play25:39

But if you want to try and explain why  you have to use sex based language,  

play25:42

so I have to say the reason this person  cannot come in here is because he is a man. 

play25:46

Yes. And if I say she, I'm already selling 

play25:50

the thing. Yeah. For me, it is. Do you make  a distinction between people who've gone  

play25:55

through the ordeal of surgery and and and being  castrated or whatever and and having their breasts  

play26:02

removed or whatever, and people who just simply  stand up and say, I am a woman or I am a man. Um,  

play26:08

it it does seem to me that there's also  a sense you sort of paid your dues if  

play26:12

you've if you've if you've subjected yourself to  I mean, you're you're really serious about it. 

play26:17

You're really earnest about it. You're not  just frivolously standing up and saying I've  

play26:21

decided I'm a woman today sort of thing. I don't make any distinction because I  

play26:25

don't think that being a woman or a man is  the sort of thing that you pay a price to  

play26:30

be. Yes. It's just a very base fact about  you. But more than that, um, you know,  

play26:35

in a space where a man is not supposed to be, I  don't know whether he's been castrated or not. I'm  

play26:40

telling from his secondary sex features, and they  don't change if he's been through the surgery. 

play26:44

But the other reason is that in international  human rights law, there can't be any distinction  

play26:49

on the basis of whether the person has been  castrated because it's basic it's a basic  

play26:53

principle that's been, uh, adjudicated on now in  several courts is that you can't make something  

play26:59

conditional on getting yourself sterilized  because it's human rights abuse to do that.  

play27:04

So if you say to people, uh, you, you know,  you've paid your dues if you cut the bits off,  

play27:10

and that'll give you the the reward is that we'll  now treat you as a woman or we'll treat you as a  

play27:14

man. You are inducing people to go through a  really horrific surgery that is and to give  

play27:21

up Oh, yes. Or something. Yeah. So that cannot be a legal line. 

play27:25

No. And then the last  

play27:26

thing I'd say is, like, they paid their dues to  whom? Like Well I I know like, to the other people  

play27:31

around them. You know? Yes. If you come into  a women's space, who have you paid your dues 

play27:35

to, like, just sterilized? Is  the wrong phrase, but but but No. 

play27:38

I heard it before. You've shown you're you're serious  

play27:40

about it. You've showed you've shown that you're,  I mean, somebody who let let's talk about sports  

play27:45

for for a moment. Somebody who who's who's  a a a moderately good swimmer as a as a man,  

play27:50

but kind of mediocre, and then suddenly just  says, I am a woman. Yes. And because he says  

play27:55

I'm a woman, he's then allowed to go and  break all the records of female swimming. 

play28:02

That seems to me to be unserious. You're you're  just saying you're you're you're a woman because  

play28:08

you want to say you're a woman, whereas if you've  been if you've been through the surgery But 

play28:13

he's still not a woman, actually. But but but there there's a sort of feeling  

play28:18

that he really means it. He he's sincere about it. I mean, I could say I was sincere about being  

play28:25

astronaut. It doesn't make me an astronaut. And  and the surgery doesn't make any difference to  

play28:29

your, um, your sporting performance. So if  we're protecting what it is to be female in  

play28:34

a sports category, which we are, that's  how sports categories work. You know,  

play28:38

we protect under eighteens, over  30 fives, Paralympians, flyweights. 

play28:43

Yeah. Yeah. The thing that we're protecting is  femaleness, and the fact that a man is very,  

play28:47

very serious in wishing to be seen  as female doesn't move his category. 

play28:51

No. That's true. But okay. Let's take the example  of the astronaut that you just mentioned. Just  

play28:56

say, I I'm an astronaut, and you're obviously not. But if on the other hand, you've gone through the  

play29:01

rigorous training of an astronaut and you've  and you've, you know, put yourself through  

play29:05

all the all the the it's really rather a hard  craft to become an astronaut. You've proved  

play29:12

you're serious about it. But I've also become an  

play29:14

astronaut. So that's the thing. You might not become you might be  

play29:17

not good enough to become an astronaut, but you you tried. Then I would not be an astronaut. No. 

play29:20

You wouldn't be an astronaut,  but but you've you've tried. 

play29:23

Yes. I mean, I just I don't think that male and  female are are prizes for effort. They're just  

play29:29

observations of categories that we are. Yes. Yeah. Okay. 

play29:33

I mean, it keeps the numbers down. There's  that. Yes. But, um, you know, for a long time,  

play29:38

we didn't see trans, like, men who identified  as trans in women's sports because they did  

play29:42

set a surgery rule. And at the time, the surgery  was really only done on people in their forties  

play29:47

and older. Yes. So 

play29:48

you didn't see any prime aged men. And  now that it's just a testosterone level  

play29:53

is all that many of the sporting bodies require  that you lower your testosterone. And I mean,  

play29:57

honestly, they can't check that. It's just a  it's just a paper rule. It's not a real one. 

play30:01

Uh, younger men can identify as women. And  so now we're actually seeing men who are,  

play30:05

you know, pretty good athletes and who  are then world record breakers as women. 

play30:09

Yes. But it's all wrong. Like, if we're protecting the  

play30:12

female category, then no male advantage belongs to us. If there's if we're going to have separate  

play30:16

female, um, athletic competitions  at all, then then Yeah. It doesn't 

play30:21

And if we don't, then there will  be no women who win anything. 

play30:23

Yes. I mean, you could say everything's  open. You're just a human, and you and  

play30:26

you go in for for everything. And then, as  you say, um, women wouldn't wouldn't win 

play30:31

Anything. Yes. Maybe gymnastics. But but  gymnastics is an interesting example because  

play30:36

male and female gymnastics are very different.  Like, the one thing that women really have an  

play30:39

advantage in is flexibility. Yes. 

play30:42

But male male gymnastics, yes, they're  flexible, but mostly they're strong. So they  

play30:46

do very different things. They just do different  events for the men and women. Neither sex would  

play30:51

be any good in the others in these days. Yes. Okay. Um, there's a lot in your book  

play30:56

about changing rooms, so we better we better  talk about that. Tell us a bit about that. 

play31:04

I think another thing that people often give away  when they start to think about this is they think,  

play31:07

well, you know, I understand that you need female  only spaces if they say rape crisis centers or,  

play31:14

you know, really specialist services. But they  think, like, you know, oh, what about public  

play31:17

toilets and maybe even changing rooms like half  cubicles? And they miss the point that these are  

play31:23

sort of mass arrangements for the convenience  of the half of humanity that experiences rape  

play31:28

at the hands of the other half of humanity.  That experiences the 2 most common sex crimes,  

play31:33

which are voyeurism and exhibitionism. And are  just they're an inclusion measure for women. 

play31:39

So the first female public toilets were brought  in so that women didn't experience what was called  

play31:44

the urinary leash, which meant that women had  to stay near the home because they needed to be  

play31:47

able to go. And, you know, I mean, women had to  take off clothing from the bottom half of them  

play31:52

to go to the toilet, men don't. You're quite  vulnerable when you're weeing. And so women in  

play31:57

the Victorian era, like, would have to always be  able be aware that there was somewhere they could  

play32:00

go to wee. Otherwise, they could get assaulted. And it was the it was the factory girls, actually,  

play32:05

who campaigned for the first public toilets.  Because they were they were getting sexually  

play32:09

assaulted if they tried to weed during a  factory day. They weren't able to to work  

play32:13

outside the home. And then you think like all  the special situations that women need, um,  

play32:19

just just ordinary spaces like toilets and  changing rooms for. Like women menstruate. 

play32:25

As I said, women take off more of their clothes  to go to the toilet. We take much longer. Uh,  

play32:30

young girls in particular, like little girls,  are at risk. Like, if you if you're a man who's  

play32:35

out with your daughter who's 6, 7, 8, 9,  and you want to send her to the toilet,  

play32:39

you want to be able to pop her into the  women's loos and know that there's only  

play32:42

women in there. Because she's really at  risk, actually, if it's a mixed sex space. 

play32:47

Then there's Muslim women. And there's women  who have been raped who are who are survivors  

play32:51

of sexual assault and who can have really  serious flashbacks in enclosed spaces if  

play32:56

there are males there with them. And now  we're losing all of these spaces. They're  

play33:00

either going gender neutral or they're going self  ID. Like, they'll put a sign up saying, you know,  

play33:04

use whichever space you feel most comfortable in. And about a year ago at Sex Matters, where I work  

play33:10

with Maya Forstater now, we put out a call for  evidence as to why people cared about single  

play33:14

sex spaces. And we did hear stories about  specialist spaces like rape crisis centers,  

play33:19

but mostly we heard about toilets and changing  rooms. And this phrase got said over and over  

play33:25

again. People wrote us almost essays about  it. They said, you know, I went along to my  

play33:29

local swimming pool, and there's a bloke who calls  himself a woman who's now using the changing room. 

play33:34

And I've never told anybody. I'm in my  fifties now, but I was raped when I was 14,  

play33:38

and I never told anybody. And I found myself in  this enclosed space, and I looked around and there  

play33:42

was this bloke, and I froze. And I remembered  everything terrible that had happened to me,  

play33:48

and I left and I never went back. So women are  being pushed out of public spaces again by the  

play33:55

loss of these spaces that were introduced in  order that we play a full part in public life. 

play34:02

You were telling me, uh, before we started,  uh, so I didn't know that competitive swimmers,  

play34:10

but Olympic types swimmers, have to wiggle into  their streamline swimsuits. And so they don't  

play34:17

just sort of quickly put put it on the way the  rest of us do. They take how long does it take? 

play34:23

Like, it can take up to 40 minutes. So I didn't  know this when I wrote the book or I would have  

play34:27

put it in. So at the time I was writing the book,  and there were a few athletes who were making it  

play34:32

into elite women's sport, who were men. So Laurel  Hubbard was the big example at the time, who's a  

play34:36

weightlifter, a New Zealand weightlifter, a man in  his forties. But in between the hardback and the  

play34:42

paperback, along came Leah or Will Thomas, who's a  young man who's 6 foot 4, who's about 21, 22, and  

play34:49

who started swimming in American college races. And, I mean, it's bad enough when you look. Like,  

play34:55

you see people in their swimsuits. You  can see who's a man and who's a woman,  

play34:58

and he's really towering over the women. And  he doesn't have good technique. You know,  

play35:01

he's just using his shoulder strength and  not even kicking his legs, and he still wins. 

play35:05

And then I heard one of the young women who  had to compete against him describing what  

play35:08

it is like doing competitive swimming.  So they wear these streamlined suits,  

play35:13

and the the the sort of they they're compression  suits that, like, just make you very, um,  

play35:17

cut cut through the water fast. And it's very,  very hard to get on. And the compression doesn't  

play35:21

last all that long, so you change suit  every time you race. And you also don't  

play35:25

wear that suit when you're doing your warm up. And there's dozens of events, you know, all the  

play35:30

different lengths and strokes. And there may be  many competitors in all of them. They're these big  

play35:35

open changing rooms. And you're running in, you  strip completely naked, you put on your practice  

play35:40

suit, you go out, you do your warm up, you  come back and you strip completely naked again,  

play35:43

and then you start this miserable business of  shimmying into your race suit, which is incredibly  

play35:49

tight. And you have to sort of wriggle and bounce  and wriggle and bounce and get it up over your  

play35:52

hips and then wriggle and bounce yourself in,  completely naked through all of this, and all  

play35:56

around you, everyone else is doing the same thing. And there's this 6 foot 4 bloke. And in case  

play36:01

anyone wants to know, no, he  has not had surgery. And no,  

play36:04

there are not cubicles. And no, you cannot hold a  towel in your way. And that's what you're doing. 

play36:08

And these poor girls, like the girls on his  own team at the university that he's at,  

play36:13

but all the women who had to compete against  him, if they complained, they were told that  

play36:17

they were bigots. Riley Gaines, who's the one  of them who's spoken out the most, was warned  

play36:22

by her university that if she kept talking about  it, she would not be taken on to medical school. 

play36:28

Told she's a bigot by somebody  senior in the university? 

play36:33

Yeah. By this by the sports team, by the EDI team  in the university, EDI meaning equity, diversity,  

play36:39

and inclusion, told that they'll be referred  for counseling, the women of the university,  

play36:43

uh, that where where, um, Leah Thomas is I  think it's University of Pennsylvania. The  

play36:48

girl's on his own team, because they complained  anonymously, and they they finally found someone  

play36:52

to send their complaints. And they were told  they would be referred for counseling to learn  

play36:57

to cope with their transphobia. So they  to to, um, to cope with losing basically. 

play37:05

I'm baffled by why this is also one-sided. I I  realize there are 2 different points of view here,  

play37:12

but how has one side managed to kind of capture  the dominant dialogue really, the dominant half  

play37:24

of the dialogue. Yeah. And and constantly, it  comes up that you've if you dissent from that,  

play37:32

you're called a bigot. And so people don't  want to dissent because dissent and so I  

play37:38

don't want to call it cowardice, but but,  um, we it it's it's pardonable, cowardice,  

play37:43

because nobody wants to be called a bigot. But why does all the abuse go one way? Why  

play37:48

does it why is it such a Yeah. Why  does all the bullying go one way? 

play37:52

I I mean, there are so many different  answers to that and, like, you know,  

play37:55

like, I think they all reinforce each other.  And one of them is because this is a linguistic  

play37:59

movement and there is no sense in which Leah  Thomas is a woman except that you say he is,  

play38:04

you must silence people. It's the only way in  which you can keep the fiction going. If people  

play38:07

can say what they see in front of you Only way in which he can keep the fiction going.  

play38:10

Why does he have these betters  than accomplices who Yes. Who, um 

play38:15

I mean, you can't ignore the fact that this  is for the benefit of men. You know? Like,  

play38:21

female sports has always been 5th rate.  Like, it gets much less funding. You know,  

play38:27

these girls are told they're told things  that nobody would tell a male athlete, like,  

play38:31

that, you know, it's for the joy of taking part. Why do you care about winning? I think in America,  

play38:37

it's become so associated with the the very, very  polarized political system. So, you know, the and  

play38:44

everyone everyone tends to take their political  opinions as a package. That's not an American, um,  

play38:49

force solely. But in America, it's so polarized  that they're really very specific packages. 

play38:54

And if you want not to take the the opinion  that gender identity trumps sex, then you're a  

play39:00

Republican. Have to be a conservative Christian.  You have to be anti abortion. You have to think  

play39:04

that women belong at the kitchen. You know? And so if you don't want those things,  

play39:07

well, you've gotta come over here and give up  women's sports and say that men can be women,  

play39:11

and say that, you know, there can be a  female penis and so on. And then, I mean,  

play39:17

there's a sort of an evolutionary point to make  here. Like sometimes when you look at a giraffe  

play39:22

or a platypus or something, and you say how  did this come to be? You could answer that by  

play39:26

sort of going back, and I think you did this  in your beautiful book. Um, which one was it? 

play39:30

The the one where you go back in the the  tree of life backwards, quite thick one. 

play39:34

Oh, The Ancestor's Tale? That's lovely. Yes. That book. So  

play39:37

you can go back and you can you can actually  answer that question, or you can just say,  

play39:40

look. That's how evolution works. Yeah. You know? So we have we have  

play39:44

this is an emerging ideology, some would say  neo religion. And out of the many, many bizarre  

play39:50

things that people could believe, this is the  one that made it. And you could then point at,  

play39:54

you know, the Internet, the arrival of sex change  surgery, the fact that we're all online too much,  

play40:02

uh, social media places where kids congregate  without adults and talk to each other without  

play40:07

adult oversight, the cowardice of the  IOC, the International Olympic Committee,  

play40:11

which is a dreadfully corrupt organization. I mean, you know, it allowed the cheating by  

play40:15

the East German women dopers to go on in in full  sight for 20 years and has never sorted that out  

play40:21

and never taken the medals away from them. You  know, they just don't care. The show keeps on  

play40:25

the road as far as they're concerned. So there's  just all these different things that happened and,  

play40:28

you know, the result is what we see  as opposed to me being able to say,  

play40:32

I would have been able to predict this in  advance. I'd never predicted the platypus either. 

play40:38

Yes. The platypus wasn't believed when it  was first sent to the museum. You know that? 

play40:42

Well, exactly. So this is a platypus in a way. Yes. Is there is there a tension  

play40:46

between when we the LGBT? Yes. Um, is  the is the tea a little bit more I mean,  

play40:53

is there some opposition between the LGB on the  one hand and the tea on the other on the other? 

play40:57

I mean, depends who you ask and depends what you  think these are. If you think these are identities  

play41:03

and especially if you think in American identities  So in in in the American way of thinking,  

play41:08

there is the, you know, the white supremacist,  the the cis het white male who runs the world  

play41:16

and everybody else is oppressed by that person.  And the more ways in which you're oppressed,  

play41:20

kind of the better in this culture. Then LGBTQIA  plus plus, you know, all of those things are,  

play41:26

you know, you're not cishet. Yes. 

play41:29

Meaning cis and heteronorm heterosexual.  On the other hand, if you actually just  

play41:36

think that LGB is a shorthand for people who  aren't heterosexual, like people who are either  

play41:40

homosexual or bisexual. And you understand those  as people who have unusual sexualities, which,  

play41:45

you know, has been until very recently a major  reason that people have been oppressed, like,  

play41:49

as in sent to jail, given electric shocks, cast  out by their families, like really bad things,  

play41:55

then what the hell is tea doing in there?  Yeah. Like, tea tea is an identity. 

play41:59

It's not a sexuality. And more than that,  tea is a an identity that undermines the  

play42:05

very basis of sexuality. Because if you're  trans, you move category, or in your mind,  

play42:11

you move category from male to female, and  that means you change sexuality as well.  

play42:16

So a straight man becomes a lesbian. Yes. And that's not very much what most lesbians  

play42:23

find very helpful for their No. I mean, there is tension lesbians  

play42:28

do feel threatened, I think, don't don't they? Absolutely. Yes. I mean, you could it it works  

play42:33

both ways. Like like a lot of things to do with  sex, you know, formally, it works both ways. Like  

play42:38

a woman who identifies as a man, like a straight  woman who identifies as a man becomes a gay man. 

play42:43

And this is increasingly popular among teenage  girls to identify as gay men. I think they're not  

play42:49

gonna have much success when they get older. It's  not gonna go very well because that's not how gay  

play42:53

culture works. But the other way around,  you've got men who are bigger, stronger,  

play42:58

more sexually aggressive. You know, lesbians  are the people who've always found it hardest  

play43:02

to keep their footing in the alphabet soup. Like, I have a lot of lesbian friends now doing  

play43:06

this work, And they'll tell you that the LGB  groupings never paid attention to their needs.  

play43:10

They paid attention to gay men's needs. And so  now a lesbian only group will often find usually  

play43:16

find itself under pressure to admit heterosexual  men who think of themselves as lesbians. And then  

play43:22

when you add to that the fact that there's a  very common male sexual interest, a fetish,  

play43:26

in cross dressing, and that there are significant  numbers of men who find it very sexy to think of  

play43:31

themselves as lesbians, probably as many of those  as there are actual lesbians. You're like, well,  

play43:37

you know, these people come into your spaces  and now it's not a lesbian space anymore. 

play43:42

Yes. One thing that really pisses me off, it it  it came up a moment ago, is that is that, um,  

play43:48

I've been politically on the left all my life, and  I find myself now being blamed. Somehow, it well,  

play43:59

I I find that that people think I must be right  wing because because the only people who agree  

play44:07

with me about this tend to be politically on the  right. That's not really true, but but they they  

play44:12

they often think it is. I mean, do you find that? I mean, there's a very significant movement  

play44:18

here in the UK on the left of the women who  came up through the unions and to, you know,  

play44:22

very good organizers who are sex realists. And so  I think here in the UK, it's really easy to say,  

play44:29

oh, look at Woman's Place UK. I mean, JK  Rowling, look at her. She's not exactly  

play44:33

right wing. So, you know, it it is often  said that it's an American thing to say. 

play44:37

It's because of the American polarization,  and it's partly Americanization 

play44:41

that I'm said that. That's American. Oh, it gets said to us too. I mean,  

play44:43

I get told I'm funded by the Heritage Foundation,  you know, I'm getting money from shadowy right  

play44:48

wing American groups. I'm not, you know, it's  it's a joke among the women my you know, that  

play44:53

I work with. You know, People always say, have  you got any of your far right money yet? Like,  

play44:57

this must be stuck in the post, you know. No, we haven't. We don't get funding from  

play45:00

them. It is very irritating, and I I suppose I  find it less irritating because I never thought  

play45:06

of myself as either left or right wing. Mhmm.  I wasn't even a left wing student politician. 

play45:11

I'm, um, I've always been a very include me out  person. Like, I I I've I've voted for every party,  

play45:18

every every one of the 3 main parties here.  Honestly don't know who I could vote for now. Uh,  

play45:23

but you will find that in this in this  movement, the the people who are willing  

play45:29

to speak on this issue, um, are often  people who have been through some crucible  

play45:34

beforehand. And those can be good, bad, or  indifferent things as far as I'm concerned. 

play45:38

Lots of Brexiteers, lots of anti vaxxers, uh,  lots of evangelical Christians, people who  

play45:46

have had some formative experience like, I think  probably, used to King with atheist rationalism,  

play45:53

while the new atheist movement degenerated into  gender woo. You know, you've already been cast  

play45:59

out in some way. And if you've already been cast  out, well, you've got used to it. You know what  

play46:03

it's like, and you know that you can survive it.  And so I I do see a lot of very varied people  

play46:08

who have already experienced being cast out. Right. Well, we'd probably better better come  

play46:14

to a close. Would you like to tell us a bit about  your organization, Sex Matters, as we as we close? 

play46:22

Sure. So anyone who's read my book will  have met Maya Forstater, who is the person  

play46:27

I shaped the chapter about Britain, otherwise  known as TERF Island, around TERF being trans  

play46:33

exclusionary radical feminist, and it's what  we get called for believing that sex is real. 

play46:37

Yes. Do do tell Maya's story.  We we we won't won't hear that. 

play46:41

So Maya worked for she was a specialist in  tax, international tax flows and development,  

play46:46

and she worked for a think tank called  the Center For Global Development,  

play46:49

which is based in Washington, and they had a an  arm based in London. And at the time in 2017,  

play46:54

the government was thinking of changing  the law to allow for gender self ID,  

play46:58

meaning that you would be able to get a new  birth certificate stating whichever sex you  

play47:01

liked just by asking. Obviously insane when you  put it like that. But anyway, they were about to  

play47:08

do it. And Maya thought, but in development,  sex is actually a really important variable. 

play47:13

So, you know, maybe we should talk about this.  Maybe we should talk about how gender self ID  

play47:17

destroys the basis on which we do a lot  of the work that we do. And that was fine  

play47:21

initially with her colleagues in London, but  colleagues in America, because all of this  

play47:24

gender stuff comes from America. Yeah. Like everything else. 

play47:27

Yeah. Yeah. We live in America now, all of us.  They complained and said she was transphobic, and  

play47:32

to cut a long story short, she lost her job. So  she went to the employment tribunal, and she lost,  

play47:38

a bit about what end of 2019 that must have been. No. End of 2020, um, as the book was you know,  

play47:47

as I was writing the book. And in the employment  tribunal, the judge, James Taylor, said that her  

play47:52

belief that there are 2 sexes, the sexes are  immutable, and sometimes recognizing that is  

play47:58

important for women's rights, that's her belief,  that was not worthy of respect in a democratic  

play48:03

society. And so she deserved to lose her job.  And, I mean, the way that the law was written,  

play48:07

it's not just deserve to lose her job. It would mean that anyone could discriminate  

play48:10

against her at will. They could turn her away  from a bar. They could refuse to ever employ  

play48:14

her anywhere, provide her with any services  because this is the law that protects us  

play48:19

against discrimination in employment and the in  in provision of goods and services. What he was  

play48:23

saying was that she was a Nazi. She was literally,  literally equivalent to being a Nazi or somebody  

play48:28

who says, we want to bring back slavery. So I I knew Maya by this point, and she's a  

play48:33

very brave woman and very, very dog doggeared. So  she had to go to the Employment Appeal Tribunal,  

play48:39

which the original ruling was overturned in its  entirety. I mean, the judge just didn't know  

play48:44

what he was talking about, and that set precedent.  So now the belief that sex is binary, immutable,  

play48:50

and that matters is a protected belief in UK  employment and provision services. Precedent. 

play48:57

Yes. That precedent is set. So now in a workplace,  if you say, I think we need to have men's and  

play49:03

women's toilets because there are 2 sexes and  women need them, they can't say, you're bigots. 

play49:07

Okay. I I just found in in your book the the  the questions that the lawyer on behalf of the  

play49:14

company that got rid of her asked. Um, on what  basis did she think male people couldn't become  

play49:21

female? Could she name philosophers who agreed  with her? I couldn't remember why philosophers. 

play49:26

What have they got to do with this?  Biologists, you want to ask. How could  

play49:30

she know someone's sex if she hadn't been  present at their birth? Doctors assign sex  

play49:36

by looking at newborns and using guesswork. So she had to answer all of those things under  

play49:41

oath. And, um, the reason it's a philosophy  is because the protected characteristic in the  

play49:46

Equality Act is religion or belief, and she was  claiming a belief. You can't just protect facts. 

play49:52

It does say that at which at which the  room packed with women's support erupted  

play49:56

in laughter. I'm not surprised it erupted in laughter. And then after all of that,  

play49:59

judge Taylor said that, you know, her belief was a  novel belief that was not protected because it was  

play50:04

too harmful to other people's rights. So, anyway,  Maya set up with some lawyers, including, um, her  

play50:10

her her barrister, Anya Palmer, this organization,  Sex Matters, and I left The Economist to go and  

play50:15

work for it because, honestly, I feel in some  ways that this is, you know, a generation defining  

play50:20

battle, actually. Because it's a battle against  reality, as you said, also against free speech,  

play50:26

against women's rights, against gay people's  rights, and it's a battle to keep children  

play50:30

from being indoctrinated because children are  being lied to. All of them, they're being lied  

play50:35

to about their bodies, about human nature, about  sexuality, and they're being misled, all of them. 

play50:40

And for some of them, that's leading them to power and sexuality. Bothers me most, I must say. 

play50:44

Me too. Um, well,  

play50:45

thank you very much, Helen. Once again,  Helen's book is Trans When Ideology Meets  

play50:51

Reality. Thank you very much indeed. Well, thank you for having me on.

Rate This

5.0 / 5 (0 votes)

Etiquetas relacionadas
Debate de géneroCienciaDerechosHelen JoyceRealidadIdeologíaLibertad de expresiónDerechos de las mujeresEducaciónActivismo