How can you get married in the Netherlands🤵👰🏻FAQ | A Filipina Dutch Living

Liez in Holland
15 Aug 202011:08

Summary

TLDRIn this informative video, Liz shares her experience and guides foreigners and expats on the process of marrying a Dutch partner in the Netherlands. She outlines the basic criteria, such as being 18 or older, not currently married, and not related to the partner. The video details the necessary documentation, including birth certificates and passports, and addresses the challenge of obtaining a Certificate of Non-Marriage from abroad. Liz also discusses the importance of document legalization and language requirements. She provides practical advice on scheduling the wedding with the municipality and answers common questions about marriage in the Netherlands, including the possibility of a free wedding and the recognition of same-sex marriages.

Takeaways

  • 😀 The video discusses the process for foreigners and expats to get married in the Netherlands with a Dutch partner.
  • 📜 The minimum criteria for marriage include being 18 or older, not currently married or in a registered partnership, and not closely related to the partner.
  • 📚 Essential documents for marriage include birth certificate, passport, and possibly a certificate of non-marriage from the home country or last place of residence.
  • 🏛️ If previously married, a marriage certificate, divorce papers, or death certificate may be required depending on the situation.
  • 🌐 For documents not in Dutch, English, French, or German, translation and legalization or an apostille stamp are necessary.
  • 📆 Notify the municipality at least two weeks before the planned wedding with an 'undertroon' or notice of intent to marry.
  • 💒 The wedding venue and date are subject to the municipality's availability and the number of guests can vary based on the chosen location.
  • 🅿️ A parking permit for up to five cars, including the bridal car, is required for the wedding.
  • 💰 Fees for the wedding process vary by municipality, and some may offer free weddings with certain restrictions.
  • 🏳️‍🌈 Same-sex marriages are legally recognized and allowed in the Netherlands.
  • ✈️ It is possible to marry in the Netherlands on a tourist visa, but one should not submit an MVV application while on a Schengen visa.

Q & A

  • What are the minimum criteria for getting married in the Netherlands as a foreigner?

    -The minimum criteria include being 18 years old or older, not being married or in a registered partnership, and not being related to your partner in a direct line (parent-child, grandparent-grandchild, or siblings).

  • What documents are typically required for a foreigner to get married in the Netherlands?

    -The required documents may include a birth certificate, passport, two witnesses, a marriage certificate if previously married, divorce papers if separated, a death certificate if a partner is deceased, and a certificate of non-marriage for singles.

  • What is the process if you cannot obtain a Certificate of Non-Marriage from your last place of residence?

    -If you cannot obtain a Certificate of Non-Marriage, you should contact the Dutch municipality where you plan to marry and inform them of the situation. They may accept a Certificate of Non-Marriage from your home country or request a sworn statement of your marital status.

  • How can you ensure your documents are valid for use in the Netherlands?

    -Ensure all documents are attested or have an apostille stamp, and are written in Dutch, English, French, or German. If not, they must be translated and legalized or have an apostille stamp.

  • What is the 'undertroon' and when should it be done?

    -The 'undertroon' is the notice of intent to marry in Dutch. It should be done at least two weeks before the planned wedding date by making an appointment with the municipality.

  • Can you get married in the Netherlands on a tourist visa?

    -Yes, you can get married in the Netherlands on a Schengen visa, but you should not submit an MVV application while your tourist visa is still valid.

  • Is it necessary to pass a basic exam to get married in the Netherlands?

    -No, the basic exam is only required for an MVV application, not for the wedding itself.

  • What are the options if you cannot provide witnesses for your wedding?

    -The municipality can arrange witnesses for you, but there may be an additional fee for this service.

  • Is same-sex marriage allowed in the Netherlands?

    -Yes, same-sex marriage is allowed in the Netherlands.

  • Can you hold a religious wedding ceremony instead of a civil one?

    -You can have a religious ceremony, but it must take place after the civil marriage has been solemnized by a registrar.

  • What should you do if you're planning to get married in the Netherlands and need to know the fees?

    -Check with the specific municipality where you plan to marry, as each may have its own fee schedule. For Alkmaar, the fees can be found via a link in the video description.

Outlines

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🎎 Getting Married in the Netherlands as a Foreigner

Liz introduces her video, explaining that she will discuss the process of marrying a Dutch partner in the Netherlands. She addresses the common questions she has received about her own marriage to her Dutch husband and outlines the criteria and requirements for foreigners and expats. The criteria include being 18 or older, not currently married or in a registered partnership, and not closely related to the partner. Key documents needed are birth certificates, passports, and possibly marriage or divorce papers for previous relationships. Liz also discusses the importance of attested documents and translations if necessary.

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📝 Procedures and Requirements for Marriage in the Netherlands

Liz continues by detailing the steps to notify the municipality of one's intent to marry, known as 'undertrouw' in Dutch. This involves making an appointment and receiving a confirmation letter with a checklist of requirements tailored to the couple's specific situation. She mentions the selection of wedding date, time, and venue, emphasizing the need for a parking permit and discussing fees that vary by municipality. Liz also answers several frequently asked questions, including how to apply for a certificate of non-marriage while abroad, the process of legalizing documents with an apostille, and the possibility of a free wedding in certain municipalities.

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🏛 Additional Considerations for Marriage in the Netherlands

In the final paragraph, Liz addresses additional considerations for marriage in the Netherlands, such as the possibility of marrying on a tourist visa, the non-necessity of passing a basic exam for marriage, and the provision of witnesses by the municipality if the couple cannot provide their own. She confirms that same-sex marriages are allowed and discusses the implications of having dual nationality on the marriage process. Liz concludes by wishing viewers well if they are planning to marry in the Netherlands and encourages them to like, subscribe, and comment with their thoughts.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Expat

An expat, short for expatriate, refers to a person who is living in a country other than their native one. In the context of the video, Liz discusses how expats can marry their Dutch partners in the Netherlands, indicating that she herself might be an expat and is providing advice to others in a similar situation.

💡Netherlands

The Netherlands is the focus of the video as the location where the marriage procedures are being discussed. It is a country in Northwestern Europe known for its liberal policies, and the video specifically addresses the process of getting married there as a foreigner.

💡Criterias

Criterias are the specific requirements or standards that must be met for a particular purpose, in this case, to get married in the Netherlands. The video outlines the criterias that the couple needs to meet, such as age, marital status, and relation, to be eligible for marriage.

💡Documentation

Documentation refers to the official papers or certificates required to prove certain facts, such as identity or eligibility. The video emphasizes the importance of proper documentation for marriage, including birth certificates, passports, and certificates of non-marriage.

💡MVV

MVV stands for 'Machtiging tot Voorlopig Verblijf', which is a residence permit for non-EU nationals who wish to come to the Netherlands to live with their Dutch partner. The video contrasts the MVV application process with the marriage process, noting that marriage criterias are less complicated.

💡Certificate of Non-Marriage

A Certificate of Non-Marriage is a document that proves an individual is not currently married. Liz explains that she had to obtain this certificate from both her home country, the Philippines, and her last place of residence, Dubai, to satisfy Dutch marriage requirements.

💡Apostille

An Apostille is a form of authentication issued to documents for international legal use. The video mentions that documents need to be attested or have an Apostille stamp to be valid abroad, which is a crucial step in ensuring that foreign documents are recognized in the Netherlands.

💡Municipality

In the context of the video, the municipality refers to the local government office where couples must register their intent to marry. The municipality provides a checklist of requirements and handles the administrative aspects of the marriage process.

💡Undertrouw

Undertrouw is a Dutch term mentioned in the video, which translates to 'notice of intent to marry'. It is the process of notifying the municipality of one's intention to marry, which must be done at least two weeks before the planned wedding.

💡Schengen Visa

A Schengen Visa allows a person to travel to any members of the Schengen Area for up to 90 days for tourism, family visits, or business purposes. The video clarifies that while it is possible to marry in the Netherlands on a Schengen Visa, one should not submit an MVV application until the Schengen Visa period is over.

💡Dual Nationality

Dual nationality refers to a person being a citizen of two countries at the same time. The video addresses the possibility of marrying with dual nationality, explaining that while it is allowed, one must meet Dutch law requirements and consider potential recognition issues abroad.

Highlights

Discussing how to get married in the Netherlands as a foreigner or expat with a Dutch partner.

Criterias for marriage include being 18 or older, not currently married or in a registered partnership, and not closely related.

Requirements for marriage include a birth certificate, passport, two witnesses, and possibly a marriage certificate or divorce papers.

Certificate of non-marriage may be required, which can be obtained from the consulate general or the last place of residence abroad.

Experience sharing on obtaining a certificate of non-marriage from the Philippines and challenges faced in Dubai, UAE.

Documents must be attested or have an apostille stamp and be in Dutch, English, French, or German.

Notifying the municipality two weeks before the planned wedding with an 'undertroon' or notice of intent to marry.

The wedding venue and date are determined by the municipality's availability and the number of seats.

Fees for marriage vary by municipality, with some offering free weddings with restrictions.

FAQs include details on applying for a certificate of non-marriage abroad and legalizing documents with an apostille.

Marriage is possible on a tourist visa, but one should not submit an MVV application until the Schengen visa is valid.

The basic exam is not required for marriage, only for the MVV application.

Same-sex marriage is legal in the Netherlands.

Dual nationality is accepted for marriage, but Dutch law requirements must be met.

Religious weddings can be held after the civil marriage has been solemnized.

Advice for those planning to marry in the Netherlands, including congratulations to future couples.

Transcripts

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hi guys welcome back to my channel once

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again this is liz

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for today's video i will be discussing

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on how you can get married

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as a foreigner or expat with your dutch

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partner here

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in the netherlands

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i decided to make this video for you

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guys because i've been getting a lot of

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queries

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private messages on how i got married to

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my dutch

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ex-boyfriend ex-boyfriend of course

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because he's my husband now

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asking me on the procedures and the

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requirements in getting married here in

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the netherlands

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so this video is for you guys for those

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who are planning

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uh to get married here in the

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netherlands or

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you are confused because you have not

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decided yet

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which country is best to

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hold your marriage either from your home

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country or here in the netherlands

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especially when it comes to

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documentation

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so i hope after watching this video you

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will come up

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with a decision which ever or wherever

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is suitable for you there are some

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criterias that you

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and your dutch partner need to meet in

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order for you to get married here in the

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netherlands

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these criterias depend on your status

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and nationality but don't worry guys

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because

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the criterias and requirements are not

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as complicated

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as when you're applying for your mvv

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so regardless of what your status or

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your nationality is

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you need to meet these three

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minimum of criterias so you and your

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partner must be

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18 years old or older and you are not

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married or in a registered partnership

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and third

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you are not related to each other

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meaning

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it's like a parent to a child

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grandparent to a grandchild or brother

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and sister for the requirements i have a

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list

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birth certificate passport

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two witnesses marriage certificate in

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case of previous marriage

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divorce papers if separated death

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certificate

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if we don't certificate of non-marriage

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for single

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which you can get from your consulate

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general or you may have to apply for the

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certificate

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from the last place where you lived

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abroad in my experience i was required

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to submit

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two certificates of non-marriage one

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from my home country which is

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philippines

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and also from dubai uae because dubai

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was my last place of residence

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if you're living in dubai dubai they no

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longer issue such certificate

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you can only apply for this in abu dhabi

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which i failed to do because during my

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time

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when i went to dubai court they said

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they've stopped issuing such certificate

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and they didn't advise me or direct me

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to

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abu dhabi so to avoid any issue my

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husband

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sent an email to his municipality here

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and informed them that dubai ued no

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longer issues such certificate

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and we asked them if my certificate of

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non-marriage that was issued from the

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philippines

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is sufficient enough and they said

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okay thankfully we did this confirmation

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in writing

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because when we went to the municipality

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here to register for our marriage

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we almost got it uh rejected

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because they said they really need also

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the certificate of non-marriage from

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dubai uae where

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the last place where i live but since

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i have the confirmation so because of

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this

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we were safe and they took special

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approval

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from the officials and they

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in return they made me sign a sworn

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statement that i am really single

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and with consent or approval from their

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officials

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so if you are in the same case please do

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not take this risk

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please try your best to find out where

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you can get this certificate

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whichever country you are currently

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residing

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back to the requirements please make

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sure

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that all the documents you are required

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to submit here in the netherlands please

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make sure

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to get it attested or to get an apostle

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stamp for those documents

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because any documents can only be valid

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to use abroad if it's attested

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or with an apostle stamp moreover please

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make sure that all your documents were

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written in acceptable languages

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here in the netherlands these are dutch

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english french

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or german if your documents were issued

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other than these languages

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then you need first to get it translated

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and also legalize it or get an apostle

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stamp

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once you've met all the requirements and

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criterias you might now notify

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your municipality where you wish to get

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married and inform them about your

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wedding plans

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or in dutch they call it undertrown

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which means notice of intent to marry

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you need to do this two weeks before

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your plan of wedding

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so to do this you need to make an

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appointment to your municipality

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for our case we did it by a phone call

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and then we receive a letter of

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confirmation along with this letter they

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attach

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a checklist of the requirements which is

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specially made for us

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because as i said uh the requirements

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depends on your status and your

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nationality on the day of your under

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trial that's the day you can specify

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or select the date the time

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and the venue of your wedding plans

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according to the municipality available

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schedules

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the number of seats available depends on

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the venue that you have selected

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on which part of the city house you want

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to hold your ceremony

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for us the wedding was very private

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we have only invited relatives and close

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friends

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so our venue was limited

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to 10 people by the way parking permit

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is also required

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with a maximum of five cars including

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the bridal car

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for the fees i guess each municipality

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they have their own

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schedule of fees but if you're getting

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married here in the municipality of

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alamar

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then you can find the link in the

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description box for the list

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of fees that's all about the procedures

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and the requirements

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now as a bonus i'm going to answer some

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frequently asked questions i made a list

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of them

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so the first question is where can you

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apply certificate of non-marriage if you

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are residing abroad

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it depends on which country you are

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residing but normally you can apply this

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from the courts

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like for my case i used to live in uae

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and

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if you're reciting ua you can apply this

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in abu dhabi court

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in abu dhabi which is the capital of the

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uae if you're not sure where you can

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apply this

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then better to confirm this with the

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embassy of the netherlands where you are

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currently residing

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or at your own home country

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embassy next question is

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how to legalize documents or get an

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apostle stamp

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you can only get an apostle stamp if

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your country of issuance

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is a member of apostle convention for

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the details

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you can find my video in the description

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box

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on how to get an apostille so the next

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question is

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is it possible to get married for free

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the answer is yes if you're going to get

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married here

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in alakmar i'm not sure uh

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with the other municipalities if they

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have such uh

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privileges so if you are residing in

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alekhmar yes it's free you can have your

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wedding for free

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and but you cannot choose the venue and

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the date of your wedding

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the venue normally it's being done in

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the same office where you're going to

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register your wedding

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free wedding here is happening every

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monday here in alamar

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and because i had a friend she had her

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wedding

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for free and

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it took her it took four months before

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they got the schedule of the wedding

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so if you're not in a hurry or you're in

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a budget of course

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it is possible to get married for free

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next question can you get married in the

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netherlands on tourist visa

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the answer is yes you can get married

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here

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on your schengen visa but you are not

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supposed to

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submit your mvv application because you

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will not be allowed to travel

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with your schengen visa until your mvv

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application has been completed the next

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question is

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do you need to pass the basic exam in

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order to get married in the netherlands

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the answer is no basic exam is only

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required for your mvv

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application and not for your wedding

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next question is

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if you're unable to provide witnesses on

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your wedding

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can you still get married the answer is

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yes

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the municipality can arrange for you to

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have witnesses but

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fees to be applied next question is

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is same-sex marriage is allowed in the

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netherlands

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the answer is yes next question is

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what about getting married with dual

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nationality

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the answer is yes if you or your partner

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has another nationality other in

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addition

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to the dutch nationality but you will

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need to meet the requirements prescribed

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by the dutch law

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for marrying if you meet the

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requirements you can still marry

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even if the non-dutch partner doesn't

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permit

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but you should take into account that

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you might have difficulties

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having that marriage recognized abroad

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and the last question is can you hold a

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religious

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wedding instead of civil you may hold a

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religious ceremony

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in a church or in a mosque wherever you

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wish

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but this can only take place after your

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marriage has been solemnized by a

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register

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or civil so that's all about this video

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i

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hope you find this again this video very

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helpful and useful please don't forget

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to like and subscribe

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and please let me know your thoughts in

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the comments below

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and if you're planning to get married

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here in the netherlands soon

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i wish you all the best

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and congratulations in advance to you

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and your partner

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on your wedding i'll see you in the next

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one

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