Watch This If You're An Introvert
Summary
TLDRThis video offers valuable advice for introverted men seeking to enhance their attractiveness. It suggests leveraging natural introverted traits like maintaining a mysterious aura and avoiding direct eye contact. The script recommends physical aura enhancement tips, such as grooming eyebrows and staying hydrated, and emphasizes the importance of quality social circles over quantity. It introduces 'The Institute,' a community for self-improvement, and provides strategies for overcoming shyness and selecting hobbies that foster personal growth. The video concludes with advice on dating as an introvert, advocating for a casual approach to expressing interest and the importance of self-recharging to avoid social exhaustion.
Takeaways
- 😎 Maintain a sense of mystery by avoiding direct eye contact and looking at other facial features.
- 👀 Use techniques to confidently maintain eye contact without staring, such as looking at the nose or eyebrows.
- 🌟 Enhance your physical aura by grooming, like thickening eyebrows and keeping lips hydrated.
- 💆♂️ Improve your appearance by steaming your face to remove dirt and dead skin, enhancing your attractiveness.
- 🤝 Stop seeking casual friendships and focus on building a strong, quality social circle that can attract women.
- 🏋️♂️ Join communities centered around hobbies you enjoy to form deep connections and expand your social network.
- 📢 Use shyness to your advantage by adding an extra sentence in conversations to show interest and connect.
- 📵 Avoid generic text messages and use voice notes instead to appear more confident and engaging.
- 🎨 Pursue a creative hobby for mental stimulation and a social hobby to improve communication and interaction.
- 🏃♂️ Engage in activities that align with your interests to meet like-minded individuals and form meaningful bonds.
- 🚫 Do not explicitly tell a girl you like her; instead, suggest casual meetups to build comfort and interest.
- 🔋 Recognize your limited social energy as an introvert and schedule regular recharge times to maintain social stamina.
- 🧘♂️ Learn to calm yourself and stop overthinking by practicing deep breathing techniques to reduce stress and anxiety.
Q & A
What is the main advantage of being an introvert according to the video?
-The main advantage is that introverts have a natural aura of mystery and coolness that can be attractive to others if used correctly.
How can introverted men maintain confident eye contact without staring directly into someone's eyes?
-Introverted men can maintain confident eye contact by looking at other areas of the face like the middle of the nose or between the eyebrows, focusing on other facial features or body, glancing to the side when looking away, and breaking eye contact naturally with a facial expression or body movement.
What are three simple ways to improve one's physical appearance as suggested in the video?
-The three ways are: thickening the eyebrows with a derma roller and minoxidil, hydrating the lips with an SPF lip balm, and steaming the face daily to release dirt, grime, and dead skin.
Why is it important for introverts to focus on the quality of their social circle rather than the quantity?
-The quality of a social circle is important for introverts because they naturally connect on a deeper level, making casual friendships feel exhausting. A strong social circle is also attractive to women.
What is 'The Institute' mentioned in the video and when is it launching?
-The Institute is a community for men with a growth mindset, aiming to create a powerful network for meaningful connections. It is launching on September 15th.
How can introverts use their shyness as a superpower?
-Introverts can use their shyness as a signal to say that extra sentence in a conversation that they might suppress due to shyness, making them more relatable and helping them connect with others.
What is the advice given for introverted men when it comes to texting the girl they like?
-Introverted men should avoid sending common text messages like 'hey what's up,' 'do you want to hang out,' or asking about the last message. Instead, they should use voice notes to seem more direct and confident.
Why are creative and social hobbies important for introverted men?
-Creative hobbies provide a mental challenge and can potentially become a career, while social hobbies help introverted men interact with others, develop communication skills, and find a group with similar interests.
What is the recommended approach for introverted men when expressing interest in a girl?
-Instead of directly telling a girl how they feel, introverted men should take the initiative by casually asking her to hang out, study, or grab lunch, which is less aggressive and less likely to put pressure on the girl.
How can introverted men manage their social energy throughout the day?
-Introverted men should schedule time for themselves to recharge their social energy by taking short breaks in quiet places to listen to music, read, or engage in other solitary activities.
What is the 'psychological sign' technique for introverts to stop overthinking?
-The psychological sign technique involves taking one deep breath, followed by a quick extra breath, and then a long exhale to rid the body of carbon dioxide and relax, thus stopping overthinking.
Outlines
😎 Enhancing Introverted Charm
This paragraph discusses how introverted men can use their natural aura of mystery and coolness to their advantage. It suggests that introverts can maintain confident eye contact by avoiding direct gazes and focusing on other facial features. It also advises on how to use shyness as a conversation starter and how to compliment genuinely. The speaker emphasizes the importance of improving one's physical appearance through grooming, such as thickening eyebrows and hydrating lips, and proposes that introverts should focus on building a strong social circle through shared hobbies rather than casual friendships.
📱 Communication Strategies for Introverts
The speaker advises introverted men to avoid sending generic text messages to women they are interested in and instead use voice notes to appear more direct and confident. The paragraph highlights the importance of having both creative and social hobbies to improve one's life. The speaker promotes his community, The Institute, as a platform for introverted men to connect with like-minded individuals, grow, and participate in global events. The paragraph concludes with a call to action for men to join The Institute to enhance their introverted superpowers.
💪 Mastering Introverted Dating and Social Skills
This paragraph provides dating advice for introverted men, suggesting they should not directly confess their feelings but instead invite women to casual outings. It explains the concept of masculine energy and how a more relaxed approach can be more effective. The speaker also talks about the importance of understanding and managing one's social energy as an introvert, recommending taking short breaks to recharge. The paragraph concludes with a technique to calm oneself and stop overthinking, which involves a specific breathing exercise. The speaker encourages joining The Institute to further develop these skills and connect with a supportive community.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Introverted
💡Eye Contact
💡Physical Aura
💡Social Circle
💡The Institute
💡Shyness
💡Text Messages
💡Hobbies
💡Initiative
💡Psychological Sign
Highlights
Introverted guys have a natural aura of mystery and coolness that can be attractive when used correctly.
Avoiding direct eye contact can be a confident way to maintain eye contact by looking at other facial features.
Focusing on non-eye facial features or body can lead to natural segues into compliments.
Breaking eye contact naturally by making facial expressions or body language changes can appear more confident.
Thickening eyebrows, hydrating lips, and steaming the face are simple ways to improve physical appearance.
Developing a strong social circle is more important than the number of friends for attracting women.
Deep connections are often easier to form within communities centered around shared hobbies.
The Institute is a community for men seeking personal growth and meaningful connections.
Using shyness as a signal to add an extra sentence in conversation can make one more relatable.
Avoid common text messages that can come off as uninteresting or desperate.
Using voice notes can speed up deep conversation and appear more confident than text.
Introverted men should have both a creative and a social hobby to improve their life.
The Institute aims to be a Brotherhood for ambitious men to grow and learn.
Never directly tell a girl you like her; instead, suggest hanging out to avoid pressuring her.
Introverts have limited social energy, so scheduling time to recharge is essential.
The psychological sign technique can help introverts calm down and stop overthinking in real time.
Joining The Institute can help introverted men develop their full potential.
Transcripts
as an introverted guy you have this
natural Aura of mystery and coolness
that any girl will be attracted to but
it only works if you use it correctly so
if you are an introvert this is the most
important video you're ever going to
watch today because I'm going to take
the things that you already are doing
and Elevate them to amplify your aura
and become attractive starting with
number one I want you to keep avoiding
eye contact you can have confident eye
contact by not looking directly into her
eyes and this is the important because
eye contact has always been one of the
quickest ways for a woman to determine
how competent or confident a man is so
here is how you confidently maintain eye
contact with a woman using four
techniques first avoid looking directly
into her eyes this is awkward instead I
want you to look elsewhere on her face
like the middle of her nose or in
between her eyebrows second rather than
just looking directly in her eyes try to
focus on another area of her face or
body you can try to see if she's wearing
particular jewelry or if she has a new
hairstyle if she ends up asking what are
you looking at this is great because it
ends up being a natural segue into a
genuine compliment third if you're going
to look away glance to the side rather
than looking down and fourth if you're
going to break eye contact do it
naturally by making some sort of facial
expression or changing your body length
number two amplify your physical Aura
99% of men still don't understand that
small changes you make to your looks can
drastically improve your appearance so
here are three simple things every man
can do to their face to look more
attractive first I need you to thicken
your eyebrows now you can do this
Naturally by using a dermar roller and
then applying minoxidil right afterwards
two hydrate your lips cha lips are a
major turnoff and will make you
unapproachable so opt for a lip balm
that has SPF and third steam your face
every day doing this will release all
the dirt grime and dead skin that build
up inside your pork I recommend do it
right before you do your skincare
routine for optimal results you see
what's happening right now up until now
using your introvertedness by avoiding
eye contact and just improving your
appearance you're already becoming more
desirable this is what I want you to
realize being an introvert is a
superpower and you have seven more
superpowers that you don't even know you
have but I'm going to develop takes us
to number three just stop making friends
literally any introvert can increase
their activ is and go from a 2 to a 10
in less than 3 months and here's how
you're going to do it you see women are
naturally drawn to men that have a
strong Social Circle now it doesn't
matter how many friends you have what
matters is the quality of your Social
Circle and as introverts you and I we're
wired to connect on a deeper level which
is why casual friendships feel
exhausting and they always kind of die
off from my experience the best
connections you'll have are from places
where you're doing a particular hobby
you enjoy for example I love doing
Jiu-Jitsu so making deep connections and
new friends within that Community is
easy for me but here's the thing for
most people finding that location
becomes difficult in school usually
becomes very difficult to find those
meaningful connections especially for
somebody like you that's constantly
trying to grow you watch these videos
you're on self-improvement finding other
guys that have that mindset is
impossible because every other guy makes
excuses for their life you're not that
type of guy and that's why I'm on a
mission to create the best community of
men ever created with men that have your
mindset that have my mindset that way
we're constantly surrounded by other
guys that are equally pushing us this is
what keeps you motivated this is what
keeps you disciplined and no one else
has created something like this before
this community I'm calling it The
Institute and it's dropping September
15th yo we're less than 2 weeks away and
I'm telling you right now the amount of
Interest I've had for this community is
incredible meaning SL are going to sell
out but there's been thousands of you
that have already reserved their spot
for just a dollar now it's not too late
if you're that type of guy that wants to
join the mission of creating a community
so powerful where you can connect and
build a meaningful Network I want you to
join The Institute and I want you to
reserve your spot today for a dollar so
when we launch September 15th you got
nothing to worry about if slots sell out
because everybody else was too slow you
acted quickly and that's the type of guy
we need in the community so if you want
to join the mission the link will be
down below fourth use shyness as your
signal I will show you how to stop being
shy and awkward forever whenever you're
in a conversation and you feel that urge
to kind of retreat into silence or or to
be shy use this as a signal to implement
this trick I'm about to show you all you
got to do is say one extra sentence in
that conversation maybe it's about the
song that's playing or maybe it's about
the weather it's been off today everyone
has that exact extra sentence in their
head that they want to say but most
people suppress it because they feel shy
I want you to say it let me give you an
example if a girl tells you oh I'm just
going to go out to eat with some friends
you can say something basic like oh I've
never tried that before but I want you
to say that extra sentence follow that
up with oh what's your favorite plate to
order them I've been dying to try
something new doing this will make you
more relatable and help you connect with
others number five don't send text
messages never send the girl you like
these three text messages if you're an
introverted guy well one hey what's up
two do you want to hang out and three
hey did you see my last message look you
might find it easier to communicate
through social media or through text
messages rather than in person however
over relying on digital communication
with these simple messages will turn off
any girl instead I want you to switch it
up and try using voice notes whenever
you're in a conversation with a girl
this is going to speed up the process to
develop a deep conversation with a woman
and also you're going to seem more
direct and confident number six every
every man needs these two Hobbies if
you're an introverted man you need these
two Hobbies if you want to improve your
life you need a creative Hobby and a
social hobby for the creative hobby you
want something that gives you a mental
Challenge and puts your brain to work
this could be drawing photography music
videography for me it's content creation
I love making videos I love helping
dudes out and not to mention most of the
times your creative hobby can end up
becoming your career the second hobby
you need is a social hobby something
that forces you to interact with others
and Dev your communication and the best
way to do this is to find other people
that have a group that have similar
interests to yours for example I love
going on long runs which is why I
developed a group of guys here in New
York City where they just follow me and
we run around the city we all have the
same interest and I get it finding that
social hobby can be kind of difficult
that's why I'm on this Mission with the
Institute too many guys are doom
scrolling in their bedroom with no way
out the Institute it's going to be more
than a place to just meet it's going to
be a Brotherhood a family of ambitious
and dedicated men that want to grow and
the best part is I'm going to be hosting
meetups and events all around the world
India Singapore New York Mexico City
wherever in the world we want to be
hosting meetups and every month lucky
participants will be chosen where I'm
going to be paying all your expenses and
flying you out so we can learn from
those cities create experiences that you
will never have in your life because
you're just Doom scrolling on your phone
this is what's going to grow you as a
man this is how you're supposed to learn
not through a course or a classroom The
Institute will change the game forever
not just for your life but if you join
you will be changing the lives of
thousands if not millions of men boys
this Mission launches September 15
because you're a man of action I want
you to click the link down below and
reserve your spot for just a dollar
after that every month it's just going
to be 50 bucks I want to see you boys
inside but by now as an introverted guy
you've learned how to look more
confident without eye contact how to
amplify your physical Aura how to stop
making useless friends how to use your
shyness as a superpower and now I've
even showed you what hobbies you need to
excel in life but to truly Max your
superpower out as an introvert there are
three final things you need to complete
takes me to number seven never tell her
you like her this is one of the biggest
mistakes introverted men make you see as
an introvert you often wait for the
other girl to make the first move but
when it comes to dating initiative is
key but if you're going to make that
first step you have to do it correctly
so instead of calling her directly over
the phone and telling her exactly how
you feel you should just tell her you
want to hang out the mistake introverts
make is that they'll call a girl and
tell her exactly how they feel oh I like
you so much I hope you like me back when
you do this you're giving her what is
called masculine energy it's energy
that's very direct CU that's how men
communicate but it puts women in this
high pressure environment where it's
more than likely that she's just going
to say no she doesn't want to deal with
that pressure but when you just ask her
casually to hang out to study or go grab
some lunch she'll know you're interested
in her but you're not being as
aggressive in the ass which makes it
much more likely for her wanting to say
yes number eight you can be an introvert
and not be socially awkward you have to
understand that your energy as an
introvert is different than that from an
extrovert and I know this personally
because I am an introvert most guys
don't believe this but your boy's an
introvert even though I talk to millions
of you every single day you see as an
introvert when you wake up you have a
limited amount of social energy and as
you start interacting with people
throughout the day that energy level
starts to drop leaving you feeling
drained after a long day of socializing
on the flip side if you're an extrovert
you wake up with no social energy
whatsoever and you start gaining it as
you start interacting with multiple
people throughout the day this is why as
an introvert you need to schedule time
for yourself to recharge throughout the
day this doesn't mean you should isolate
yourself in the bedroom completely what
it means is you should take 5 to 10
minutes throughout the day where you can
just go into a quiet place listen to the
music you want read the book you like
and be able to recharge that social
battery takes us to number nine you need
to learn how to calm yourself every time
you're overthinking the fastest way to
stop overthinking in real time is using
something called the psychological sign
you have to understand that overthinking
as an introvert it can lead you to be
indecisive and nothing is more
unattractive than a man that doesn't
know what he wants so next time you're
overthinking and you want to do the
psychological side you're going to start
by doing one deep breath try to fill in
your lungs followed by a quick extra
breath to try to top off your lungs and
finally followed by a long exhale the
reason why this works is because the
double inhale inflates the sacks of your
lungs and the long exhale rids your body
and bloodstream of any carbon dioxide
which relaxes you quickly this is the
fastest way to eliminate any stressful
response in your body especially as an
introvert when you can start
overthinking things every time your
socialize if you made it here to the end
you now know that your introvertedness
is a superpower but if you truly want to
take it to the next level I want you to
join our community The Institute to
truly develop your full potential so
your boys inside
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