7 Beginner Texting Mistakes Guys Make With Women

Summary

The video script discusses common texting mistakes men make when trying to attract women, such as texting neutrally, waiting too long to ask for a date, and playing games with delayed responses. It emphasizes the importance of creating attraction through confident and engaging texts, suggesting a meet-up promptly, and avoiding over-excitement or expressing too much too soon. The script also introduces 'Text Attraction,' a guide to mastering text conversations for dating success.

Takeaways

• 💣 Texting a woman with the wrong approach can be like walking through a minefield, leading to her losing interest or not replying at all.
• 📱 Avoiding beginner texting mistakes is crucial for maintaining a woman's interest and not losing opportunities for dates, sex, or relationships.
• 👫 Texting in a neutral way, like a friend, can lead to a lack of attraction and a fizzling conversation, whereas texting attractively can create a spark and lead to a date.
• 🔥 It's important to text in an attractive way early in the conversation to establish a potential lover or boyfriend dynamic, rather than just a friendly one.
• ⏰ Timing is key; don't wait too long to ask a woman out after establishing attraction, as it can signal a lack of confidence or desperation.
• 🚫 Avoid playing games with delayed responses; understand that different women have different levels of interest and confidence, and a one-size-fits-all approach may backfire.
• 🌅 Regular 'good morning' and 'good night' texts can be predictable and kill attraction; they are unnecessary unless leading to a meet-up or flirtation.
• 🤩 Avoid being overly excited in your texts, as it can make you seem too keen and give a woman a false sense of superiority.
• 💌 Expressing feelings via text is not always effective and can sometimes lead to a woman feeling pressured or that the relationship is moving too fast.
• 📝 The ultimate goal of texting should be to arrange a meet-up, not just to exchange messages for the sake of it; focus on creating attraction and then suggesting a date.

Q & A

What is the main challenge men face when texting women they are interested in?

The main challenge is avoiding beginner texting mistakes that can lead to the woman losing interest, rejecting the man, or ceasing communication altogether.

Why does texting in a neutral way like a friend often fail to lead to a date or relationship?

Texting in a neutral way fails because it doesn't create a spark of attraction, which is essential for the woman to consider the man as a potential lover or boyfriend.

What is the recommended approach to texting a woman immediately after getting her number?

The recommended approach is to text in an attractive way, like a potential lover or boyfriend, to make her feel a spark of attraction and to suggest a meet-up confidently.

Why should a man not wait too long to ask a woman out after getting her number?

Waiting too long to ask a woman out can give the impression that the man lacks confidence or doesn't find her attractive enough, which can lead to her losing interest.

How can a man create a spark of attraction in a text conversation?

A man can create a spark of attraction by being confident, playful, and showing traits that are attractive to women, such as humor and assertiveness.

What is the significance of not replying to a woman's text for days or weeks while texting?

Not replying immediately can backfire if the woman has a low level of confidence, as she may worry about appearing too eager or fear that the man will lose interest if she shows too much enthusiasm.

Why should a man avoid sending regular 'good morning' and 'good night' texts to a woman he is interested in?

Regular 'good morning' and 'good night' texts can become predictable and kill attraction, as they may make the woman feel like she is not being challenged or pursued in an exciting way.

What is the potential downside of a man getting too excited about texting a woman and showing it in his messages?

Getting too excited and showing it in messages can make the woman feel like she is doing the man a favor by considering a date, which can lead to her losing interest due to a perceived lack of challenge or value.

Why might expressing feelings via text not be effective in getting a woman to agree to a date?

Expressing feelings via text may not be effective because women often want to feel a natural spark and progression towards a relationship, rather than being told directly about the man's feelings, which can come across as too serious or premature.

What is the final beginner mistake mentioned in the script regarding texting women, and why is it a mistake?

The final beginner mistake is texting just to get messages back and feel good about oneself, without progressing towards arranging a meet-up. This is a mistake because it fails to advance the relationship and can lead to missed opportunities if the man doesn't know how to maintain attraction through text.