STOP Chasing Women. Here's What REALLY Works.
Summary
TLDRThis video script emphasizes the importance of men being upfront and confident in expressing attraction, while cautioning against the pitfalls of chasing women. It highlights the negative impact of desperation on relationship dynamics, suggesting that men should focus on self-improvement and authenticity to naturally attract women. The speaker advises men to build their self-esteem from within, maintain personal boundaries, and let their actions speak louder than words to effectively communicate their worth.
Takeaways
- 😎 Men should be confident and upfront about their attraction to women, aligning with natural biological dynamics.
- 🚫 There's a distinction between approaching a woman and chasing her; the latter devalues the man's position.
- 🛑 A man should express interest and gracefully move on if rejected, understanding that rejection is part of the process.
- ⏳ Continuous pursuit after rejection can lower one's value and lead to a shaky relationship foundation.
- 💔 A relationship built on chasing can instill a 'favor mentality' where the woman feels she's doing the man a favor, not genuinely wanting to be with him.
- 👑 The chase can lead to an imbalance of power, with the woman feeling she has the upper hand, which is not a healthy dynamic for a relationship.
- 🌟 Men should focus on self-improvement and building their self-esteem from within, rather than seeking validation from women.
- 🔍 Authenticity is key; women can discern genuine interest from attempts to gain approval through conformity.
- 💡 Effectively communicating one's worth is about actions, not words, and involves maintaining confident body language and personal boundaries.
- 🏋️♂️ Men should work on self-improvement in all aspects of life, including personality, finances, and physicality, to naturally attract the right women.
- 💌 The most attractive men are those who value their own time and attention, which in turn makes their attention more valuable to women.
Q & A
What is the main advice given to men regarding expressing attraction to women?
-Men should be upfront with their attraction to a woman and approach her confidently, as this aligns more with natural biological dynamics.
What is the key difference between approaching and chasing a woman according to the script?
-Approaching is expressing interest and moving on if the woman is not interested, while chasing involves seeking a woman's attention and validation even after rejection, which lowers one's value.
Why does chasing a woman after rejection negatively impact the potential relationship?
-Chasing after rejection can lead to a shaky relationship framework due to the woman feeling like she's doing a favor and the man appearing desperate, which puts him in a position of weakness.
What are the two main reasons why a relationship built on chasing is not sustainable?
-First, the woman may feel like she's doing a favor, lacking genuine desire. Second, the man gives the woman the upper hand, making him appear desperate and less attractive.
Why is a man's attention often devalued in the context of dating?
-Men's attention is devalued because many men give it out freely and out of desperation, leading to an overabundance that loses its intrinsic value.
What is the first step suggested for men to improve their dating success?
-The first step is to reevaluate what lies at the center of their life and self-esteem, as this is often the source of the need to chase.
How can a man become truly comfortable with who he is?
-By embracing his strengths, accepting and working on his weaknesses, and not compromising his values and standards for the sake of attracting a woman.
What is the importance of effectively communicating one's worth in dating?
-Effectively communicating worth is about letting actions speak louder than words, maintaining confident body language, setting personal boundaries, and pursuing personal growth.
Why is it beneficial for a man to focus on self-improvement rather than chasing women?
-Focusing on self-improvement can naturally attract women and make a man stand out, as authenticity and personal growth are magnetic qualities.
What is the final advice given to men in terms of dating and self-worth?
-Men should work on becoming the kind of person they want to be and who women will admire, respect, and be drawn to, understanding that attraction is not negotiable and focusing on self-worth.
Outlines
🔍 The Art of Attraction vs. Chasing
This paragraph discusses the importance of men being upfront and confident in expressing their attraction to women, while also distinguishing between approaching and chasing. It emphasizes that a confident man will move on if rejected, understanding that rejection is part of the process. In contrast, persistently seeking a woman's attention after rejection can diminish one's value. The paragraph outlines two reasons why chasing is detrimental: it creates a relationship built on an imbalance of power and favor, and it establishes a dynamic where the man appears desperate and less attractive. The speaker suggests that men should focus on self-improvement and authenticity to naturally attract women, rather than trying to force a connection.
💼 Becoming a Man of Substance
The second paragraph continues the discussion on self-worth and attraction, suggesting that men should reassess their self-esteem and not rely on the validation of women. It advises men to become comfortable with who they are, embracing strengths and working on weaknesses to boost confidence. The speaker stresses the importance of not compromising one's values for the sake of attracting a woman and highlights the magnetic quality of authenticity. The paragraph concludes with the advice to communicate one's worth through actions and personal growth, rather than words, to naturally attract women who value genuine connections over desperate attention-seeking.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Upfront
💡Confidence
💡Chasing
💡Rejection
💡Self-esteem
💡Authenticity
💡Dominance
💡Desperation
💡Substance and Competence
💡Personal Growth
💡Boundaries
Highlights
Men should be upfront with their attraction and confident in approaching women.
Approaching is different from chasing, and many men confuse the two.
A secure man expresses interest and moves on if rejected, understanding rejection as part of the process.
Chasing a woman after rejection lowers a man's value in her eyes.
Chasing can lead to a shaky relationship built on a favor mentality rather than genuine desire.
Desperation in chasing puts a man in a weak position, giving the woman the upper hand.
Men's attention is devalued because it's often given out of desperation and is abundant.
To stand out, men should focus on self-improvement and building their self-esteem.
Becoming a man of substance and competence naturally attracts women.
Authenticity is magnetic, and women can tell when a man is being genuine.
Effectively communicating your worth is about actions, not words.
Confident body language and personal boundaries are key to showcasing your worth.
Living authentically reflects your word to everyone around you.
Working on self-improvement is the path to lasting success with women.
Attraction is not negotiable; if a woman isn't attracted, there are others who will be.
The initial dating stages are like negotiations where power dynamics play a crucial role.
Maintaining honor and self-respect is essential in the dating process.
The difficult path of self-improvement is the key to becoming the man women admire.
Transcripts
hi guys let me start by saying this I
believe men should be upfront with their
attraction to a woman and be confident
enough to approach and ask her out this
is what I say to men that come to me for
advice because I believe that that's the
dynamic that's more biologically in line
with nature but there's a huge
difference between approaching a woman
and chasing a woman and this difference
is where most men are getting it wrong a
man who's securing himself will Express
his interest and then simply move on if
she's not interested because he knows
that rejection is just the name of the
game it will happen but if you're
continuing to seek a woman's attention
and validation even after she rejects
you you're lowering your value in her
eyes with every single move you make
thereafter they say that if you're
chasing after something then it means
that it's running from you and that's
absolutely true understand that as a man
even if you were to consistently chase a
woman and eventually get her to go out
with you the framework of the
relationship is shaky from the start for
two very big reasons one the favor
mentality she'll feel like that she's
doing you a favor she's not in it
because she genuinely wants to be but
because you've pushed her into it that
kind of relationship is built on Sand
it's not gonna last because there's no
genuine desire no spark and when that
happens the clock is ticking it's just a
matter of time before it all comes
crashing down number two the dominance
game from the get-go she's got the upper
hand on you when you're the one doing
all the chasing it makes it look like
you're the one that's desperate and
Desperation on anybody isn't attractive
it puts you in the position of weakness
right from the start she's got the power
because she knows you need her more than
she needs you and that's no way to start
a relationship women are bombarded with
free attention from Men in everything
from their Instagram DM to just walking
on the street the cold truth about a
man's attention is that it's like a
devalued courage because too many men
are dishing it out for free by chasing
women out of desperation sadly there's
an overabundance of it and when there's
an overabundance of something it's not
intrinsically valuable it loses its
value so what should you do the first
step is reevaluating what lies at the
Center of Your Life As the metric of
your self-esteem because that's usually
where the need to feel like you have to
chase where it comes from a man who
hasn't done the hard work of making
himself valuable and seeing himself as
valuable uses women as an easy way to
fuel his self-esteem that he doesn't
really have don't be that guy understand
that if you want to stand out from the
plethora of other men like this you have
to be the man of substance and
competence that naturally attracts women
without trying too hard there's a saying
that lays this out perfect if you want
to hunt wolves don't wander aimlessly
through the woods become a master of the
terrain that terrain is a man's caliber
and lifestyle it takes effort to build
but it saves you the trouble of running
around the woods trying to hunt wolves
women that quickly run off the second
step is to become truly comfortable with
who you are a good way to assess if
you're truly comfortable with yourself
is to take a step back and ask yourself
honestly if I were a woman would I be
attracted to me if that answer is no
then it's time to embrace your strengths
and accept your weaknesses and flaws
after accepting your weaknesses start
working on strengthening them this will
raise your confidence immensely never
compromise your values and standards for
the sake of attracting a woman now this
might seem challenging because we live
in a world that constantly pressures men
to conform and fit into certain boxes
and criterias but once you do this you
become just like everybody else a woman
can tell when a man is being genuine
versus when he's just putting on an act
to try to gain her approval once you
become comfortable in your own skin and
with who you truly are and you don't
feel the need to conform to anybody
else's idea here you've set yourself
apart and you stand out because
authenticity is magnetic now the third
step is to understand and communicate
your worth effectively effectively
communicating your worth is about
letting your actions not your words
speak for you it's maintaining confident
body language setting personal
boundaries and consistently pursuing
habits that contribute to your own
personal growth remember it's not about
bragging and boasting it's about quietly
showcasing who you are through your
behavior and lifestyle living
authentically in this way will naturally
reflect your word to everybody around
you there's no substitute to working on
yourself and leveling up above the mass
of other men who are giving women all
their time and attention at the cost of
their own and real women will tell you
this too a man who has all the qualities
they want is the man whose attention
they value the most she could have a
million other unseen DMS in her
Instagram but she will still be waiting
for the text from the guy that she
actually wants ultimately it's your
choice which guy you'd rather be I like
thinking of the initial dating stages as
similar to like negotiation the party
with the most power is the one that can
walk away and the one who's desperate
for the deal to go through has the least
power the key is to keep your honor
intact and take it as a sign to work on
yourself take stock of every aspect of
your life from your personality to your
finances and to your physicality and
carve yourself into a man that women
will admire respect and be drawn to
ironically you'll find that when you do
this you'll naturally carve yourself
into the man that you want to be this is
the difficult no shortcut path to
Lasting success with women that most men
don't want to hear but all men need to
hear it's important to understand that
attraction is not a negotiation if a
woman isn't attracted to you there's
many more that will be if a woman is an
interest it don't waste your time trying
to convince her otherwise so that that
means into the next video I'll see you
guys later
I
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