The Chieftest Mourner

Mark Joven Teofilo
24 Mar 202116:40

Summary

TLDRIn this report, Mark JovANJITJOVILLO discusses Ida Rivera Ford's 'The Chief Test Mourner,' a story reflecting on Ford's life as a renowned Filipino literary author. The narrative centers on Denise, who navigates the complex relationships between her uncle, a poet, his legal wife, and his mistress. Set against the backdrop of the poet's funeral, the story explores themes of unconditional love, societal norms, and cultural influences. The characters' interactions and the setting highlight wealth, Spanish influence, and the struggle for recognition between the two women. The report concludes with a reflection on the moral lesson of acceptance and the true measure of love, prompting viewers to consider who the chief mourner truly is.

Takeaways

  • 📚 Ida Rivera Ford, born on January 22, 1926, was a renowned Filipina literary author known for her works in poetry, essays, and short stories.
  • 🎓 Ford graduated with an AB English degree, cum laude, from Silliman University in 1949 and earned a master's degree in English Language and Literature from the University of Michigan in 1954 through a Fulbright grant.
  • 🏡 In 1958, she married Donald Ford, and they had a son. She also founded the Learning Center of the Arts in Davao City, which was later renamed Ford Academy of the Arts.
  • 📖 'The Chief Test Mourner' is a notable short story by Ford, which won the Jules and Ivory Hopwood Award for Fiction in 1954 and is a staple in many Philippine literature books.
  • 👤 The story's characters include Denise, who is the narrator and niece of the deceased poet; Aunt Sophia, the poet's legal wife; and Essa, the poet's mistress.
  • 🏰 The setting of the story primarily takes place at the poet's funeral, highlighting the social status and wealth of the characters through descriptions of the chapel and the use of the Spanish language.
  • 👀 The story is narrated from the first-person perspective, allowing the reader to experience the rivalry and conflict between the legal wife and the mistress.
  • 🌟 The plot revolves around the funeral of the poet, where the two women claim to be the rightful widow, leading to a public display of their claims and sacrifices.
  • 💔 The main conflict in the story is the feud between the two women over who deserves to be recognized as the widow and to take possession of the poet's legacy.
  • 🌹 Symbolism is used effectively in the story, with Aunt Sophia's black and white attire symbolizing shallow sympathy, and Essa's dramatic black outfit representing her deep love and grief.
  • 💡 The moral lesson of the story is about acceptance in love and relationships, suggesting that true love is not always defined by legal or societal norms but by the sacrifices and support offered during difficult times.

Q & A

  • Who is the author of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -Ida Rivera Ford is the author of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'.

  • What significant educational achievement did Ida Rivera Ford accomplish in 1949?

    -In 1949, Ida Rivera Ford graduated as laude with her degree of AB English from Silliman University, Negros Occidental.

  • How did Ida Rivera Ford acquire her master's degree in English Language and Literature?

    -Ida Rivera Ford acquired her master's degree in English Language and Literature at the University of Michigan through the Fulbright grant in 1954.

  • What award did Ida Rivera Ford win for her fiction writing?

    -Ida Rivera Ford won the Jules and Ivory Hopwood Award for fiction in 1954.

  • What institution did Ida Rivera Ford establish in Davao City in 1980?

    -In 1980, Ida Rivera Ford founded the Learning Center of the Arts in Davao City, which was the first college of fine arts in Mindanao.

  • Who is the main character and narrator of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -The main character and narrator of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner' is Denise, who is also the author herself.

  • What is the setting of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -The setting of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner' predominantly takes place in the funeral of the poet at the chapel.

  • What is the main conflict in the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -The main conflict in the story 'The Chief Test Mourner' is the feud between the poet's legal wife and his mistress, over who deserves to be called the widow and take possession.

  • What themes are explored in the story 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -The themes explored in the story 'The Chief Test Mourner' include unconditional love, sacrificial societal setup, Spanish influence, and acceptance.

  • How does the author use symbolism in 'The Chief Test Mourner'?

    -The author uses multiple symbols in 'The Chief Test Mourner', such as Sophia's black and white clothes symbolizing shallow sympathy, the mistress's dramatic black outfit representing deep love, and the white flower symbolizing pure love and loyalty.

  • What moral lesson does the story 'The Chief Test Mourner' convey?

    -The moral lesson of 'The Chief Test Mourner' is that in the world of love, one must learn acceptance, understanding that true love is not always measured by legal ties but by the sacrifices and support given during difficult times.

Outlines

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📚 Introduction to Ida Rivera Ford and 'The Chief Test Mourner'

The video script begins with an introduction by the reporter, Mark Jovanje Choppilon, who sets the stage for a discussion on Ida Rivera Ford's story, 'The Chief Test Mourner.' Ida Rivera Ford is highlighted as a renowned Filipina literary author, born on January 22, 1926, in Sulu. Her educational background includes a degree in AB English from Silliman University and a master's degree in English Language and Literature from the University of Michigan, supported by a Fulbright grant. Ford's achievements include winning the Jules and Ivory Hopwood Award for Fiction and founding the Learning Center of the Arts in Davao City. The script then transitions into a background discussion about the characters and setting of the story, which primarily takes place at a funeral, suggesting a wealthy social context. The narrator's point of view is identified as the first person, allowing for a personal account of the events and conflicts within the story.

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🎭 Narrative and Characters of 'The Chief Test Mourner'

Paragraph 2 delves into the narrative of 'The Chief Test Mourner,' focusing on the protagonist Denise and her relationship with her late uncle, a famous poet. Denise's memories of her uncle and the impact of his death on her life are explored. The story's setting is expanded upon, with a focus on the funeral and the social dynamics it presents. The characters of Aunt Sophia, the poet's legal wife, and Essa, the other woman, are introduced, along with their complex relationships and interactions during the funeral. The narrative also touches on cultural elements, such as the use of the Spanish language and societal expectations, which influence the characters' behaviors and the unfolding drama. The paragraph concludes with a description of the funeral scene, where the presence of two women claiming to be the poet's wife creates an unusual and tense atmosphere.

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🌟 Themes and Symbolism in 'The Chief Test Mourner'

Paragraph 3 discusses the themes and symbolism present in 'The Chief Test Mourner.' The story's main conflict revolves around the feud between the two women, each claiming to be the poet's rightful widow. Themes such as unconditional love, sacrifice, societal setup, and Spanish influence are examined through the characters' actions and the story's setting. Symbolism is used to enhance the narrative, with items such as clothing and flowers representing deeper meanings about the characters and their relationships. The white flower, in particular, symbolizes the mistress's pure love and loyalty. The moral lesson of the story is presented as the importance of acceptance in love and relationships, and the idea that true love is not always defined by legal or societal norms but by the sacrifices and support offered during difficult times.

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🌐 Relating 'The Chief Test Mourner' to Filipino Culture

The final paragraph connects 'The Chief Test Mourner' to broader Filipino culture, addressing social issues and family dynamics that are prevalent in the story. It discusses how the character of Essa, the mistress, is a victim of cultural production and how she challenges traditional views on relationships. The paragraph emphasizes the evolving nature of culture and the normalization of complex relationship setups over time. It concludes with a quote from Paul Ferry about unconditional love and prompts the audience to consider who the true chief mourner is, leaving the question open-ended. The report ends with a closing remark from the reporter, summarizing the discussion and encouraging reflection on the story's themes and cultural relevance.

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Keywords

💡Chief Mourner

The 'Chief Mourner' refers to the person who is expected to take the lead in mourning the deceased, typically a close family member. In the context of the video, the term is used to explore the complex dynamics between two women who both lay claim to the role due to their relationships with the deceased poet. This concept is central to the story's exploration of love, sacrifice, and societal expectations.

💡Unconditional Love

Unconditional love is a profound affection that is given without any conditions or limitations. In the video, it is exemplified by the actions of the 'other woman,' who sacrifices her own wealth and comfort to support the poet during his difficult times. This theme is used to contrast the different forms of love expressed by the characters and to question what truly constitutes love in the face of societal norms.

💡Sacrifice

Sacrifice in the video script denotes the act of giving up something valuable for the sake of something else, often without expecting anything in return. The 'other woman' is portrayed as making significant sacrifices, such as selling her jewelry to cover the poet's hospital bills, which highlights her deep commitment to the poet despite not being his legal wife.

💡Social Setup

The term 'social setup' in the video refers to the cultural and societal norms that dictate how relationships and roles within a community are structured. The story reflects on how these setups can lead to complex situations, such as the poet having two women who both consider themselves his wife, challenging the viewers to consider the impact of societal expectations on personal relationships.

💡Spanish Influence

The 'Spanish Influence' mentioned in the video script alludes to the historical and cultural impact of Spanish colonization on the Philippines. This influence is evident in the use of the Spanish language and certain cultural practices, such as the term 'dali cadeza' used by the characters, reflecting the deep-rooted cultural heritage that shapes the characters' identities and interactions.

💡Point of View (POV)

Point of View (POV) in literature refers to the perspective from which a story is told. In the video, the story is narrated from the first-person POV of Denise, the niece of the deceased poet. This choice allows the audience to experience the story through her eyes, providing an intimate and personal account of the events and the emotional turmoil surrounding the poet's funeral.

💡Conflict

Conflict in the video is a central theme that drives the narrative, particularly the conflict between the legal wife and the mistress over who has the right to mourn the poet as the 'chief mourner.' This conflict is not just personal but also societal, as it reflects the broader issues of love, loyalty, and the legal and moral implications of relationships.

💡Symbolism

Symbolism in literature is the use of symbols to represent ideas or qualities. In the video, symbols such as the black and white clothes of Aunt Sophia and the dramatic black outfit of the mistress are used to convey their respective feelings towards the poet. The white flower with a dove-shaped sheet of weights from the mistress symbolizes her pure love and loyalty, adding a layer of depth to the story's themes.

💡Cultural Production

Cultural production refers to the way culture shapes and is shaped by human activities and interactions. In the video, the character of Essa, the 'other woman,' is portrayed as a victim of cultural production, where societal norms and expectations define her role and status. The video uses her character to explore the evolving nature of culture and its impact on individual lives.

💡Acceptance

Acceptance in the video is presented as a moral lesson, suggesting that in the realm of love, one must accept the reality of the relationship, even the aspects that are difficult or undesirable. This concept is highlighted through the actions and decisions of the characters, particularly the mistress, who accepts her position and the poet's flaws, and demonstrates love through her sacrifices.

Highlights

Introduction to the author Ida Rivera Ford, a renowned Filipina literary author.

Background information on Ford's education and achievements, including her Fulbright scholarship.

Ford's significant contribution to Philippine literature through her numerous works.

The founding of the Learning Center of the Arts in Davao City by Ford.

Character analysis of the story 'The Chief Test Mourner', including the roles of Denise, Aunt Sophia, and the poet's mistress.

Setting of the story, predominantly at the poet's funeral, reflecting the social status of the characters.

Use of first-person point of view to narrate the story, providing an intimate perspective.

Plot summary highlighting the complex relationships and the poet's influence on the narrator's life.

Conflict between the poet's legal wife and mistress, central to the story's theme.

Themes of unconditional love, sacrifice, societal setup, and Spanish influence in the story.

Symbolism in the story, such as the white flower representing pure love and loyalty.

Moral lesson of the story emphasizing acceptance and the true nature of love.

Cultural relevance of the story to Filipino society, including the treatment of mistresses and changing social norms.

Quotation from Paul Ferry on demonstrating love unconditionally, related to the story's message.

Concluding thoughts on the identity of the 'chief test mourner', leaving the interpretation to the audience.

Transcripts

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a pleasant morning to all of us i am

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mark jovenjitjovillo and i am one of

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your reporter for today

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my topic is the chieftains mourner by

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ida rivera ford

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but before we start the discussion i

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have some few reminders

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for you listen carefully and be focused

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on the discussion and to jot down notes

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important terms

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and informations that you might

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encounter during the discussion

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let us first discuss some background

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informations about the author

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ida rivera ford was born on january 22

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1926

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in hollow sulu her parents are pablo

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rivera

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and lourdes consumje back then

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pablo rivera was assigned as judge in

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sulu

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but in later years their family lived in

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other parts of the country

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like vegan dumaguete sorsogon and

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bacolod

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she was famously known as a filipina

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literary author

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and described as a clever woman where

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she write and publish

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numerous works like poems essays

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operators please and short stories

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in 1949 she graduated as laude

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with her degree of ab english in siliman

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university

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negros occidental

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in 1954 ford acquired her master's

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degree in english language and

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literature

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at university of michigan through the

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fulbright grant

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fulbright grant is a scholarship for

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exchange students

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to have research studies in u.s

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in 1958 she was married to donald ford

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who was then the director of the united

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states information services

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and had her son through her five

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well-crafted stories

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rivera ford won the jules and ivory

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hopwood award

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for fiction in 1954. in 1980

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she founded the learning center of the

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arts in davao city

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the first college of fine arts in

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mindanao

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it was renamed ford academy of the arts

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incorporated in 1993.

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she also worked as a professor and

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served as a humanities department head

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in ateneo de davao university for 11

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years

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her story the chief test mourner which

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has been a staple in many philippine

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literature books

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was written as a requirement for her

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baccalaureate

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presently at the age of 95

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ida rivera ford is currently residing at

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dabao city

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now we're moving on to the literary

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analysis

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of the story the chief just mourner

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first are the characters

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denise she was the author itself

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and the narrator of the story she is the

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niece of an sophia

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the poet husband of aunt sophia

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and is known as a famous and a great

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poet

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and sophia denise ann

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and the poet's wife a loyal and

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impatient

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wife essa the other woman

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a young accomplished and a woman of

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means

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there are also other group of characters

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in the story

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like the poet's friends and families

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as well as dennis school mates and

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teachers

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the setting

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predominantly most of the scenes in the

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story

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takes place in the funeral of the poet

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at the chapel

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considering the physical and social

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conditions presented in the story

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it is easily to predict that the

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characteristics are somehow wealthy

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considering that the narrator who

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happens to be the niece of the dead poet

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is boarding at the big girls college in

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manila

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the presence of a conference room and

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the regular use of spanish language

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these are matters that only wealth of

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families can afford and practice that

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time

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this culture bounded is so reflective up

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until

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this day in our society

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pov or point of view the story uses

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first person as

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its point of view the narrator was able

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to narrate

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the rivalry between the legal wife and

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the mistress

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as well as the conflicts and the theme

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of the story

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the usage of pronouns i me and mai

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give us an idea that the story is in the

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first person perspective

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we are now moving on to the plot of the

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story

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the story started by the narrator or

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denise

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telling how close she was to his late

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uncle

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and consider him as her second father

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she reminisces her memories and

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experiences with her uncle

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like in their school when he saw the

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picture of her

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uncle in the board she can't help but to

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cry

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she received lots of sympathy as her

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uncle is a well-known

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and a great poet that his influence

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affects how others treated her like

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having her work

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captioned by the needs of the late great

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poet

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while some tell he tell her not to be

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unhappy about his

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uncle passing away because he is now

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with

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other great poets but she knew that his

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uncle didn't not only deserted her

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aunt sophia but also the other woman

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and maybe died in her embrace

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her aunt sophia always relates the poet

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as a considerate man when he's sober and

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tries to make up for his mistakes

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she also mentioned that the poet doesn't

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want to be married

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as he doesn't see himself as a husband

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material

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because of his vices not until he finds

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the beauty of her wife sophia

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which make him change his mind the poet

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always went

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home drunk that his wife can't bear

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that is when sophia tied him in a chair

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to learn his lesson

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this is the time where the poet decided

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to leave her wife

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and their home time has passed and the

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poet finds his new woman

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the niece serves as a way of

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communication for the poet

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and her wife and sophia will drop her

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in the poet's hotel and band with him

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the poet always asks about her aunt and

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she tells everything about what she

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observed

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and know about her aunt then the poet

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will ask him or her

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to give her letters for his wife

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the poet slowly loses his weight and

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that gives satisfaction to sofia

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for her it proves that the poet is

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hurting because of their separation

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when denise turned 11 she overheard her

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mom

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and his aunt talking in spanish which is

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why she found her interest in learning

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the spanish language

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she then knew that essa as what her mom

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and

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aunt called her was a young accomplished

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and a woman of means

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that this woman won't allow her uncle on

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his own way

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she always follows him and called

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herself as

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wife this gives confusion to people

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to whether the real wife was her aunt or

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essa

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when her uncle died she was puzzled

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whether between the two women is the

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widow

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morning when she came into the funeral

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she saw her aunt sitting

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in front views or chapel's chair wearing

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black and white print clothes

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she also saw a woman sitting in other

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side

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wearing a black dramatic dress with a

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long veil

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it was essen the other woman

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this makes his uncle's funeral unusual

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with two women

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taking possessions when she went to the

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casket to see her

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uncle she saw a white flower in a dove

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sheep with weights

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from the loyal one she know that it is

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from the other woman

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and not from his aunt sophia

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the poet's friend arrives in the funeral

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and she guessed it is a hard decision

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whether to go to the side of his aunt or

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to essa

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most of the girls went to her own side

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while some boys

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went other ways the high-profile people

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are also present in the funeral like the

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president

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and other famous poets and the likes

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time passed and no one between the two

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women lived

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she appreciated his aunt's dali cadeza

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and soon went home when she got hungry

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early the next day they went back to the

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chapel and the other woman is not around

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but at the afternoon the woman arrived

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wearing the same dress she wore

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but then her hair is not tied and her

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skin glowing up with her eyes

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still striking some of the women

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in the funeral gossips about the woman

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the whisper went louder

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good enough for her to hear everything

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the choir the quarrel has started as a

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sister of the poet

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asked the woman to leave the police but

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the woman refuses

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her aunt sophia fought for the peace and

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solemnity of the funeral

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while elsa fought for her right for her

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uncle

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essa tells the people about how she

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sacrificed

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during the hard times of the poem that

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she was the one who is there

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when he isn't well selling her jewelries

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to support him

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and went to people and publishers to pay

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the hospital bills

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she then asked them if any one of them

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went during those times and now they

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want her to live so that they can have

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the picture together with the president

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sophia answered her telling that what

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they want is to honor the dead

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and to have a peaceful funeral and that

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they couldn't go to him in that times

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because

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she make lots of scandals for him and

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that essa

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was there when he is sick at that moment

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the least essa can do is to leave him in

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peace

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esta leave the place with her mascara

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running down

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to his face but denise said that it's

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not funny at

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all the conflict is in the type of man

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vs man the main conflict of the story

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is the feud between the two women

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whether who

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deserves to be called as widow and take

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possessions

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what is the theme of the story

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theme of the stories are unconditional

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love

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sacrificial societal set up and spanish

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influence

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unconditional love and sacrifices are

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both seen in the character

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of the other woman because of her love

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for the poet

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she sacrifices his belongings like

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jewelries

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just to support the needs of him and

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even talk to other publishers for the

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poet's work to republish and use the

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money for their bills

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she also stayed in the side of the poet

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even in the hardest times

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social setups and spanish influence are

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also seen in the story

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like a man having two wives and and that

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almost sees the other woman as the bad

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one

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spanish terms and ways are shown

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for example the word deli cadeza

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and denise having interest in spanish

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language

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while innocence can also be one of the

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team in the story

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symbolism the author use multiple

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symbolism in order to

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make the story effective since the plot

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type is

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just simple and somehow usual to stories

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and sophia's black and white queen

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clothes

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symbolize her shallow sympathy and love

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for the poet

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while the mistress dramatic black outfit

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pictures

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out her deepest love and condolences for

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her husband

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the cluster of white flowers that was

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seen by the poet's

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niece near the casket with a note from

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the loyal one

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definitely is from the mistress

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for that ingeniously fashioned dove

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sheep flowery

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defines that features of the mistress

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the white flower symbolizes her pure

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love and loyalty

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that she had offered to her husband

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so what is the moral lesson of the story

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in the world of love you must learn

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acceptance

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you have to accept the reality on how

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both of you cope with each other with

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the things you really don't want and

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hate

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even how it is for the sake of your

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relation relationship

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you must accept but remember

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accept but never tolerate

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another is that true love is not always

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measured with papers

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sometimes there are people whom you've

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not related to

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or just like the story asana not being

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the real wife

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but still stayed and cared for the poet

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even for the hardest times someone who

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is

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willing to sacrifice just to support him

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if we are to base it from the law it was

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the legal wife

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who should be honored but based on love

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the mistress is the one who describes it

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more

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in the end the mistress led the legal

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wife to be the chief test

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chiefest murderer and this is what you

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call real love

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how can we relate the story to filipino

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culture

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we can relate the filipino culture to

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this story

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for it showcases social setups family

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issues and reality

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that mistresses are weak in the eyes of

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most filipinos

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essa is a victim of cultural production

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and she was labeled as mistress

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mistress a product of changing culture

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where she belongs to essa

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is not aware that she exceeds the way

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the culture defines the relationship

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because culture changes from a given

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period of time

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as the time pass by we can observe that

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this kind of setup

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is becoming normal in today's life

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though

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of course we are not tolerating or

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saying that

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it is a right thing to do but also

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let's not make it a reason to judge and

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disregard people

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before i end my discussion i just want

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to show you this quotation

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from paul ferry you demonstrate love by

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giving it

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unconditionally to yourself and as you

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do

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you attract others into your life who

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are able to love you without conditions

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do you think who really is the chief

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test mourner

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the answer for this question hangs on

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you

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and that concludes my report once again

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i'm mark jovanji choppilon from bsn

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english to me

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thank you for listening and i hope that

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you've learned a lot from my report

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have a nice day

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