Let’s Talk Porn | Maria Ahlin | TEDxGöteborg
Summary
TLDRLe script aborde les effets pernicieux de la consommation de pornographie sur la santé et les relations humaines. Il décrit comment la pornographie agressif et humiliant est devenue la norme, influençant les attitudes et les comportements sexuels. La recherche montre un lien entre la consommation de pornographie et l'agression sexuelle, et met en évidence les effets addictifs de la pornographie sur le cerveau. L'appel à l'action pour une éducation critique sur le sujet est lancé, afin de promouvoir une société axée sur l'égalité, le consentement et la santé sexuelle.
Takeaways
- 🔞 La pornographie peut être perçue comme une drogue, ayant des effets néfastes sur la santé mentale et la sexualité des individus.
- 👶 L'exposition précoce à la pornographie, dès l'âge de six ans, peut avoir des conséquences à long terme sur la santé mentale et la perception de la sexualité.
- 🔄 L'addiction à la pornographie est comparée à celle aux drogues, nécessitant de plus en plus de contenu agressif pour ressentir le même plaisir.
- 📺 La pornographie est devenue le principal enseignant de l'éducation sexuelle, influençant les attitudes et les comportements sexuels des individus.
- 📉 Une analyse de contenu a révélé que la pornographie moderne est de plus en plus agressive et humiliante, ce qui peut influencer de manière négative les normes sociales.
- 🤬 La majorité des scènes pornos analysées contenaient de l'agression physique et verbale, souvent dirigée contre les femmes et perçue positivement ou neutrement dans le contexte de la pornographie.
- 🚫 L'agression dans la pornographie est souvent trivialisée et peut conduire à une désensibilisation à l'égard de l'agression sexuelle réelle.
- 🧠 La pornographie peut altérer le circuit de récompense du cerveau, conduisant à une dépendance et à un comportement compulsif.
- 👨👩👧👦 Il est essentiel d'engager des conversations sur la pornographie, éduquant les jeunes et les adultes sur ses effets potentiels et encourageant une réflexion critique.
- 🌟 Des initiatives éducatives visant à changer les attitudes envers la pornographie ont déjà porté leurs fruits, aidant certains à s'abstenir et à adopter une vision plus saine de la sexualité.
Q & A
Comment Alex a-t-il décrit son expérience avec la pornographie dès son plus jeune âge?
-Alex a déclaré que dès l'âge de six ans, il a eu des difficultés à dormir après avoir vu des images de pornographie qui étaient très fortes.
Quelle est la comparaison que l'orateur fait entre la pornographie et une drogue?
-L'orateur compare la pornographie à une drogue en raison de son influence négative sur la santé et le comportement des individus, et en soulignant que, comme les drogues, la pornographie peut être difficile à quitter.
Pourquoi l'orateur mentionne-t-il la série 'Friends' dans son discours?
-La série 'Friends' est utilisée comme exemple pour illustrer comment la pornographie a été perçue dans le passé, où Joey et Chandler étaient ravis d'avoir accès à la pornographie par erreur, ce qui contraste avec la nécessité d'en parler aujourd'hui en raison de ses impacts négatifs.
Quels sont les effets de la pornographie sur la sexualité et les relations, selon les recherches mentionnées dans le discours?
-Les recherches mentionnées dans le discours montrent que la pornographie peut conduire à des attitudes qui trivialisent l'agression sexuelle, à une augmentation des actes sexuellement agressifs et à une déhumanisation des individus, ce qui a un impact sur les normes et les attentes dans les relations réelles.
Quelle étude a été menée par Natalie Purcell sur la pornographie?
-Natalie Purcell, titulaire d'un doctorat en sociologie, a mené une analyse de contenu sur plus de 100 des films les plus populaires et les mieux vendus, révélant une augmentation de l'agression et de l'humiliation dans les films de pornographie.
Quels types d'actes agressifs ont été observés dans les films de pornographie selon l'étude de 2005?
-L'étude de 2005 a révélé que près de 90% des scènes contenaient de l'agression physique, comme le choking et le slapping, et près de 50% contenaient de l'agression verbale, principalement sous forme d'injures.
Quel message est envoyé par les films de pornographie où l'agression est perçue positivement ou neutrement?
-Les films de pornographie où l'agression est perçue positivement ou neutrement renforcent l'idée que l'agression est acceptable ou même souhaitable dans les relations sexuelles, ce qui est contraire aux normes sociales et aux attentes dans la vie réelle.
Quelle est la conséquence potentielle de la consommation de pornographie sur les jeunes, selon le discours?
-La consommation de pornographie peut conduire les jeunes à développer des comportements compulsifs, des attitudes négatives envers l'agression sexuelle, et à s'inquiéter de ne pas correspondre aux normes extrêmes présentées dans la pornographie.
Quelle étude a été menée par le Dr. Valerie Voon sur l'effet de la pornographie sur le cerveau?
-Le Dr. Valerie Voon a mené une étude qui a montré que les utilisateurs compulsifs de pornographie présentent des相似ités avec les toxicomanes sur plusieurs niveaux, notamment en ce qui concerne la réactivité du cerveau face à la pornographie et l'envie de consommation.
Quelle solution propose l'orateur pour aborder le problème de la pornographie?
-L'orateur propose d'utiliser l'éducation et les conversations critiques comme stratégies principales pour changer les attitudes envers la pornographie, en encourageant les discussions dans les écoles, les lieux de travail, et les foyers.
Outlines
🎬 Pornographie et ses effets sur la santé mentale
Le texte décrit l'impact de la pornographie sur la santé mentale et la sexualité, en se basant sur l'expérience d'Alex, un jeune homme de 19 ans qui a commencé à consommer de la pornographie à l'âge de 6 ans. Il explique que la pornographie est devenue une sorte de drogue pour lui, avec des périodes de sobriété interrompues par des rechutes. L'auteur souligne l'importance de remettre en question les normes et les attentances sexuelles imposées par la pornographie et suggère d'examiner les effets de cette industrie sur notre société.
📚 Éducation sexuelle par la pornographie : un problème
Le script mentionne que la pornographie est devenue le principal enseignant de l'éducation sexuelle, ce qui est inquiétant étant donné que les films pornographiques contiennent des actes agressifs et humiliants. Des études ont montré que la pornographie moderne est de plus en plus violente et que les actes comme l'asphyxie, le double pénétration et le strangulation sont devenus communs. Ces actes sont souvent présentés de manière positive ou neutre, ce qui peut influencer les attitudes des consommateurs envers la violence sexuelle.
🧠 Comment la pornographie altère le cerveau et conduit à l'addiction
Cette partie du script explore les effets de la pornographie sur le cerveau, en utilisant des études scientifiques pour montrer comment elle peut devenir une addiction. Les chercheurs ont découvert que la consommation compulsive de pornographie active le système de récompense du cerveau de manière similaire à l'addiction aux drogues. Les utilisateurs compulsifs de pornographie réagissent plus fortement aux images érotiques, montrant un désir accru pour la pornographie, sans nécessairement avoir un désir sexuel plus élevé.
🌟 Éducation et dialogue pour changer les attitudes envers la pornographie
Le texte appelle à une éducation et à des conversations ouvertes sur la pornographie pour changer les attitudes et les normes sexuelles. L'auteur suggère que l'éducation est un outil essentiel pour prévenir l'addiction à la pornographie et pour promouvoir une sexualité saine et éthique. Des témoignages positifs de jeunes qui ont réussi à s'abstenir de la pornographie grâce à l'éducation sont également partagés, montrant l'impact potentiel de cette approche.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡pornographie
💡santé
💡addiction
💡agression sexuelle
💡éducation sexuelle
💡pornographie mainstream
💡dépendance
💡médecine comportementale
💡éducation critique
💡pornographie et société
Highlights
Pornography is described as a drug by a young man who has been consuming it since the age of six.
The young man's struggle with quitting porn is likened to having sober periods with relapses.
A societal shift is proposed where attitudes are not shaped by porn and where it doesn't set standards for sexuality and relationships.
The sitcom 'Friends' is used as a cultural reference to compare past and present attitudes towards porn.
Pornography is identified as the primary teacher of sex education, raising questions about its curriculum.
A content analysis of popular porn movies reveals aggressive and abusive acts in almost every film.
The study by Natalie Purcell shows an increase in aggression and humiliation in porn since the 1970s.
Acts like ATM, gagging, and choking have become common in mainstream porn, affecting societal norms.
A study by Anna Bridget's and associates found physical aggression in 90% of analyzed porn scenes.
The typical response to aggression in porn is positive or neutral, contrary to real-life expectations.
The impact of porn on real-life relationships is discussed, including unrealistic expectations and performance pressure.
A personal account of a man considering strangling his girlfriend to elicit a porn-like response is shared.
The long-term effects of early exposure to porn are discussed, including body image issues and compulsive consumption.
Research shows a link between porn consumption and acting out sexually aggressive acts.
Neuroscientists have found that porn hijacks the brain's reward pathway, leading to compulsive behavior.
Dr. Valerie Voon's study on the brain activity of compulsive porn users is highlighted.
The need for education and conversation about porn is emphasized to change societal attitudes.
A father shares his tip for discussing porn with children, suggesting the car as a good environment for the conversation.
A message from a young man who quit porn after education on its impact is shared as a success story.
The talk concludes with a call to action to start conversations about porn based on research, statistics, and real-life stories.
Transcripts
[Music]
to me
porn is a drug
these words belong to alex a porn
consuming young man which i interviewed
for my co-author book on how porn
affects our health
he was six years old when he first
stumbled upon porn
and the images were so strong he told me
he even had trouble sleeping afterwards
today he is 19 and still haven't been
able to quit porn
it's like having sober periods with
relapses he explained where i need more
and more aggressive porn to experience
the same kick
would you think about this
a society
where our attitudes aren't constantly
being shaped by porn
a society where porn doesn't get to set
the standard for our sexuality
our relationships our attitudes
before we even have a chance to explore
these amazing things for ourselves
my favorite sitcom of all times is
friends
if you do not know that one and i
definitely think you should it's the
very popular american tv show
about six friends living in new york
city
in one of the episodes the two
characters joey and chandler had by
mistake may i add gotten free cable tv
access to porn
oh happy day right
i mean they were so happy they did
everything in their power to keep that
tv on
and that kind of made me think what was
it about porn back then
that made joey and chandler want to keep
their tv showing pouring on
and what is it about today's mainstream
porn that is just so important we talk
about
too many nowadays
porn is the number one teacher on sex
education and if that's the case it's
only fair that we ask ourselves
what curriculum does this teacher use
in 2012
natalie purcell who's a phd in sociology
from the university of california
did a content analysis where she looked
at over 100 of the roughly 250
most popular and best-selling porn
movies
she found
aggressive
abusive
and cursive acts
in almost every single movie
the analysis also showed how porn ever
since the 70s has become increasingly
more aggressive and humiliating
and by the end of the time period that
was analyzed which was the 2000s
acts like atm
gagging
double penetration and even choking were
included in almost every single movie
now atm is not the money machine it's
actually an act called ass to mouth
meaning that the penis first enters the
anus and then it goes directly into the
mouth
and gagging is an act where the penis
goes so far down the throat that
basically your gag reflexes will start
to kick in
it wasn't until the 2000s when these
acts were heavily introduced in
mainstream porn 20 years before that it
was basically unheard of
in another interesting study this one
going back to as early as 2005 by anna
bridget's and associates
looked at a random sample of 50
out of the 275
best-selling most rented u.s port movies
from the time period of december 2004
to june 2005
then added these 50 movies they then
randomly selected 304 scenes and
analyzed them
and here's what they found
about 9 out of 10 scenes contained
physical aggression
now physical aggression was defined
primarily as gagging
remember the penis down the throat
slapping
and even hair pulling among other things
also about 5 out of 10 scenes contained
verbal aggression
which then primarily was defined as name
calling where the most common names that
were used were [ __ ]
and [ __ ]
most of the people
that were exposed to this aggression
were women
and what was
their typical response to this
aggression you think
almost everyone reacted either positive
or neutral
almost never negative
let's apply this to everyday life shall
we let's say i'd given you a gentle
stroke on the cheek i'll probably see a
smile on your face
had i instead
slapped you
you would perhaps not be as happy with
me
am i right
yeah i would assume
important the typical response to
aggression is precisely the opposite of
what you would otherwise expect in real
life
in real life you will be mad at me for
slapping you but important
either you remain neutral or you even
groan and ask for more
we just have to stop here for a second
and consider the message that this is
sending what pressure what norms what
standards is created from this
i
once met with a guy
who shared his concerns about his
girlfriend never screaming and moaning
like they do in porn
and he goes what am i doing wrong
and then he says
you know what
maybe i should try to strangle her
that she will probably enjoy
that was kind of my reaction as well
yeah
i've educated on this issue for about 10
years now
i met with kids
from the ages of five and six
whom stumbled upon pornography
and i met with young girls comparing
themselves to the very often extreme
standards set by porn thinking they
aren't good enough not pretty enough not
sexy enough
i met with teenagers who compulsively
consume pornography on a regular basis
doing everything in their power to quit
often unsuccessfully
and i met with guys
so eager to please and so eager to
perform just like they do in porn
and when they aren't getting the typical
porn response from their partner in bed
a lot of them blame themselves for not
being able to perform sexually
i was right in the middle of a talk
about porn when a mom
raised her hand
and she stood up grabbed the mic and
said
the other day
my eight-year-old boy came running out
of his room hysterically crying
at first the little boy had refused to
tell his parents what had happened he
did not want to talk about it
but eventually it became clear he'd
stumble upon porn
but it wasn't so much the actual porn
that he had seen that upset him
he was crying because he thought
this this thing that i just saw
important
is what my mom and dad do to each other
in bed
more than 50 years of research has shown
us what porn causes
first porn can produce attitudes which
then goes and trivializes sexual
aggression
research proves a strong link between
porn consumption and acting out sexually
aggressive acts like sexual assault
and here's the thing even porn that's
non-aggressive can have these effects on
our attitudes due to the fact that
whenever a person in porn is being
dehumanized that's when the change in
attitudes
is happening
i mean are we getting this this is
actually what porn
can do to us
now not all of course who consume
pornography will go out and sexually
assault someone that's like not what
we're saying here but the fact remains
that for an alarming amount of sex
offenders porn was a triggering factor
leading them to be less sensitive to
sexual aggression
this is not rocket science this is
basic human psychology
what we see often we get used to
let's go back to
joey and chandler for a second
my favorite sitcom friends
what was it that was going on inside
their brains that made them so eager to
keep that tv on
neuroscientists have found that
pornography hijacks the reward pathway
in the brain and can become a compulsive
behavior with addictive qualities
in 2014 dr valerie voon and i think this
must be stated for the wreckage she's a
global authority on addiction
and also the leading researcher in the
neuroscience department at the
university of cambridge
she released her long-awaited study
a study that provided groundbreaking
results on how viewing porn affects the
brain
and the study showed how compulsive porn
users
have real similarities on several levels
to those addicted to drugs
the image that you see here is an
illustration of a brain scan image that
shows the brain activity of healthy
volunteers when shown pornography
versus compulsive users
and as you can see when the compulsive
users were shown porn their response was
much higher
indicating that they were both more
triggered by the porn shown to them and
that they also experienced a stronger
urge for porn
so the compulsive users had a greater
wanting for porn but
they still did not have a higher sexual
desire and the liking for it
which is a finding that should debunk
the myth that those who are compulsive
porn users must simply be people with a
greater sexual desire
also having a warning for something but
not a liking for it
is a finding that really fits like a
glove with the current definition of
addiction
the facts are starting to pile up and if
you ask me it's just a matter of time
and research before pornography
addiction is formally acknowledged
but until then
we have to continue listening to those
who are brave enough to share their
stories with us
okay so
i think you would agree with me that we
definitely have a challenge here right
i mean we have 24 7 unlimited access to
physically
verbally aggressive material that
clearly has an impact on our attitudes
relationships sexuality intimacy
possibly even causing addiction
therefore we need to act now we need to
act quickly if we want to change this
because as of now this train is headed
in the wrong direction
so
do you want a solution
yeah i can sense that
i mean i really think it's so important
that we talk
porn
okay
with education as one of our main
strategies we're going to start the
conversation about porn
we are going to talk to our students
kids colleagues teachers family members
neighbors whoever wants to listen to us
we must include a critical discussion
about porn in schools in workplaces in
locker rooms at home
just like we disrupted the idea that
smoking was just a harmless and a social
thing to do
and just like we're teaching critical
thinking about media and advertisement
we are going to disrupt
old ideas and beliefs about porn and
start teaching critical thinking about
it
with education and conversation that
creates awareness we are going to equip
the next generation with the mindset
that won't make them easy targets
i
sat down with a father who
wanted to share his best tip on how to
talk to your kid about porn
well he said first you got to make sure
that the conversation you're having is
happening while driving your car
okay so you're driving and your kid is
next to you
first you don't have to look straight at
each other so that helps right
and second he goes and he almost like
whispered and says your kid can't go
anywhere
whatever works right
obviously just having a conversation
about porn even if it's you know the
really awesome car conversation
isn't going to solve everything
this is not a small problem therefore no
you know quick fix solutions exist
but i believe that by teaching a
critical thinking a critical mindset to
this we're off to a pretty good start
and now if you're kind of wondering is
this educational strategy is it really
working
i want to show you a message
that we received on instagram just a
couple of weeks ago to changing
attitudes
and changing attitudes is a youth
organization where i'm ceo and we
basically educate on this issue
now let me read this to you because it
is pretty awesome
i would just like to thank you for being
a contributing factor to me having
completely quit porn
i've been porn free for two months now
and i'm feeling much better than before
also i feel i'm no longer contributing
to an offensive and obnoxious industry
how awesome is this
right
to me this is this is what it's all
about yeah
[Applause]
what do you think about this
a
society
based on equality
based on consent based on sexual health
where we get to explore and where we get
to be curious
and where we get to decide what we want
what we think is sexy what turns us on
but to get there we need to start the
conversation about porn now
we need to anchor ourselves in research
stats science real life stories
for too long
the health consequences generated by
porn has been more or less completely
ignored
but it's time we changed that
which is why i'm leaving you with this
how are you going to talk about porn
thank you very much
you
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