Handsome Men’s Game | Things You Will Experience As A Handsome/Select Man

Summary

In this video, Josh discusses the unique experiences of being a 'select' man, emphasizing the impact of physical attractiveness and self-improvement on social interactions. He highlights how women and even other men react differently to handsome and well-groomed men, often leading to nervousness, flattery, or competition. Josh advises staying self-sufficient and not being overly excited by attention, as it can attract both admiration and games from others. His message encourages embracing one's attractiveness while maintaining self-awareness and confidence.

Takeaways

• 😎 Being 'select' or handsome can lead to different social experiences, including attracting attention from both men and women.
• 💪 Physical fitness and personal grooming play a significant role in how one is perceived, especially in terms of attractiveness.
• 👥 People may act differently around those who are physically attractive, including nervousness or attempts to gain validation.
• 🤔 Attractive individuals may notice that women act nervous or give off signals of interest without much effort on their part.
• 👀 Women might position themselves to be noticed or engage in behaviors to attract attention when they find someone attractive.
• 🚫 Attractive men may receive negative or 'hater' vibes from other men who feel insecure or threatened.
• 👋 It's important for attractive individuals to be aware of social dynamics and not to give unnecessary attention or validation to those seeking it.
• 🤷‍♀️ Some women may play games or seek validation, even if they're not genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship.
• 💡 Being attractive can lead to a sense of being 'different' and standing out from the crowd, which can be both a blessing and a challenge.
• 🛡️ Attractive individuals should be prepared to handle negative energy or aggression from others due to jealousy or insecurity.
• 🏋️‍♂️ The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-improvement, suggesting that focusing on personal growth can lead to a more fulfilling life.

Q & A

What is the main theme of Josh and J's car video?

The main theme of the video is the experience of being a 'select' or attractive man and how it affects interactions with women and other men.

What does Josh suggest is the effect of a man's improved physical appearance on women's behavior?

Josh suggests that when a man improves his physical appearance and becomes more attractive, women may act differently around him, often becoming nervous or seeking his attention.

According to the video, how do women react when they are attracted to a quiet and self-aware man?

The video suggests that women may become more sexual in their body language, position themselves in front of the man, and act in ways that are out of the ordinary to get his attention.

What does Josh describe as a common behavior of women when they are attracted to a man who is not giving them extra attention?

Josh describes that women may become confused and start to give compliments or act in a way that seeks to get validation or attention from the man.

Why does Josh believe that some women may act nervous or give compliments when they are around attractive men?

Josh believes that women may act this way because they are trying to get the man's attention or validation, and they may feel insecure or competitive with other women who are also attracted to him.

What does Josh suggest is the reaction of other men to a man who has improved his physical appearance?

Josh suggests that other men may feel threatened or insecure, leading to them giving off 'hater vibes' or engaging in behaviors like 'mate guarding' their women around the attractive man.

How does Josh describe the workplace dynamics when a man is physically attractive?

Josh describes that in the workplace, attractive men may receive unusual or nervous behavior from women, such as unnecessary comments or attempts to position themselves near the man.

What is Josh's advice for men who are experiencing women trying to steal validation from them?

Josh advises men not to participate in the game and to back away, as they will get attention and move on anyway, and not to give in to women who are trying to use them for validation.

How does Josh explain the concept of 'select' in the context of attractiveness and self-improvement?

Josh explains 'select' as a state of being an attractive man who has worked on his appearance and aura, making him stand out and become a target of attention and sometimes games from others.

What does Josh recommend for men who want to avoid negative interactions with others due to their attractiveness?

Josh recommends that men should focus on doing something they love, like fitness or a hobby, to build their brand and not take care of their skin or physical appearance, which can help them stand out positively.