How to Disappear and Transform Yourself - Tier List
Summary
TLDRThis video script offers a tiered list of advice for effectively 'disappearing' to focus on personal growth and success. It clarifies misconceptions, emphasizing the importance of setting clear goals, not sharing plans broadly, and working diligently without seeking external validation. It dispels myths about needing to be reclusive or changing one's identity, advocating for a balanced approach that includes social interaction and leveraging social media strategically. The key takeaway is the necessity of putting in consistent effort and handling challenges privately to emerge stronger.
Takeaways
- 🤐 Shut your mouth means to not unnecessarily reveal your plans and progress to avoid misunderstandings and potential sabotage.
- 🚫 Physically disappearing is not required to 'disappear' effectively; it's more about working in the shadows while being visible to others.
- 🎯 Setting clear goals is the most critical step for success, and it's essential to be obsessively clear about what you want to achieve.
- 🚫 Don't let others' opinions weigh you down; they can be a force of mediocrity and self-sabotage, but be cautious with those who genuinely support you.
- 🔒 Hide your plans to avoid giving others the chance to influence or undermine your goals.
- 🔨 Talking about your progress can lead to a false sense of accomplishment, potentially causing you to stop working towards your goals.
- 👫 Confiding in a close friend or partner can be helpful but isn't necessary; be cautious about who you trust with your journey.
- 👪 Disconnecting from friends and family is a misunderstanding; maintaining these relationships is crucial for a healthy environment.
- 🕵️♂️ Being mysterious is a natural outcome of disappearing effectively, not a goal in itself.
- 🌟 Disappearing into the shadows doesn't require you to become an introvert; both introverts and extroverts can succeed in this endeavor.
- 📵 Social media should be used strategically to support your goals, not as a time-wasting activity.
- 🚫 Changing your name or identity is not necessary for disappearing and transforming.
- 🤝 You don't need to stop socializing; instead, control what you share about your goals and progress.
- 🏋️♂️ Putting in the work is as critical as setting clear goals; persistence and daily effort are key to achieving success.
- 😭 Hide your pain and struggles; dealing with them privately builds resilience and contributes to your transformation.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video 'How to Disappear'?
-The main purpose of the video is to clarify misconceptions about disappearing effectively and to provide a tier list of strategies based on the speaker's experiences to help viewers become successful while staying out of the limelight.
What does the speaker mean by 'shut your mouth' in the context of the video?
-In the context of the video, 'shut your mouth' means not to unnecessarily reveal your plans and progress to others, which can lead to unwanted opinions and potential sabotage of your goals.
Why is 'physically disappear' considered a D-tier strategy according to the video?
-'Physically disappear' is a D-tier strategy because it suggests extreme isolation, which is not necessary for success. One can still achieve goals while being physically visible to others.
What is the significance of setting clear goals in the process of disappearing and achieving success?
-Setting clear goals is considered an S-tier strategy because it is crucial for any method of success. Knowing what you want to achieve and having a clear vision of it helps accomplish half the battle.
Why should one avoid caring about others' opinions while trying to achieve their goals?
-Caring about others' opinions can act as a weight, pulling you down to mediocrity and acting as a form of self-sabotage. It's important to be cautious and not let others' jealousy or opinions hinder your progress.
What is the reasoning behind hiding your plans from others?
-Hiding your plans prevents others from influencing your goals with their opinions, which can lead to self-sabotage. It's advised to only share with someone who genuinely supports and pushes you towards your goals.
What does the speaker mean by 'hide your progress' and why is it important?
-Hiding your progress is important because discussing it can trigger brain responses similar to achieving the goal, leading to a premature sense of accomplishment and potentially stopping further progress.
Why is confiding in a close friend or partner considered a C-tier strategy?
-Confiding in a close friend or partner is a C-tier strategy because, while it can be helpful, it also carries risks. It's crucial to be selective about who you confide in to ensure they genuinely support your journey.
What is the speaker's stance on disconnecting from friends and family to disappear effectively?
-The speaker is against disconnecting from friends and family, placing it in the F tier. They are critical parts of life and should be nurtured, but it doesn't mean sharing everything with them.
Why does the speaker refute the idea of becoming an introvert as a requirement for disappearing into the shadows?
-The speaker refutes this idea because both introverts and extroverts can disappear into the shadows and achieve success. It's not about detaching from society but working diligently towards goals without drawing unnecessary attention.
How should one approach social media in the context of disappearing and transforming?
-One should use social media surgically, leveraging it as a tool for achieving goals if it helps, but avoiding wasting time on it without a clear intention to accomplish objectives.
What is the significance of putting in the work in the process of disappearing and achieving success?
-Putting in the work is an S-tier strategy because it is fundamental to achieving any goal. Building grit and working consistently each day is essential for success and transformation.
Why is hiding your pain considered an A-tier strategy in the journey of transformation?
-Hiding your pain is an A-tier strategy because it encourages resilience and self-reliance. Embracing the struggle and dealing with pain alone builds strength and contributes to becoming invincible.
Outlines
🤫 The Art of Disappearing: Clarifications and Strategies
This paragraph addresses common misconceptions about disappearing effectively, using a tier list to guide viewers. The speaker emphasizes the importance of not revealing plans or progress unnecessarily, which is placed in the B tier. They clarify that physical disappearance is not required and is considered a D tier strategy. Setting clear goals is deemed critical (S tier), while caring about others' opinions is A tier advice to avoid. Hiding plans and progress is also A tier, as it prevents self-sabotage and premature satisfaction.
🔍 Navigating Social Dynamics for Personal Growth
This section discusses the role of confiding in close friends or partners, which is considered situational with a C tier ranking. Disconnecting from friends and family is refuted as a misguided approach (F tier), while being mysterious is an outcome, not a goal (C tier). The paragraph also dispels the myth that disappearing means becoming an introvert (F tier), and highlights the importance of social media usage aligned with personal goals (B tier). Changing one's name and identity is an extreme and unnecessary measure (F tier), and stopping social interactions is also a misunderstanding (D tier).
🏆 Embracing the Journey of Transformation
The final paragraph focuses on the importance of putting in consistent work (S tier) and hiding one's pain during the transformation process (A tier). It stresses the significance of perseverance, grit, and self-reliance in facing challenges. The speaker encourages embracing the struggle and assures the community's support, offering additional tips through a linked video for those interested in further guidance on disappearing into the shadows.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Disappear
💡Misunderstandings
💡Tier List
💡Shadows
💡Clear Goals
💡Opinions
💡Plans
💡Progress
💡Confide
💡Social Media
💡Work
💡Pain
Highlights
Clarifying misconceptions about disappearing effectively and for the right reasons using a tier list.
Shutting your mouth means not revealing your plans and progress unnecessarily, placed in the B tier.
Physically disappearing is not required to be successful, rated D tier.
Setting clear goals is critical and the most important thing to do in life, S tier.
Not caring about others' thoughts is essential for growth, A tier.
Hiding your plans prevents self-sabotage by avoiding unnecessary opinions, A tier.
Hiding your progress prevents premature goal accomplishment feelings, A tier.
Confiding in a close friend or partner can be helpful but is not necessary, C tier.
Disconnecting from friends and family is a misunderstanding, F tier.
Being mysterious is a natural outcome, not a goal, C tier.
Disappearing doesn't require you to become an introvert, F tier.
Social media should be used strategically, not as a time waster, B tier.
Changing your name and identity is not necessary for transformation, F tier.
Socializing is important but control what you reveal, D tier.
Putting in the work is crucial for achieving goals, S tier.
Hiding your pain is part of the transformation journey, A tier.
The community provides invisible support during the struggle, not specified.
Transcripts
you guys had a lot to say about the how to disappear
video I had to get back on and clarify some dangerous
misconceptions so
you all can disappear effectively
and for the right reasons
and what better way than to use a tier list
as usual this is a no nonsense
no BS pulled from my own experiences
kind of video
that is going to get you to become a beast
in the shadows in no time
make sure to hear the entire list
because I planted the good ones throughout
okay first up is one you guys had a lot to say about
No. 1 shut your mouth
I think this one is very critical
but it can be misunderstood
some people thought this meant to literally
shut your mouth and not speak
at all no
that's not true
it is focused on not revealing your plans and progress
unnecessarily because it can be so misunderstood
I'll place this in the B tier
we'll get more specific through the video
on what's a way to shut your mouth
to crush it in the shadows more effectively
No. 2 physically disappear
some may think that to disappear and crush it
would require that
you physically disappear from society
that you hole yourself up in a room
and don't show yourself to anyone
it's just not true that's thinking too extreme
this one sits in the d tier because it's not critical
you can still crush it in the shadows
while you are physically in plain sight
that's the mysterious nature of this
you can be physically seen
but you are not totally seen
because you are building and growing in the shadows
for you and no one else
No.3 set clear goals
this is so critical
not just for disappearing effectively
but for any method of crushing it
arguably the most important thing to do in life
period
s tier no question
it's the goat of crushing it
if you know what you want to obtain
and it's clear and detailed and you can envision it
then you've accomplished half the battle
if you are so crystal clear on your goals
there is very little that the universe can do to stop
you take this one very seriously
and be obsessively clear on what you want to obtain
make it measurable make it achievable
and remind yourself every chance you get
and here's a teaser
the other goat on this list is near the end
No. 4 don't care about others thoughts
caring about others opinions
is like placing weights on yourself
as you are trying to rock it higher and higher
others opinions are a force of bringing you down
to mediocrity it really is a form of self sabotage
so you absolutely need to avoid it
there may be your life partner or that special
rare friend that you bounce ideas off of
and they do sincerely want you to succeed
sure but it's safe to always be cautious
most people can't help themselves
but to become jealous and bring you down
it's not their fault it's a human condition
so because of the nuances here
this one goes to the a tier
very critical that you don't care about others opinions
but with the exception that
you may have that very special person
you confide in and that guides you
coaches you
No.5 hide your plans
the more you reveal your goals and plans
the more chances you are giving
others to share their opinions
and bring you down
it's like putting a target on your back
self sabotage why do it
this one goes to the a tier
same thing goes with this as the prior tip
share only with that special person you found
that really will help you and push you
but no one else
shut your mouth when it comes to your plans
No.6 hide your progress
a member of our community
Arun
commented a very insightful point that resonates here
well he shared that
there is a science behind talking about your progress
he explains that when you talk about your progress
along the way to your goals
it triggers
similar brain responses that are similar to you
actually achieving your goals
and what happens is that
because you received that prize
response from your brain
you prematurely gain a sense of goal accomplishment
which likely results in you ending your progress
we all know about projects that we started and stopped
well sharing your progress contributes to those stopped
projects I place this one on the a tier
share it with your special someone maybe
but that's it
and thanks to those who are sharing their thoughts
in the comments the discussion helps the community
and I get motivated and learn a lot as well
No.7 confide in a close friend or partner
we've talked about this one a lot
but now I can share my ranking of it
yes I agree
sometimes having that close person next to you
can be an accelerant to your journey
in Beast Mode but to be very honest
I don't see it as necessary
you by yourself
can disappear into the shadows and crush it
you by yourself can disappear and go into beast mode
there is no dependence on having someone
it can be helpful but it is risky
since you really need to be careful who you confide in
you have to always be on your toes
this one goes to the sea tier
I wish
for every one of us to have that special person in
our lives but I won't say that it's required
and by the way as you grow yourself in the shadows
know what you want out of life
pursue your goals and transform
the universe
will reveal these special people to you more
so this has been the truth in my life
No. 8 disconnect from friends and family
disappearing means
to close yourself off from your friends and family
right wrong
that's taking the subject way too literally
your close friends
and your family are critical parts in your life
you need to nurture these relationships
to maintain a healthy environment for yourself
so this one misses the point and I place it in F
nurturing your relationship with friends and family
does not mean you need to share everything with them
they don't need to know what you are working on
in the shadows you will transform before them
and they may have questions
and you will be a bit more mysterious
but that's fine have fun with your friends
love your family still crush it in the shadows
No. 9 be mysterious
being mysterious
is something that will naturally happen
if you disappear correctly
but it's not necessarily a goal in itself
you shouldn't want to be mysterious
but it's a good sign if you are
because it is a symptom of disappearing
and crushing it in the shadows
so this goes into the sea tier
because it's not something you should pursue
it's an outcome from doing what you should be doing
No.10 become an introvert
many of you thought that disappearing into the shadows
was either only for introverts
or would make you an introvert
this is not the case if you disappear properly
introverts and extroverts all can and should
disappear into the shadows
go into absolute beast mode and put in the work
and transform as explained earlier
disappearing
doesn't mean you are detaching yourself from society
it doesn't mean
you aren't socializing with your friends
or networking as a matter of fact
if networking is going to help you obtain your goals
then you should be doing it
and extroverts will do it more naturally
this one goes to F tier
it's a total misunderstanding of the concept
I hope that this clears it up
comment below
if you have any questions about disappearing properly
and about any of these tips
I'll be happy to elaborate further
great discussions by the way
in the comments
our community is sharp and ready to put in the work
and that's amazing
No.11 get off of social media
for the sake of disappearing and transforming
social media it's mostly a waste of your time
but there are some nuances here
let's break it down once and for all
if social media helps you obtain your goals
then by all means leverage it
you may need to learn something from Instagram
or update your LinkedIn profile
to attract certain opportunities
or grow a community on Facebook
but if your actions on social media
are not backed by the full intention
to accomplish your goals then you are wasting your time
and putting yourself at risk
are you using Instagram to broadcast your goals
and your plans just stop it
are you using Twitter to hear others
opinions about everything
to pass time quit it man
such a waste even YouTube
if you are endlessly watching videos
for the sake of watching videos
and not putting in the actual work
that's needed to materialize
what you are learning then you need to pump the brakes
and reflect on how you are allocating your time
due to the nuanced nature of this one
I will place it on tier B
stop wasting your time on social media
and only use it surgically
as a tool to get to your goals
if you need to No. 12
change your name and identity
too far we went too far
I hope you know this is not what we are saying to do
don't take things too literally guys
no you don't need to change your name or your identity
to disappear and transform
F tier just wanted to make sure none of you
were misunderstanding 13
stop socializing
this one has been mentioned quite a lot
and we've touched on it earlier in the video
here and there wanted to call it out explicitly
you don't have to stop socializing
you should socialize with your friends
your family you should network
meet good business partners
expand your friend circles
have fun help others
help yourself
the key is to just make sure not to reveal things
you don't need to this one goes to d tier
it's mostly a misunderstanding
but you do have to control what you socialize
so partially true
No.14 put in the work here
it is the other goat tip
the first one was to know your goals
the first s tier tip and now it's putting in the work
the next s tier tip if you know where you want to go
and you put in the work each day
one foot after the other then you will get there
just have to make sure you build up your grit
you don't allow yourself to give up
and you just put in the work
s tier baby such a critical tip for all things
but definitely for disappearing and crushing it
in the shadows you will become unstoppable
No.15 hide your pain
this journey of transformation is not going to be easy
it's definitely true that all feel real
good things in life are not easy
and come from a measure of blood
sweat and tears but you must keep your pain to yourself
you must sweat when no one is looking
you must bleed and not go crying to your mommy
you must shed your tears and feel the bottom
and feel like giving up all alone
then get up
brush yourself off and get right back to work
yes if you have a special partner in life
a friend then you can leverage them yes
but generally speaking
you have to be ready to deal with your pain yourself
build that muscle embrace it
it will make you more and more invincible
and it is a source of great positive karma
trust me I place this in tier a
it's not easy but it's rewarding at the very least
know that this community knows
you're going through the beautiful struggle
and we are saluting you trust that we are
feel that invisible support
and move on forward toward feeling real good
my friend and
if you'd like to get some additional tips on
disappearing into the shadows
check out this video here
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