5 Signs She Only Wants Your Attention | Why Women Pretend To Like You

Summary

In this video, the speaker, Justin J, discusses the behaviors that indicate a woman is only seeking attention rather than a genuine relationship. He highlights five signs, including having a boyfriend but flirting, making excuses, pulling away, stopping sexual advances, and giving off 'friend vibes.' Justin emphasizes the importance of being direct with women to avoid being used for attention and shares personal anecdotes to illustrate his points, offering advice on how to handle such situations and maintain self-respect.

Takeaways

• 😎 The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-worth and not being overly available to maintain interest, as demonstrated by the story of a model who is desired by many but remains indifferent.
• 🧐 The video discusses five signs that a woman may only want attention rather than a genuine relationship, using a subscriber's question about a confusing romantic scenario as a starting point.
• 🚫 The first sign is that a woman who has a boyfriend and flirts with others is likely seeking attention, not a serious relationship.
• 🔄 The second sign is making excuses, which is a way for women to test if a man will follow their lead and potentially be used for attention.
• 🔍 The third sign is a woman having no problem pulling away, which can indicate she is not genuinely interested but is playing games for attention.
• 💔 The fourth sign is when a woman stops sexual progression, suggesting she may not be as invested in the relationship as the man.
• 👥 The fifth sign is giving off 'friend vibes', which indicates a lack of romantic interest and a possible move towards the friend zone.
• 💬 The speaker advises being direct with intentions and desires to avoid being strung along or used for attention.
• 🔑 A key takeaway is that directness can be a powerful tool to cut through games and pretense in romantic interactions.
• 👋 The video concludes with a call to action for men to avoid getting played and to stand apart by being straightforward and valuing their own time and attention.

Q & A

What is the main point of the video script discussing?

The main point of the video script is discussing the behaviors and signs that indicate a woman might be using a man for attention rather than being genuinely interested in him.

Why does the script mention that a woman's beauty and personality can contribute to men being obsessed with her?

The script mentions this to explain that while physical attractiveness and personality can attract men, it's the woman's lack of attention to them that can make them even more obsessed.

What is the advice given for someone wanting to avoid being used for attention in a relationship?

The advice given is to put oneself first, value one's own time, and not to be overly available or responsive to the other person.

What is the term 'simp' used to describe in the context of this script?

In this context, 'simp' is used to describe someone, usually a man, who is overly attentive and submissive to someone who is not genuinely interested in them, often to the point of being used for attention.

What are the five signs mentioned in the script that a woman might only want attention from a man?

The five signs are: 1) She has a boyfriend but flirts with you, 2) She makes excuses to avoid commitment, 3) She has no problem pulling away from you, 4) She stops sex before it goes too far, and 5) She gives off friend vibes instead of romantic interest.

Why does the script suggest that a woman with a boyfriend flirting with another man is seeking attention?

The script suggests this because a woman who already has a boyfriend's full attention would not typically seek out another man's attention unless it's for the sake of gaining more attention.

What does the script mean by 'making excuses' in the context of a woman's behavior?

Making excuses refers to a woman creating reasons to avoid certain commitments or actions, such as not wanting to go on a planned date or not wanting to engage in sexual activities, as a way to test if the man will follow her lead.

What does the script suggest about the nature of a woman who has no problem pulling away from a man?

The script suggests that a woman who has no problem pulling away from a man is not genuinely interested in him and is likely seeking attention, as she can create friction and then withdraw to see if the man will try harder to win her attention.

What is the significance of a woman stopping sexual advances according to the script?

According to the script, if a woman is stopping sexual advances, it indicates that she does not see the man as a serious romantic interest and is likely using him for attention rather than being genuinely attracted to him.

What advice does the script give for dealing with a woman who is playing games or using a man for attention?

The script advises being direct and straightforward with the woman, expressing clear intentions, and not allowing her to manipulate or play games with the man's emotions or time.