Be intimidating if you are pretty
Summary
TLDRThis video script discusses the social dynamics surrounding beautiful women, who often face polarization in social settings due to their impact on existing hierarchies. It explores how beauty can unintentionally intimidate, leading to admiration or resentment. The speaker advises embracing the intimidating stereotype, advocating for self-respect, setting boundaries, and leveraging social power to command respect and avoid being treated poorly. The script encourages beautiful women to maintain their pedestal, be selective with their company, and not to diminish their worth by overextending kindness or revealing too much personal information.
Takeaways
- 👑 The most beautiful woman in a room often holds the most social power, which can lead to polarized reactions from others.
- 💔 Beauty can be intimidating to some, causing feelings of jealousy, resentment, or hostility, especially if it disrupts the existing social hierarchy.
- 🤔 People may project their perceptions and assumptions about beautiful women onto them, often without basis, leading to misconceptions about their lives.
- 👗 Some individuals feel the need to compete with or emulate beautiful women, as seen in the example of dressing up to meet someone attractive.
- 🚫 Being overly approachable or people-pleasing can diminish a beautiful woman's power and may lead to others treating her poorly.
- 🔮 Maintaining an air of mystery and exclusivity can enhance a beautiful woman's social power and command respect.
- 💎 Having high standards and being 'bougie' can deter people from treating a beautiful woman as less valuable or deserving of respect.
- 🤐 Avoiding 'trauma dumping' or sharing personal struggles can prevent others from feeling more comfortable disrespecting a beautiful woman.
- 🚫 Setting boundaries and being willing to say 'no' is crucial for a beautiful woman to protect herself and maintain respect.
- 🤝 Building a network of allies can make a beautiful woman seem more intimidating, as it signals there are consequences for mistreatment.
- 🦄 Embracing the stereotypes associated with beauty, such as being seen as a 'queen bee', can be empowering and beneficial in social dynamics.
Q & A
What is the main idea of the video script discussing?
-The video script discusses the social dynamics surrounding beautiful women, how they can be perceived as intimidating, and the power dynamics that come into play in social situations.
Why might some people feel intimidated by beautiful women?
-Some people may feel intimidated by beautiful women because their presence can change the social hierarchy and power dynamics, making others feel less confident or even threatened by the attention they receive.
What is the potential downside of a beautiful woman trying to downplay her attractiveness in social situations?
-By trying to downplay her attractiveness, a beautiful woman might open the door for others to treat her poorly, as they may perceive her kindness and approachability as a sign of weakness or an invitation to cross boundaries.
What does the script suggest about the perception of beautiful women's lives by others?
-The script suggests that others may project an image of a perfect life onto beautiful women, assuming they have everything handed to them and have never faced any hardships.
Why is it suggested that beautiful women should not engage in 'trauma dumping'?
-Trauma dumping, or sharing one's traumatic experiences to gain sympathy, is discouraged because it may lead others to treat the beautiful woman even worse, as they may feel more comfortable disrespecting someone who they perceive as having been treated poorly before.
What is the advice given for beautiful women regarding setting boundaries?
-The advice is to set boundaries and stand up for oneself, as failing to do so can lead to being taken advantage of or bullied, especially by those who may feel threatened or resentful.
How does the script define 'intimidation' in the context of beautiful women?
-In the context of beautiful women, 'intimidation' is often unintentional. It stems from the social power and influence they hold, which can make others feel less confident in their presence, even without any direct action on the woman's part.
What is the term 'people pleasing' and why is it problematic for beautiful women according to the script?
-'People pleasing' refers to the behavior of constantly trying to make others happy or avoid conflict. It is problematic for beautiful women because it diminishes their own power and can lead to being disrespected or taken for granted.
What role does 'mystery' play in the way beautiful women are perceived in social situations?
-Mystery plays a significant role as it makes beautiful women more intriguing and less predictable. By not revealing everything about themselves, they maintain an air of exclusivity and desirability, which can be intimidating to others.
Why is it suggested that beautiful women should 'lean into' stereotypes about being 'bougie' or elitist?
-Leaning into these stereotypes can command respect and admiration. It plays into the perception that beautiful women have high standards and are not easily accessible, which can deter people from treating them poorly and encourage them to treat them with the respect they desire.
What is the importance of having a network or allies for beautiful women as discussed in the script?
-Having a network or allies is important as it provides a form of social protection. It deters others from disrespecting or crossing boundaries because they know there are consequences and a support system behind the beautiful woman.
Outlines
👑 The Impact of Beauty on Social Dynamics
The script discusses the social implications of being a beautiful woman, suggesting that beauty can significantly alter social hierarchies and power dynamics. The narrator shares personal experiences where her appearance influenced others' behavior, either drawing admiration or hostility. It highlights the perception that beautiful women have social power, which can unintentionally intimidate others. The video aims to explore the concept of intimidation and how it relates to beauty, as well as the importance of recognizing and leveraging this power.
🤔 The Double-Edged Sword of Beauty
This paragraph delves into the reactions beautiful women often face, such as being put on a pedestal or being met with animosity to protect others' self-esteem. It explains how not being intimidating can backfire, as people may project their resentments and insecurities onto beautiful women, treating them as an outlet for their frustrations. The narrator advises embracing the intimidating aspect of beauty to command respect and avoid being treated poorly due to societal privileges.
💅 Embracing the 'Intimidating' Stereotype
The speaker encourages beautiful women to lean into stereotypes of being intimidating, as it can lead to receiving better treatment and respect. She advises against people-pleasing, as it diminishes personal power. Instead, she suggests maintaining an air of exclusivity and mystery, which can naturally elevate one's social standing and deter others from crossing personal boundaries.
🛡️ Setting Boundaries and Expectations
The paragraph emphasizes the importance of setting high standards and boundaries for oneself, which can deter others from treating the individual poorly. It suggests that by having high standards, one can ensure they receive the treatment they deserve and avoid being taken advantage of. The speaker also warns against sharing personal traumas to gain sympathy, as it can lead to further disrespect.
🏰 The Power of Being 'Bougie'
The script advocates for adopting a 'bougie' persona, which means having high standards and not settling for less than one deserves. This approach is seen as a way to command respect and ensure that others treat the individual with the consideration they believe they are owed. It also touches on the idea that being selective with friendships and relationships can enhance one's intimidating presence.
🤝 Building a Network for Support
The final paragraph stresses the importance of having a network of allies rather than friends, as allies can provide a sense of security and deter others from mistreating the individual. The presence of a supportive network can make a person seem more intimidating, as there are consequences for crossing them. The video concludes with a call to embrace the intimidating image associated with beauty and to use it to one's advantage.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Intimidating
💡Social Hierarchy
💡Power Dynamics
💡People Pleasing
💡Confidence
💡Respect
💡Insecurity
💡Projection
💡Mysterious
💡Boundary Setting
💡Self-Esteem
Highlights
The social hierarchy often grants the most beautiful woman in the room significant power, which can lead to polarized reactions from others.
Beautiful women can unintentionally intimidate others, affecting social dynamics and causing jealousy or resentment.
Some individuals may feel compelled to compete with or emulate attractive women, as seen in the example of dressing up to meet the speaker.
The presence of a beautiful woman can threaten others' self-esteem, leading to hostility or the desire to 'humble' them.
People often project their assumptions about the lives of beautiful people, assuming they have everything handed to them without struggles.
Intimidation can be unintentional for beautiful women, stemming from their social power and perceived command.
Being 'triple threat' - beautiful, intelligent, and kind - can amplify intimidation, as it presents an idealized image that others find hard to compete with.
Not being intimidating can work against beautiful women, as it may invite disrespect and mistreatment due to societal resentment.
Beautiful women are often unfairly burdened with the projections of others' past negative experiences with 'mean girls' or 'popular tables'.
Attempting to soothe others' insecurities can backfire, as it may be perceived as a sign of weakness or an invitation to disrespect.
Being intimidating can command respect and is beneficial for maintaining one's self-worth and boundaries.
To be intimidating, one should avoid people-pleasing, as it diminishes personal power and can lead to being taken for granted.
Being exclusive and maintaining an air of mystery can enhance intimidation, as it makes one seem more valuable and less accessible.
Having high standards, or being 'bougie,' can deter others from treating you poorly and can be a form of self-respect.
Avoiding 'trauma dumping' can prevent others from feeling more comfortable disrespecting you, as it may lower their perception of your worth.
Setting boundaries and being willing to enforce them is crucial for beautiful women to gain and maintain respect.
Having a network or allies can serve as a form of protection and deterrence against those who might try to mistreat or undermine you.
Embracing the intimidating stereotype can be empowering and protective, as it aligns with societal perceptions and can preemptively establish your authority.
Transcripts
have you ever been called intimidating
as a pretty girl well I have hi Bella
Beauties welcome back to my channel in
women's social hierarchy the most
beautiful woman in the room has the most
power I saw this quote somewhere that
said that people can't be neutral about
beautiful women they either really love
you or they really hate you and I think
on some level it is true um I don't know
about you guys but have you ever been in
a situation where you enter a social
situation and the room is kind of
divided some people are really like
infatuated with you uh they want to get
really close to you uh because of your
appearance and the other half of the
room like just have a disdain towards
you for no reason especially if it's the
first time you're meeting meeting these
people it's because when a really
beautiful woman is present it changes
the current social hierarchy and the
power dynamics that's already at play
perhaps the pretty girl that was there
um is now threatened because now you are
the prettiest in the
room um so they see you as someone to
admire or even emulate so like for
example um my friend once told me that
before I met her friends um we were
going to like a dinner or something uh
she had shown shown them my Instagram
and they decided to step up their
fashion for when they met me and
otherwise they would have like dressed
up how they usually dress up I guess
they wanted to like prove that they were
On My Level quote unquote um whole time
I was like clueless and showed up like
how I would normally show up anywhere uh
and I didn't know that like they felt
like they had to compete with me so you
already have social power even without
having to do anything but just exist
okay so on the other hand right there
are those who feel threatened uh and or
insecure in your presence right it's
like you make them uncomfortable just by
existing you are a reminder that they
don't look their best like they could uh
you are a reminder that their body is
not how they wanted it to be right and
this leads to jealousy resentment and
even hostility right so in their mind
they think you know how attractive you
actually are and they project how they
think your life is or how your life has
been uh you know how like us average or
middle class people pretend like we know
how rich people live and how they really
are and what their life is like but
we're really just guessing and
projecting because we don't live that
life it's the same thing when it comes
to Beautiful People oh your life is
perfect because you're pretty because
you're beautiful because you're sexy you
get all this attention from men or
whatever um they think you've had
everything handed to you um you never
gone through anything terrible in your
life like they have um so in their mind
you're so high up on a pedestal being
quot un quote perfect and you have
people swooning over you so they're go
they're going to be different towards
you right they're not going to kiss your
ass they're not going to be a groupy
they're not a fan like those other
people um they will be the ones to
Humble you because you think you are all
that right have you ever had had that
happened to you before comment down
below so what's the definition of
intimidate or to intimidation so the
word intimidate means to make someone
feel frightened nervous or less
confident often through threats pressure
or displaying a commanding presence so
intimidation can cause someone to feel
compelled to comply with the wishes and
demands of the person or group that that
is intimidating them out of fear of
potential consequences the act of
intimidating someone can be intentional
or unintentional and it often involves
using one's power influence or demeanor
to instill fear or apprehension in
others so for beautiful women nine times
out of 10 the intimidation is
unintentional right we are not going
around trying to get people to be less
confident or manipulate them to do
things for us or whatever but they feel
that way because you have a lot of
social power so they naturally feel less
confident when they around you right
your beauty is the command and presence
right we don't have to intimidate we
don't have to you know use fear and
whatever to intimidate people our
presence is enough to be intimidating so
that's the command and presence that we
have and this is even more so when
you're a triple threat so if you're
beautiful intelligent and kind and not
to add maybe you have a good career or
you make a lot of money so um that is
way too many positive qualities for them
and you are way too perfect in their
eyes so they will become intimidated
without you having to ever do anything
to them so when they feel intimidate
intimidated by your beauty they will
either be so fond of you that they will
put you so high on on a pedestal that's
impossible impossible to stay on or they
will be so vile and hateful towards you
to protect your self-esteem both of
these are bad for the people that do
admire you it can turn deadly very
quickly when people put you that high on
the pedestal you are not allowed to make
mistakes you are not allowed to be human
um the minute you show any signs of
being less than perfect they degrade you
okay they want you to be perfect the
perfect princess that sits high on the
pedestal um you are not like them you
are not like the commoners right you are
Regina George you are the queen bee know
your place so in this video I will tell
you why you should be intimidating as a
pretty girl and how to actually be
intimidating uh but before we do that
let's talk about why not being not being
intimidating is working against you so I
just said they see you as Regina George
right as the queen bee look at it as if
you're like sitting on the throne right
and guess what Queens don't do they do
not mingle with the commoners they don't
because they're uces their value a lot
of people have resentment towards
beautiful women to a lot of men you
represent the pretty girls that kept
projecting them in school um to a lot of
girls you represent a lot of the mean
girls that were horrible to them in
horrible to them in school um so they
project a lot of that resentment onto
you without even knowing you I am not
the girl that believed you um but they
will project that onto you and punish
you um what a lot of beautiful women do
is that they try to soothe other
people's insecurities um they try to
help other people's self-esteem so they
become pmes they want so badly to to
prove to other people that they're not
stuck up they're not mean they're not
exclusive they love everyone they will
be friends with anyone um even the
people that aren't on their level I
don't think I'm better than anyone know
those other pretty girls oh they're
stuck up I am not I am just like you
think you're doing a good thing but
you're not it's a lot of people's
fantasy to punish people with societal
privileges like you have people that
want to eat the rich you have people
that hate CEOs right you have people
that hate beautiful people and they want
to punish and Destroy them so you are
you are the only pretty girl that will
allow them to get close enough to you so
now you become the reason that the guys
from high school didn't pay attention to
them you become the girl that rejected
her from the popular table you become
the girl that rejected him in high
school and made him feel like a loser
they will project this on to you and
punish you for it even if it's
subconsciously they will still punish
you for it they will take out all their
pent up frustration your anger
insecurities onto you because in their
eyes you represent everything that has
ever made them feel less d right
literally just by existing and minding
your own business so by trying to prove
that you're not like the other pretty
girls you're actually opening the door
for them to treat you poorly okay
they're going to use you as their
emotional punching bag and you're going
to feel guilty because well I'm pretty I
have the societal privilege so you know
maybe they're going through more than I
am because I'm pretty and I'm privileged
so I I have to accept their emotional
abuse or whatever they're going to do to
you you don't have to accept anything
just because you have a high societal
privilege you don't have to accept that
okay you are not going to be anybody's
emotional or R Rubble punching back just
because you're pretty or you're rich or
you're doing better in life no they will
take your kindness as weakness and your
approachability as permission to cross
your boundaries when you lower yourself
to make others feel more comfortable you
invite them to treat you with less
respect they will dog walk you because
this is their only chance to treat the
pretty girl like [ __ ] okay because no
other pretty girl is is going to hang
around them like you end up losing the
very thing that makes you stand out
which is your confidence your
self-respect your sense of self-worth
and sometimes even your looks by going
through depression by go you know being
treated like [ __ ] so stop trying to be
the pck me pretty girl you are not like
them you're going to stay on your
pedestal now let's talk about why you
should be intimidating as a pretty girl
so we know people project um who they
think you are when you are a beautiful
woman right they pull you on this
pedestal you're bougie you're elitist
you're exclusive you're a bane you're
stuck up and you know what I like to do
I like to lean into these stereotypes
and I love it like because I get exactly
what I want every time and I also get
the respect that I want be intimidating
it commands respect and admiration and
it makes people treat you better so okay
okay so how do we make sure we are
intimidating so
first of all don't people please so
people pleasing puts you in this
servitude role uh and when you're
constantly trying to make everyone happy
or avoid conflict you end up diminishing
your own power so people naturally do
not respect someone who is always at
their back in call um think about it do
you ever see a queen holding doors for
her guest or bending over backwards to
please everyone no because she knows her
worth and her role no Your Role okay you
are on the pedestal act like it right so
don't be the one to be smiling or
cracking jokes in order to make other
people feel comfortable when you don't
want to um if they are intimidated let
them be okay that's not your problem
because trust me the minute you start
joking around with them to try to make
them feel comfortable and happy they
take it as an opportunity to call you
dumb or stupid because essentially you
show you showed that you got
uncomfortable and you want to to prove
to them that you're just like them right
and they shouldn't feel intimidated by
you but what they learn is that hey this
person is desperate to prove herself to
me so I'm actually above her and I can
further make her feel lower than me that
way I don't have to feel intimidated by
her looks so you guys need to be
comfortable being uncomfortable and uh
in awkwardness okay let it be awkward
that's not your problem to solve if
they're intimidated by you let them be
intimidated okay you are not the servant
you are the queen stay on your pedestal
let them prove themselves to you okay
don't tried so hard to make other people
people feel comfortable to the point
where they lose respect for you because
now you're no longer sitting on your
throne you came down to the commoners
and they don't they're not expecting
that of you and when you do that they
they respect you less okay right number
two be exclusive and mysterious Okay so
like it or not guys humans are followers
most humans anyway are followers that's
why you you see a lot of people that end
up in Cults and how celebrities have
like a stand base and all of that most
people are not are not leaders they're
followers okay so they are lost and they
are looking for somebody to lead them
okay they want to feel cool they want to
feel like they want a priz when they're
with you they want to be a part of the
popular table part of the pretty girl
crew okay if you ever noticed when you
are new to like a girl group uh and you
are really pretty or the or the guys pay
a l a lot of attention to you the other
girls will start to follow your lead
like so naturally you you will become
the leader so I like I lean into that
like I
remember I was like at this little like
Lounge area once and when I'm single
like I be flirting I flirt okay and I
was there with other girls and when they
started right like when the thing
started like they were like being a
little you know stand offish like they
don't want to dance they don't want to
talk to the guys they just kind of like
and for me like I don't care what
anybody says I stop flirting I start
flirting I start like twirling my hair
talking to the guys and whatnot and when
they see what I what I was doing then
they start to follow suit like it was so
funny to
see but
anyway I like to lean into it okay me
being exclusive of the people that I'm
around that's my friends feel special so
they want to feel like they are in hermz
and not Walmart okay if you just allow
any and everybody around you even when
they are not on your level you reduce
your own value so once people saw
Michael Kors and TJ Maxx they stopped
wearing
it if people are shallow okay okay most
humans are shallow once we accept this
the easier life is going to be people
are shallow and they want to feel cool
okay so if you are seen as luxury right
you're beautiful you're sexy you're
whatever you are seen as a luxury right
you can't just allow anybody to just
have access to you and people respect
people that they don't really have
access to but will do anything to be
around if they want to put that
stereotype onto you great lean into into
that okay I am exclusive I hang with
that one I don't hang out with that one
um so the people that do have access to
you they feel important damn I have
access to that pretty girl and y'all
don't even with dating men right when
you are a Fly Girl and you allow men
that are not on your level to date you
it makes men of higher value not want to
date you because you are not acting like
a prize everybody and their mama have
access to you so why should I date you
okay you're not acting like a cardia
bracelet you're acting like a Walmart
bracelet no shade right so you need to
be exclusive okay let people feel like
they want a prize by being around you
that's intimidating and they respect you
more for it okay um and also be
mysterious okay you do not need to let
everybody know everything single thing
about you okay nobody on this Earth
should know every single thing about
except for yourself okay when people
know every single little thing about you
you are no longer mysterious you are no
longer interesting to get to know what
else is there to know you I already know
everything about you you're an open book
no you have to give them little bits and
pieces here and there to keep them
interested okay that is intimidating
they want to know more they want to know
more that's what keeps that's what keeps
them in the little Loop coming back okay
that is power be a little bit mysterious
do not be at everyone's back and call do
not be in everybody's face all the time
do not let them know every single thing
about you okay that is seduction so be
exclusive and mysterious all right
number three be bougie okay so that mean
that means have high standards so and
you can tailor this to whatever you're
into um like let's say if you're into I
don't know farming or you're into um
fashion or you're into uh music or
whatever for example I love fashion
right and I love like I love vintage
first fine leather the lace the cashmere
the silk high quality materials I'm into
all of that right all of the above so if
a man wants to buy me a gift it has to
be it has to match my quality or higher
um you w just I like I'm not going to
just accept anything or any treatment
from anybody don't just accept anything
or any treatment just because you don't
want to come up as too intimidating um
if this is the standard that you set for
yourself and I treat myself like this
then you will have to treat me like I
treat myself or even better and guess
what I always got what I wanted it uh by
being bougie and having high standards
and guys people love doing this okay
especially men like they love when they
have to put actual thought into what
they're getting you or how they are
treating you like it makes them feel
like more masculine more successful like
more Elite um so no you can't just throw
me any little bone and I will you know
I'll be fine with it no they will
stereotype you as bougie anyway so they
expect that from you because of how you
look so lean into it play into it um I
am bougie you know that's not my
standard they know they have to come
right when it comes to treating you
right and with women they might be
envious of your standards of you being
bougie or trying to say you do too much
but low key they love it like they want
to be like you they feel intimidated by
you but they low key respect you for it
like guys it's okay like it's better to
be Bouie than the opposite I promise you
you can be bougie about anything that
you're into like for me example is
fashion but for you maybe it's a music
so somebody wants to GI you a guitar it
has to be the guitar that's you know up
to your standards or whatever like you
can tailor it to whatever whatever um
like you're into okay so it basically
tells people that you're not just going
to accept anything or any treatment from
anybody um and you are going to adhere
to the standards that you that you have
for yourself so that's intimidating to a
lot of people and they know they have to
come correct so naturally you weed out
people that can't do that for you and
the people that can Will okay um so yeah
be bougie all right number four
stop the victim Olympics okay AKA do not
trauma dump a lot of beautiful women
like to prove to other people that they
are not perfect and they have gone
through traumatic things in their life
so that other people you know shouldn't
wouldn't be jealous of them or treat
them
worse or some type of way because you
know they are pretty let me tell you
guys something you don't owe them
anything if they think your life is
perfect and you've never gone through
anything thing then great play into it
okay allow them to think you've never
been bull bullied uh allow them to think
you've never been bullied traumatized or
treat treated uh treated less than okay
if you think you sharing your traumatic
things with these people will make them
like you more or stop treat treating you
bad um it's not when they think you've
been treated treated like garbage before
they treat you even worse okay because
you are saying that you are not as
worthy as you look if other men treated
you like [ __ ] and you told him that he
will feel more comfortable treating you
like
[ __ ] uh if other girls bullied you they
will feel more comfortable bullying you
okay trauma dumping and trying to get
people to understand that you've gone
through something is not going to do
what you think is going to do it doesn't
make them see you as human it makes them
feel more comfortable disrespecting you
okay so if they feel like your life is
perfect and has always been perfect play
into it the more they think people have
always treated always treated you well
better they will treat you um so if they
feel like your life is perfect or has
always been perfect play into it the
more they think people have always
treated you well the better they will
treat you because it means you are
somebody that is to be respected and
that is intimidating so stop trying to
trauma D to make people feel more
comfortable for not being on your level
okay stop doing that they don't okay
number five set boundaries every single
time you need to be able to bring out
the [ __ ] in you when somebody crosses
your boundaries or disrespects you
especially if you are pretty a lot of
people will try to Humble you um so they
think pretty women pretty women are
stuck up like mean and stuck up so play
into it okay when they cross you set
that boundary bring that [ __ ] out they
have to fear crossing your boundaries
that's how you get respect okay they
they they already think you're a mean
girl anyway they already think you're
Regina George so play into it okay
trying to prove to people that you are
not you are not like that is going to do
the opposite of what you think is going
to do guys okay they already made up
their mind about you let them okay you
guys need to stop caring what other
people think about you okay they already
they already have an idea of what they
think you are and for the most part it
plays to your advantage anyway so play
into it okay you think I'm a mean girl
so you're going to try me to prove that
I'm to prove that I'm a mean girl great
I'm going to show you that I can't be a
mean girl if you cross me right so you
have to have that little air of
bitchiness about you so so that people
know that know that they can't play with
you cuz if you're a pretty girl
beautiful girl that doesn't set
boundaries or stand up for yourself oh
baby you are about to be eaten alive
like people love when they can punish
and bully a pretty girl like they get
such an emotional high from it
like you have no idea so if you're
pretty or you have some type of
privilege in society baby you better
learn to protect yourself by setting
boundaries and standing up for yourself
because even think about it guys rich
people celebrities they have bodyguard
to protect them that's a boundary okay
so when you're pretty you need to do the
same thing you need to protect yourself
there are sharks out here like waiting
to attack you all right and learn to say
no when you're pretty and you say no to
people they feel it more it's like they
feel like they just got rejected from
the popular table so of course they're
going to be very resentful of you when
you say no to them so that's why a lot
of pretty girls like they become people
Pleasers people Pleasers they become
pikm because they don't want to play
into that stereotype of being the mean
girl just because you're pretty but guys
it's okay to say no to people okay
they're going to think you're mean
they're going to feel like they're a
loser because you said no to them
they're going to feel like wow they got
they got rejected from the uh pretty
girls popular table they're going to
feel like that need to do things that
make you feel comfortable in your body
okay trying to please others is always
going to uh result in you being hurt and
destroyed in the end okay when you say
no and you're pretty they're going to
feel that even more but don't care okay
learn to respect yourself so when people
ask to borrow things from you like oh
can I borrow that lip gloss no that's
unhygienic can I Bor borrow that mascara
no that's disgusting
no I'm not saying say that's disgusting
or what but just say no um because
trying to be overly nice is just going
to get you hurt in the end okay if
you're pretty you need to learn how to
set boundaries and protect yourself
every single time learn to say no people
will think you're intimidating for this
but guys you have to have an air of like
bitchiness around you to protect you so
that people can be intimidated and they
know not to play with you okay all right
number six um have a network so AKA
build an allyship so have allies have
other people you know I'm not saying
find friends most people are not your
friends okay most um situations most
connections are very surface level
that's what I want you to make um that's
what I want you to do
because when you have allies when you
have a network people will feel more
intimidated by you because they don't
want to try you because they know you
have an army behind you they know you
have people that you can call when they
start acting up right there's some type
of consequence with them Crossing you or
disrespecting you because you know
people in other places right so don't
make friends make allies and uh when you
have the more allies you have the more
intimidating you will seem and the less
people will feel like they can play with
you okay especially if you're beautiful
it's important to have connections it's
important to have allies okay not
friends so with all of that being said
do people call you intimidating have you
ever been um called intimidating um how
do that make you feel and why do people
call you intimidating um I know I have
an arres in face so I get called
intimidating a lot and I like to you
know dress I have a nice body I have a
nice face and I like to play it up so a
lot of the times people are very either
quiet or shy when they meet me or um um
you're very like hostile
because they don't know how to feel
about me um and I just play into it you
think I'm a spoil the little little
princess I'm going to be that okay I
rather you think that than the opposite
okay you think my life is perfect okay
my life is perfect think I'm a [ __ ]
okay I am a [ __ ] yeah you think I'm
stuck up yeah I am stuck up you think
I'm exclusive of course I am I'm not
going to just allow anybody to be around
me what come off my pedestal no like
what is this m
no okay um so play into it a lot of
people to think whatever they want to
think it's better than the
opposite okay it's better than the
opposite so it's best to be intimidating
when you're pretty all right all right
GL GL Getters um I hope you enjoyed this
video go ahead and join the Discord
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