Divine Renovation: An Interview with Fr Mallon Part 2

Divine Renovation Ministry
20 Nov 201515:37

Summary

TLDRIn this insightful discussion, Peter Herbeck and Father James Malan explore the concept of 'Divine Renovation,' emphasizing the transformation of parishes from maintenance to mission. They highlight the importance of vision in leadership, with Malan drawing parallels to Martin Luther King Jr.'s 'I Have a Dream' speech to illustrate the power of a compelling vision. The conversation delves into the role of the priesthood in guiding the Church, the necessity of overcoming clericalism to foster mature discipleship, and the strategy of communicating this vision through homilies and engaging key stakeholders to build a united and dynamic parish.

Takeaways

  • 📚 The book 'Divine Renovation' by Father James Malan is a guide for parishes to transition from maintenance to mission, focusing on becoming communities of missionary disciples as emphasized by Pope Francis.
  • 🌟 Vision is about the future and should be a picture that excites and stirs passion, much like Martin Luther King's 'I Have a Dream' speech, which was not about a plan but a dream.
  • 🎯 Leadership within the Church is hierarchical and the role of priests in shaping the vision is crucial, with the pastor's passions and personality often reflecting in the parish over time.
  • 💡 The first task of vision is to define it and communicate it to others in a way that is compelling and wins people over to the cause, not just posting it in a bulletin.
  • 🔍 Each person, whether a pastor or in any ministry, should have a dream for the future of their ministry that excites them and should be encouraged to articulate this vision.
  • 🚌 The metaphor of the 'bus' is used to describe the process of communicating vision, where the leader must ensure everyone knows where the bus is going before boarding.
  • 🔑 The role of the leader is to cast vision and then win people to it, which involves more than just preaching but also personal engagement with key stakeholders.
  • 🔄 The process of change should not be rushed from vision to implementation without ensuring that the congregation understands and is on board with the vision.
  • 👂 Listening to the congregation and addressing their concerns is vital in the process of visioning, as it helps to motivate and engage them in the change process.
  • 👨‍👧‍👦 Clericalism is identified as a barrier to discipleship, where the clergy take on roles that should belong to the baptized, hindering the growth and maturity of the laity.
  • 🌱 The ultimate goal of pastoral care is to help believers grow to maturity in Christ, which is hindered by a culture of dependency fostered by clericalism.

Q & A

  • What is the main theme of the book 'Divine Renovation' by Father James Malan?

    -The book 'Divine Renovation' focuses on the transformation of parishes from a maintenance mindset to a mission-oriented approach, emphasizing the development of communities of missionary disciples as inspired by Pope Francis.

  • What does Father James Malan suggest as the first step in leading a parish towards a vision?

    -The first step is for the leader, typically the priest, to have a clear vision of the future that is exciting and passionate, and then to communicate this vision to the congregation effectively.

  • How does Father Malan describe the role of a leader in casting vision?

    -A leader casts vision by painting a picture of the future that is so compelling it stirs passion and excitement, similar to how Martin Luther King Jr. presented his dream on the Washington Mall.

  • What is the importance of the hierarchical structure in the Church according to the transcript?

    -The hierarchical structure signifies that the Church is led by priests, which is dogmatically defined and crucial for the leadership role within the priesthood to guide the vision and mission of the Church.

  • Why is it crucial for a priest to communicate the vision to the congregation?

    -Communication of the vision is essential to win people over to the cause, making them excited about the future direction of the parish and ensuring they understand and support the changes being implemented.

  • What does Father Malan suggest as a method for leaders to find their vision?

    -He suggests that leaders should tell their story, identify the things that drive them crazy, and use that frustration as a catalyst for their vision, as it represents the opposite of what they desire to see in their ministry.

  • How often did Father Malan recommend preaching a visioning homily in his parish?

    -Father Malan recommended preaching a visioning homily every three weeks to keep reminding the congregation about the vision and purpose of their actions and changes.

  • What is the significance of the Sunday homily in communicating the vision to the congregation?

    -The Sunday homily is a key tool for a priest to communicate the vision because it allows them to speak directly to the entire congregation, ensuring that everyone is informed and aligned with the vision.

  • What is clericalism and why is it an issue in the Church according to Father Malan?

    -Clergyism is the inappropriate appropriation by the clerical caste of what is proper to the baptized, leading to a lack of personal responsibility and maturity among the laity. It is an issue because it hinders the growth and discipleship of believers.

  • How does Father Malan define the role of a priest in relation to the congregation's spiritual growth?

    -Father Malan defines the role of a priest as a shepherd who is meant to feed the sheep, with the goal of helping them grow to spiritual maturity, rather than acting as a spiritual surrogate for the laity.

  • What is the importance of identifying and winning over key stakeholders when implementing change in a parish?

    -Identifying and winning over key stakeholders is crucial because it ensures that influential members of the community are aligned with the vision and can help support and drive the changes, preventing division and resistance.

Outlines

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📚 The Role of Vision in Parish Leadership

In the first paragraph, Peter Herbeck and Father James Malan discuss the concept of vision in the context of church leadership. They emphasize that vision is about defining a future that excites and motivates, using Martin Luther King Jr.'s 'I Have a Dream' speech as an example. The paragraph highlights the importance of leaders, particularly priests, in shaping the vision of a parish. It also touches on the idea that a leader's passion can significantly influence the direction of a parish. The summary encourages leaders to articulate and communicate their vision, not just as a plan, but as a compelling picture of the future that inspires others to join the mission.

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🔥 Harnessing Discontent to Fuel Visionary Leadership

The second paragraph delves into the idea that frustration can be a catalyst for visionary leadership. It discusses the potential negative outcomes of unaddressed frustration, such as cynicism and despair, but also posits that a 'godly discontent' can be harnessed to drive positive change. The speaker shares personal experiences of being driven by a desire to improve the maturity and engagement of Catholic believers. He emphasizes the importance of communicating this vision through preaching and winning people over to the cause. The summary underscores the need for leaders to identify and articulate their vision, using their own experiences of discontent as a mirror to the future they wish to create.

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🤝 The Importance of Communication and Community in Visionary Leadership

In the third paragraph, the focus shifts to the practical aspects of communicating a vision within a parish. It discusses the牧师's role in preaching the Sunday homily as a key method for conveying the vision to the congregation. The speaker also addresses the issue of clericalism, defining it as the clerical caste's inappropriate claim over what belongs to the baptized. The paragraph argues against a clergy-centric model and instead promotes a community-based approach where members care for one another. The summary highlights the need for leaders to take control of their message, identify key stakeholders, and involve them in the visioning process to foster a sense of ownership and unity.

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🛠 Building a Leadership Team for a Missionary Parish

The final paragraph serves as a transition to the next topic, which is forming a leadership team. It emphasizes the importance of vision and communication in achieving the goal of becoming a missionary parish. The speaker suggests that having a clear vision is crucial for guiding the formation of a leadership team that can effectively lead the parish towards its mission. The summary points out the significance of a unified vision in building a strong leadership foundation that is essential for the transformation of a parish into a vibrant, outward-focused community of believers.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Divine Renovation

Divine Renovation is a book by Father James Malan that serves as the central theme of the video. It deals with the transformation of parishes from a maintenance mindset to a mission-oriented one. The book is mentioned as one of the best on the subject of moving from a static to a dynamic church community, as illustrated by the discussion on how to become communities of missionary disciples as envisioned by Pope Francis.

💡Missionary Disciples

Missionary disciples are Christians who are actively engaged in spreading the faith and making disciples of all nations, as instructed by Jesus. In the video, the concept is tied to the idea of moving parishes from maintenance to mission, emphasizing the need for church communities to be more than just receivers of faith but also active in sharing it.

💡Vision

Vision in this context refers to a clear and inspiring picture of the future that a leader has for their community or organization. It is defined by the speaker as something that excites and stirs passion, using Martin Luther King Jr.'s 'I Have a Dream' speech as an example. The video emphasizes the importance of a leader's vision in casting a direction for the parish and inspiring others to join in that vision.

💡Leadership

Leadership is a key concept in the video, particularly in the hierarchical structure of the Church where priests play a crucial role. The script discusses the leader's role in casting vision and the importance of communication in winning people over to that vision. It also touches on the idea that everyone has the capacity to be a visionary and a leader.

💡Clergy Centric

Clergy centric refers to a model of church operation where the clergy are seen as the primary or sole providers of spiritual care and leadership. The video criticizes this model, suggesting it is insufficient for creating a mature and engaged community of believers. Instead, the speaker advocates for a shift towards a more communal and participatory model of discipleship.

💡Clericalism

Clericalism is defined in the video as the inappropriate appropriation by the clergy of what is proper to the baptized. It involves a mindset where the clergy see themselves as the only ones responsible for spiritual matters, and the laity passively accept this role, leading to a lack of personal engagement and maturity in faith. The speaker argues that overcoming clericalism is essential for the growth of the Church.

💡Maturity

Maturity in the context of the video refers to the spiritual growth and development of believers to a level of personal relationship with Jesus, knowledge of Scriptures, and active participation in the Church's mission. The lack of maturity is identified as a problem that the speaker is passionate about addressing, with the goal of moving towards a Church community where all members are growing and contributing to the mission.

💡Homily

A homily is a sermon or religious discourse delivered usually by a priest during a worship service. In the video, the speaker discusses the importance of the homily as a tool for communicating vision to the congregation. It is mentioned as a key method for the priest to inspire and guide the community towards the shared vision of becoming missionary disciples.

💡Discipleship

Discipleship involves the process of learning from and following Jesus Christ as one's spiritual leader. The video emphasizes the need for Catholics to be engaged in discipleship, moving beyond passive participation to active engagement in the Church's mission. The speaker's vision includes equipping people for ministry and sending them out to make more disciples.

💡Midsize Groups

Midsize groups, as mentioned in the video, refer to communities of about 20 to 30 people that meet regularly in homes for support, prayer, and growth in faith. These groups are part of the speaker's vision for creating a more connected and caring church community, where members are known, loved, and cared for beyond the traditional clergy-centric model.

Highlights

The importance of a leader in casting vision for a parish, emphasizing the role of priests in shaping the vision.

A vision should be a picture of the future that stirs passion and excitement, like Martin Luther King's 'I Have a Dream' speech.

The hierarchical nature of the Church and the significance of priests leading the vision.

The necessity for leaders to communicate their vision effectively to inspire others to join the mission.

The role of pastors in shaping the vision of a parish and reflecting their passions and personality.

Encouragement for leaders to define their vision for the future of their ministry and to articulate it vividly.

The idea that everyone has the capacity to become a better leader and to be visionary, regardless of their current abilities.

The suggestion to tell one's story as a way to find and express one's vision.

The concept of 'godly discontent' as a driving force for change and vision realization.

The importance of addressing the frustration that arises from the gap between inspiration and reality.

The牧师's vision for a dynamic and vibrant Sunday Eucharist that fosters an outward-focused community.

The牧师's approach to communicating vision through regular preaching and engaging the congregation.

The牧师's strategy for identifying and winning over key stakeholders in the parish to support the vision.

The牧师's emphasis on the importance of the Sunday homily as a primary tool for vision communication.

The牧师's discussion on the role of mid-sized groups in creating a sense of community and care within the parish.

The牧师's critique of clericalism and its impact on the maturity and discipleship of the laity.

The牧师's call to overcome clericalism by encouraging laypeople to take on their proper roles in the Church.

The牧师's vision for a parish that is life-giving, nurturing spiritual growth, and producing mature believers.

Transcripts

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I'm Peter Herbeck we're back again with

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father James Malan the author of divine

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renovation bringing your parish from

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maintenance to Mission really one of the

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one of the best maybe I think the best

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book out right now I have to tell you

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it's the best book I've read on the

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issue of how do we actually move from

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maintenance to Mission how do we become

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like Pope Francis's communities of

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missionary disciples okay we ended last

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program you just began to touch on the

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role of the leader of casting vision yes

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and how that happened so let's let's

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cover that I think to begin with we've

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got a define vision is about where we

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desire to go it's it's about the future

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that makes us so excited that I can't

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sleep at night I think of one of the

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great vision statements Martin Luther

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King on the Washington Mall he didn't

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get up and say I have a plan he didn't

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say I have a strategy I have an idea I

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have a I have a to-do list he said I

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have a dream and he painted a dream that

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was beautiful and moving and stirring

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that's a vision a picture of the future

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that makes you passionate makes you

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excited but and I think this is one of

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the most crucial things in the the in

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the for the task of a leader and we are

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a hierarchical Church which means

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doesn't mean that's we're a structured

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Church it means we are led by priests

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that word heroes and archaea means means

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led by priests that's that's that's

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dogmatically defined that's who we are

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as it is a church and so the role of

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leadership within the task of the

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priesthood is key and I'm going to talk

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about a bit a bit more of this so you

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can't be avoided in its first of all to

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to be in touch with with a vision and to

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communicate that vision to others and by

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communicating it I don't just mean you

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know post it in the in the bulletin I

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mean you're gonna win people to it you

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got it you got to like make people go

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wow I would love to be a part of that

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and so vision if it's a picture of the

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future that makes you passionate it's

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all about where are we going because if

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you're going to say we're going to be a

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missionary parish that means we're going

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to be a parish that's going somewhere

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okay so if you're gonna say let's go bow

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this question is well where are we going

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well that's it if you're gonna go

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anywhere if you don't know where you're

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gone

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anywhere will get you there right so

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you've got to know what you're going and

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so I think this is really key and that

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means that even before the pastor sits

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down with a pastoral council or a

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leadership team to enunciate shared

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vision the pastor can't be shy about the

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fact that as leader he's gonna have a

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huge impact in the shaping of that

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vision it's no coincidences that

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perishes after a number of years will

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end up reflecting the passions and

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personality of the pastor the things the

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pastor is passionate about won't be

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reflected within the patch because he's

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because he's a leader so the first task

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then under vision is for that for each

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person listening whether you're a a

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pastor or a ministry or whatever you do

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what is the dream for the future of your

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ministry that makes you incredibly

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excited and I even encourage you to

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write it down don't write down a plan

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don't tell me how you're gonna get there

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paint the picture tell me what does it

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look like what does it smell like what's

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happening you said the sign on the bus

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then you said in that computing the sign

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on the bus is about communicating that's

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about letting others that know where the

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bus is going I see but before you put

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the sign on sign on you that wants to be

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on the sign itself Rights Act Lee yeah

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exactly so now here's the thing people

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will say well I may be one of your gifts

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as being a is being visionary nuts that

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is one of the gifts that I have but

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here's the thing I think that people

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have different leadership capacities but

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everyone is the capacity to become a

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better leader and and everyone you know

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if you're in the priesthood if you give

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your life you you had a passion you had

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a vision that burned in your heart and

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everyone has it everyone is it has

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capacity to be a visionary and here's I

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believe one way to find it it tell your

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story when Iced years ago I when I still

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go to conferences like I had this

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burning desire in my heart to see we're

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know within within parishes and I go to

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conferences and I hear these amazing

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speakers and I'd have a simultaneous

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reaction I'd be like ah this is amazing

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it's so inspiring

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I'd be like absolutely on fire and

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convicted and then I think about my

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parish and I get totally depressed and

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it was weird it's like here I'm I'm

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inspired and the prayer

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at the same time and and the temptation

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I think is is to is to allow the the

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reality in in the face of what we feel

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call to to to get us down to to make a

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just give up and say why bother but why

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bother but you've got you got to be in

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that zone and you've got to begin from

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from where you are and I think that that

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frustration because if you get inspired

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and then you look at your reality what's

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going to come from that is a sense of

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frustration that doesn't have to be a

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bad thing that can be a good to know it

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can be a bad thing it can lead to

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negativity into despair and lack of

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cynicism and cynicism anger bitterness

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and I've had to struggle with that in my

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own life I've had to number of times

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I've had to repent and bring that beat

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before the Lord but I believe there's a

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godly discontent that is a good thing

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Jeremiah talks about you know the fire

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burning in his bones he can't keep it in

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there is a sense of find the thing that

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drives you crazy and and and don't

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medicate it don't don't hide it let it

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come to the fore and in a godly way I

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think for instance of a mosquito bite

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you know if you ever been bitten by a

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mosquito there's this sense of you want

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to scratch it but you know if you

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scratch it will get worse well I say

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scratch it scratch

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that's where ditch is then scratch the

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itch of your discontent and the I say

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this because the very thing that drives

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you crazy is the mirror image of what

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will be your vision for exempted how did

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how did that work for you like

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concretely what it look like it worked

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for me because I desire to see a parish

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what drove me crazy was the the lack of

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maturity in in in Catholic believers

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maturity didn't even seem to be an issue

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you know Mitch to be a mature believer

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that's the priests job 12 me crazy the

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fact that so few Catholics are engaged

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in discipleship the fact that a lot of

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Catholics don't seem to know the Lord

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and a personal way they don't read the

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scriptures know what drove me crazy is

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is is the celebrations of the Eucharist

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that are dead there's like a zombie

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convention you know I remember one time

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this kid saying to me oh I don't like

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Mass I find it boring I said you know

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something you're boring I have to stand

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up there look at your face if you think

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you're a boring like I that drove me

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crazy and

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what does that tell me it tells me that

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my vision my passion is to have a Sun

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experience of Sunday Eucharist that is

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dynamic vibrant it's alive a community

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that is outward focused not inward focus

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there's making disciples bringing people

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to Jesus bringing people to maturity has

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communities of authentic love and caring

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and they're equipping people for

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ministry and sending them out that image

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of the church if I dwell on it I lose

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sleep I I can't sleep I get so excited

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about it and so in that case the the

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very thing that drove me crazy is the

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mirror image of the vision and so I came

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into my parish with this sense of vision

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and I and I asked over and over again

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this is where we come to communicating

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vision and communicating visions about

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winning people and this is often where

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where the thing breaks up because a

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priest can come into a parish with great

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vision and he jumps from what's in his

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heart to implementing change well the

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people don't know what the heck you're

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doing it the priest is like we're gone

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here the people like what are you

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talking about we didn't even know we

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were supposed to go anywhere and where

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is here because you haven't told us and

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in communicating vision is the next

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essential element it's about weeding

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people there's a number of ways to do it

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that the primary way a priest can

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communicate vision is is preaching the

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Sunday homily this is very very key it

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st. Benedict parish I preached a

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visioning homily every three weeks and

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at our parish one person preaches all

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weekends we have four weekend masses I

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know that's a challenge for some pastors

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depends on based on your structure but

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if you're structured in a way that

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you're not able as a pastor because only

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the pastor can speak Division can can

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speak to everyone on week one weekend I

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really really encourage you to look at

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your math schedule some parishes have a

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math schedule that can't be done and

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there's no way it can be it can be

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changed because of the physical layout

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yeah but 80% of parishes my experience

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that have a all these masses they don't

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need all these masses it's not they

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could very easily change and have a

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parish where the pastor could could

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could speak to the whole parish because

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that is if you want to speak to your

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people and say guess what folks we're

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going to go and this is where we're

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going you've got to speak to people

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because if you just implement change the

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thing will fall apart and will break

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apart so

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so every three weeks you give every

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third week of a visioning homily yes

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give an example what do you what do you

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say what do you do it's essentially

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about the main thing repeating again the

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as I said the main thing is to keep the

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main thing the main thing is what is the

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main thing it's reminding the church

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about its purpose about why we're doing

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the things we're doing why we're perhaps

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making this particular change or that

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particular change

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I remember one weekend a couple years

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ago I did a visioning homily on on youth

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ministry we went to hire a youth

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minister and and in many ways the way to

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a key visioning homily to motivate

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people to desire change is is to just

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like I say scratch the itch scratch the

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itch of the people saying people are you

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are you happy that many of your children

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and grandchildren don't go to do is this

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something you're content with yeah do

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you want to do something about what you

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think is this is it of course people

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aren't happy about this scratch the itch

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you help people to get to the point

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where they're like yes we want to go

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where you're talking about I did the

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same when we into introduced mid-sized

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groups in our parish so right now we

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have about 15 18 percent of our adult

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population in mid-size groups we have

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you live in midsize groups of twenty to

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thirty people that meet every two weeks

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in homes how many is a midsize group 20

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to 30 percent okay yeah I'm sorry and so

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these are these are communities where

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people are cared for and loved and see

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in my parish we have 16 1700 people on a

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weekend and I said to people what is the

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what is the meaning of Christian

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community I said the traditional model

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of pastoral care was called father well

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guess what I'm not going to show up at

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your door unless there's a great tragedy

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in your life is that the level of care

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that we want to have in our parish are

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you satisfied with that level of care

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and compassion of course people think

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that's terrible says well we've got to

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do something about it we want to be a

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community where people are known and

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loved and cared for and the clergy

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centric model can never accomplish that

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we need to care for one another we need

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to break our large parish into small and

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to give people a vision and a taste of

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what it can mean so they're like yeah

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you know when you say clergy centric is

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that relate to the the clericalism stuff

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that you touch on in the book is that

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related I think that as Eric ilysm is a

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huge huge issue in our in our church

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that we've got to overcome define that

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for us for listeners and then I define

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clericalism as the appropriation by the

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clerical

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asked and by clerical chaos I include

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religious and even laypeople because

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some late pastoral workers have adopted

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a clerical mindset it's the

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appropriation of the clerical caste of

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what is proper to the baptized so

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basically being a missionary disciple

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you can't do that I don't expect that if

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you let me do it for you this is my job

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yeah it's my job I'm I'm the

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professional Christian you just said I

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asked that of you because you have all

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these other responsibilities in your

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life and it's a Skype call father what

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is the primary desire of a father

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disease children grow and become mature

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and and in st. Paul says for this I

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labor to present you all complete mature

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in Christ this this is one of the

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primary goals of pastoral care the care

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of the Shepherd to feed the Sheep why do

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you feed sheep same reason as you feed

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your kids so that they grow up to be big

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and strong we want our people to grow to

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maturity

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that's discipleship and and you know

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clericalism is basically say it's a

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symbiotic relationship it's like the the

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layperson says you do it for me you be

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my spiritual surrogate you be that holy

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person up in the pedestal because that

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helps me to convince myself that I could

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never be that so you'd do it for me and

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I'm gonna leave you in isolation and God

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help you if you if you fall from this

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pedestal and it's mute it's mutual Pope

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Francis calls it a mutually sinful

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condition and and and it feeds it feeds

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that the lack of maturity within within

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the laity and it's not that we're we're

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intolerant of immaturity any family who

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has children you expect him maturity and

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children yeah but any parent knows that

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the child eventually becomes mature

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that's the whole point of parenting is

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but the church will always have immature

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members because we're always called to

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be to be life-giving to have

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babies if if if our parish ever becomes

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a hundred percent committed believers

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guess what you stopped having spiritual

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babies about ten years ago you're

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sterile and good for you that you're all

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you're all mature but so a parish always

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says that have immature believers but

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they're in a process of maturation we

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what we should not be tolerant of is you

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know if you came home and found your 28

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year old son in his right

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mind sitting on the couch and diaper

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sucking his thumb you would be a little

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concerned I think you know you would

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expect that from your two-year-old but

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not of your 28 year old but yet in the

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church we seem to tolerate this it's

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almost like it's cute if parishioners

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who don't know how to pray they don't

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have a person relationship of Jesus they

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know nothing about the Scriptures okay

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maybe before the invention of the

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printing press we had in it we had an

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excuse maybe before universal literacy

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we had an excuse but guess what it's not

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the sixteenth century anymore it's not

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the 19th century and anymore really

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we've got to help people to grow and I

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think clericalism it has a huge role to

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play in that so we've got to in terms of

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communicating vision yeah the homily is

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key I can't underestimate that enough

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that you've got to take control of your

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message on a weekend because that's your

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single biggest tool to say this is where

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we're going but then you've got to

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identify your key stakeholders in a

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sense you know your your staff your key

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volunteers your ministry leaders it

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could be the person who runs a prayer

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ministry heck it could just be mrs.

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Smith who who just has great influence

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over others and you can't just be going

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to the people who you like and who agree

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with you you've got to sit down and not

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just say here's where I sense God

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calling us to go it's to paint the dream

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with that person and say to that person

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you know I know that you might not agree

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with everything I stand I stand for a

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bit I know that you're an influential

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person you're a key person this

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community would you help would you help

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come alongside and help us make this

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happen so we can own it together and and

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you've got to win your key people

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because if you don't win your key people

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when you begin to implement the change

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that's where division because a vision

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is where you're going if you have two

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visions you have D vision and that's the

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importance of vision and communicating

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vision that's a great lead-in father for

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our next show on leadership forming a

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leadership team friends session 3 is all

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about that that's a key building block

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from being able to become a missionary

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parish

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