Let's talk about sex
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host discusses the alarming decline in sexual activity among young people, particularly men, and its impact on birth rates. Factors like social media, dating apps, education, career focus, and falling testosterone levels are highlighted as potential reasons. The speaker encourages embracing natural masculinity and femininity and warns against the negative effects of digital distractions on real-life relationships.
Takeaways
- 📉 There is a notable decline in sexual activity among young people, especially young men.
- 🔢 In 2018, 28% of men and 18% of women aged 18-30 reported no sexual activity, and in 2021, around 20% of men and women under 35 had not had sex in the past year.
- 📱 Social media, smartphone use, and dating apps have changed dating behavior, with women rating men lower in attractiveness than vice versa.
- 🎓 Education and career pursuits result in women having fewer children later in life.
- 🤝 Lack of social skills, exacerbated by the digital age, contributes to less face-to-face interaction.
- 🧬 Declining testosterone levels in young men result in lower sex drive.
- 😟 The #MeToo movement has made some young men fearful of approaching women due to potential negative labeling.
- 👫 Society is witnessing a demonization of positive masculinity and femininity, impacting young people's perceptions of their own gender roles.
- 🌿 The speaker advocates for returning to natural, real-life interactions and celebrating traditional masculinity and femininity.
- 🌍 An observation was made about the unusual lack of mosquitoes and flies in a Scandinavian forest during July, highlighting potential environmental changes.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video?
-The main topic discussed in the video is the decline in sexual activity and birth rates among young people in Western and developed countries.
Why is the speaker hiding in a shelter?
-The speaker is hiding in a shelter to protect his location because he found chanterelles and doesn't want to reveal where he is, as it's a serious matter in Scandinavian culture to protect chanterelle locations.
What statistics did the speaker find disturbing regarding sexual activity among young people?
-The speaker found it disturbing that in 2018, 28% of men and 18% of women aged 18 to 30 reported no sex ever, and in 2021, around 20% of men and women under 35 had not had sex during the last year. This is a significant increase from 2008 when the number was under 10%.
What are some reasons the speaker suggests for the decline in sexual activity among young people?
-The speaker suggests reasons such as social media, smartphone use, dating apps, education and career priorities, lack of social skills, and a decrease in testosterone levels in young men.
How does the speaker feel about the term 'sexual market value'?
-The speaker personally dislikes the term 'sexual market value', but mentions it in relation to how women rate men lower in attractiveness on dating apps.
What does the speaker believe is contributing to the decline in birth rates?
-The speaker believes that the decline in sexual activity among young people, especially men, is leading to people having children much later in life, which in turn results in fewer children being born.
What personal anecdote does the speaker share about his own life?
-The speaker shares that he threw away his smartphone more than three years ago and doesn't miss it, suggesting that life is better without it.
What does the speaker suggest about the role of masculinity and femininity in society?
-The speaker suggests that society needs to get back to celebrating masculinity and femininity, and that people should be proud of their natural qualities.
What is the speaker's view on the demonization of masculinity?
-The speaker believes that positive masculinity is being demonized as 'toxic masculinity', which is contributing to the decline in sexual activity and birth rates.
What unusual observation does the speaker make about the environment in the video?
-The speaker observes that there are no mosquitoes or flies in the Scandinavian forest in July, which is unusual and something he has never experienced before.
Outlines
🔥 Declining Sexual Activity Among Youth
The speaker begins by addressing the serious topic of declining sexual activity and birth rates in Western and developed countries. He mentions his location in a shelter to protect his privacy and discusses disturbing statistics from a 2018 poll, which showed that 28% of men and 18% of women between the ages of 18 and 30 reported having no sexual experience. The speaker also notes a significant increase in the number of people under 35 who had not engaged in sexual activity within the last year, from under 10% in 2008 to around 20% in 2021. He suggests that this trend could lead to a decline in population and emphasizes the importance of addressing this issue.
📱 Impact of Technology on Dating and Relationships
In this paragraph, the speaker delves into the reasons behind the decline in sexual activity, particularly among young men. He highlights the influence of social media, smartphones, and dating apps, which have altered dating behaviors. Research indicates that women rate men as less attractive on these platforms, leading to a perceived increase in their 'sexual market value.' The speaker also discusses the impact of education and career pursuits on women's decisions to have fewer children later in life. Additionally, he points out the decline in social skills and the falling testosterone levels in young men, which may contribute to a reduced sex drive. He personally adds that men, especially young ones, are becoming more hesitant to approach women due to fear of being labeled negatively, such as being called 'creeps.'
🌳 Returning to Natural and Authentic Relationships
The speaker emphasizes the need to return to celebrating masculinity and femininity and encourages young men and women to be proud of their identities. He argues against the demonization of masculinity and the negative portrayal of men in society. The speaker also discusses his personal decision to abandon his smartphone three years ago, claiming that life is better without it. He suggests that people should focus on real-life interactions and relationships rather than digital distractions. He criticizes the current trend of women adopting extreme appearances and attitudes that may deter men from finding them attractive. The speaker concludes by urging viewers to embrace authenticity and natural behaviors in relationships.
🌲 Observations on Nature and Unusual Absence of Insects
In the final paragraph, the speaker shifts focus to his observations of the natural environment, specifically noting the unusual absence of mosquitoes and flies in the Scandinavian forest during July. He reflects on the importance of reconnecting with nature and the need to return to what is real and natural. The speaker also hints at the potential recognition of his location by viewers, prompting him to end the video. He concludes by encouraging viewers to like, subscribe, and comment on the video, inviting them to share their thoughts on the discussed topics.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Sex
💡Birth Rates
💡Virgins
💡Sexual Market Value
💡Education and Career
💡Social Skills
💡Testosterone
💡Masculinity
💡Femininity
💡Chantels
💡Smartphone
Highlights
The speaker discusses the decline in birth rates in Western and developed countries, highlighting the issue of aging populations and potential extinction.
28% of men and 18% of women aged 18-30 reported no sex ever in a 2018 poll, indicating a significant number of virgins in that age group.
In 2021, around 20% of men and women under 35 had not had sex during the last year, compared to under 10% in 2008, showing a dramatic decline in sexual activity among young people.
The speaker mentions the impact of social media, smartphone use, and dating apps on dating behavior, suggesting that women rate men lower in attractiveness than men rate women.
Education and career focus is linked to women having fewer children and at a later age, contributing to the decline in birth rates.
A lack of social skills due to reduced face-to-face interactions is identified as a factor in the decline of sexual activity among young people.
The speaker notes a dramatic fall in testosterone levels among young men, potentially leading to less sex drive.
The 'me too' effect is discussed, where men are scared of approaching women due to fear of being labeled negatively.
The demonization of masculinity and the concept of 'toxic masculinity' are mentioned as contributing factors to the decline in sexual activity.
The speaker encourages celebrating masculinity and femininity and being proud of one's identity.
The importance of intimacy and sex as a natural part of life is emphasized, countering the trend of digital distractions.
The speaker shares his personal experience of discarding his smartphone three years ago and the positive impact it had on his life.
The speaker discusses the perception of women's attractiveness, noting that obesity and a hostile attitude towards men can be deterrents.
The speaker observes a lack of mosquitoes and flies in Scandinavia during July, which is unusual and worth noting.
The speaker concludes by encouraging viewers to be better than the hostile attitudes often found online, promoting a more positive approach to gender relations.
Transcripts
in this video we are going to talk about
sex yeah that's
right your Uncle B sitting there by the
campfire is going to talk about sex
that's right and I'll give the good
people um few moments to um to write
funny
comments um but it's actually a very
serious matter uh I have U come across
some disturbing numbers some statistics
that uh we need to uh talk
about uh first of all why am I inside
this shelter um well actually because I
don't want to Ral my location because I
found
Chantels yes hundreds and I don't want
to reveal where I am this is a very
Scandinavian thing we protect our
Chantal U places
um with uh everything we
have it's a serious matter in a recent
video I talked about the decline in
birth rates in Western you know and
developed countries and that's an
obvious problem um because the
populations are getting older and older
and eventually we will die
out and closely linked to
that is
well six of
course and if you look at the numbers
it's quite disturbing
especially when you look at young people
now I made some notes because I can't
remember all these numbers so let's go
back to
2018 uh there was a poll and it the
results were
shocking um and this is uh concerning uh
people between I believe it was between
the ages of of 18 and
30 and in that age group
28% of men and 18% of women reported no
sex ever so basically they were virgins
or um that they had not had sex since
the age of
18 um it needs to be said that as men
gets closer to to uh you know 30 in that
group you know the older men in that
group uh the number was much much lower
in
2021 around 20% of men and women under
35 had not had sex during the last
year in 2008 that number was under 10%
all these polls all these statistics
they point at the same problem we are
seeing a quite dramatic decline
in sexual activity among young people
and especially young men this is a
problem because not only are young
people having less sex but also it means
that people are having children much
later in life and that again means that
they will have fewer children than
previous
generations and from that we can see
that you know the birth rates are going
down quite
dramatically well since we are talking
about sex I'll I'll get my Wen shirt off
it's yeah I know um you are free to make
all the jokes you want in the comment
section it's comment section of
course um and um that's all fine
um but it it is July actually so
yeah it is it was a cold morning
actually but it's getting warmer
now the people who did actual research
on this they have um basically arrived
at the same conclusions and they are
pointing
at several reasons why this is happening
and um I find it interesting so I'll
just briefly uh read uh these bullet
points to you um so why is this
happening well social media smartphone
use and dating apps it has
changed um dating Behavior or mating
behavior so the research shows that
women rate men on these dating apps much
lower in attractiveness than men rate
women um it's mentioned her inflated
perception of her so-called sexual
market value me personally I hate that
term but anyway education and career um
it tends
to result in women having fewer children
and children later in life for obvious
reasons um also lack of social skills um
you know my ation we we had to develop
social skills uh we didn't have any
smartphone or anything like that but now
you you know you don't really have to
interact face to face with people uh so
much um and
also and this is this is an important
one
um the testosterone level in young
men is just falling dramatically and
that should result in you know less sex
drive
basically um I will personally add to
this um that there is a me to effect
here men got scared of approaching women
especially young men especially when
you're maybe you know less confident and
you hear and you read about all these
cases where men are BAS basically called
bad things for approaching women uh
they're called creeps and so on um you
get scared you know of approaching women
if you're a young man that's that's
natural you
know and I will also personally add that
we are seeing and we have seen for a
long time
a they demonize men and masculinity
positive real masculinity it's being
demonized toxic masculinity and all that
you know all of these things that I
mentioned now um and many other things I
guess they all contribute to this
disturbing Trend where
people you know especially young people
are having less sex now not only is sex
of course a should be a a an important
part of your life you know um but we
need it
in order to survive a
suspicious yeah I've uh I've come out
and I've changed the microphone so I
don't know how the sound will be but I I
decided that it would it will be very
difficult just from this footage to to
tell where I am
um um but yeah um I'm going to
harvest some of the
larger
chantells um just enough for my steak
tonight and uh leave the rest for a few
days and we'll
see um yeah
you know I I think we need to get back
to
celebrating masculinity and
femininity we need to get back
to being
proud you know of who you
are so you know if you're a man why you
should be proud of your masculinity and
if you're a woman you should be proud of
your
femininity
and you know I want to to to especially
young men and women out there I want to
I want to tell you this you know you
matter you have
qualities that matter you matter you're
important and
I I hate this idea that you know more
and more people they they are just
giving up on on finding someone I think
that life should
include intimacy and and and sex and you
know it's it's a natural part of
life you know and we need to get away
from this all the fake stuff you know
the digital stuff and sitting there for
hours you know just looking at the
smartphone and all
that and if you have been following this
channel you know that I threw away my
smartphone uh it's more than three years
since I did that now
and you know it was a good thing to do
you know I I don't miss it it's it's
just life is better without it
and you know we we need to get back to
the basics you know
and because where we are now it's it's
not healthy it's not
good uh and it's it's hurting
people many of you have uh seen my video
where I uh I was out by the Sea and I
talked about um you know men opting out
of
you know the
whole dating mess and and and all of
that and uh in that video I said
something along the lines so you
know the uncomfortable truth that women
don't want to hear is that uh we have
gotten to a place now
where women are not always seen as
attractive or should I say less and less
women are
perceived as attractive and it has to do
with you know things like obesity let's
be honest and a certain attitude you
know a hostile attitude towards men and
um also a rather
extreme rather extreme Look to You Know
many you know the blue hair nose ring
thing and all that it's quite extreme
you know and and especially men who have
um who want to have kids and so on they
they're not going to be attracted uh by
that um and and that's a truth that
people don't like to hear uh but it's
still the truth you know
so again you know we need to get back to
what's natural what is right what is
how we are meant to be and I I find it
difficult to find the right words to to
express this but I think you all know
what I'm talking about here I'm out
there in nature and there's a reason for
that you know let's get back to what's
real what's natural who we are as a
species you know men and women and all
that it's not complicated it really
isn't you know
and
um in my experience is you know when you
are as a man honest about these things
and you know it that in itself is
actually seen as attractive by women
these you know people on the internet
and so on I'm I guess I'm on the
internet as well but they're probably
not going to tell you that because it's
always it's so hostile you know
it's so full of
conflict and oh women are the worst or
men are the worst and and all of
that let's let's be better than that
shall we I
mean we're getting nowhere with that
kind of
attitude I'm getting into uh areas now
that people might recognize so I better
stop filming um but I want to end this
video with just mentioning something
that I have observed during the last few
weeks no
mosquitoes no flies
nothing and I'm in Scandinavia in a spce
forest there should be I mean it's July
it should
be a million mosquitoes here
and I know this this is a different
topic but I thought I would mention it
because I've never experienced something
like this before what's
happening no
mosquitoes not a single
one okay uh I hope you enjoyed the video
and if you did you know like And
subscribe uh if you want to that would
be awesome and um leave a comment let me
know what you think about the whole
mess you know um okay have a wonderful
day and I'll uh I'll see you soon bye
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