The #1 Thing Women Crave in Men that is Constantly Underestimated by Men

Summary

In this video, Victoria discusses the often underestimated desire women have for dominance in relationships. She explains how women crave a strong, assertive partner who takes control, both emotionally and sexually. Despite not all women being into kink, many seek a submissive experience with a dominant partner. Victoria urges men to embrace their dominant traits, shed insecurities, and recognize the primal, evolutionary factors that shape these desires. By understanding female fantasies and taking the lead, men can form stronger connections and fulfill women’s deeper, unspoken needs for strength and protection.

Takeaways

• 😀 Women crave dominance in men, even if they are not into kink or BDSM.
• 😀 Dominance is about strength, assertiveness, and taking the lead in challenging situations.
• 😀 A dominant man symbolizes security and the ability to handle life's difficulties, which is attractive to women on an evolutionary level.
• 😀 Women often assess a man's strength and confidence immediately during dates, and are attracted to men who appear dominant and assertive.
• 😀 Many women, particularly younger ones, are insecure sexually and prefer men to take the lead in physical escalation.
• 😀 Men often misunderstand that women are looking for a dominant experience rather than expecting women to take charge sexually.
• 😀 Being sexually dominant is a natural inclination for many men, but societal fear or shame can hold them back from expressing it.
• 😀 Women are often craving submissive experiences, but may not openly express it or realize it consciously.
• 😀 Dominance in men is an instinctual trait that aligns with women’s desire for a strong, protective partner.
• 😀 To learn dominance, men need to understand female sexual fantasies and stop focusing only on people-pleasing behaviors like flowers and romance.
• 😀 Popular media (romantic comedies, novels, etc.) often feature dominant male characters, showing that women find them irresistible and desirable.

Q & A

What is the main theme of Victoria's video?

The main theme of the video is the importance of dominance in men and how it plays a significant role in attraction and sexual dynamics, particularly from a woman's perspective.

Why does Victoria believe dominance is essential in relationships?

Victoria believes dominance is essential because it reflects strength, power, and the ability to handle difficult situations, which women find reassuring. It symbolizes a man's ability to protect and provide security in life, which is important for survival and reproduction.

What does Victoria mean by saying dominance is not complicated?

Victoria argues that dominance doesn't have to be overanalyzed or linked to complex spiritual or energy concepts. It’s simply about a man being strong, assertive, and confident in taking the lead, especially in challenging situations.

How does Victoria describe the role of dominance in female attraction?

Victoria explains that women are naturally attracted to men who exhibit strength and dominance because it suggests they can handle life's challenges and provide security, which is an evolutionary instinct related to ensuring the best possible offspring.

What do women, according to Victoria, seek in men during a date?

During a date, women are subconsciously assessing whether the man is confident, assertive, strong, and capable of handling difficult situations. They are looking for dominance and strength rather than weakness or timidity.

What mistake do men commonly make regarding women's sexual needs, according to Victoria?

Victoria points out that many men misunderstand women's sexual desires by waiting for women to take the lead. In reality, most women want men to take charge and initiate sexual escalation, craving a dominant experience.

What does Victoria suggest about men who are overly focused on people-pleasing?

Victoria warns that men who focus too much on people-pleasing, romantic gestures like flowers or candy, are missing the deeper, often darker sexual fantasies women harbor, which often involve submission and dominance.

How does Victoria recommend men learn to be more dominant?

Victoria suggests that men should overcome their fears and shames related to their sexuality. She also encourages them to educate themselves about female fantasies, read romance novels or watch related media, and explore platforms like Fetlife to understand the deeper sexual desires women may have.

What does Victoria say about the portrayal of dominant men in media?

Victoria highlights that many romantic comedies, novels, and classic movies feature dominant male characters, which reinforces the idea that women are drawn to strength and assertiveness in men.

How does Victoria explain women's primal desires for submission?

Victoria explains that women's desire for submission is rooted in a primal program designed to secure the best possible mate for reproduction. This desire isn't something women consciously choose, but it aligns with evolutionary instincts to seek a stronger, more capable partner.