Dua Qabool Na Honay Ki 3 Wajoohat | Stop Making These 3 Mistakes in Dua

Hanan Sarwar

2 Feb 202404:07

Summary

TLDRThe video explains three common mistakes people make when asking for prayers (duas) and how to avoid them for better chances of acceptance by Allah. First, it emphasizes the proper way to start a prayer, which includes praising Allah and sending blessings on the Prophet. Second, it highlights specific times when prayers are more likely to be accepted, such as after obligatory prayers and during rainfall. Lastly, it warns against losing hope when prayers aren't immediately answered, reminding viewers to stay persistent and to self-reflect on their actions and faith.

Takeaways

🙏 The correct way to make a dua (prayer) is essential for its acceptance. Begin by praising Allah and acknowledging His greatness before making requests.
💬 Mention Allah's names and attributes, such as 'Rahman' (merciful) and 'Rahim' (compassionate), while making dua to connect with His divine qualities.
📿 After praising Allah, recite Darood (sending blessings on the Prophet) before making your request, and conclude with Darood and say Ameen.
⏳ Timing matters: Certain times are more auspicious for dua, such as after obligatory prayers, during rain, while traveling, when sick, and at the time of Iftar (breaking the fast).
📅 Friday is a special day for dua. From the call to Jumuah prayer until sunset, there are moments when duas are more likely to be accepted.
🌙 Late at night, especially during Tahajjud (the pre-dawn prayer), is a powerful time for dua as Allah’s mercy is closest.
❌ One common mistake is giving up on dua due to perceived delays in acceptance. Persistence is key.
🤔 Another error is neglecting personal self-correction. One must evaluate their actions, ensuring they avoid sins or actions displeasing to Allah while making dua.
🔄 Continuous self-improvement and making sincere efforts to align with Allah's commands can influence the acceptance of dua.
🌟 Trust in Allah's wisdom: If a dua is delayed or seemingly unanswered, it could be because Allah has something better planned for you.

Q & A

What is the first mistake people make while praying (du'a) according to the script?
-The first mistake is that people do not know the proper way to ask for du'a. The correct method, as mentioned in the Hadith, involves first praising Allah, mentioning His greatness, and then sending blessings upon the Prophet (Darood-e-Pak) before making a request.
How should one praise Allah before making a du'a?
-One should begin by expressing Allah's attributes, acknowledging Him as the Creator, Sustainer, and Controller of the universe, and recognizing His ownership of Heaven and Hell, as well as the Day of Judgment. Mentioning Allah's names like Al-Rahman (The Merciful), Al-Raheem (The Compassionate), and Al-Kareem (The Generous) is part of this praise.
What should one do after praising Allah before making a du'a?
-After praising Allah, one should recite Darood-e-Pak, sending blessings upon the Prophet. This should be done both at the beginning and at the end of the du'a.
What are some times during which du'as are more likely to be accepted?
-Du'as are more likely to be accepted at specific times, such as after the obligatory prayers (fardh salah), during the adhan (call to prayer), when it rains, while traveling, during illness, on Fridays after the Jumu'ah adhan, at the time of iftar (breaking the fast), and during the last part of the night (Tahajjud time).
What is the second common mistake people make when asking for du'a?
-The second mistake is that people do not pray during the times when du'as are more likely to be accepted. They miss opportunities like praying after obligatory prayers, during rainfall, or at special moments like the last third of the night.
Why do people sometimes stop making du'a, and why is this a mistake?
-People often stop making du'a when their prayers are not answered immediately, becoming discouraged and giving up. This is a mistake because Allah may delay the acceptance of du'a for reasons known only to Him, and the person may not be aware of their own shortcomings or sins that might be blocking their du'a.
What should a person reflect on if their du'a is not being accepted?
-A person should reflect on their actions and lifestyle. They should ask themselves if they are pleasing Allah with their behavior, if they are fulfilling their prayers, or if they are involved in sinful or prohibited activities that may be preventing their du'a from being accepted.
Why is it important to maintain hope and continue making du'a?
-It is important to continue making du'a because Allah knows what is best for each person and may be delaying or granting something better in place of the request. One should have trust in Allah's wisdom and decisions.
How does Allah respond to a person who continuously makes du'a?
-Allah responds to the person who keeps making du'a by granting them what is best, even if they do not understand it at the time. Their persistence and trust in Allah’s wisdom are rewarded.
What attitude should a person have when making du'a?
-A person should have a positive attitude, full of hope and trust in Allah, believing that He will respond in the best way. They should also strive to improve their actions and avoid sins, while continuing to make du'a regularly.

Outlines

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🙏 How to Make Effective Duas

The paragraph discusses three common mistakes people make when asking for duas (supplications) and how to avoid them. The first mistake is not knowing the correct way to ask for a dua. It is emphasized that according to Hadith, the right way to begin a dua is by praising Allah, mentioning His greatness, and then reciting Darood (salutation) before making a request. After finishing the dua, one should also recite Darood and say 'Ameen.' By following this method, there is a higher chance that the dua will be accepted quickly.

⏰ Optimal Times for Duas to Be Accepted

The second mistake highlighted is not asking for duas during specific times when they are more likely to be accepted. The paragraph mentions various occasions when duas are more potent, such as after obligatory prayers, during the Adhan (call to prayer), when it is raining, while traveling, when a person is sick, and during certain times on Fridays, particularly between the Adhan and Maghrib. Other powerful moments include the time of breaking a fast and the last part of the night (Tahajjud time). These are all times when duas are more likely to be accepted.

🙇‍♂️ Never Give Up on Asking Allah

The third mistake people make is losing hope and giving up on asking Allah for their needs when their duas are not immediately accepted. The paragraph stresses the importance of continuous supplication and self-reflection. It is crucial to examine whether one's actions are in line with what pleases Allah, as sins or improper deeds could be reasons for a dua not being accepted. The message is to never stop asking Allah, as He knows what is best for every individual and may either delay acceptance for a good reason or replace the dua with something even better.

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Keywords

💡Dua (Supplication)

Dua refers to a prayer or supplication made to Allah, asking for help, guidance, or blessings. In the video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of making dua in the proper manner to ensure it is accepted by Allah. The video explains that starting with the praise of Allah and sending blessings on Prophet Muhammad is essential before asking for personal needs.

💡Allah’s Praise

This concept refers to expressing admiration and glorifying Allah’s attributes. In the video, the speaker explains that before asking anything in dua, a person should first praise Allah, acknowledging His greatness, mercy, and power. This sets the tone for a respectful and sincere supplication.

💡Durud (Sending Blessings)

Durud refers to sending blessings upon the Prophet Muhammad. In the video, it is emphasized that before and after making a dua, one should recite Durud as it is part of the proper etiquette for supplication. This act of respect is believed to increase the chances of the dua being accepted.

💡Kabuliyat (Acceptance of Dua)

Kabuliyat refers to the acceptance of a person's dua by Allah. The video explains certain times and conditions under which duas are more likely to be accepted, such as after obligatory prayers or during the last part of the night. The speaker also warns against becoming discouraged if a dua is not immediately accepted, as Allah knows best when and how to answer.

💡Times for Dua

These are specific moments mentioned in Islamic traditions when duas are most likely to be accepted. The video lists several such times, including after obligatory prayers, during the call to prayer (Adhan), when it rains, during travel, and in the last third of the night. Understanding these key moments is crucial to making effective supplications.

💡Tawakkul (Trust in Allah)

Tawakkul is the concept of placing complete trust in Allah’s wisdom and decisions. The speaker in the video encourages viewers to maintain hope and patience, trusting that even if a dua is not immediately answered, Allah may have better plans for the individual. It is a key theme related to enduring hardships while continuing to pray.

💡Self-Improvement

The video highlights the importance of self-improvement and reflection when making dua. The speaker advises that one should also assess their actions and lifestyle, ensuring they are aligned with Islamic teachings, such as offering prayers regularly and avoiding sinful behavior. This personal reform is linked to the likelihood of a dua being accepted.

💡Sabr (Patience)

Sabr refers to patience, particularly in the context of waiting for a dua to be accepted. The speaker emphasizes that believers should remain patient, even if they do not see immediate results from their prayers, as Allah’s timing is always wise. This concept is tied to avoiding despair and maintaining faith in difficult times.

💡Istighfar (Seeking Forgiveness)

Istighfar is the act of seeking forgiveness from Allah for one’s sins. The video implies that those who commit sins and do not seek forgiveness may find their duas delayed or not accepted. Regularly seeking forgiveness purifies a person and increases the chances of their prayers being heard.

💡Hikmah (Divine Wisdom)

Hikmah refers to the belief that Allah, in His infinite wisdom, knows what is best for His creation. The video discusses how sometimes a person’s dua might not be accepted immediately, or at all, because Allah may be planning something better for them. Understanding and accepting this wisdom is part of having strong faith.

Highlights

Mistake one: People often don't know the correct way to ask for dua (prayer). The correct method is to first praise Allah, acknowledge His greatness, and then ask for your needs.

Start dua by praising Allah and recognizing His attributes like Al-Rahman (the Merciful), Al-Rahim (the Compassionate), Al-Karim (the Generous).

After praising Allah, recite the Darood (sending blessings on the Prophet) before asking for your dua.

Once you have made your requests, end the dua by again reciting the Darood and saying 'Ameen'. This increases the chances of acceptance.

Dua made at specific times is more likely to be accepted. These include after obligatory prayers, during the call to prayer (Azaan), when it's raining, during travel, and when someone is ill.

Dua is also accepted on Fridays, especially between the call for Jumma prayer and the time of Maghrib (sunset).

A fasting person’s dua during iftar (breaking the fast) and dua made during the last part of the night (Tahajjud) are considered highly effective times for acceptance.

Common mistake two: People often do not make dua during the times of acceptance, missing opportunities when dua is more likely to be answered.

Mistake three: Some people stop asking Allah for what they need after their dua is not immediately accepted, losing hope and becoming discouraged.

It is important to continuously ask Allah and not become disheartened if your dua is delayed in being answered.

Self-reflection is essential. When dua is not accepted, one should review their actions to ensure they are living a life that pleases Allah.

Sins and wrong actions can prevent your dua from being accepted. It’s important to correct yourself and avoid actions that displease Allah.

Dua should always be accompanied by righteous deeds, such as fulfilling obligations like prayer and avoiding sinful actions.

Never lose hope in Allah’s mercy. Even if a dua is delayed, trust that Allah knows best and may have something better in store.

Sometimes the delay in acceptance or rejection of a dua might be for your benefit. Trust Allah’s wisdom, as He may provide something better or protect you from harm.