The Secret Psychology of "Ignoring" a Girl
Summary
TLDRThis video script outlines a three-phase strategy for texting a girl to increase her interest. Phase one, the Icebreaker, focuses on standing out and building rapport with unique openers and playful responses to one-word replies. Phase two, the Obsession phase, involves moving the conversation to more intimate platforms and using deep conversation starters to discover shared interests, enhancing attractiveness by 28%. Phase three, the Flirting stage, teaches how to flirt without appearing creepy, using the Martin Luther King technique to create intrigue and secure a date, ensuring a smooth transition from texting to meeting in person.
Takeaways
- 😀 The Icebreaker phase is crucial for standing out and building rapport with a girl through text messages.
- 🔍 Dealing with dry texters involves sending engaging openers and playfully calling them out if they continue with short responses.
- 📱 Moving the conversation to more intimate platforms like WhatsApp or exchanging phone numbers can increase the chances of a meaningful connection.
- 🗣️ In the Obsession phase, using deep conversation starters to find shared interests is key to developing deeper connections.
- 👗 Dressing well and sharing personal style can be a conversation starter and a way to connect over mutual interests in fashion.
- 🔑 Paying attention to a girl's social media can provide insight into her interests and help tailor the conversation to those topics.
- 💬 Recognizing certain text messages from a girl as signs of interest is important before making a move towards dating.
- 😉 The Flirting stage involves subtle and non-creepy ways to escalate the conversation towards a date.
- 🐦 Using the 'Martin Luther King technique' can create intrigue and give a girl butterflies, indicating potential interest in a date.
- 📈 The video emphasizes the importance of understanding and navigating through different stages of texting to increase the likelihood of a successful date.
Q & A
What are the three stages of texting a girl to get her to like you back?
-The three stages are: 1) The Icebreaker phase, where you stand out and build rapport. 2) Moving to more intimate platforms, where you're taken more seriously. 3) The Obsession phase, where you use deep conversation starters to find shared interests.
How do you handle a girl who gives one-word responses?
-Start by sending an opening message that stands out, such as a compliment on something specific she wore. If she continues with short responses, follow up with a playful tease to gauge her reaction.
What is the significance of moving the conversation to a different platform?
-Moving to a different platform increases the chances of getting her truly interested because you're not just one of many, and the communication becomes more intimate and less competitive.
Why is it important to find shared interests when texting a girl?
-Shared interests are crucial for developing deeper connections. A study revealed that 64% of women consider them a key factor in deciding whether to move forward with a relationship.
How can you identify if a girl is interested in you based on her texts?
-Look for signs like her texting first, sending good morning or good night messages unprompted, replying even when busy, sending fun videos, and frequently asking about your plans.
What is the 'Martin Luther King technique' for texting?
-It's a trick where you wait for her to initiate a conversation, then respond with a dream scenario that includes both of you, creating intrigue and a playful connection.
Why should you avoid commenting on a girl's appearance when texting?
-Commenting on appearance can make you seem like every other guy and may give the impression that you're only interested in her looks.
What are some examples of deep conversation starters to find shared interests?
-You can discuss her recent hobbies, interests, or countries she's traveled to, or bring up a recent event or brand that aligns with her interests, like fashion shows or new product lines.
How can you tell if a girl is ready to be asked out based on her texts?
-If she sends three or more of the five good messages indicating interest, such as initiating contact or asking about your weekend plans, it's a sign she's ready to be asked out.
What are some tips for the flirting stage of texting?
-Avoid being creepy by not directly commenting on her looks. Instead, find common ground through shared interests or experiences and use playful techniques like the 'Martin Luther King technique' to engage her interest.
Outlines
📱 Texting Stages to Attract a Girl
This paragraph introduces three stages for texting a girl to make her interested. The Icebreaker phase is the first stage, where the goal is to stand out and build rapport. It suggests handling 'dry texters' by sending engaging openers and playful follow-ups to gauge her response. The paragraph also advises moving the conversation from casual platforms like Tinder or Instagram to more intimate ones to increase the chances of a meaningful connection.
💬 Deep Conversation Starters and Dressing Well
The second paragraph focuses on the 'Obsession phase' of texting, where deep conversation starters are used to find shared interests and build a deeper connection. It emphasizes the importance of shared interests in physical attraction and relationship development. The paragraph also touches on the benefits of dressing well as a man to easily connect with women, using the brand Kuani as an affordable and stylish option.
💌 Flirting and Securing a Date
The final paragraph discusses the 'flirting stage', which is about transitioning from texting to an actual date. It warns against being creepy and suggests analyzing the girl's social media for topics like travel, education, or pets to craft meaningful messages. The 'Martin Luther King technique' is introduced as a method to engage her interest and suggest a date without being too forward.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Icebreaker phase
💡Dry texters
💡Deep conversation starters
💡Shared interests
💡Obsession phase
💡Martin Luther King technique
💡Flirting stage
💡Kuani
💡Messaging platforms
💡Texting techniques
Highlights
Understanding three stages of texting to make a girl like you back
Icebreaker phase: standing out and building rapport
Handling dry texters with opening messages
Playful teasing to gauge a girl's response
Cutting losses if a girl continues to be unresponsive
Moving off platforms like Tinder to more intimate ones
Using unique messages to grab attention on current platforms
Transitioning to more serious platforms for deeper conversations
Deep conversation starters to find shared interests
Importance of shared interests in building attraction
Avoiding basic texts like 'hey' or 'how was your day'
Using personal style to connect with a girl
Recognizing signs that a girl is interested in you
Flirting stage: moving from obsession to a date
Not commenting on a girl's appearance to avoid seeming creepy
Using the Martin Luther King technique to engage interest
Final tips on texting without looking creepy
Transcripts
when you start texting a girl there were
three stages you need to understand to
get that girl to like you back through
text so in today's video I'm going to
walk in through all three stages and
show you every type of text message you
should send a girl let's start with
phase number one I call this the
Icebreaker phase the Icebreaker Sak
involves every message you're going to
send her to help you stand out so you
can build rapport with her to make sure
she always responds back over the 20
other guys that are also going to be
messaging her starting with number one
learn how to handle dry ters just
imagine how many times have you matched
with a super attractive girl but then
she starts messaging you with onew
responses and never asks you any
question if you're like most men you're
going to assume she's not interested in
me this is wrong so here's how you deal
with a dry texture first you're going to
start by sending her an opening message
like this hey that clothing item you
were wearing today was really cool now
that's just one but here are a few more
opening examples that you can use which
I recommend you screenshot and save now
if she continues to reply with the foury
one-word responses it could mean she's
interested but she's still testing you
which means you need to follow up with
this message to call her out on her
behavior you can say any of these next
following lines again these are risky
lines so only use it in this situation
now the idea with these is to playfully
tease her and annoy her which will lead
us to the third step which is gauging
her response if she doesn't respond
there you go you have your answer if she
responds but she continues to be dry cut
your losses focus on another girl
however if she switches up her
communication with it that is your clear
side that she's interested in you now
this is only the first type of messages
you're going to send a girl which is
dealing with girls that are dry texter
every guy's been here that by the time
you get to the end of it you're going to
know how to make any girl so interested
in you she's going to be begging for you
to text her let's St this to number two
stop messaging these girls on these
platforms it is nearly impossible to get
a girl truly interested in you if you're
only talking to her on Tinder Instagram
or SnapChat chat the reason is simple
all these platforms you are just one of
many bro when she opens up any of these
apps to talk to you she's also talking
to a whole other team of guys you're
just one of the bunch bro so here are
the platforms where girls are going to
respond the most and it's more intimate
to start you need to send her a message
that's going to grab her attention on
the platform you're already talking to
her you could try something like any of
these two usually they get girls to
respond because they're more unique then
you're going to wait at least 12 hours
before replying once you've done that I
want you to send her the this exact
message sorry for not responding earlier
I don't really check this at much want
to talk somewhere else instead next
you're going to want to move this
conversation to the app where you're
going to be taken more seriously because
there's not a lot of competitors there's
not a lot of guys messaging her on these
apps so here's a ranking of the best
apps from least to most effective and
number five we have Twitter in fourth
place we have Instagram in third place
we have Snapchat in second place we have
WhatsApp and in first place it's your
phone number once you've cleared this
you now entered phase two of messaging
her by this point you've already broken
the ice with her you've managed all the
dry moments and are now talking to her
in a more serious platform this means
it's time to get her obsessed with
talking to you in this Obsession phase
you're going to use this third texting
technique which is using deep
conversation starters to find shared
interests shared interests are crucial
for developing deeper connections with
this girl that you like so I'm going to
show you the questions you should be
asking through text to start building
this deeper connection and no this is
not just going to be my opinion this is
all based on science you see a recent
study revealed that 64% of women
considered shared interests as a key
factor on deciding whether they wanted
to move forward with a relationship when
they analyzed this further they found
that 28% of all physical attraction was
based on shared interests what this
means for you is that if you can show
her these shared interest between you
and her you become 28% more attractive
than you already are without doing
anything else to your appearance so to
develop these deeper connections you
first need to avoid the basic hey or how
was your day these are boring texts that
destroy meaningful connections you're
going to check out her Instagram and her
Tik Tok accounts I want you to look at
her most recent post and make a mental
list in your head of all the Hobbies
interests or countries she's traveled to
when the time is right you're going to
suddenly bring up these topics I'm going
to give you a personal example was
recently it was New York Fashion Week
here in New York and I went into a
beautifully designed Fashion Event that
was run by kuani I've showed you this
brand before it's a great brand for men
and women I was there cuz I was looking
at their upcoming 2025 product line for
spring summer I'm going be honest with
you when I was there I was impressed
with the entire lightup I've been
wearing kufi for a very long time
because it's affordable you can get it
on Amazon easily available but the
designs that they're coming out with
impressive so if I'm talking to a girl
and I know her interest is fashion for
example a lot of girls in New York love
fashion I would bring this up to her I
would say something along the lines of
oh you seem to really like fashion I
actually went to this Fashion Event the
other night then I would just send her
pictures and of the event we would start
talking about the brand what she thinks
about upcoming fashion trends what does
she think about those designs and now
you have a comfortable normal
conversation but she's building a deeper
and deeper connection with you because
she's realizing yo this guy has the same
interest I have this is how you use this
to your advantage this is also why it's
so good to start dressing well as a man
when you dress well it's so easy to
connect with women because every girl
wants a guy that looks good and you
don't have to break the bank you don't
have to spend a lot of money like I was
just showing you with the brand kuani
you as a guy can build an entire outfit
for around $150 if you order from Amazon
you can get it in two days and the great
part is that kuani is consistently
dropping new designs to make sure you're
always looking as sish as possible
without having to Freight the bank look
when I went to the the runway show I was
impressed I was already a fan before I'm
a bigger fan now if you're a guy that
wants to start looking more attractive
start dressing better but you don't want
to have to spend a lot of money you have
to check out kui which I have linked
down below I'm also going to put a
special discount that's going to make
the coils even more affordable but the
point here is once you've established
shared interest whether it is with your
personal style or because of a of a
specific event you went to she's going
to start realizing your boyfriend
material you're the guy she wants to
have a relationship with I want you to
look for the five texts that guarantee
that she likes you look if a girl texts
you with any of these five texts I'm
about to show you it is a clear sign she
wants you to ask her out however don't
take any risks with just one of these
texts you want to make sure that you
receive at least three out of the five
before you move forward and you ask her
out so in order of interest if she
texting first with you having to
initiate a contact that's a good sign
that's one good text if she sends you a
good morning or a good night text
without you having to prompt it that's
another good text if she replies to your
messages even when she you know she's in
class or at work that is another good
text if she sends you a funing Tik Tok
or Instagram video without you even
having to ask that is an amazing text
and the best one of them all if she
frequently asks what you're doing or
what you're doing this weekend bro this
girl is begging you to ask her out now I
want you to understand these texts very
well if you only receive one out of five
of these you're probably just in the
friend zone you should not make the
first move if you receive between two or
three of these good messages she's
interested but she's probably also
entertaining some other guy but if you
get three or more of these good messages
you're the guy of her dreams bro you
should make that first move now that you
learned how to deal with Dr textur how
to talk on the right platforms how to
bring up interest naturally with her and
understand what messages to look for you
were finally prepared for the last phase
of text message which I call the
flirting stage the flirting stage is
when you move from having her obsessed
with you to an actual date it is the
riskiest stage of all because if you
jump to conclusions to this stage and
you fail there is no going back which is
why I needed you to understand stages
one and two well now let's move on to
stage three the F type of text message
is to learn how to text without looking
creepy if you text like this she's going
to think you're a creep she's never
going to want to go out with you first
you never want to comment on a girl's
appearance when you're texting her every
other guy does that and she's going to
think you're only into her because of
her looks which you may be but you don't
want for to know that instead I want you
to analyze her Instagram and look for
these three pictures on her profile and
I promise you every girl has at least
one of these three and depending on the
picture I'm going to show you what
message to send her if you notice she
has pictures of traveling I want you to
use a message like this if you notice
she has a graduation photo I want you to
use a message like this if you notice
she has photos of animals or pets I want
you to use a message like this now she's
going to see that you're not just
another sley guide and want something
more serious with you but this takes me
to the last message you to Sender which
is number six use the Martin Luther King
technique this is how you're going to
give her butterflies engage her interest
over text now I made this trick myself
so I call it the Martin Luther King
technique and here's how you're going to
do it to start you need to wait for her
to send you the first message it could
be a good morning message or whatever
then you're going to respond with how'd
you sleep she'll tell you how she
flapped and then she'll ask you how you
slept and then this is when you follow
up with this you're going to respond
with the technique I'm going to show you
and say these exact words I slept well
but I had a dream last night that you
and I we had a crazy game with mini golf
together now when you send that message
it's not risky but she's going to
respond one in three ways first she
might not even acknowledge it at all and
give you some dry response like oh wow
nice or oh that was funny in that case
she's not interested in the date and you
should move on and now you have your
answer however if she flirts back and
responds with something like oh who won
her oh I'm sure I could beat you it
means that she is open to the idea of a
date which gives you an easy segue to
respond with something like I guess
we'll have to do it in person to see who
the real winner is are you free this
weekend come on bro who else gives you
game like this that's why call it the
Martin Luther King technique I'm telling
you you use this I have now showed you
every type of text message you need to
send this girl and when you use this
final trick you'll get her on a date
with you you're welcome no one else is
teaching me this stuff bro see you next
time
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