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22 Jul 202405:53

Summary

TLDRThe video script revolves around a shocking reality show episode where a mother, Martina, is accused of treating her children poorly, living in deplorable conditions, and being uncontrollable. The family is now living in a new house in Plzeň, where Martin's situation has improved. The mother expresses her desire for a better life for her children, fearing social services' intervention. She recounts her troubled past, including being in a children's home and her abusive relationship with Pavlínka's father. The social worker's involvement and the mother's attempts to cooperate for the sake of her children's future are highlighted, as well as her strained relationship with her own mother.

Takeaways

  • 😱 The shocking revelation of the 'Wife Swap' show where the substitute wife referred to the children as animals due to their poor living conditions and uncontrollable behavior.
  • 🏠 The family's living situation has improved after moving to a new house in Plzeň, with Martin's well-being reportedly better.
  • 🤔 The mother, Martina, is depicted as very depressive, causing concern among viewers and the social services involved.
  • 👩‍💼 The social worker's involvement is highlighted, with discussions about collaboration and support for the family's needs, including housing and schooling.
  • 🍲 The family was inspected by social services to ensure they had food, doctors, and other necessities, but the mother expressed fear that the children would be taken away.
  • 🚗 The mother's struggle with transportation for the children's schooling is mentioned, indicating a reliance on neighbors for school transportation.
  • 🏡 The mother's history of being in a children's home and her difficult upbringing is discussed, providing context for her current situation.
  • 🚫 The mother's past experiences with an abusive relationship with Pavlínka's father are revealed, including physical violence and the impact on her life.
  • 💔 The strained relationship between the mother and her own mother is touched upon, with the mother's mother showing little interest in her daughter's well-being.
  • 🌟 The mother's determination to provide a better future for her children, despite her own hardships, is a central theme of the script.

Q & A

  • What shocked the viewers about the 'Wife Swap'?

    -The viewers were shocked by the living conditions of the children, who were referred to as animals by the substitute mother, due to their poor living conditions and uncontrollable behavior.

  • How was Martin's mother described in the script?

    -Martin's mother was described as very depressive, which caused concern among the viewers.

  • What was the main concern of the substitute mother regarding the children?

    -The substitute mother was concerned about the children's uncontrollable behavior and the poor living conditions they were in.

  • Why did the team visit a new house in Plzeň?

    -The team visited a new house in Plzeň to see if Martin's situation had improved, as he was reported to be doing better there.

  • What was the substitute mother's initial reaction to the social worker's suggestion of cooperation?

    -The substitute mother was initially confused about why she needed to cooperate with the social worker and was unsure of the reasons behind it.

  • What was the main reason the substitute mother agreed to cooperate with the social worker?

    -She agreed to cooperate mainly for the sake of work and housing, as it would help the children get to school.

  • What was the social worker's response when the substitute mother expressed her fear of the children being taken away?

    -The social worker reassured her that they were not there to take the children away and advised her not to say such things.

  • What was the substitute mother's past experience with her own mother?

    -The substitute mother was put in a children's home at the age of 13 because her mother did not care for her and they had nothing to eat.

  • How did the substitute mother end up in the current situation?

    -She was helped by an older lady in the village to escape from her abusive stepfather, and later found Mr. Černý, with whom she started living.

  • What was the substitute mother's relationship like with her mother after leaving the children's home?

    -The relationship was distant; she only contacted her mother after leaving the children's home and when her father passed away.

  • What was the substitute mother's attitude towards her own children's future?

    -She wanted the best for her children and was determined not to let them experience the same hardships she had faced.

Outlines

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🏡 Family Struggles and Social Services Involvement

The script discusses a shocking reality show episode where a family's living conditions and the treatment of children are exposed. The children were referred to as animals and lived in deplorable conditions. The mother, Martina, was described as very depressed, causing concern among viewers. The family was visited by a film crew in a new home in Plzeň, where they were living in better conditions. The mother expressed a desire to be seen as happy and not as someone who is only capable of working and living in poor conditions. She mentioned the need to cooperate with social services for housing and schooling for her children. Despite having food and doctors, she felt that social services were not being helpful, and there was a lack of progress in their situation. The mother also shared her fear of losing her children and her past struggles, including being in a children's home and her difficult relationship with her own mother.

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🤝 Overcoming Domestic Violence and Seeking Stability

In this paragraph, the discussion continues with the mother's past experiences of domestic violence with her previous partner, Pavlínka's father. She describes the physical abuse she endured, including being dragged by her hair and being beaten. The mother also talks about her efforts to ensure her daughter Pavlínka is not subjected to the same treatment and her attempts to secure alimony for her. The narrative touches on the mother's struggle with poverty and her efforts to find stability for her children. She expresses her desire to provide a better future for her children, contrasting her own upbringing and the cycle of violence she experienced.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Exchange of Wives

The term 'Exchange of Wives' refers to a social experiment or reality show where couples switch partners for a period, often to evaluate their relationships or explore new dynamics. In the context of the video, it seems to involve a dramatic revelation by a substitute wife who describes the children as being treated like animals, highlighting the theme of family dysfunction and the challenges of such an arrangement.

💡Depression

Depression is a mental health disorder characterized by persistent feelings of sadness, hopelessness, and a lack of interest or pleasure in activities. In the script, the mother of the children, Martina, is described as being very depressive, which likely contributes to the poor living conditions and the overall atmosphere of the family's situation.

💡Unmanageable

The term 'unmanageable' in this context suggests that the children are difficult to control or discipline. It is used to emphasize the severity of the family's situation, where not only are the living conditions poor, but the children's behavior is also described as being beyond the parents' ability to manage.

💡Social Services

Social services are government or community programs designed to provide assistance to individuals and families in need. In the video, the mention of social services implies that the family is receiving or has received help from these programs, which is a common response to situations involving child welfare and family stability.

💡Cooperation

Cooperation here refers to the act of working together towards a common goal. The script mentions the necessity for the family to cooperate with social services, suggesting that collaboration is key to improving their situation and addressing the issues at hand.

💡School

School is mentioned as a place where the children should be, indicating the importance of education in their lives. The script highlights the contrast between the older child who is already in school and the younger one who is not yet attending, emphasizing the disparities within the family.

💡Mental Health

Mental health refers to a person's emotional, psychological, and social well-being. The script alludes to the mother's mental health struggles, which are likely to have a significant impact on the family dynamics and the children's upbringing.

💡Child Neglect

Child neglect is a form of child maltreatment where a parent or guardian fails to provide for a child's basic needs, such as food, shelter, or emotional care. The script's description of the children living in poor conditions and being 'unmanageable' suggests a possible case of neglect.

💡Family Dysfunction

Family dysfunction refers to a family environment where there are significant problems in the relationships between family members, often leading to a breakdown in communication and support. The video's narrative revolves around a family struggling with various issues, including poor living conditions, mental health, and child behavior, all of which contribute to a dysfunctional family dynamic.

💡Escape Plan

An 'escape plan' in this context refers to the mother's intention to leave the situation, indicating a desire to remove herself and her children from the current environment. This highlights the severity of the family's circumstances and the mother's desperation to find a solution.

💡Child Welfare

Child welfare is the well-being and safety of children. It is a central theme in the video, as the script discusses the children's living conditions, their behavior, and the involvement of social services, all of which are critical aspects of ensuring child welfare.

Highlights

The shocking conditions in which the children were living, referred to as animals by their stepmother.

The mother of the children, Martina, was depicted as very depressive, raising concerns among viewers.

The family's move to a new house in Plzeň and the improvement in Martin's life.

The necessity for the mother to cooperate with social services for the sake of her children's well-being.

The mother's confusion about why she needs to cooperate with social services and her willingness to do so for her children's sake.

The social worker's visit to the family's home and the inspection of their living conditions.

The mother's fear of losing her children and her anxiety about social services' intentions.

The mother's past in a children's home and her difficult upbringing.

The mother's escape from an abusive relationship with Pavlínka's father.

The mother's strained relationship with her own mother and her decision to cut ties.

The mother's struggle with homelessness and her time in asylum and shelters.

The mother's determination to provide a better future for her children and her resolve to not repeat her past.

The mother's experience of violence in her previous relationship and her efforts to protect her children from a similar fate.

The mother's current living situation and her efforts to maintain a stable home for her children.

The mother's reflections on her past and her hopes for a better future, emphasizing the importance of her children's education.

The mother's description of her mental transformation and her commitment to not repeating the cycle of violence.

Transcripts

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Diváky naprosto šokovala Výměna manželek

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ve které náhradní manželka označila děti

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doslova za zvířátka protože Nejenže žili

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ve špatných životních podmínkách ale

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také byly naprosto nezvladatelné navíc

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maminka dětí Martina byla velmi

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depresivní a diváci o ní měli starost a

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my jsme se štábem právě dorazili do

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nového dvora u Plzně kde rodina stále

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žije Martině se totiž daří lépe a my se

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o tom Jdeme přesvědčit Na vlastní

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[Hudba]

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oči Já JS chtěla aby lidi věděli že že

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jsem trošku Veselá aby nevěděli že furt

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jenom včem když když to na mě přijde jak

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se teď máte kdybyste to měla popsat 50

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na 50 se sociálkou musíme spolupracovat

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nevím proč když máme jakoby jídlo

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doktory všechno máme v pořádku ale nevím

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proč po mě jde Ta sociálka nevím Takže

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Ozvala se vám někdo ze sociální služby A

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kdy A co musíme spolupracovat s eh s

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dkm A nevím proč tak to vám řekli ne Oni

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vám něco museli říct nev Oni se mě ptali

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jestli chci spolupracovat Já jsem říkal

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že by bylo jenom dobrý spolupracovat

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jenom kvůli práci a bydlení protože když

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tady bydlíme tak děti se dostanou do

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školy ale ten Martinek už to má dál do

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tý školky Tak si mus prosit sousedu aby

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jezdil a jednou jdou jednou nejdou A to

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je pro mě taky špatným kdyby chodil

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každej den tak je úplně jinej jako Aha a

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co vám teda ta sociální služba třeba

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poradila nebo co vám no řekla že se mi

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pokusí pomoct Ale ještě jakoby se nic

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neděje nic se neděje takže tady u vás

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třeba byli na kontrole Jo to jsme

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ukazovali jídlo jsme ukazovali věci

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hračky jsme ukazovali Jo a co vám teda

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říkali jla Jsem brečet že mám strach že

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ty děti přijdou aby mi to řekla Prostě

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na rovinu a on řekl že ne Říkám nikdy

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neříkejte nikde začla jsem znova brečet

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a co na to Milan co vám na to

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říkal asi nic nic on to neřeší vůbec

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nebo já nevím on to má jiný já to mám

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taky jiný počkejte jak to máte jiný tak

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tady jste pořád My jsme přišli A jste

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tady pořád spolu takže jste se

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neopustili

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ale taky mu tak furt mu to říká že

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odejdou a odejdete no byl mohla

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jsem plánovaný útěk byl ale paní

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sociální řekla a t mu zkusí dá šanci a

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co to znamená plánovaný útěk co já jsem

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tady nechtěla bejt že teču s dětma pryč

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a a co se teda změnilo že jste se

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nakonec rozl pry jsem neměla podloženou

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smlouvu že paní dokt sociání neviděla ty

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doktory tu školu To mi

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nepustila Takže vy jste tady zůstala

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protože vás pě pení ze sociálky jo Takže

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chtěla vídět podklady všechny Mě by to

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ještě zajímal trochu víc ten váš osobní

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příběh od jako my od maminky Jak jak vy

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jste vyrůstala A co se vám vlastně dělo

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že jste se dostala sem byla jsem o 13

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let v děcáku v děcký domově teda h

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protože moje máma se o nás nestarala

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Neměli jsme co jíst Tak jsme tam byli

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jakoby tři sourozenci moje segra jedna

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šla ke svýmu tátovi pravému a mi zde se

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rmě z vlastní ta odešla taky pak jsem si

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našla pavlínky tátu to toho jsem se HN v

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18 vzala pak J tak jsem s tí chvíli byla

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zamřel jo tak jsem se vrátila potom mi

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začal mlátit a co proved jezdil bez

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papírů jezdil bez papír já jsem mu

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říkala ať neblbne že čekáme jakoby

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Pavlínu ať přestane tak as neposlechnu

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mě No a pak jsem eh si našla tady vo

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vesnici v tom metelku jednu paní starší

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ta mi pomohla utéct od pavliny táty to

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jsem byla na azylu No a pak jsem si

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našla pana Čerňák A jaký máte teda vztah

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s mámou Já jsem J ona jela za babičkou

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do Stoda já říkám mami tak to máš kousek

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přijď sem nebo do horšík ty ne přijedu

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autobusem nebo s Milanem přijedu a př a

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Setkáme se ne ne to je moc benzínu Pak

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volala ona mě tam ona byde v rokican A

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já říkám nejdu To je moc benzínu taky se

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jí to jakoby vrátil jakoby moje rodina

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mi nechce nevím proč

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A vy jste říkal že vás maminka musela

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dát do dětského domova tam jste

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vyrůstala Takže vy jste potom s maminkou

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ten vztah znova měla že teďkon se s ní

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ne ona m mě jenom znala když jsem odešla

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z dyho domov a když mi Umřel tatínek

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proč jsem dostala peníze to sičí tak mě

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měla ráda potom J našla jinýho s tím má

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dceru 13

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letou tak od něho taky odešla a tak mi

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taky vyhodili ven tak jsem lítala všude

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možně jakoby jak vás jako vyhodili ven

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vyhodili mi ven a já jsem se musela

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postava na svoje nohy Mm tak jsem byla

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na ubytovnách pak jsem byla Pavlinka už

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už jsem měla tak jsem šla na azylový

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dům a takhle koloběh furt celýho ž Já

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jsem odešla z azylového domu

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domů a začli jsme spolu žít jakoby ve

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stankov na tý jedný ubytovně pak jsem

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zašla bej tě tou londýnu No a potom po

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roce Já mám jinou mentalitu A on má taky

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jinu mentalitu A to furt nejde k sobě a

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jaký jsou vaše mentality Já chci pro

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moje děti dobře protože tady nemají ty

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děti budoucnu Viděla jste venku hrůza

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aby jsem nenechala na sebe sáhnout já

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jsem muu to řekla sáhne na mě tvoje

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dcera nebo ty volám policajte Mhm to

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řekla protože vy jste si prošla vlastně

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už tím násilím s předchozím partnerem

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jestli to chápu správně a popíšete nám

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jak to bylo teda v tom předchozím vztahu

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s tatínkem pavlínky

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h Já jsem mu řekla pavlínky tátovi že s

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tím nechci žít tak mi tahal vstank za

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vlasy

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jakoby za vlasy mi tahal mlátil mě kopal

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do mě teď taky Pavlinka tam Ned Já jsem

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mu řekla když mi neplatíš 10 let

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alimenty tak aspoň Pavlu si ber je to

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tvoje dcera to je jedno že máš př teďka

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jinou partnerku s jinýma dětma Já jsem

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jí to taky řekla je to furt táta od dět

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od dítěte Nemůžeš ho bránit jednou jo

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jednou

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ne tak ona je taky bezm jakoby chudá že

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nemá jakoby nikoho nablízko

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