You framed me

Summary

The transcript captures a heated monologue from an individual who vehemently denies accusations of being a manipulator and narcissist. They express frustration over being labeled and misunderstood, emphasizing their genuine desire for connection and collaboration. The speaker accuses others of playing games and spreading lies, asserting their innocence and seeking truth and honesty. The narrative is charged with emotion, reflecting a deep sense of betrayal and a longing for vindication.

Takeaways

• 😔 The speaker feels accused of being a manipulator and narcissist, which they vehemently deny.
• 😡 Accusations have led to a breakdown in trust, with the speaker feeling that others are playing games and holding their frame against them.
• 🤔 The speaker expresses a desire for genuine connection and understanding, but feels misunderstood and unfairly labeled.
• 🔍 The speaker accuses others of trying to gain power by withholding information and not being open to collaboration.
• 🤝 They emphasize their attempts to build a personal relationship and find common interests, which contrasts with the behavior of a narcissist.
• 😠 There is a strong sense of frustration and anger towards those who have framed the speaker in a negative light.
• 🗣️ The speaker feels that they have been defamed and slandered, with others talking about them behind their back.
• 💔 A deep sense of betrayal is conveyed, as the speaker feels that they have been framed and lied about by people they thought they could trust.
• 🤯 The speaker expresses extreme emotions, including a wish for violence as a means to resolve their grievances.
• 😤 There is a profound lack of faith in the honesty of people around them, with the speaker feeling that they cannot find a single person to tell them the truth.
• 🏁 The speaker ends with a note of despair, wishing for the means to legally address the situation but feeling powerless and isolated.

Q & A

What accusations are made against the speaker in the transcript?

The speaker is accused of being a manipulator and a narcissist who only cares about himself.

How does the speaker claim they were trying to interact with others?

The speaker claims they were trying to connect, cooperate, collaborate, and find common interests to spend time together, which they argue is not characteristic of a narcissist.

What does the speaker believe others are doing instead of opening up to them?

The speaker believes others are playing games, holding their frame, and trying to gain a power position by not opening up and not being honest.

Why does the speaker feel they are misunderstood according to the transcript?

The speaker feels misunderstood because they believe their attempts to build personal relationships and encourage openness are being misconstrued as manipulative behavior.

What does the speaker want from others that they are not receiving?

The speaker wants honesty, openness, and the dropping of 'walls' or barriers that prevent genuine connection and communication.

How does the speaker describe the actions of those who have wronged them?

The speaker describes these actions as framing, slander, and spreading lies about them behind their back.

What is the speaker's emotional state throughout the transcript?

The speaker's emotional state is highly agitated and angry, expressing frustration and resentment towards those they feel have wronged them.

What does the speaker suggest they would do if they had the financial means to hire a lawyer?

The speaker suggests that if they had $10,000 to hire a lawyer, they would take legal action against those who have wronged them.

What does the speaker express a desire for that they feel is lacking in their current situation?

The speaker expresses a desire for truth, honesty, and one person who would tell them the truth.

What does the speaker imply about the world they live in based on their statements?

The speaker implies that the world they live in is filled with dishonesty and that it is difficult to find an honest person.

How does the speaker summarize their feelings towards the people they are addressing in the transcript?

The speaker summarizes their feelings as intense hatred and resentment, wishing they had the means to confront and 'kill' those who have wronged them.

Outlines

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😔 Misunderstandings and Accusations

The speaker expresses frustration over being labeled as a manipulator and a narcissist. They feel misunderstood, as their attempts to connect and build personal relationships are misconstrued as self-serving. The speaker emphasizes their genuine desire to get to know others, collaborate, and find common interests, but they feel that others' defensiveness and unwillingness to open up hinder this process. They refute the accusations of manipulation and narcissism, asserting that their actions are in pursuit of meaningful connections, not power or control.

Keywords

💡Manipulator

A manipulator is someone who uses tactics to control or influence others for personal gain. In the video's context, the speaker feels wrongly labeled as a manipulator, suggesting they are misunderstood. The term is repeatedly used to highlight the speaker's frustration with others' perceptions of them.

💡Narcissist

Narcissism refers to an excessive or inflated sense of self-importance, often associated with a lack of empathy for others. The speaker vehemently denies being a narcissist, emphasizing their desire for genuine connection and collaboration, contrasting with the stereotype of a narcissist who is self-absorbed.

💡Open up

To 'open up' means to become more emotionally open and willing to share personal thoughts and feelings. The speaker accuses others of not being willing to 'open up' to them, which they interpret as a barrier to forming a meaningful relationship.

💡Frame

In the context of the script, 'frame' likely refers to a psychological stance or set of expectations that someone maintains in social interactions. The speaker feels that others are holding onto their 'frame,' which they see as a defensive mechanism preventing genuine connection.

💡Power position

A 'power position' is a state of having control or authority over others. The speaker suggests that others are trying to gain a power position by not 'dropping their frame,' implying a desire for dominance in their interactions.

💡Collaborate

Collaboration is the process of working together, often to achieve a common goal. The speaker expresses a desire to collaborate with others, indicating a wish for mutual effort and shared success, which is contrasted with the perception of them as manipulative.

💡Interests

Interests refer to the things that someone enjoys or is passionate about. The speaker talks about finding overlap in interests as a way to enjoy time together, suggesting a desire for shared activities and mutual enjoyment.

💡Defend

To 'defend' oneself means to protect or justify one's actions or character against criticism. The speaker feels they have been framed and slandered, and they express a wish to defend themselves against these accusations but feel unable to do so effectively.

💡Slander

Slander is the act of making false statements that damage a person's reputation. The speaker accuses others of slandering them, indicating a belief that they have been unfairly maligned and their character misrepresented.

💡Framing

In a social context, 'framing' can refer to the act of interpreting or presenting information in a way that influences others' perceptions. The speaker feels they have been 'framed' by others, suggesting that their actions or intentions have been misrepresented to others.

💡Honesty

Honesty is the quality of being truthful and straightforward. The speaker laments the lack of honesty in their interactions, expressing a desire for truthful communication and a frustration with perceived deceit.

Highlights

Accusation of being called a manipulator and advised against opening up.

Labeling as a narcissist who only cares about oneself.

Desire to connect and have a personal relationship, not to spy or research.

Attempt to get the other party to drop their guard and cooperate.

Expression of frustration over being misunderstood as a narcissist.

Claim of trying to break down walls and establish trust.

Accusation of being framed and slandered by others.

Feeling of being trapped by others' dishonesty and lack of support.

Wish for legal recourse if financial means were available.

Expression of extreme anger and a desire for retribution.

Perception of a lack of honesty and the prevalence of deceit.

Desire for guns as a means of addressing the situation.

Feeling of being hated and the wish for violent action.

Belief in the prevalence of 'scum' and the desire to expose them.

Expression of the difficulty in finding an honest person.

Desire for one person to tell the truth and validate the speaker's experience.

Perception of a collective effort to frame and discredit the speaker.

Transcripts

you want to hear the really [ __ ] up

thing you want to hear the really [ __ ]

up

thing they they called me a

manipulator they called me a

manipulator and they told people not to

open up to me because I manipulate

them and then they called me a

narcissist who only cares about

himself how am I supposed to [ __ ]

care about you when you [ __ ] labeled

me as a manipulator and you won't

[ __ ] Dro your [ __ ]

frame you play your [ __ ] stupid

little games you hold your frame up you

make it impossible for me to know you

you try to [ __ ] get inside my head so

that you'll be in some [ __ ] kind of a

power position or some

[ __ ] I wanted to know what you

thought I wanted to knowe you I wanted

to connect to you I wanted to have

personal relationship with

you I don't want to [ __ ] spy on you

and research you and do background

checks and ask all your friends who you

are I wanted to spend time with you I

wanted to get to know you I ask

questions I try to get you to open up to

me that's not what narcissists do that's

not what narciss

do the mere fact that I tried to get you

to drop your frame and spend time with

me and open up to me and cooperate and

collaborate and work together so that we

can accomplish things together spend our

time together having fun or spend our

time together making money or getting

[ __ ]

done trying to find overlap in interest

so we can find ways that we can enjoy

our time

together I'm not a [ __ ]

narcissist I tried to get you to drop

your [ __ ] walls I tried to get you to

[ __ ] let me in I tried to get you to

open up to me but you wouldn't I'm not a

[ __ ]

narcissist I didn't try to manipulate

anybody calling me a manipulator and a

liar and a player on

nothing you're the ones that want to

play [ __ ] stupid [ __ ] games with

people piece of

[ __ ] you're all scum you're real [ __ ]

scum all of you all the lies and all the

slander all the people framing holding

your frame you framed me you framed

me you went around talking [ __ ] about me

behind my back you mean absolute [ __ ]

certain that I would never be able to

[ __ ] defend myself you framed me you

framed me I just sit here I'm like I

can't make your

stop people would like

literally they'd rather let me beat beat

the [ __ ] out of them and [ __ ] tell me

the truth you frame me you

monsters you [ __ ]

monsters if I could just get one person

to tell me the truth and if I just had

$10,000 to talk to a lawyer I'd kill all

of you I'd rip you all the pieces but I

couldn't find one honest person in this

whole [ __ ] world you all work

together to FR

me I hate you

I wish I had guns I wish I had [ __ ]

guns