Give her great head (5 simple tips)

Summary

Sexologist Stephanie Ganowski offers advice on performing oral sex for women, emphasizing the importance of foreplay, engaging with your partner, starting gently, maintaining a consistent rhythm, and communicating to understand preferences.

Takeaways

• 😀 Foreplay is essential before oral sex to ensure the woman is warmed up and aroused.
• 😉 Engage with your partner by touching her body and maintaining eye contact to keep arousal levels high.
• 👀 Start gently and gradually increase the intensity of your oral stimulation as her arousal builds.
• 👅 Avoid direct stimulation of the clitoris for most women; instead, focus on the clitoral hood or surrounding areas.
• 🔄 If she finds the stimulation too intense, switch to using the flat of your tongue to reduce directness.
• 🔄 Stay consistent with the rhythm and intensity she enjoys once you've identified what she likes.
• 🚫 Don't change your technique based on her reactions alone; maintain the rhythm she enjoys.
• 💬 Communicate by asking her what she enjoyed most about the oral sex experience to improve future encounters.
• 🤔 Reflect on her feedback without shame, understanding that preferences can vary greatly between individuals.
• 💬 Encourage open communication to understand both what she likes and dislikes during oral sex.
• 🔗 For those seeking further guidance, one-on-one coaching with a sexologist is available through the provided link.

Q & A

What is the main topic of Stephanie Ganowski's video?

The main topic of Stephanie Ganowski's video is providing tips and advice for men on how to perform oral sex on a woman in a way that is enjoyable and satisfying for both parties.

What is Stephanie Ganowski's professional background according to the video?

Stephanie Ganowski is a sexologist and sex coach for men, as mentioned in the video.

Why is it important not to rush into oral sex according to the video?

Rushing into oral sex can make a woman feel like the experience is being forced, and she may not be in the state of arousal needed for pleasure, which could prolong the time it takes for her to reach satisfaction.

What is suggested as a good way to start before performing oral sex?

The video suggests starting with foreplay, such as making out, touching, kissing her legs, or giving her a massage to help her get in the mood and crave oral stimulation.

Why is it recommended to touch the woman's body and maintain eye contact during oral sex?

Touching her body and maintaining eye contact helps to keep the arousal going and build a connection, making the experience more intimate and pleasurable for both partners.

What does Stephanie suggest if a man feels uncomfortable engaging in these practices with his partner?

If a man feels uncomfortable or if his relationship is in a tough spot, Stephanie suggests reaching out for one-on-one coaching, with a link provided in the video description.

How should a man start when performing oral sex according to Stephanie's advice?

A man should start gently and gradually build intensity as the woman's arousal increases, avoiding direct stimulation on the clitoris unless the woman prefers it.

What should a man do if a woman indicates that the stimulation is too intense?

If the stimulation is too intense, a man can use the flatness of his tongue instead of the pointed tip to reduce the directness and intensity of the contact.

Why is it important to stay consistent with the rhythm and technique once a woman indicates she is enjoying it?

Staying consistent with the rhythm and technique ensures that the woman's enjoyment is maintained and that she can reach orgasm without being thrown off by sudden changes in intensity or speed.

What does Stephanie recommend doing after performing oral sex to improve future experiences?

Stephanie recommends checking in with the woman and asking her what she enjoyed most, using observations and direct questions to gather feedback and understand her preferences better.

How can viewers get more personalized advice or coaching from Stephanie Ganowski?

Viewers can apply for one-on-one coaching with Stephanie Ganowski through the application link provided in the video description.