Realise when it’s time to let go

Summary

Dans cette vidéo, l'animateur partage des conseils sur l'importance de savoir lâcher prise, reconnaître les moments où il faut le faire et les stratégies pour y parvenir. Il relate l'histoire d'un ami coincé dans un emploi stagnant et malheureux, expliquant comment la promesse non tenue et la manipulation peuvent conduire à une situation insoutenable. L'animateur insiste sur la nécessité de se concentrer sur l'avenir plutôt que sur le temps et l'énergie investis, et sur la valeur de ne pas se laisser manipuler. Il encourage également à valoriser soi-même, à ne pas gaspiller son temps sur des personnes ou des situations toxiques, et à avoir confiance en soi pour faire face aux changements et aux défis de la vie.

Takeaways

• 🧘‍♀️ L'importance de lâcher prise : Il est essentiel de savoir quand et comment lâcher prise, surtout lorsque l'on est dans une situation où l'on ne progresse plus et se sent malheureux.
• 🚫 La reconnaissance de la manipulation : Reconnaître les promesses non tenues comme signe de manipulation et de ne pas se laisser influencer par des paroles non corroborées par des actions.
• 🤔 La valeur de l'action sur la parole : Il est important de juger les gens par leurs actions plutôt que par leurs paroles, car les actions sont un reflet plus fidèle de leur véritable intention.
• 💡 La prise de conscience de l'auto-respect : Il est crucial de se valoriser soi-même et de ne pas accepter moins que ce que l'on mérite, que ce soit dans le travail ou dans les relations personnelles.
• 💔 Le danger des relations toxiques : Les relations où l'on se sent malheureux et où les promesses ne sont pas tenues peuvent être toxiques et il est important de les quitter pour éviter de se sentir piégé ou contrôlé.
• 🏠 L'importance de la famille : Maintenir une relation saine avec sa famille est important, car elle peut être une source de soutien et de bon conseil face à des relations toxiques.
• 🔄 La nécessité de l'évolution : Il est nécessaire de changer et d'évoluer pour éviter la stagnation et le mal-être, même si cela signifie quitter un emploi ou une relation.
• 💡 La confiance en soi : Il est important de faire confiance en soi et en sa capacité à surmonter les difficultés et à créer un avenir meilleur.
• 🌟 La foi en un plan supérieur : Avoir foi en un plan divin ou universel qui peut conduire à un avenir meilleur, même si cela implique de prendre des risques et de lâcher prise.
• 🚀 La nécessité de planifier sa sortie : Lorsqu'il est temps de quitter une situation toxique, il est essentiel de planifier sa sortie de manière à minimiser les conséquences négatives.
• 🌈 La possibilité de changement : Il est possible de changer sa vie à tout âge, et il n'est jamais trop tard pour suivre son intuition et poursuit ses aspirations.

Q & A

Quel est le thème principal de cette vidéo ?

Le thème principal de cette vidéo est de savoir quand et comment lâcher prise, en se concentrant sur les situations où l'on est bloqué et insatisfait, comme dans un emploi ou une relation.

Quel conseil a-t-elle donné à son ami concernant son travail ?

Elle a conseillé à son ami de quitter son travail après sept ans, où il s'est senti piégé, insatisfait et où les promesses de son patron n'étaient pas tenues.

Quelle est la 'faute de sunk cost' mentionnée dans le livre 'The Art of Thinking Clearly' ?

La 'faute de sunk cost' est le biais cognitif où l'on considère le temps et l'énergie déjà investis dans quelque chose comme une raison de continuer malgré un avenir sans amélioration.

Comment peut-on se rendre compte qu'on est manipulé ?

On peut se rendre compte qu'on est manipulé lorsque quelqu'un promet des choses sans jamais les tenir, ce qui indique qu'ils essaient de vous faire rester sans apporter de changement réel.

Pourquoi est-il important de ne pas se baser uniquement sur les mots des gens ?

Il est important de ne pas se baser uniquement sur les mots car les actions réelles sont plus significatives et révélatrice de l'intention et de la sincérité d'une personne.

Quelle est la conséquence de ne pas valoriser ce que l'on peut facilement obtenir ?

Si quelque chose est facile à obtenir, cela n'est généralement pas valorisé, ce qui peut conduire à une prise en considération insuffisante et à une potentielle négligence ou manque de respect.

Pourquoi est-il recommandé de ne pas être facile à obtenir dans les relations ?

Ne pas être facile à obtenir permet à l'autre personne de prouver sa valeur et sa détermination, ce qui favorise une relation plus respectueuse et équilibrée.

Quel est le message sur l'égalité dans les relations et comment cela peut-elle être abusé ?

Le message est que l'égalité dans les relations est importante, mais il ne faut pas que cela se traduise par des hommes qui ne se sentent pas obligés de s'engager ou de prouver leur valeur, ce qui peut mener à une dynamique de pouvoir inégale.

Quelle est la conséquence de ne pas écouter les conseils de ses proches sur les relations toxiques ?

Ignorer les conseils de ses proches sur des relations toxiques peut mener à une isolation et à un contrôle accru par la partenaire toxique, ce qui est dévastateur sur le plan émotionnel et social.

Quel conseil est donné pour ceux qui veulent changer de direction dans leur vie professionnelle ou personnelle ?

Le conseil donné est d'avoir confiance en soi, de reconnaître qu'il est jamais trop tard pour changer de direction, et de suivre son intuition pour trouver ce qui apporte du bonheur et de la progression.

Quel est le conseil sur la manière de se préparer à quitter une situation toxique ?

Le conseil est de planifier une sortie en cherchant un autre emploi, en économisant de l'argent, ou en trouvant du soutien auprès de la famille et des amis pour s'assurer d'un passage en douceur.

Pourquoi est-il important de ne pas rouvrir la porte après avoir lâché prise ?

Il est important de ne pas rouvrir la porte pour éviter de revenir dans une situation toxique ou insatisfaisante, ce qui empêche l'avancement et la croissance personnelle.

Quel est le message final sur la foi en soi et la confiance dans le processus de lâcher prise ?

Le message final est d'avoir confiance en soi, en Dieu ou dans l'univers, et de croire que tout se débrouillera si on est prêt à prendre des risques et à lâcher prise, ce qui permet de faire entrer de nouvelles opportunités et réalisations dans la vie.

Outlines

00:00

😥 Lâcher prise et manipulation

Le premier paragraphe aborde le sujet de savoir quand et comment lâcher prise, illustré par l'histoire d'un ami qui a travaillé pendant sept ans dans un emploi où il ne progressait plus. L'orateur mentionne le 'biais de sunk cost', expliquant qu'il ne faut pas considérer le temps ou l'énergie déjà investis comme une raison de rester dans une situation inefficace ou toxique, que ce soit dans un travail ou une relation. Il insiste sur la reconnaissance de la manipulation, lorsque des promesses ne sont pas tenues, et sur la nécessité de se fier aux actions plutôt qu'aux mots.

05:01

🤔 Valeur personnelle et égalité dans les relations

Dans ce paragraphe, l'orateur discute de l'importance de ne pas être facile à obtenir ou à retenir, car cela mène à une sous-évaluation de sa valeur. Il critique l'idée que les hommes et les femmes devraient être égaux sans effort de la part des hommes pour mériter et maintenir une relation. Il insiste sur la nécessité de faire preuve de respect et de ne pas gaspiller son temps avec des personnes ou des entreprises qui ne tiennent pas leurs promesses ou qui sont toxiques.

10:03

😡 Échapper à l'isolement et au contrôle toxique

Le troisième paragraphe traite de l'isolement causé par des relations toxiques, où des individus sont poussés loin de leur famille et amis par un partenaire abusif. L'orateur encourage à ne pas écouter les manipulateurs qui vous disent que vous ne méritez pas mieux, et à reprendre le contrôle de sa vie. Il soutient que tout ce qui est source de malheur ou d'arrêt de progression doit être laissé derrière, et que la famille et les amis bienveillants peuvent souvent offrir une meilleure perspective sur une relation toxique.

15:03

🚀 Prendre le contrôle de sa vie et de son avenir

Dans le quatrième paragraphe, l'orateur insiste sur l'importance de planifier sa sortie des situations toxiques ou insatisfaisantes, que ce soit dans le travail ou les relations personnelles. Il partage son propre exemple pour montrer comment lâcher prise a permis de faire entrer de bonnes choses dans sa vie. Il encourage à avoir la foi en soi, en Dieu ou dans l'univers, et à ne pas craindre de prendre des risques pour évoluer et apprendre, soulignant que l'âge ne devrait pas être une barrière à la réalisation de ses aspirations.

Keywords

💡Lâcher prise

Lâcher prise fait référence à l'acte de libérer ou de renoncer à quelque chose qui n'est plus bénéfique ou qui nuit à votre bien-être. Dans la vidéo, cela est lié au thème principal de savoir quand et comment abandonner des situations ou des relations toxiques, comme un emploi où l'on ne progresse plus ou une relation qui rend malheureux.

💡Fallacie de la sunken cost

La 'fallacie de la sunken cost' est le biais cognitif qui consiste à poursuivre une action en raison des coûts déjà engagés, même si cela n'est pas rationnel. Le script mentionne ce concept pour expliquer qu'il ne faut pas se baser sur le temps ou l'énergie déjà investis pour décider de rester dans une situation, mais plutôt sur les perspectives futures.

💡Manipulation

La manipulation est le phénomène où une personne exerce un contrôle sur les actions d'une autre en utilisant des promesses ou des mensonges. Dans le script, l'auteur discute de la manipulation au travail et dans les relations, où les promesses ne sont pas tenues, indiquant un manque de respect et une tentative de contrôle.

💡Respect

Respect est un terme clé qui décrit la valeur et l'estime que l'on accorde à autrui. Dans la vidéo, le manque de respect est un signe que l'on est dans une mauvaise situation, que ce soit au travail ou dans une relation. L'auteur insiste sur l'importance de se mériter ce respect et de ne pas tolérer les manques de respect.

💡Évolution

Évolution fait référence au processus de changement et de développement au fil du temps. Le script utilise ce terme pour souligner l'importance de la croissance personnelle et professionnelle, et comment l'arrêt de l'évolution peut mener à la détresse et à la dépression.

💡Progrès

Le progrès est un concept central dans le script, lié au sentiment de satisfaction et de bonheur que l'on ressent en se développant et en atteignant ses objectifs. L'auteur mentionne que les humains deviennent malheureux et dépressifs lorsqu'ils cessent de progresser dans la vie.

💡Manipulation émotionnelle

La manipulation émotionnelle est une forme de contrôle où une personne utilise les émotions d'une autre pour les influencer ou les contrôler. Dans le script, l'auteur parle de comment les mauvaises relations ou les mauvais employeurs peuvent utiliser cette manipulation pour maintenir quelqu'un dans une situation toxique.

💡Valoir la peine

Valoir la peine signifie être digne d'intérêt ou de respect. Dans le contexte du script, il est question de ne pas accepter moins que ce que l'on mérite et de ne pas se contenter de moins, que ce soit dans un emploi ou une relation.

💡Changement

Le changement est un autre concept important dans le script, qui implique la prise de décision pour modifier sa vie en quittant des situations ou des relations qui ne servent plus. L'auteur encourage à embrasser le changement et à ne pas craindre de changer d'avis ou de direction dans la vie.

💡Foi

La foi est mentionnée dans le script comme un élément clé pour surmonter les obstacles et poursuivre ses aspirations. Que ce soit la foi en soi-même, en Dieu ou dans l'univers, elle permet de prendre des risques et de lâcher prise avec confiance dans un avenir meilleur.

💡Planification

La planification est l'acte de préparer et d'organiser ses actions pour atteindre un objectif. Dans le script, l'auteur parle de la nécessité de planifier sa sortie des situations toxiques, que ce soit en cherchant un nouvel emploi ou en prenant des mesures pour quitter une relation abusante.

💡Isolation

L'isolement est un état d'être séparé ou écarté des autres, souvent mentionné dans le script comme un résultat de rester dans des relations toxiques ou des emplois qui vous éloignent de vos proches. L'auteur met en garde contre les dangers de l'isolement et encourage à maintenir des relations saines avec la famille et les amis.

Highlights

The importance of letting go and recognizing when to do so.

Advice on how to let go of a stagnant job after seven years.

The Sunk Cost Fallacy and its influence on decision-making.

The need to focus on the future rather than past investments.

Recognizing manipulation in both personal and professional relationships.

The danger of valuing words over actions in assessing trustworthiness.

Understanding that loyalty is often undervalued by those who exploit it.

The societal shift affecting the dynamics of modern relationships.

The empowerment of self-respect and valuing oneself in relationships.

The concept that time is a precious resource that should not be wasted.

The impact of toxic relationships on personal growth and happiness.

The power of believing in oneself and one's capabilities.

The idea that life should add to one's existence, not detract from it.

The potential consequences of isolating oneself from a supportive family.

The value of listening to and trusting the advice of loved ones.

The encouragement to change direction in life when necessary.

The role of progression in maintaining happiness and avoiding depression.

The process of planning an exit strategy from an unsatisfactory situation.

The transformative power of letting go and having faith in a better future.

The importance of self-belief and the ability to overcome past challenges.

The concept of evolving and learning as a fundamental aspect of life.

Transcripts

hi guys I know this is not my usual

setting but I was actually going to bed

and um I felt called to do this video

and it's basically about letting go

knowing when to let go and uh how to let

go

and the reason why I want to do this

video is because for the past days I

have been helping a friend of mine

giving him advice on how to let go of a

job that he has been working at for

seven years and it's like his career

field and he just stopped growing in

that career so he began to feel

miserable

and

um the boss kept promising him stuff but

never delivering on it and he basically

told me Elizabeth what should I do and I

told him you have to leave you know when

you're stuck in a situation like that

where you're miserable people are

promising your stuff they're not

delivering on it or you're stuck in a

relationship what you need to do you

need to think about I was reading this

book yeah in the art of thinking clearly

it talked about something it's called

the Suncoast fallacy Suncoast cells he

basically means you don't have to look

at how much time or energy you spent

into something as a reason as why you

should stay you should look at what is

the future of this thing

like it doesn't matter how much time or

energy you put in if the future of it is

not going to get better if if you have

put years into that relationship and

energy and whatever but you're unhappy

and you see your future in that

relationship being unhappy then there's

no point in staying if the same with

with the company or your work if it's

not going up there's no point in staying

first thing I think what you should do

is realize when you're being manipulated

when a person is promising you stuff and

never delivering on it you are being

manipulated if someone is telling you

even if a boss is telling you yeah you

will get this position if you do this

then you do that thing and you still

don't get that position that's

manipulation because it like they're

promising you stuff but they're never

delivering on it you know same way in a

relationship they're promising you to

change they're promising you that

they'll do better or whatever it won't

happen again but then it does make

manipulation

they're just saying anything to make you

stay if if the words don't match the

actions you leave you guys need to stop

believing people on words people are

full of okay let's be honest

here like it's so easy to lie why would

not everyone lie you know if I wanted to

keep a girl but I know I I like I'm not

serious with her but I can't just sleep

around with her I would also lie to her

to make her stay you know why not if I

can why not you know most most people

don't feel bad when they do that and you

need to realize that not everyone has a

good heart or morals or or feel feels

bad about the stuff no most people don't

and you guys need to start realizing

that the world is really harsh when the

words do not match the action see I had

so many people in my life screaming to

me Liz I love you I love you but then

they would do stuff to me that was so

shitty that I would think like how is

this love you know and then you have me

I'm verbally I don't say that much like

oh I love you but I will always showed

my actions that I respect you I love you

and I'm loyal to you like my actions

will always show

I don't talk I show you and that's how

you have to look at people look at your

boss is are they just talking all right

are they actually giving me what I want

and what they promised me look at your

relationship the same way other thing is

what they can easily get will never be

valued okay and also if you're easy like

if you're loyal to a company that is

literally not giving you what you want

but promising making false promises also

they will not value you because see with

my friend the issue was what his boss

did is he promised proms promise never

delivered but the boss knew the guy

would never leave he's so loyal to this

company he knew he would not leave so he

knew this Behavior could go on for years

and years without him really doing

anything you know and they would even

say like oh no he will never leave

doesn't matter whatever that's how these

people start to disrespect you

start to Value yourself you know start

to Value what you want and what you

think that you deserve relationships

don't get too easily with people make

them literally work for you make people

prove especially if you're going into

relationship with a man make that man

prove to you that he's worthy of being

with you because in this day and age and

I truly believe this is the issue with

most relationships these days is because

we we've created this whole thing of

like oh no uh they don't have to do

anything anymore everything's equal this

and that so then you have men that don't

want to show up and be men anymore

they're just like okay whatever I I

don't have to do anything so they're not

going to do anything and even worse they

want to take from the woman now yes I do

believe in equality I do believe a man

and a woman should be equal and and I'm

happy if that's the way it is but at the

end of the day if if you like make it so

easy for a man to get with you and he

doesn't have to do anything at all and

he can still be in a relationship with

you they will abuse that power

they will abuse that power and that is

not an that's not equality you know

because again they're more powerful over

you because you're giving yourself away

for nothing this person doesn't even

appreciate you respect you doesn't do

anything for you and you're just giving

yourself you're giving your time value

yourself making someone uh literally

prove to you that they're a good person

with their actions is valuing yourself

that is self-respect there's just

nothing worse than wasted time wasted

time on people don't waste your time

your your time is valuable you guys like

literally I've heard so many older

people say time flies like this

today you're 20 years old tomorrow

you're 80 and it flies like this don't

waste your time on dumb people don't

waste your time on dumb people don't put

your energy into people that promise you

stuff don't deliver don't go to people

that don't respect you or are toxic

because you're lonely and you don't have

anyone so I'll just stay with them

but then you end up being miserable

again they're taking away from you

they're taking away from your years and

you end up feeling bad about yourself

you end up feeling insecure and thinking

that you cannot do anything bad those

kind of bosses those kind of

relationship people what they will do is

they will make it seem like you are this

is the only good thing you will ever get

like you cannot get any better than this

and that is just such like that's one of

the things they do with their

manipulation yeah they have to make you

feel like you cannot get do anything

better so that toxic partner will make

you feel like you cannot get anyone

better than him or anyone that treats

you decency and respect they will make

you actually believe that or your job

they will make you believe that oh you

cannot get anywhere better you will not

be paid better you will not get the same

uh respect or position whatever that's

such like stop listening to

these people it's not true it's not true

in order to control you they have to

make you feel this small but you have

the power to take you to take that back

and be like no you know what I deserve

much better and I'm capable of much

better and yes I can get much better

than you and you can there's literally

billions of people in this world and you

think this one douchebag is your only

option please

there's literally so many companies you

can start your own company there's so

many options in this world money is only

an energy if you start to understand

money in an energetic way you also start

to realize it doesn't have to be this

hard stock six people constantly benefit

from putting you down and making you

feel this small but like stop it has to

stop and the only Power you have right

now is to take your own power back you

gave away your power to those people

those people are not powerful without

your energy that you gave to them that

company is nothing without you that

company needs you you don't need them

that toxic person needs you you don't

need them

you think anyone wants to be with

someone that treats them like

nobody wants to do that so when they're

telling you you can't do anything better

they're actually projecting onto you

they can't do anything better that

company cannot find a better employee

than you that partner cannot find a

better partner than you because you're

the only one that wants to put up with

their stuff nobody else wants to do that

whether it's a company whether it's a

relationship that thing whatever it is

should always add to your life and not

take away from it

for example

the my friend that works for the company

he completely doesn't have any time

anymore for his friends or family

constantly working constantly working

became miserable his relationships are

failing

um so and he doesn't even make enough

money to make up for that you know so

it's like his relationships are

completely failing and the company is

taking away from his relationship his

personal life it shouldn't do that if

you're doing a job that job should add

you should make your money and and you

should like you should still have your

life you should still have be able to

keep your relationships and the same way

you know I'm gonna say one thing have a

partner and you have a good family that

cares about you and your family says

that this guy is not good for you or

this girl is not good for you and they

can see it and and you actually also

know there's kind of red flags but you

still choose that partner over your

family and you lose your family because

you chose that partner that's a dumb

decision I'm gonna say it here that's a

dumb decision if you have a good family

I'm not talking about toxic families if

you have a family that actually cares

about you once that toxic person that

got you away from your family knows that

you don't have anyone anymore and you're

not communicating with your family

anymore you're done you're done

you're literally like caged for them

because they have all control now every

time you want to leave they'll say where

do you want to go you don't have anyone

they they literally feed off of this you

cannot catch me go against literally the

people that I love because of a man

honestly truly actually had friends

co-workers people that I used to know

tell me that they did this when when

they had a good family and they said it

was the worst decision of my life the

person became abusive the person

literally did anything and everything to

me

and um yeah at the end of the day they

felt isolated so much trauma coming out

of it because you're not talking to

anyone anymore you don't have anyone to

go to now you only have this one toxic

person and you're isolated with them

with them yeah sometimes people around

you that love you you might feel like oh

they're going against me they don't know

what they're talking about whatever

sometimes they know better believe me

trust me I have seen it with my own eyes

not with one case I've seen multiple

cases like this

sometimes your loved ones know better

but realize that it's okay to change

your mind you don't have to do things

like one way or just because you studied

this and you're in this in this company

and you did this job but you don't feel

good there and you want to do something

else it's okay to do something else you

know it's never too late to change

direction you will anyways go where

you're meant to go or where your

intuition leads you you will get there

but maybe it's not a straight line maybe

you have to go like this or try

different things to in order for you to

just be like oh this is what I want to

do I was watching this interview from

Tony Robbins and Tony Robbins was

basically talking about uh humans get

unhappy and depressed when they stop

progressing in life

progression is literally what makes us

happy that's why even if you look at

people that are at the top they have

millions and millions they you might

look at them and see whoa oh my God they

accomplished everything but they're

miserable why do you think that is they

stopped progressing in life they don't

have that drive anymore because they

have everything so we constantly need to

find that thing that drives us need to

find that thing that makes us want want

to involve and when you feel like it's

not okay to change your mind or you have

to stay this way because this is what

you've been taught and whatever you'll

become miserable at the end of the day

because you know that this is not what

you want and second of all you feel like

you're not progressing because this is

not even what you want to begin with you

don't even want to progress in this

thing so you're stuck and you will

really become miserable start thinking

about okay maybe this was not what I

wanted I tried this but this is not what

I want this relationship I tried it but

this is not what I want I want something

else it's okay to change your mind it's

okay we are here on Earth to constantly

evolve when you stop evolving that's

when you stop living so once you made

that decision for yourself that you have

to let go you plan your exit okay if

you're in that company and you want to

leave what you do is you search for

another job in another company or maybe

you're like okay I don't want to work

for now I'm going to take off and travel

or whatever or I'm gonna do whatever you

can also do that uh whatever you want to

do but plan your exit

plan your exit in a relationship if this

is really not what you want okay you

start thinking about how can I get out

of this relationship do you need

financial do you need money

um whatever you need maybe you can find

family members friends anyone that can

help you to get out plan your exit you

do not stay where respect is not served

you do not stay where you're manipulated

you do not stay where you're miserable

once you have let go and you close that

door you do not open that door again

and why am I saying this listen I used

to constantly when I was I had an ex me

and my ex were good friends but

um he would constantly like he would

take care of me financially when I was

really really broke and I really needed

him but I didn't like the relationship

anymore and there was no love and I

wanted to leave I I constantly would

like ask God like please give me someone

that I love that they get scared of me

um but that would never happen and I

would constantly be stuck with this

partner so what happened is I literally

in a moment where I was my Brokers I was

like you know what I have to let go of

my ex otherwise the person that is meant

for me can never come in so what I did

is I was like okay I'm just gonna let go

of him I don't care that I literally

have no money you know without him so

then I let him go and then literally

like uh a year later I met my partner

now and he's literally what I've wanted

and what I've prayed prayed for so in

order for that manifestation to come in

that you want about maybe the partner or

or the job that you want you need to let

go of the thing that's not serving you

if the thing right now is not what you

want but you just hold on to it because

it's comfortable

you have to have faith and let go

because I really really believe if you

don't believe in God believe in yourself

if if whether it's the universe

something else I don't know I really

believe God has a bigger plan really

honestly I I believe God has a bigger

plan and I think the things we ask for

are just pathetic and he has like such a

big plan and we can have like huge huge

stuff but where we don't think that we

can have it so we never Attract it and

this is what I told my friend as well

I'm like you have to show God that you

trust him you know you have you don't

have to be afraid to let go of this

toxic uh job that you have right now and

uh be like oh no if if I don't let this

go I will not have something else you

will because God always provides you

will always have always but you have to

have some faith and if you don't believe

in God believe in yourself you will

provide for yourself you will you got

yourself out of so many bad situations

did you not like we literally went

through so much and we're still standing

we're still doing our stuff doing like

trying to get better and trying to

evolve so you're still here are you not

why do you not believe in yourself then

why do you not think you can get better

every time you thought that this was the

end and like you would never get out of

this you got out of it didn't you why do

you think that this time you're gonna

fail yourself you're not trust me trust

me once you let go once I had let go of

all the shitty friends that I had all

like my partner that there was no love

anymore once I let all of that go I I

promise you everything I ever wanted

came in and there is no person that has

left my life that I missed truly truly

I'm sorry and there is no person that I

would take back from from my previous

life like in this like in this new

reality that I'm living no I'm sorry I'm

literally not but once all that that

like unwanted is gone your true purpose

starts to show you start to see what is

meant for you and and literally Miracles

start to happen because you had Faith

you had faith in yourself you had faith

in God and you were not afraid to take

risks

sometimes in life you need to get

uncomfortable see when you're jumping

from your presence reality to the new

one that you want in the beginning it

might be a little chaotic like it's not

gonna be amazing from the get-go you

know and you have to accept that but

that's okay you know you've survived

much worse much worse

this time when you're going into this

you actually have a plan and you have

wisdom that you didn't have before so

this time around it will be different I

promise you it will be different and

don't also think like oh no it's too

late like my age this and that whatever

no people have done incredible things at

60 at 70 they've accomplished only you

know it doesn't matter it doesn't matter

your age doesn't matter you see age is

just a number we are a soul you know

it's it's all about our soul you guys

have to realize that our souls are here

on Earth to evolve literally and to

learn constantly we have to learn

once we stop learning and evolving we

stop living

so in order for you to do that you

constantly have to experience new things

you have to create those experiences for

yourself and you don't have to be scared

to do that

fear stops everything instead of fear

have faith have faith in yourself if you

believe in God have faith in God have

faith in the universe everything will

work out for you at the end

but don't do a dishonor to yourself by

staying where you're not welcome

anyways guys I love you guys so much I'm

so sorry looking like this because I

know a lot of people don't like it uh

when I am not dressed up but honestly I

just really wanted to share this message

with you guys because I felt like I felt

some of you need it

um so yeah I love you guys so much

bye-bye