Traits that set EXTREMELY cool people apart.

Ann the Philosopher
12 Oct 202410:09

Summary

TLDRIn this video, the speaker explores the concept of 'cool' by introducing a formula: Competent + Calm + Confident. Through real-life examples, they highlight how cool people are confident without being arrogant, authentic in their self-awareness, skilled in social interactions, have good style, and embrace diverse experiences. These qualities set them apart from the average person, making them admired and respected. The essence of coolness lies in being comfortable with who you are, interacting confidently with others, and expressing your unique self without trying too hard to prove a point.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Coolness is subjective, but there are certain qualities that most people perceive as admirable across those considered cool.
  • 😀 The 3C formula for coolness—competence, calmness, and confidence—can be applied to both real and fictional characters.
  • 😀 Real-life examples of cool people show that coolness is not limited to one personality type; it can vary greatly from person to person.
  • 😀 Cool people are confident without arrogance; they don't try to prove anything to others.
  • 😀 Authenticity is a key quality of cool people; they unapologetically embrace who they are and what they stand for.
  • 😀 People who are cool have strong self-awareness and are accepting of both their strengths and flaws.
  • 😀 Cool people are good at active listening, making others feel valued and special in conversations.
  • 😀 Social skills are important for cool people—they can read social cues and interact with anyone effectively.
  • 😀 Style plays a role in how others perceive you, but being cool doesn't require wearing designer clothes—it's about knowing what looks good on you.
  • 😀 Exposure to diverse experiences helps cool people gain maturity, making them more comfortable with themselves and less concerned with others' opinions.
  • 😀 At the core, being cool is about being comfortable in your own skin, confident without trying too hard, and staying true to who you are.

Q & A

  • What does being 'cool' mean according to the script?

    -Being cool is defined as having an aesthetic of attitude, behavior, style, and appearance that others find admirable. It’s a subjective concept, varying from person to person, but there are common traits among people universally seen as cool.

  • What is the '3C formula' for being cool?

    -The '3C formula' for being cool consists of Competence, Calm, and Confidence. These are the three qualities that contribute to an individual being perceived as cool.

  • Can you provide an example of a fictional character who embodies the '3C formula'?

    -Tommy Shelby from *Peaky Blinders* is an example of a fictional character who embodies the '3C formula'. He is highly competent in business, exudes confidence, and remains calm under pressure, even in life-threatening situations.

  • How does the speaker distinguish between the coolness of real people and fictional characters?

    -The speaker notes that while fictional characters like Tommy Shelby or Jack Sparrow may appear mysterious or exaggerated, real people who are cool also exhibit the '3C formula'. However, real-life cool individuals are more varied, and they don’t have to be dark or mysterious to be admired.

  • What role does confidence play in being cool?

    -Confidence is central to being cool. People who are cool are confident without being arrogant. They don’t try to prove a point to anyone; their mere existence and self-assuredness convey confidence.

  • Why is authenticity important in cool people?

    -Authenticity is crucial because cool people are unapologetically themselves. They are self-aware, understand their values, and accept their flaws, which allows them to confidently express their true selves without fear of judgment.

  • What does the speaker suggest about how childhood experiences affect authenticity?

    -The speaker suggests that childhood experiences, such as being reprimanded for certain traits (like talking too much), can lead individuals to suppress parts of themselves. Rediscovering these suppressed traits later in life can help them become more authentic.

  • What social skill is emphasized as a key trait of cool people?

    -Active listening is emphasized as a crucial social skill. Cool people are able to listen attentively, making others feel special and valued. They also pick up on small details and social cues, which helps in building strong, meaningful connections.

  • How does style contribute to someone being cool?

    -Style plays a role in how others perceive you and how you feel about yourself. It’s not about wearing expensive brands, but rather about knowing what works for you and presenting yourself in a way that boosts confidence.

  • Why is exposure to new experiences important for cool people?

    -Exposure to new experiences helps cool people become more mature, broaden their perspectives, and care less about others' opinions. This maturity and the ability to talk about diverse experiences make them interesting and more at peace with themselves.

  • What is the ultimate takeaway about being cool from the script?

    -The ultimate takeaway is that being cool is about confidence more than anything else. It involves being comfortable in one's own skin, not overly concerned with others' opinions, and interacting with people in a way that is genuine and unique.

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