Principles of Verbal Communication

Summary

This script explores the multifaceted nature of language, emphasizing its symbolic essence and potential for varied interpretations. It distinguishes between denotative, connotative, and etymological meanings, underscoring the importance of clarity in communication to prevent misunderstandings. The speaker also addresses the influence of language on thought and energy, advocating for mindful speech. Additionally, the script delves into language's functional aspects, such as control and information sharing, while cautioning against problematic language use, including bias, sexism, profanity, rudeness, and incivility.

Takeaways

• 🗣️ Language is symbolic and its primary function is to communicate thoughts, ideas, and feelings.
• 🌐 Words can have multiple meanings, so communicators must be clear to avoid miscommunication.
• 📚 There are three types of meanings in language: denotative (dictionary definition), connotative (personal interpretation), and etymological (origin and true meaning).
• 👥 Connotative meaning varies among individuals based on their experiences, which can lead to misunderstandings.
• 🔍 Etiymological meaning is emphasized as the most accurate for clear communication.
• 🗣️ Slang can also be misinterpreted depending on regional differences.
• 💬 Equivocality in language can lead to ambiguity and misinterpretation, especially in political or influential contexts.
• 🧠 Our thoughts shape our language, and conversely, the language we use can influence our thoughts.
• 🔊 Sound vibration in verbal communication transfers energy between people.
• 📜 Language serves multiple functions including control, information sharing, expression of feelings, creativity, and rituals.
• ⚖️ Language can have issues such as bias, sexism, profanity, rudeness, and incivility.

Q & A

What is the definition of language according to the script?

Language is defined as a system of symbols that we use to communicate our thoughts, ideas, and feelings.

What are the three types of meanings in language discussed in the script?

The three types of meanings are denotative (dictionary definition), connotative (people's interpretation based on experience), and etymological (true origin of the word).

Why is it important to be mindful of the multiple meanings of words?

Because words can have multiple meanings, it is crucial to clarify their intended meaning to avoid miscommunication and misunderstanding.

What is equivocal language, and why is it important to avoid it?

Equivocal language is language that is open to more than one interpretation, making it ambiguous. It is important to avoid it because it can cause confusion and miscommunication.

How does thought influence language according to the speaker?

Thoughts influence language in that if someone thinks in a righteous or unrighteous manner, it will be reflected in the language they use.

How can language be used as a means of control?

Language can be used to control others through threats, bribery, or contracts, where people may agree to terms they don't fully understand or agree with due to language complexity.

What is the role of sound vibration in verbal communication?

Sound vibration is an energetic transfer, where the energy and vibration of words can affect the person being communicated with.

What are some problems with language highlighted in the script?

The script highlights issues with biased language, sexist language, profane language, rude language, and uncivil language.

How is profane language defined beyond the use of curse words?

Profane language is not limited to curse words; it includes language that is insulting, rude, vulgar, or disrespectful.

What does the speaker suggest about differing perceptions of rude or profane language?

The speaker suggests that what is considered rude or profane varies based on individual upbringing, environment, and exposure, and thus perceptions of language differ between people.

Outlines

00:00

🗣️ The Nature of Language and Communication

This paragraph discusses the concept of verbal communication and the various forms of language used to convey thoughts and feelings. It highlights the symbolic nature of language and the importance of understanding the responses evoked by the symbols and words we use. The paragraph emphasizes the need for clarity in communication to prevent misinterpretation, especially given that words can have multiple meanings. It introduces three types of meanings: denotative (dictionary definition), connotative (personal interpretation), and etymological (origin and true meaning). The speaker advises being mindful of the language used, the context, and the audience to avoid miscommunication. It also touches on the idea that language can be equivocal and ambiguous, which can lead to different interpretations, and the importance of specificity in communication.

05:00

🌱 The Impact of Language on Thought and Energy

The second paragraph explores how our thoughts shape the language we use and vice versa, suggesting a reciprocal relationship between thought and speech. It delves into the concept of sound vibration and energy transfer during verbal communication, emphasizing that we are all energetic beings. The paragraph outlines various functions of language, such as control, information sharing, expression of feelings, creativity, and rituals. It also addresses problems associated with language, including bias, sexism, profanity, rudeness, and incivility. Each type of problem is briefly explained with examples, highlighting the impact of language on social interactions and the importance of being aware of the language we use to foster positive communication.

10:01

🚫 Understanding Profanity and Rudeness in Language

This paragraph focuses on the different dimensions of profane and rude language. It clarifies that profanity is not limited to curse words but includes any language that can be considered insulting, rude, vulgar, or disrespectful. The speaker discusses how the perception of profanity is subjective and can vary based on individual backgrounds and environments. The paragraph also addresses the concept of 'rule' language, which encompasses impolite, blunt, unpleasant, harsh, and tacky behavior. It emphasizes the subjectivity of what is considered rude or uncivil, suggesting that these judgments are influenced by personal upbringing and cultural norms. The speaker encourages an open mind when interacting with others, recognizing that what may seem rude to one person might be normal behavior to another.

Keywords

💡Language

Language is defined as a system of symbols used to communicate thoughts, ideas, and feelings. In the video, language is discussed as a tool for expression that can take various forms, including written, sign, and body language. The script emphasizes the symbolic nature of language and how words are symbols that evoke responses, which is central to the theme of communication and its impact.

💡Symbolic

Symbolic refers to the idea that words used in language act as symbols that represent concepts and can trigger certain responses. The video script discusses how the nature of language is symbolic, meaning that words are not just sounds or written characters but carry meaning that can evoke emotions or ideas, which is crucial for understanding how communication works.

💡Denotative Meaning

Denotative meaning is the dictionary definition of a word, which is the explicit or literal meaning. The script mentions denotative meaning as the first type of meaning discussed, emphasizing the importance of clarity in communication. It is used to illustrate how words can have a commonly agreed-upon meaning to avoid misunderstandings.

💡Connotative Meaning

Connotative meaning is the personal or emotional associations that a word can evoke, distinct from its dictionary definition. The script explains that everyone may have a different interpretation of a word based on their experiences, which highlights the subjective nature of language and the potential for varied interpretations.

💡Etymological Meaning

Etymological meaning refers to the true meaning and origin of a word. The video script stresses the significance of understanding etymological meaning to ensure clear and accurate communication. It suggests that operating from this type of meaning can help avoid misinterpretation due to the multiple meanings words can have.

💡Equivocal Language

Equivocal language is language that is open to multiple interpretations and is often ambiguous. The script warns against using equivocal language because it can lead to miscommunication. It gives examples such as politicians using vague terms to avoid being specific, which is directly related to the video's theme of the importance of clear communication.

💡Sound Vibration

Sound vibration is mentioned in the context of verbal communication transferring energy between people. The video script relates this concept to the idea that language is not just about the words but also the energy and emotions carried through the sounds we make, which ties into the broader message about the power and impact of language.

💡Bias Language

Bias language is derogatory language that excludes or negatively implies something about a group or person. The script provides examples of gender bias and explains how such language can be harmful by perpetuating stereotypes. This keyword is integral to the video's discussion on the problems language can create in society.

💡Sexist Language

Sexist language excludes one gender when the topic refers to both sexes. The video script points out that sexist language is a common issue where people might unknowingly use language that excludes or marginalizes one gender, which is an important aspect of the video's message on the need for inclusive communication.

💡Profane Language

Profane language is language that is considered insulting, rude, vulgar, or disrespectful. The script clarifies that profanity is not just about curse words but any language that can be offensive. This keyword is used in the video to discuss how language can be used inappropriately and the impact it can have on communication.

💡Rude

Rude refers to impolite, blunt, unpleasant, harsh, and tacky behavior or language. The video script discusses rude language as a type of communication that can be deemed unacceptable based on individual perceptions and cultural norms. It is used to illustrate the variability of what is considered polite or impolite in different contexts.

💡Uncivil

Uncivil language or behavior is inappropriate, ill-mannered, or crude. The script uses the example of drive-thru interactions to show how people can become uncivil when they do not receive what they expect. This keyword is part of the video's exploration of how language can reflect a lack of manners or social grace.

Highlights

Language is a system of symbols used to communicate thoughts, ideas, and feelings.

Words are symbols that evoke certain responses; it's important to consider the reactions our language may trigger.

Words represent people's ideas and can have multiple meanings, requiring clear communication to avoid misinterpretation.

There are three types of meanings in language: denotative (dictionary definition), connotative (personal interpretation), and etymological (origin and true meaning).

Etymological meaning is crucial as it provides the true meaning of a word, reducing the chance of miscommunication.

Slang can also be misinterpreted based on regional differences, emphasizing the need for clear communication.

Equivocal language is open to multiple interpretations and is often used by those trying to be vague or ambiguous.

English is described as an equivocal language due to the multiple meanings of words, requiring specificity in communication.

Our thoughts form into language, and the language we use can influence our thoughts and attract certain types of energy.

Sound vibration in verbal communication transfers energy between people, highlighting the importance of the words we use.

Language serves as a means of control, often seen in contracts where people agree to terms they may not fully understand.

Language is used to share information, express feelings, be creative, and in rituals, showcasing its multifaceted role in society.

Bias language excludes certain groups or implies negativity, such as gender bias in occupational roles.

Sexist language excludes one sex when the topic refers to both, perpetuating societal norms and exclusion.

Profane language includes insulting, rude, vulgar, or disrespectful terms, which can vary in perception based on individual experiences.

Rule involves impolite, blunt, unpleasant, harsh, and tacky behavior, which is subjective and based on personal upbringing and environment.

Uncivil language or behavior is inappropriate and ill-mannered, often observed in situations where people react to negative experiences.

Transcripts

verbal communication

before when we communicate with people

we use some form of language whether or

not it is the written language

whether or not it is sign language

whether or not

it is body language

language is defined as a system of

symbols that we use to communicate our

thoughts

our ideas and our feelings

so the question is what is the nature of

language language is symbolic

words that we use are symbols and evoke

certain responses i would like for you

to think about what responses do you

evoke with the language that you use

what responses do you evoke with the

symbols that you use

think about what responses are evoked in

you when you see

certain symbols and or hear certain

words

words also represents people ideas or

are things

so we think our thoughts

and we express our thoughts through

words we express our thoughts

through symbols

words also have multiple meanings so we

have to be mindful of that

especially when we're communicating with

others and because words have multiple

meanings

it is your job as the communicator to

make sure that everyone

knows exactly what it is that you intend

on conveying to them

and if you don't do that our interaction

amongst people can be miscommunicated

because when we're dealing with words

and because they have multiple meanings

once again it's so easy for our messages

to be miscommunicated and or interpreted

differently

than how we intended so there are three

different types of

meanings that we're going to discuss the

first type is denotative meaning which

is the dictionary definition

so when you're having the conversation

once again you would like

to make it clear as to the meaning of

certain words that you were talking

about

a second type of meaning is conducted of

meaning and this is just the people's

interpretation of a word

so everybody has a different

interpretation of a word and what that

word means to them

based on their individual experiences

a third type of meaning is the

etymological meaning

which is the true meaning and the origin

of a word

this type of meaning is so so important

and we all shall operate from this type

of meaning however if you are amongst

a group of friends and you're speaking

slang then it's a common rule and it's

understood that you're speaking

in that type of language and even with

slang language

words can be misinterpreted based on the

region that you're from

so once again always be mindful of the

words that you're using

the context in which you are using the

words and the people with whom you are

communicating with

because messages once again

can and oftentimes do get misconstrued

so equivocal language

is

so equivocal

equivocal language is open to more than

one interpretation

it's also ambiguous and oftentimes

when you listen to certain people

maybe some politicians maybe somebody

who is trying to influence you

they use equivocal language because it's

subject to

more than one interpretation they're not

very very specific

and or the words are so ambiguous and

vague to where

it can mean anything to anybody

so be mindful of using equivocal

language

and when you're dealing with someone

who's speaking equivocally to you

you have to ask questions you have to

require them to be very specific in what

they're

talking about

so what language is equivocal that we're

dealing with

every day

english english is a very equivocal

language because when you look at the

dictionary

you have more than one or two meanings

for a word

so when you're conversing with people

how do we know exactly what meaning

you're talking about so it's best

to deal with the etymological meaning of

a word because that's the true meaning

and if we deal with the true meaning

there's only one true meaning

and everybody will be on the same page

thought forms into language so our

thinking affects

the language that we use if i'm thinking

in a righteous manner

nine out of ten times righteous

unrighteousness will not come out of my

mouth

if i'm speaking in a unrighteous manner

or a wicked

manner then nine out of ten times

wickedness would come

out of my mouth our language also

influence our thoughts so

if you tend to speak a certain way you

may sit back and meditate

on what it was that you said

and if you meditate on something long

enough you will

at some point start to attract that type

of energy

so once again be mindful of the words

that are coming out of your mouth

and we're dealing with verbal

communication so now we're dealing with

sound vibration

so we all are energetic people we all

are energies we all are spirits

energy and motion and all that deals

with vibration so once again

when you are speaking and we're dealing

with sound vibration

we are transferring that energy to that

other person

functions of language

language is used as a means of control

certain people use language to control

others whether or not it's through

bribery

whether or not is through threats

there are so many different ways we can

use language to control

people it could be written in a contract

for example

if you would like to purchase a

particular car and

if we actually read the terms and

conditions a lot of that information

that

in these contracts we would not

we would not sign off on and or agree

however because we would like to

ride off the lot with that car we're

definitely going to sign

so in a way language is a means of

control especially in written contracts

we agree to a lot of stuff that we

really do not agree with

a second way that language is used we

use language to share information

when we interact with people every day

what are we doing we are sharing

information

we also use language to express our

feelings

we use language to be creative

and we use language in rituals

so there are many many problems with

language

one of the problems is by its language

the second problem is

sexist language the third profane

fourth ruled and the fifth uncivil

and we're about to look into each of

these different

types of problems that we deal with in

language

bias language is derogatory language

used to exclude certain groups

or imply something negative about the

group or a person

so we have all experienced

or have witnessed gender bias

one example of a gender bias would be

someone telling a woman that they can't

be a plumber because they're a woman and

that's a man's job

or if a man tell a woman her

position is to stay in the kitchen and

take care of the babies

that would be an example of gender bias

sexist language this is excluded a man

or a woman when the topic refers to both

sexes

think of how many times people have

engaged in the conversation and they use

sexist language unknowingly

this is something that we have been

taught indirectly so

it just becomes the norm but for people

that recognize what it is

they still go along with the flow

because they they look they still go

along with the flow because they don't

want to

scratch all that sexist language

is excluding a man or a woman when the

topic refers to both

sexes so this

means that

if i'm having a conversation with my

daughter

and we're talking about women things

and my husband may want to chime in

if i say to him oh this don't have

anything to do with you this

is between women and only women can be a

part of that because you wouldn't

understand

that would be an example of sexist

language

profane language is language that is

considered insulting

rude vulgar or disrespectful

now this definition is so interesting

because

you can use profane language

if you are insulting somebody you can

insult somebody without using so-called

curse words or

cuss words

if you are rude that is considered being

profane

if you are vulgar and or disrespectful

that is

considered being profane so it's not

just about

speaking certain words that we deem to

be

curse words however

whether or not people

deem a word to be profane is based on

the individual now if you consider

yourself

to be sacred then

nine or ten times you will call people

to the carpet

when they are insulting or being rude or

being vocal or disrespectful

so once again profane language

is just not saying cuss words so let's

look at this

image that we see for some people

this type of talk may not be insulting

or rule

oh my gosh ho

did you hear what that just said

to me

now if people talk like this every day

this type of language may not be

considered profane because that's just

part of their environment and that's how

they talk

however if somebody is not exposed to

this type of language

a lot and when they hear this for them

this may be deemed to be

profane so once again we have to have an

open mind

and realize that everybody do not see

everything the same way

rule this deals with words of behavior

that are impolite

blunt unpleasant harsh and tacky

as i just said

determining whether or not something is

rule

is an individual thing

straight like that and it's

all dependent on what you are exposed to

your upbringing your environment and

what you have been taught

so we have to keep an open mind

once again that when we are interacting

with people

something that you deem to be rude may

not be rude to another person

so the the blueprint for

what is rude

is based on what has been

communicated within a person's household

so words of behavior that are impolite

blunt unpleasant harsh and tacky

this is the definition for rule

uncivil is language or behavior that is

inappropriate

ill-mannered or accrued

i'm pretty sure we have

listened to certain people

and we had them deemed them to be

uncivil

i'm pretty sure at some point you have

been uncivil

if your order at the drive-thru

is wrong sometimes people tend to be

uncivil

we tend to behave inappropriately