Serve Unconditionally | Andry M. Panjaitan | LeadingSelf Think Others First

Summary

The video script discusses the third best practice of 'Think Others First': serving unconditionally. It contrasts the world's conditional approach with the selfless service leaders should embody, exemplified by the 'Mentoring UPH' program. Mentors willingly help new students without expecting anything in return, demonstrating true selflessness. The speaker encourages identifying needs, remembering the purpose of service, adding value, and practicing daily. The ultimate example of unconditional service is Jesus Christ, who sacrificed himself out of love for humanity.

Takeaways

• 😊 Serve unconditionally is the third best practice of 'Think Others First', and it's just as uncommon as unconditional love.
• 🌍 The world often operates on terms and conditions, but true leadership requires serving without expecting anything in return.
• 💡 Serving unconditionally means helping others even when there's no promise of benefits or recognition.
• 🙌 Putting others before ourselves is crucial in self-leadership and in practicing 'Think Others First'.
• 💪 It is easy to serve when benefits are involved, but serving unconditionally requires removing self-interest.
• 🎓 At UPH, the 'Mentoring UPH' program exemplifies serving unconditionally through mentors who help new students with no expectations.
• ⏳ Many mentors sacrifice their personal time and energy to support and care for their mentees, even without receiving anything in return.
• 🔍 To start serving unconditionally, we can identify needs around us, remember our purpose, focus on adding value, expect nothing in return, and practice daily.
• ✝️ Jesus Christ serves as the ultimate example of unconditional service, having sacrificed Himself for humanity out of love.
• ❤️ 'Think Others First' is about putting others before ourselves, which is a key character trait for true leaders.

Q & A

What is the third best practice for 'Think Others First'?

The third best practice is to serve unconditionally, meaning serving without expecting anything in return and without placing self-interest before others.

How does the speaker describe the concept of 'serving unconditionally'?

Serving unconditionally means offering service without knowing if you will receive any benefits or even if it may result in personal loss, yet still choosing to serve without any conditions.

Why is serving with conditions considered contrary to 'Think Others First'?

Serving with conditions is contrary to 'Think Others First' because it prioritizes personal gain or benefits over the needs of others, which hinders the ability to serve selflessly.

What is a daily example of serving unconditionally mentioned in the script?

A daily example is the 'Mentoring UPH' program, where mentors selflessly serve new students by supporting, guiding, and caring for them without expecting anything in return.

What motivates the mentors in the 'Mentoring UPH' program to serve unconditionally?

The mentors are motivated by a willingness to help others grow, particularly new students who may feel confused or lonely. They serve out of care and support for their mentees without any promise of rewards.

What are some steps to start serving unconditionally?

The steps include identifying a need, remembering why you serve, focusing on adding value to others rather than extracting it, expecting nothing in return, and practicing daily with those around you.

How is the example of Jesus Christ used to illustrate serving unconditionally?

Jesus Christ is presented as the ultimate example of serving unconditionally. Despite being in heaven, He chose to come to Earth, sacrifice Himself, and put others before Himself because of His love for humanity.

Why did Jesus Christ sacrifice Himself, according to the script?

Jesus Christ sacrificed Himself out of love for humanity, to save people from perishing and bring them from darkness into light, without expecting anything in return.

What is the significance of 'Think Others First' in leadership according to the script?

'Think Others First' is essential for leadership because it involves prioritizing the needs of others before your own, embodying a selfless approach to leading both yourself and others.

How does focusing on adding value relate to the concept of serving unconditionally?

Focusing on adding value means contributing to the well-being and growth of others without expecting any personal gain, which aligns with the concept of serving unconditionally.