How To Talk To An Attractive Girl (Never Run Out Of Things To Say)
Summary
TLDRThis script offers a comprehensive guide on how to engage in conversation with a crush, emphasizing the use of human psychology to avoid awkward silences. It introduces the concept of 'priming' to set a positive tone, suggests using storytelling to keep the conversation flowing, and recommends asking 'why' three times to delve deeper. It also advises leveraging the environment and body language to enhance communication and encourages emotional contagion to create a positive atmosphere. The key takeaway is to pique curiosity and keep the other person interested in continuing the conversation.
Takeaways
- 😅 The fear of saying the wrong thing or running out of topics is the primary reason many men avoid approaching their crush.
- 💡 Psychological priming can set the tone for a conversation, making others feel more at ease and positive.
- 📱 Starting a conversation with a text can prime the other person to see you as a perfect match, creating a positive and flirty context.
- 😉 Maintaining a playful and flirty energy during a date can reinforce the positive priming established through text.
- 📖 Utilizing storytelling to respond to questions can engage the other person's imagination and extend the conversation.
- 🤔 Asking 'why' three times helps to delve deeper into a topic, fostering a sense of connection and preventing conversational dead ends.
- 👀 Using objects and surroundings to enhance communication is known as multimodal communication, which can improve social appeal and attraction.
- 😁 Laughter and positive body language can emotionally influence the other person, making them feel they're having a great time.
- 🔍 Creating curiosity by not revealing everything about yourself can keep the other person interested and wanting to learn more.
- 📘 The script suggests using specific conversation techniques to ensure a conversation flows naturally and keeps the other person engaged.
Q & A
What is the primary fear that prevents men from approaching their crush according to the script?
-The primary fear is the fear of not saying the right thing or running out of things to say.
How does the speaker suggest creating a positive environment for conversation?
-The speaker suggests creating a positive environment by using psychological priming, which involves making the other person feel good and comfortable from the start.
What is an example of a text message that uses priming to frame oneself as a perfect match?
-An example text message is: 'Have you ever just met somebody and almost immediately started to feel insanely comfortable, like you've known this person forever? Because that's kind of what I'm feeling right now.'
Why does the speaker recommend using stories to respond to questions?
-Using stories to respond to questions harnesses people's imagination and makes the conversation more engaging and easier to understand than just logical responses.
What is the purpose of asking 'why' three times in a conversation?
-Asking 'why' three times is meant to delve deeper into a conversation, making the other person feel more connected and ensuring that there are always new topics to discuss.
How can objects around you be used to enhance a conversation?
-Objects can be used for multimodal communication by enhancing body language, signaling social status cues, and managing personal space to increase attraction.
What is emotional contagion and how can it be used in a conversation?
-Emotional contagion is the phenomenon where emotions can be contagious. It can be used in a conversation by approaching with a smile and open body language, which can cause the other person to mirror these positive emotions.
Why should you avoid being an open book when answering questions about personal hobbies or interests?
-Avoiding being an open book creates curiosity and encourages the other person to ask more questions, keeping the conversation going and maintaining interest.
What is the ultimate goal of the conversation techniques discussed in the script?
-The ultimate goal is to make the other person want to continue the conversation, initiate contact, and maintain interest.
How does the speaker use the concept of 'priming' to set a positive tone for a date?
-The speaker uses priming by starting the conversation in a playful and flirty manner, setting the stage for a positive and comfortable interaction during the date.
Outlines
🗣️ Overcoming Conversation Fears with Psychological Priming
The paragraph discusses the common fear that prevents men from approaching their crushes: the fear of saying the wrong thing or running out of conversation topics. It introduces the concept of psychological priming, which sets a positive tone for the conversation. The speaker uses a compliment to the audience as an example of priming, and then explains how priming can influence behavior. A study is cited where groups deciphering rude, neutral, or polite words behaved accordingly, demonstrating the power of priming. The speaker suggests using priming through text to frame oneself as a perfect match, and to maintain this energy in person, using playful and flirty conversation to keep the interaction engaging. The paragraph concludes with a tip to use storytelling to respond to questions, which is more engaging than simple yes or no answers, and can lead to deeper connections.
💭 Deepening Connections with Conversational Techniques
This paragraph continues the conversation strategy by suggesting the use of stories to respond to questions, which can prevent running out of things to say and engage the listener's imagination. The speaker advises against providing straightforward yes or no answers and instead encourages the use of stories to create a connection. The technique of asking 'why' three times is introduced to delve deeper into topics and keep the conversation flowing. The paragraph also introduces 'multimodal communication,' which involves using body language, social status cues, and spatial dynamics to enhance the conversation. The speaker provides examples of how to use these elements effectively. Lastly, the importance of laughter and positive emotions in conversation is highlighted, explaining how emotional contagion can put the other person in a positive mindset, making the interaction more enjoyable and memorable.
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Keywords
💡Psychological Priming
💡Flirty
💡Storytelling
💡Asking 'Why' Three Times
💡Multimodal Communication
💡Emotional Contagion
💡Curiosity
💡Social Status Cues
💡Conversational Branching
💡Body Language
💡Space
Highlights
Fear of not saying the right thing is the primary reason men avoid approaching their crush.
Using human psychology can make it easy to talk to girls and never run out of things to say.
Psychological priming can create a positive environment and set the tone for the conversation.
Priming can influence people's behavior, making them rude or polite.
An example of priming is framing oneself as the perfect match in a flirty, non-needy way.
Continuing the same playful and flirty energy during a date can keep the conversation engaging.
Using humor and light-hearted comments can make the other person feel comfortable and open up.
Storytelling is a powerful tool to keep conversations going and engage the listener's imagination.
Responding to questions with stories rather than simple yes/no answers can enrich the conversation.
Asking 'why' three times can deepen the conversation and create a sense of connection.
Using objects around you can enhance communication and increase social appeal.
Body language, social status cues, and the use of space can improve the quality of conversation.
Laughter and positive emotions can be contagious, influencing the other person's mood.
Emotional contagion can be used to put the other person in a positive mindset.
Avoid being an open book to maintain curiosity and keep the conversation interesting.
Leaving some information unsaid can pique the other person's interest and encourage them to ask more questions.
The ultimate goal is to make the other person want to continue the conversation and initiate future interactions.
Transcripts
the number one reason why most men don't
approach their crush is out of fear of
not saying the right thing or running
out of things to say I want to show you
just how easy it is to talk to girls and
never run out of things to say using
human psychology and these next six
steps but before I start I want to let
you know you guys you are smart I love
the fact I can sit here and talk to you
every single day is that what I did
there that psychological priming you
probably felt good which by the way I
truly mean that but the point is I just
Prime the conversation by creating a
positive environment and adding positive
context you want to know how powerful
priming is you can prime people to be
rude or polite they found it in this
study where they took three groups of
people one group was deciphering words
that were rude like bold aggressive
Disturbed second group was neutral they
were deciphering words that really
didn't mean anything and the third group
was deciphering words that were polite
like patient and respectful then the
researchers had them all wait within 10
minutes 60 of the group that was working
in the rude vocabulary interrupted the
researchers whereas the other two groups
were way more patient well you're going
to use priming with her and you're going
to start it through text I want you to
frame yourself as the perfect match and
don't do it in a needy way do it in a
flirty way here's an example text have
you ever just met somebody and almost
immediately started to feel insanely
comfortable like you've known this
person forever because that's kind of
what I'm feeling right now boom send a
text message it's super light but now
you got her prime thinking man this guy
the one then when you meet for the date
I want you to keep the same energy again
it's playful it's flirty you're not
being serious you could be middle of the
day be something like so what are we
naming our three kids she's gonna laugh
she might even open up a little bit give
you the actual name she wants but now
she's thinking wait a minute this guy's
husband material I'm not gonna lie to
you boys I use this exact same line of
my wife I'm two kids in I'm just saying
okay so now you've primed her and you
got her in the right mindset but that's
not enough to never run out of things to
say that's where tips two through five
will get you two I want you to use
stories to respond to questions the
reason you run out of things to say is
because every time she asks you a
question you immediately just say yes no
instead I need you to harness people's
imagination through the power of
Storytelling suggest that stories are
easier to understand and more engaging
than just logical responses let's take a
boring example it could be the weather
the traffic the party whatever let's
take the weather right everybody says
wow the weather's been really good today
right it's the usual line everyone goes
to because they have nothing to say and
then you respond with something like yes
yes it is there you go and the
conversation but I instead want you to
respond with the story so let's run it
again let's say she says something like
the weather's been really nice lately
yes it has and it's actually been
allowing me to spend more time outside I
recently picked up long distance running
almost like Marathon running I'm running
to parts of the city I've never even
seen I feel like I'm going on a mini
vacation every time I step outside super
relaxing that simple oh the weather's
great went from boring weather to
something you both have in common to a
story about the weather to now asking
her what she likes to do for fun you can
literally do this with anything three
ask why three times the deeper you get
into a conversation the more connected
she's gonna feel to you also will never
run out of things to say because now you
have a mental goal to always ask why
three times for any topic she brings oh
here's how you use it practically let's
say you're in conversation with her and
she's done something basic like I've
been loving reading these books recently
I feel like it's my Escape your first
why can be why do you feel like you need
an escape she'll probably say something
like because my job's so stressful your
second why is why is your job so
stressful she'll probably then go deeper
and say my boss always nags me I don't
do anything right I just wish I was My
Own Boss your third why can then be well
why aren't you Your Own Boss why don't
you try starting your something yourself
this is essentially called
conversational branching where you'll
get a topic of conversation and then
Branch out and out and out the more wise
you ask getting deeper and deeper into
different topics of conversation getting
to know her more and each one of those
are conversations where you can also
Branch Adam essentially never running
out of things to talk about four use
objects around you to make your
conversation better this is called
multimodal communication you have to
recognize that communication extends
Beyond just the words you say such as
visuals your gestures props things you
wear so how do you use it I want you to
narrow it down to three things body
language you're going to use this to
bring your message to life make it more
entertaining social status cues this is
like your watch your clothes your
glasses these increase your Social
appeal and increase your Social Status
and three space you're gonna use space
to increase attraction the closer you
get let me give you a visual example of
this imagine a guy that has constrictive
body language he's nervous so he's all
tight he's wearing a hoodie right and
he's about 10 feet away from that girl
now imagine a second guy guy has open
body language he's making the message
better he has a nice white button down a
watch on his wrist he also is about
three to five feet away from her which
one's a more compelling conversation
five I want you to laugh to emotionally
manipulate her into thinking she's
having a great time this is called
emotional contagion emotions can be
contagious and others are more likely to
resonate with your message if they are
in a positive mindset in other words
when you approach with a smile she's
more likely to smile back we as humans
will mimic facial expressions of
emotions we see usually this copying or
mimicry happens within minutes seconds
in its subconscious you don't even
realize you're doing it okay so how do
you apply it how do you use it whenever
you approach make sure you come with a
smile and open body language through
emotional contagion she will also smile
and open up her body language which will
put her in a positive mood she will then
be tricked into thinking she's having a
great time with then as you deploy any
other conversational tricks I've already
taught you you got it okay so now you
know how to keep a conversation go what
your ultimate goal is make her want to
come back and continue to talk to you
you want her to want more to send you
that first text message to call you
first and to do that this last one's
important number six not give up
everything when she asks you a question
try to avoid being an open book for
example let's say she asks you something
like what are your favorite hobbies a
traditional response would be something
like well I spend all my time either in
the gym Jiu Jitsu or playing video games
congratulations you have now told her
everything and have run out of things to
say this is what happens every single
time and now she has no curiosity to
continue digging further the
conversation is dead so let's try this
again let's say she asks you what are
your hobbies your response could be a
something like well one of my hobbies is
Jiu Jitsu I started this journey about a
year ago it's been the best year of my
life the amount of mental Clarity and
humility that you experience being
around other men that could quite
literally beat you up but also have
respect for it and it's an art form has
been one of my favorite hobbies for me
recently now she's thinking wait a
minute this guy has more Hobbies also
why was that so profound what else does
he know she will likely keep digging
because curiosity is one of the
strongest driving factors to keep
interest hot but I tell you I never
deceive you and if you guys want to
continue to level up I got two more
videos here that you can watch see you
boys next time
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