Spring 2021 Chaplain Interview Series: Catholic Chaplain Lynn Cooper

Tufts University Chaplaincy
16 Apr 202129:49

Summary

TLDRIn this Tufts University interview, Catholic Chaplain Lynn Cooper shares her journey from undergraduate to chaplaincy, highlighting her passion for religious studies and community care. She discusses the essence of pastoral care as accompaniment and deep listening, addressing a spectrum of student concerns from personal to spiritual. Cooper also reflects on the impact of COVID-19 on religious practices, emphasizing the need for a reimagined sacramental experience and the power of communal solidarity. Her belief in transformation and hope is palpable, as she envisions the chaplaincy's future growth in depth and diversity.

Takeaways

  • 📚 Lynn Cooper, the Catholic chaplain at Tufts University, found her calling in the study of religion and community care during her undergraduate years at Tufts.
  • 🔍 After graduating, Lynn explored her passion further by attending divinity school, focusing on the Master of Divinity program to understand both academic and practical aspects of religious work.
  • 🌟 Lynn's realization of her vocation occurred during her time at a Lutheran congregation, where she discovered her love for university chaplaincy and working with diverse student populations.
  • 🏫 Her return to Tufts as a chaplain was prompted by a desire to work closely with college students, which she considers her true calling.
  • 🤔 Pastoral care, as described by Lynn, involves accompaniment, providing a non-judgmental space for listening, and walking alongside individuals as they navigate their spiritual and existential questions.
  • 🌐 Lynn addresses a wide range of topics with students, from personal issues like family tensions and discernment to more profound matters such as faith and identity.
  • 🏛 The COVID-19 pandemic has led to a reevaluation of religious practices, particularly the sacrament of communion, prompting a reimagining of sacramental life and solidarity within the church.
  • 🍵 Lynn's fondest memory as a chaplain involves an interfaith moment, highlighting the significance of shared spaces and the beauty of different religious traditions coexisting.
  • 🌱 She firmly believes in transformation and growth, both on a personal level and within the spiritual community, drawing hope from the stories of change she has witnessed.
  • ☕ The best tea on campus, according to Lynn, can be found at the Tower Cafe, specifically the black mango iced tea, which holds a nostalgic value for her as a former student.
  • 📈 Looking ahead, Lynn envisions the chaplaincy at Tufts growing deeper in its relationships and continuing to transform, with a focus on being a multi-faith team that supports students of all backgrounds.

Q & A

  • What is Lynn Cooper's role at Tufts University?

    -Lynn Cooper is the Catholic Chaplain and Chaplaincy Tomb Supervisor at Tufts University.

  • How did Lynn Cooper become interested in the study of religion?

    -Lynn Cooper fell in love with the study of religion during her undergraduate years at Tufts University, where it was her first experience of deep community and care within the religion department.

  • What led Lynn Cooper to pursue a Master of Divinity degree?

    -After living in Maine for a year post-graduation, Lynn Cooper decided to attend divinity school to pursue a more holistic study of religion that included practical application and work with marginalized communities.

  • What was Lynn Cooper's experience like during her fieldwork at a Lutheran congregation?

    -Lynn Cooper found her fieldwork at a Lutheran congregation not as fulfilling as she had hoped, leading her to reach out to Tufts University for a field education student position.

  • How does Lynn Cooper describe her pastoral care approach?

    -Lynn Cooper describes pastoral care as accompaniment, providing a non-judgmental space for listening, being a non-anxious presence, and walking with people through their spiritual and existential questions.

  • What types of issues do students typically bring to Lynn Cooper for pastoral care?

    -Students bring a wide range of issues to Lynn Cooper, including housemate tensions, discernment about vocation, family issues, experiences of sexual assault, and bias incidents.

  • How has the COVID-19 pandemic affected Lynn Cooper's approach to pastoral care?

    -The COVID-19 pandemic has led to a reevaluation of communal practices like the sharing of the Eucharist and has emphasized the need for a sacramental imagination that extends beyond traditional church settings.

  • What is Lynn Cooper's view on the future of the Eucharist and its reception in the Catholic Church post-COVID?

    -Lynn Cooper believes that the pandemic has challenged Catholics to stretch their sacramental imagination and recognize the sacred in everyday life, suggesting a potential shift in how the Eucharist is understood and received.

  • What memorable moment stands out for Lynn Cooper from her time as a chaplain at Tufts?

    -A memorable moment for Lynn Cooper was when a student shared his experience of visiting the Vatican, and they listened to the call to prayer from the Muslim chaplain, which was a profound example of interfaith community and shared holy space.

  • What does Lynn Cooper believe in, and how does it influence her work as a chaplain?

    -Lynn Cooper believes in transformation, which is reflected in her work as a chaplain through her commitment to personal and communal growth, and her approach to pastoral care that supports individuals in their spiritual journeys.

  • Where does Lynn Cooper see the Tufts University Chaplaincy growing and transforming in the future?

    -Lynn Cooper hopes to see the Tufts University Chaplaincy deepen its relationships and continue to grow outward while also going deep, with a focus on being part of a multi-faith team and supporting students from diverse religious and philosophical backgrounds.

Outlines

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🎓 Journey to Becoming a Chaplain

Lynn Cooper, the Catholic Chaplain at Tufts University, shares her personal journey of becoming a chaplain. She discusses her undergraduate experience at Tufts, where she fell in love with the study of religion. After graduation, she pursued a Master of Divinity degree, which led her to work with marginalized communities. Despite initial uncertainty about her vocation, she found her calling in pastoral care, particularly at Tufts, where she returned to serve as the Catholic Chaplain after a stint at a Catholic high school.

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🤝 The Essence of Pastoral Care

Pastoral care, as described by Lynn, is about accompaniment and providing a non-judgmental space for students. She emphasizes the importance of being a non-anxious presence on campus and walking alongside individuals as they navigate their spiritual and existential questions. Lynn discusses the wide range of issues students bring to her, from personal conflicts to grappling with faith and identity. She also touches on the unique care chaplains offer, which complements but differs from traditional counseling services.

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🌟 The Universality of Pastoral Care

Lynn wishes for more students to know that pastoral care is available to everyone, regardless of their religious or spiritual background. She encourages students to reach out, emphasizing that chaplains meet people where they are, without judgment. Lynn also reflects on the impact of COVID-19 on pastoral care, noting an increase in students seeking to reconnect with their faith and the challenges of adapting traditional practices, such as communion, to the new reality.

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🍵 Reimagining Sacraments in the Time of COVID

The COVID-19 pandemic has prompted a reevaluation of sacramental practices, particularly communion. Lynn discusses the significance of the Eucharist and the challenge of maintaining its communal aspect during a time of social distancing. She invites a reimagining of sacraments, suggesting that everyday moments and interactions can be sacramental, embodying a sense of the holy. Lynn also expresses a sense of loss for traditional practices like the shared chalice and looks forward to new ways of experiencing communion as churches reopen.

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🌱 Memorable Moments and Beliefs in Transformation

Lynn recounts a memorable moment of interfaith harmony at Tufts, where a student shared his experience of the call to prayer during a meeting in her office. This moment exemplifies the power of sharing sacred space and being in community with individuals from diverse religious backgrounds. Lynn also shares her belief in transformation, drawing parallels between the changing seasons, personal growth, and the transformative potential within all people. She emphasizes a 'gritty hopefulness' and the importance of embracing transformation in both personal and communal contexts.

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☕️ Future Visions for the Chaplaincy and Campus Life

Looking ahead, Lynn expresses a desire for the chaplaincy at Tufts to deepen its relationships and continue growing, both outward and deep. She is proud of the multi-faith team and the opportunities for interfaith collaboration. Lynn also shares her personal preference for the best tea on campus, the Black Mango Iced Tea from the Tower Cafe, which holds a special place in her heart as a former student and current chaplain.

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Keywords

💡Chaplain

A chaplain is a religious leader who provides spiritual care and guidance, often within specific institutions like universities, hospitals, or the military. In the context of the video, Lynn Cooper is the Catholic chaplain at Tufts University, offering pastoral care and support to students. The role of a chaplain is central to the video's theme of spiritual guidance and community care.

💡Pastoral Care

Pastoral care refers to the spiritual and emotional support provided by religious leaders to individuals or groups. It often involves listening, guiding, and accompanying people through various life challenges. In the video, Lynn describes pastoral care as accompaniment, walking with people, and creating a space for processing and asking questions, which is integral to her role as a chaplain.

💡Divinity School

Divinity schools are educational institutions that focus on the study of theology, religious leadership, and ministry. Lynn mentions attending divinity school to pursue a Master of Divinity degree, which is a holistic program combining academic study with practical ministry. This decision was pivotal for her journey to becoming a chaplain.

💡Vocation

A vocation is a strong sense of purpose or calling to a particular occupation or way of life, often with a spiritual or moral dimension. In the video, Lynn discusses how students might be discerning their vocation, such as whether to become a doctor, reflecting on how one's career path can be seen as a calling.

💡Marginalized Communities

Marginalized communities are groups that are often excluded from social, political, or economic opportunities due to their identity. Lynn mentions her desire to work with marginalized communities as part of her ministry, highlighting the video's focus on social justice and inclusion within religious practice.

💡Eucharist

The Eucharist, also known as Communion, is a Christian sacrament that involves the consumption of bread and wine as symbols of Jesus's body and blood. Lynn discusses the impact of COVID-19 on the practice of Communion, emphasizing the need for a reimagining of sacramental practices and a sense of solidarity within the Church.

💡Solidarity

Solidarity is the unity and agreement of people based on shared interests, objectives, or standards. In the video, Lynn speaks about the importance of solidarity within the Church, especially during the pandemic, as a way to foster a sense of unity and shared experience despite physical distancing.

💡Transformation

Transformation refers to a profound change in form, appearance, or character. Lynn believes in transformation as a concept, citing personal growth, relationships, and the broader themes of Easter and new life as examples. She sees transformation as an ongoing process, both personally and within the university chaplaincy.

💡Multi-faith Team

A multi-faith team is a group of religious leaders or advisors representing various faith traditions, working together to support a diverse community. Lynn is proud to be part of Tufts University's multi-faith chaplaincy team, which includes representatives from different religious backgrounds, reflecting the video's theme of interfaith cooperation and understanding.

💡Resilience

Resilience is the ability to recover quickly from difficulties or the capacity to adapt to change. While not explicitly mentioned in the video transcript, the theme of resilience can be inferred from Lynn's discussions about supporting students through various challenges and her own journey of learning and adapting as a chaplain.

Highlights

Introduction of Lynn Cooper, the Catholic Chaplain at Tufts University, who uses she/her pronouns.

Lynn's journey from being a Tufts undergraduate to becoming a chaplain, influenced by her love for the study of religion.

Decision to attend divinity school without prior knowledge of ministry, driven by a desire for holistic study.

Lynn's realization during divinity school that her true calling was to work with college students.

The importance of accompaniment and non-judgmental spaces in pastoral care.

Pastoral care as walking with people, learning side by side, and creating space for processing and questioning.

Range of issues students bring to pastoral care, from housemate tensions to existential questions.

The unique care chaplains offer, complementing counseling and mental health services.

Lynn's perspective on how COVID has affected students' faith and their need for pastoral care.

The challenge of reimagining communion and sacraments during COVID, emphasizing solidarity and sacramental imagination.

Reflection on the shared cup in Catholic communion and its significance.

Lynn's memorable moment of interfaith harmony at Tufts, listening to the call to prayer in her office.

Belief in transformation and growth, inspired by personal experiences and the current season of Lent.

Vision for the future of Tufts University Chaplaincy, focusing on deepening relationships and growing as a multi-faith team.

Recommendation for the best tea on campus, the Black Mango iced tea at the Tower Cafe.

Transcripts

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good afternoon

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i'm in the interfaith center with the

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tufts university chaplain interview

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series

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i'm here with the catholic chaplain now

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would you like to introduce yourself

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yes my name is lynn cooper i use the she

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series pronouns

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and i'm the catholic chaplain and

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chaplaincy tomb supervisor here at tufts

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university

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great um we just have a few questions

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for you

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today we'll start out with how you came

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to be a chaplain at tufts

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um well i was an undergraduate at tufts

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i graduated in 2002 and when i was here

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as a student i just i fell in love with

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the study of religion

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it just made me come alive in fact i

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kind of i knew i wanted to study

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religion when i was going to college

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um and so that was one of the

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requirements that i had not that i told

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anyone but the requirements that i had

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personally for the school that i wanted

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to go to

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and it really was my first

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experience of deep community and care

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within the religion department um

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and after graduation

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um i went to live in

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uh maine for a year and during that time

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i decided

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no i want to go to divinity school and

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um

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you know i at the last second i looked

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at the

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uh at the different programs and i said

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wow the master of divinity just sounds

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so kind of more holistic you know it's

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not just the academic study of religion

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it's

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how do you work with people how do you

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show up for um

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marginalized communities and folks and

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like how do you

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um put into practice what you're

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learning in the

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in the classroom and so without

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any knowledge of what the word ministry

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meant or pastoral

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or vocation or discernment i signed up

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for divinity school

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for the master of divinity and i knew

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from

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the first probably first two minutes of

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the first day that i was in the right

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place

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i didn't know why wow but i thought i

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heard the woman who

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who became my advisor i heard her speak

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at the um

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the opening retreat for my program and

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as i said i didn't i didn't understand

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why i was there but i knew i was in the

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right place

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um and so in divinity school i had um

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i did some field work at a parish at a

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lutheran

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congregation and i just it just didn't

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it just wasn't the kind of work that was

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making me come alive and

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so my last year i ended up reaching out

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to the university chaplain at tufts and

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kind of with my tail between my legs

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very last minute

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do you have room for a field ed student

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and they already had two field ads that

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year

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and they graciously made room for me

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um and while well we didn't use the

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language this language then it was

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really

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my work and my task for that position

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was

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to uh work with the nuns right um

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people who are don't identify with a

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religious or philosophical tradition

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um not um

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folks who we wouldn't ordinarily see

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walk through our doors

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that was the work i was doing and

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i loved it i absolutely loved it but

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then out of divinity school i ended up

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getting a job at

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alboy's catholic high school which was

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really wonderful

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but i knew that my call was really to

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work with college students

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and a year later i got the call to come

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back to tufts

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and their catholic chaplain had left

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and here i am so i began and i don't

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think i really knew what a catholic

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chaplain was

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um but i was

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learning as i went and

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a lot of it was uh you know really

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learning how much i didn't know

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and learning how much

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i couldn't have known you know i had

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never

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set up for liturgy before um

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but i also wasn't allowed to be an altar

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server as a child so how was i supposed

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to know

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you know there were things like that

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where

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the learning curve was kind of steep but

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um

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you know on the day-to-day the pastoral

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presence the ministry of presence was

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you know helped me help me

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uh grow some roots here yeah

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i think that's um if i can take the

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questions a bit out of order here

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because i think that that leads us into

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a very

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uh interesting question there about

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pastoral care because a lot of

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a lot of these interview series are set

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up to try to

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expose people more to the resources that

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we have available with the chaplaincy in

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terms of pastoral care

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and in terms of in terms of ministry in

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terms of resources

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so how would you describe pastoral care

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what does it mean to you

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when i think of pastoral care the image

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that really comes up to me

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is uh is accompaniment

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um i can provide a listening ear

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in a non-judgmental space a non i could

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be a non-anxious presence

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is my greatest hope that i am um

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on this campus and beyond um

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but pastoral care you know i think we

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all have different

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um we connected to the different parts

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of this terminology

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and um but when i really think of the

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work that i do

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and the pastoral care that um takes

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shape

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in my ministry it's really one of

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walking with people

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and learning side by side and listening

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deeply

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and um and creating that space for

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processing

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creating that space um for asking

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uh sometimes really difficult and

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dangerous questions you know depending

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on where you have grown up

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some theological questions or

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existential questions could have been

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too dangerous to even entertain um

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and so it's really about creating

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a spaciousness for

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folks who are exploring and folks who

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sometimes we meet people who are really

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hurting um

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sometimes we meet people who are just

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really curious

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and often it begins with i don't know

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what this is supposed to look like what

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am i supposed to say

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which i hear all the time and it's just

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a you know

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i try to put people at ease and just say

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this is just a conversation like let's

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let's just get to know each other

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um yeah

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that's lovely um when when you have

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those sorts of conversations you know

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when people come to you

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and um are are hurting or are

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stuck with some sort of question uh in

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their minds

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what what sort of topics do you usually

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come up like

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what do people usually come to you with

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yeah well a whole a whole wide range of

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of issues anything from

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um you know a housemate

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uh tangles or tensions

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um questions about

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discernment or like you know i want to

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be

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um a doctor but i want to

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think of this as a vocation how do i do

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that when no one else is really talking

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about that

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or you know

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students who are wrestling with family

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back home whether it's you know a family

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member who

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is ill a family member who has passed

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um or tensions within the family that

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get brought out in different ways when

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students leave home sometimes it's a

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respite away

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from it and sometimes um other things

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are surface

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you know i've had conversations with

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students

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who are seeking support after experience

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of sexual assault

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after bias incidents

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and you know we offer a unique kind of

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care

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that often it goes really well with

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counseling mental health

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services their offerings but ours is is

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of a different um a different shape

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and so it really it's really a wide

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range right now

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um and this happens all the time

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but i feel like because of covid and

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because of just this moment

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there's been a lot of clarifying fact

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clarifying energy around and so

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um there's a lot of people who are

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looking to reconnect with their faith

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who maybe had you know some negative

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experiences with

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the church or with their tradition as we

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know churches hurt people better than

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anybody

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and so it can be a real

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challenge to say okay there's this

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institution that hurt me

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but like my identity my religious

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identity

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is not is more than just the institution

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like it

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is something that is part of me and so

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reclaiming that identity

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can be a really important part of one's

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formation certainly spiritual

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development

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so that's another another really uh big

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theme that comes up

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right uh issues around identity

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sexuality

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yeah yeah

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so for those students that maybe haven't

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come

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to you or to any other of the other

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chaplains

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looking for pastoral care um

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could you maybe uh say you know is there

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anything that you wish that they knew

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about pastoral care or even the people

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that do come to you

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something that you wish everyone knew

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about pastoral care that you don't think

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is a very

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widespread piece of information hmm

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that's a good question

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um

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just that it can be for everyone you

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know i think

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you know i have friends who i call to um

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sometimes you know they put on their

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chaplain hat for me

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and it's really helpful uh or a

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spiritual director to talk to you about

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these things like i

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i think like normalizing it in this way

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i mean our students

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are so deep and so

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substantive and like the things that

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make them

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tick and the things that drive them and

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you know it's it's really demanding work

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to take a step back and ask the

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questions of like

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why like why do i feel this way where is

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this energy coming from um

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and it's very counter cultural too so

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like it's

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i think it makes a lot of sense that

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this

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especially within a university

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environment that's like very high

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achieving

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and at times like life gets really

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imbalanced that

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you know while we do see a lot of people

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we don't you know there's tons of people

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we never encounter

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um and uh you know that's fine but i

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would also just say that i think that um

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this kind of

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support could be um

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you know it's so different from like

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academic work spiritual

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spiritual life you know it doesn't use

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the

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same rubric it doesn't um it's not as

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linear

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um so yeah we just i would just say that

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the invitation is always there

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you know like it's really hard to

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offend us i think i don't always just

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say maybe i shouldn't speak for

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everybody but i feel like

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you know we meet people where they are

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and if someone

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reaches out once and then like doesn't

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follow up i'm not like

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where is that person you know they left

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me hanging it's like

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you just call the next time or you know

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like you send an email the next time you

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want to

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it's it's as i said it's not a it's a

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non-judgmental space and i think

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we try to embody that a most gracious

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way because everyone's

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experiencing their own challenges

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especially in this moment

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right of course

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yeah so that's sort of like people can

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reach out no matter what challenges that

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they're experiencing not just

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they don't just have to be struggling

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with uh do i become a priest

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or yeah i don't know how many people are

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struggling with that particular question

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in this day and age but uh

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yeah all right so

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moving off of the uh pastoral care

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questions

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um i'm curious what's uh

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because you've mentioned that there's a

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little difficulty involved with kovid

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um and a lot and you see a lot of people

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coming with

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uh pastoral care with regards to kovid

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or just issues that have come up with

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regards to that

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um so i'm wondering what is a

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ritual a practice or an idea that's been

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sort of on your mind lately in in it

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especially with regards to covid but if

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if it doesn't have to be that's been

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grounding you

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or that's been uh sort of

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eating at the back of your mind sure

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i mean the big one off the top of my

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head is

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communion you know um

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which for many people is like the reason

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why they go to mass is to receive the

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eucharist

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um and as we know like not everyone

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receives the eucharist

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like even in non-coveted times this is

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um

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there are communities all across the

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globe who only receive eucharist

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once a year there are people who

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attend mass every week and choose never

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to receive eucharist

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there are people who are homebound who

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don't receive

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um and i think this what i've been

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thinking a lot this year

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is that this is a real moment for

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solidarity

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um around the church and a reorienting

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of in kind of a

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kick to our sacramental imagination from

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my context as a catholic like sacraments

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are big

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you know there's baptism and matrimony

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and

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you know what is how is a sacrament

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defined it's an an outward sign of god's

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grace so something made

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physical um and we have these official

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ones

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but then we have like the everyday ones

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of like sitting here and talking to

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you know conor elliott who i love

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you know like this is a sacramental

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moment of like

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getting to learn from you and and and

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and learn together and see where we go

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um

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and i think that this moment is

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challenging

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us as catholics to um

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stretch that sacramental imagination and

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like look at our dinner tables

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as holy places and look at our

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walks on the sidewalk as like walking

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towards communion like

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and seeing jesus in the faces

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of like go you want the eucharist like

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go look at people's faces like there's

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jesus

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you know it's not he's not just

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in the host um he's out in the world

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um and i think that

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that's especially powerful to me right

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now as i'm seeing churches open up again

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and people having to like get the

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reserve their spaces

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to be present and i know how powerful it

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is to be

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in person and also

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um you know i'm just not ready to

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receive yet

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like i i don't want to receive you chris

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yet i might on easter when we when we

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with our community um if you know people

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want to

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but um yes and the other big thing i

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i'd say is i think a lot about the cup

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um for those of you who don't know um

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in in catholic uh congregations there's

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you know the uh communion there's the

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body of the bread

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that's distributed and then a cup of

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wine the blood

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and it's one cup that's shared with

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everyone

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so a few weeks back i was cleaning out

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the sacristy

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and um

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and there were just so many vessels

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there were so many vessels in the

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sacristy of

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you know sets that people have given us

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i mean they're all gifts

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um i've never purchased anything

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those kinds of um objects

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um uh in my

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in my 13 years here they've always

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they've always existed they already were

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here

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sometimes some of them have inscriptions

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that they were gifts

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like in someone else's name um

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there were just so many

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chalices and i

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it just gave me pause because i thought

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you know we're

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we're never going back there like

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they're not i don't they're not going to

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be used in the same way

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um and

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um

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and really for many catholic

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congregations

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they only just started receiving from

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the cup like

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historically only priests received that

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were able to consume

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um the blood and so it just

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it just it you know there's just a

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sadness and a sense of loss there and

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also

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um a sense of reality that like this is

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just not tenable

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um it was probably never a good idea

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like public health-wise

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um but you know there's something really

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powerful and really beautiful about

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the shared the shared cup you know it's

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so embodied it's kind of so

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sensuous that you're like sharing this

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vessel

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um and um

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yeah that's just something else that's

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on my mind of like how

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covet and everything is gonna change our

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experience of

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yeah and already has changed our

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experience of um

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these elements of catholic tradition

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which i think

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yeah are important but they're not all

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of it you know

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and um

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plenty of people have very live very

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rich sacramental

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lives and they don't receive communion

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and we have a lot to learn from that

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instead of this transactional

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way of consuming you know

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it's there's more to be there's more

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work to be done there

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than just waiting in line to consume and

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then you're like okay i'm done

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right yeah no i understand that

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cool well it seems like we're a little

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short on time i believe

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but um i have a few more questions that

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i do want to get through um

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first of all um just a general question

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what's the most memorable moment that

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you've ever had working as a chaplain at

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tufts

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could be your favorite event could be

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just a random

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time like walking through campus

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um i have i have one that i've i've

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written about so

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it's it's very uh it's something i've

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reflected on quite a bit

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and it was uh i was in the inter this is

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a bunch of years ago i was in the

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interfaith center in my office

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and a student was coming

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a young man who had just visited the

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vatican with his family

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and he wanted to tell me all about it

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and often people just assume that i've

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been and i've definitely never been

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so like i was like i was telling you all

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of it you know and

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so as he was telling me this

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um the it was friday and so

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joomo was beginning and

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the former muslim chaplain

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nila balosh who began when i began we

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began together the same year and we had

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just

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graduated from harvard divinity school

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together so she's like

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like a soul sister i'd say in some ways

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and um

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her husband was singing the call to

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prayer

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and it might you might make me cry

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just talking about this but we were

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sitting in my office and um

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just and he just stopped talking

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and and we listened to the call to

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prayer

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and then we listened to the silence

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after the call of prayer the call to

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prayer

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and and we had been called to prayer

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you know it was this

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profound gift um and just such

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such kind of like a concrete example of

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like what happens when you share holy

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space and like what happens when you're

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in community

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with um you know people from other

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religious traditions and philosophical

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traditions and

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you know this person from a very very

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catholic family traditionally catholic

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family talking about the back

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like moved to tears you know he

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he had never experienced jima before he

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didn't know arabic he didn't it didn't

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matter

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like he heard the call to prayer and um

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it's my favorite memories

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that's really lovely

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yeah i i actually last year i worked

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fridays here

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in the ifc so i got to hear the call to

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prayer

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every week and i'm really missing it now

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as it happens

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um all right

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uh

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so what this is a random

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off the completely off the cuff question

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what's something that you believe

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oh i believe in transformation

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that's what i believe

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um you know we're in this season of

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transformation in spring

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um those little flowers that were just

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poking up

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a week or two ago now are opening on our

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i can see on my walks and

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um you know i've seen human beings in my

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life

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and myself uh transform our way of

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living in the world and being and i've

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seen relationships

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transform i see you know we're in this

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season two of lent and heading towards

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easter which is

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the resurrection you know new life being

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possible

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um and i feel like i carry with me all

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those stories of

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whether there are stories in the

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scriptures or stories from my life or my

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friend's life

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and um all those

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kind of inform my

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my sense of hopefulness you know like a

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gritty hopefulness

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like a kind of a big picture hope not

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like a particular

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i've got a laundry list of hopes i want

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to see in action but

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like kind of a just a big picture

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posture towards hope um also my son's

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obsessed with transformers

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and so throughout the day so many times

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he does the

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i probably have one like on the table oh

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they're all over there but

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um throughout the day you know he does

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the sound like

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and and he'll yell transform

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and it's like um it's like an imperative

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like that's how i

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hear it i hear it as he's kind of

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declaring it into

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being like calling out to me to

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transform like it's

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it feels like it's you know i'm being

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called from another

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plane to always remember the need to

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transform and grow

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and um

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yeah and it's just one of like something

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i'm thinking a lot about right now

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as i look across the room you can't see

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but it's

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all filled with transformers and they

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all have their own stories and like in

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different shows and whatever

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but um yeah spirit's calling us to

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transform

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whether it's a four-year-old boy or

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someone else in your life or

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the trees

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well speaking of a transformation and

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uh growth um do you have

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do you have an idea of where you would

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like to see the tufts university

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chaplaincy go in the future how you

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would like it to transform and grow

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well if it's transformation in the past

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if it is anything like

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you know is going to tell me anything

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it's that this

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i trust that it's going to continue to

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happen you know it's been i've been here

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for 13 years and have seen

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you know the the approach and

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and methods change dramatically and

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always you know have that student center

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core

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but um i'm excited to see

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where we're gonna grow i think

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um i think the big thing for me would

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would be to deepen

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some of the relationships that we

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already have

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um and that takes time and it takes

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people and it takes commitment um

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i think we've just kind of like

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scratched the surface of some of that

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um but i am so delighted that we

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you know our chaplaincy team is is

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growing and

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um with our new hindu advisor an

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afrikaner spirituality advisor

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and um you know i'm really proud to be

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part of

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a multi-faith team that's a team

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that's like really rare you know often

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it's

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um you know people can be kind of siloed

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and i think

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that the way our our infrastructure is

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built and our kind of connective

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tissue is is is built it's uh it's just

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gonna get deeper so that's my hope

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i would say to continue to grow outward

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but to go

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deep

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oh well i think that's a really good

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note

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uh to end on uh i just have one

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final question for you uh which is

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what's the best coffee on campus

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ooh

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well the res cold brew

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or nitro is pretty good but i gotta say

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i don't drink that much coffee anymore

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um which is too bad for me but i love

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tea

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and the best tea on campus though the

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best tea on campus

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i love because it just takes me back

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takes me back to being a student because

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they've had this

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forever whether it was at um brown and

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brew or now at the tisch

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the tower cafe is the black mango iced

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tea

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i don't think i've had that i'll have to

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try it or or black tea

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peach or whatever it is but any either

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one of those will do

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on like a just getting warm spring day

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yeah well that's the perfect timing

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because uh by the time these interviews

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are out well it's already spring but

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it'll still be just getting warm early

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spring

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awesome lovely well thank you so much

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um for your time and

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thank you so much for being with us here

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in this space

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and if anyone wants to contact you

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or is looking to

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receive pastoral care or just wants to

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talk

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where can they reach you oh they can

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reach me

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by my email which is just lynne.cooper

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at tusk

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lynnn.cooper or my

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extension which is 2044.

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wonderful well thank you so much awesome

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thank you so much connor

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great to be with you it's wonderful to

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be with you too

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